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kvngjesse:
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wildikeman:
I thought there's another big brother Naija up again.. Why are these guys still relevant and kicking up dust.... ?dem neva old...? Abeg make dem leave space for the new ones. Their time don pass.

noble71:
Children of hate are above don't mind them. Happy birthday baby girl more dollars to your aza.

pansophist:
All of una being diplomatic and advising to the OP just de vex me. Some things require e-yabbing, and potential physical beating in reality

How on earth did a girl tell you a cousin is sleeping in her house and you believed? Are you that dumb? Even if he is truly her cousin, sexual feelings have no regards for blood relationship, incest is real. Secondly, her cheating wasn't happenstance, but a pre-meditated action, engineered on lies, betrayal, unfaithfulness, disloyalty, playing you along like a stupid cow. It was after she was caught, she apologised, not before. Which means if you haven't caught her, its business as usual. And if you know anything about female sexuality, you'll understand that there is a difference when a man cheats and a woman cheats. Women cheat to go out of a relationship while men cheat to stay. A woman that cheat has basically lost all respect for you, and see you as lesser. It's how women are wired. Women are hypergamous (wired for quality), which means they upgrade to quality partners, while men are polygamous (wired for quantity), we just wanna Bleep regardless of if she is rich or not. See the difference? If she still fuckks a home base guy, that probably do not have the resources and international mobility as you, then well, I can only imagine what kind of man you are.

And the bitter truth? if you are not based abroad, you won't have her in the first place. The only space you occupy in her life is that you've got resources, probably money and a vehicle to transport her offshore. Tell her you've been deported, and those crocodile tears will disappear like Sahara desert. To crown your stupidity, you're here asking if you should forgive her. Also, basing your decisions if they slept 4 times or more , sorry bro, you're stupid. The fact you came to NL to ask shows you're weak, lack self-respect and boundaries, and a classical beta-Male, the kind women use as a last option when their sexual market value has gone down, and no man wants them. You're the kind of man that will train another mans child, because you're too stupid to see women through their bullshit, probably you're low self esteemed, and believe you cant get another girl, scarcity mentality instead of abundance.

I intentionally want this message to infuriate you, vex you, and roller coaster your emotion, and if it does, do yourself a big favour and leave her. Your commitment is your life, that's what men give to women, make it expensive as hell, that only a good woman will earn it, not a cheat that doesn't deserve you. Marrying (commitment) is basically a woman's insurance to her depleting sexual market value, and if you give it to that cheat, you've played to loose, while she played to win.

BrokeFucker007:
Bro anytime a woman tell you how many times she had sex, multiple it by 3. She must have had sex not less than 30/40 times bro. I can testify that nowadays in naija the number of hoes keeps rising daily, almost all the girls I see nowadays are hoes the difference is the price tag and sometimes time and location. Don't try such crap as marrying a girl while you're abroad unless you've made ur peace with another guy or guys lashing her kitten, during service my neighbour Tonia had a fiancee in Spain and we were fucking like crase she later wanted to introduce me to the guy as a friend/neighbour that comes around meeeehn I just couldn't do that the next time she tried to give me phone that the guy wants to talk to me I collected it and cut the call. I was pitying the nigga, he sends money and all to the girl, she tries to share with me but I was raised to not be a Lambert so I decline, I like my own stuff. I told her never to do that again and she never did and the guy called back and she told him that I've left, or should I talk about while her ass is up and I was fucking her she will pick his call and pretend to be asleep and the guy will pet her and say sorry and ask her to go back to sleep and beep him later when she wakes up. Na there I swear say I'll never run any serious thing with any girl that is miles away from me.
Bro all those tears are for one thing, the goodies she gets from you and nothing all, fvck you and ur emotions, she doesn't care and won't. You're just an opportunity for her to get the fvck out of naija, a means to an end, I bet my left balls that if you marry this whorre you will regret it for the rest of your life. then it used to work but nowadays girls have thrown caution to the wind and fvck around for any little reason, too many have becomes coded whorres. A lot of these girls here on nl are whorres too and tend to tell you forgive and accept her, forgive her and maybe have some fun with her or preferably don't waste more time with her and quit the situationship that you have been in. I'm telling you from personal experience, I've fvcked many girls/side chicks/acquaintance and have heard them receive calls from their lover, fiancee and all saying all mushy words I love you and you're my everything and all sort of lies and even their voice sounds so true that I started doubted if the girls were really fvcking me behind their lover's back. Women, girls, ladies? especially with the state of Naija economy bro its not the right time to run these distant relationship. If you want to do it, first make peace with the fact that another bro is drilling her oil well.

jhubril:
I can see a potential gold digger having a pool's day right behind you. Lol

Ishilove:
At 19 I was in 200 Level fighting tooth and nail to get a 2:1 grade. I don't know what children of nowadays are looking for. Wetin dey hungry them no dey market.

olugabbie:
I think you should quit. If he truely loves you, he will never cheat on you. You don't show love by words, but by action. His action has proven that he doesn't love you. You need to move on. Spend your time and energy on developing yourself. At the end you will be happy. Shame on him for not giving you the love you sre giving him. I wish you well!

Scholarnwadimma:
XOS

Xfactor22:
A lot of ladies on this thread didn't even advise her to face her studies, work hard and stop chasing d*cks about instead they are advising her to make it work.. One even said, she should up her game... Really? .. Little wonder y'all are seen as useless hoes...

olayinka63:
Fast way to urinate at Night.

sotall:
Which kain judgement be this?

So the two children become orphans?

Is it the incompetent Nigeria govt that will train the children?

femi4:
Boughted views

Naughtysite:
I saw your comment but I didn't want to respond to you, because we have toddlers all over the forum.

And every child wants to show off the little knowledge he has acquired.

Baselm:
[s]If I come and see my daughter like this for not doing her homework, I'll give her 8 more strokes, then I'll follow her to school and tell the teacher what I did and tel him/her to be careful when correcting my daughter next time. Then I'll always ask her for her assignment subsequently.

That way she will always remember to do her assignment and the teacher will be careful next time too[/s]

emeijeh:
And why is she exposing her undies?
Is she OK?


Not really multicolored.... More like a fair child playing with bournvita

AntiBrutus:
Post like this gives credence to the useless saying that girls love "bad guys". You don't want him because you think he is boring.

I understand that you want a lively partner, but I will suggest you take a look at how he behaves around others. There are many reasons he loses confidence around you

1. He loves you too much.
2. You have this dominating aura. Some ladies and guys have it. They have a way of looking at you that makes you swallow saliva.
3. He never saw a relationship with you happening. Maybe because he thinks you are way out of his league. EPL things ehn

Give him time, when he is free enough with you or is done basking in the euphoria of his new found love, he will pickup. You sef go fear.

Hold that guy o.
Guys like this no get wahala.

No be all these ones wey once you enter their house, they will on gen, close door, put on loud music and start asking if you are comfortable sitting on the chair, abi you will come sit on the bed.

Naughtysite:
I am yet to see Genevieve Nnaji showing off Bentley yet she earned N1bn selling her movie to Netflix.

Immaculatesnow:
The way you type shows me how useless your father was for lashing your fugly mother without a rubber called condom

EMMAUGOH:
Wife of a great Yorouba man..

Your husband is indeed a rare gem....

We would train our children to be like him.

The Defender of oduduwa race.

donstan18:
Let's be sincere; Yoruba women are braver than
their men.