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Sometimes men find it extremely difficult to deal with a girl's behavior simply because she seems to change as easily as a chameleon! If you are afraid of messing up a friendship by not being able to handle the tests a girl throws your way, take a look at these tips to learn how to best deal with them.

The "I don't need a man" test
This is one of the most common types of tests you could run into when approaching a good looking and attractive girl. The best way to deal with this is to ignore her because you don't really need to have a girl who is too full of herself and thinks she is better than you! If she actually likes you she will soon change her tune.

The "Let's just be friends" test
Sometimes girls keep trying to keep you at bay by pretending to be "just friends". She could be actually throwing you a challenge to see if you are going to persist in trying to be more than a friend. It is up to you to read between the lines as to whether she really means it or not, and act accordingly.

The "I'm seeing someone" test
This is what a girl would say as a defense tactic in case she feels you are going to reject her. She will also tell you that she already has a boyfriend in order to test your interest in her. Learning more about the girl would be your best way to pursue her without being too pushy. You can easily find out details about her relationship status.

The Commitment test
Most girls would like to find out if the guys they are dating are scared of commitment or not. She is bound to ask questions like "what are your views on marriage" or something to that effect at some time or the other. Other probing questions regarding commitment are also tests.

The best way to deal with them is to be as honest as possible. You don't really have to answer these and can avoid the questions either tactfully or by giving her the silent treatment.

The Subtle Test
Girls can throw a test at you and you won't even see it coming! You have to be smart enough to recognize tests and handle them in a composed and cool manner. Women are quick to pick up lies or exaggerations. The best way to pass any test is to be blatantly honest and upfront.

The "I'm not interested" test
If you find her giving all the guys around attention and ignores you, it could be that she is testing your interest in her - how far you would go to catch her attention and pursue her. Either you ignore her too and do the same or let her know that you know she's faking interest in the others.

The "Body Language" Test
Don't forget girls can read you and judge your body language even before you can open your mouth to say "hi". It's what they call - women's intuition. So, they are automatically checking you out and putting you to the test - picking up details about you that help them to judge your character in a few seconds!

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The first date will set the tone of your relationship. If you avoid the following seven things then your first date will leave a very favorable impression on your partner and he/she will readily date you again. These are things that you should avoid to make the date a pleasant experience for your partner.

Not confirming your date
This is the most common mistake that young people make. It is rude to take your partner for granted and also shows that you are a poor communicator. Never assume that your partner will show up no matter what. A quick phone call to confirm will go a long way in making your date successful.

Arrive late
Arriving late on your first date highlights the fact that you are not serious about the other person and leaves a bad impression on him/her. Leave a favorable impression on your date by being on time or better still ahead of the designated time.

Dress casually/shabbily
There is a difference in being dressed casually and being dressed informally. If you turn up in clothes that are not fit for the occasion then it reflects very poorly on you. Dress smartly and smell even better.

Failing to make eye contact
Never avoid making eye contact with your date. It shows that you are not interested in the person and are not interested in what he/she says. You need to make your partner feel that he/she is the most important person, so be attentive to all that he/she says.

Not complimenting your date
Remember your date must have spent sleepless nights thinking what to wear for the date therefore if you don't compliment your date on her/his dress, hair, or other accessories he/she will think that you are not interested in the date.

Not laughing at his/her jokes
Ignoring your date's jokes shows that you are snobbish. If your date is being humorous or narrating a joke it is merely to make you feel comfortable and happy. A hearty laugh will not spoil your day.

Attempting physical contact
If you try and get too close to your date he/she will get uncomfortable and the date will be over even before it began. Maintain a distance and talk politely. Aggressive attempts at getting close to the other person will only prove that your interest lies only in a physical relationship. Once you have dated for a few times you will get all the chances to get close and physical.

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Are you frustrated because you just don't seem to nail your women no matter what you do? The reason for your failure could be because you are going about it the wrong way. No matter how "nice" you are, you still have to go about wooing a woman in the right way. Check out the following and see if you have been committing these mistakes.

Coming on too strongly
Men that pursue a woman without stopping to think if they are coming on too strong are the ones that will be left standing out in the cold. Stop trying too hard to get your woman and stop doing all the chasing. Let them try and get your number for a change. Subtlety is the key and will bring results.

Treating her like she can do nothing wrong
This type of treatment would mean that you are constantly putting your woman on a pedestal and treating her like she was a goddess. This will not only give your woman a huge ego but will cause her to treat you as someone "less" worthy of her attentions. Wise up and treat her like a human being.

Treating your woman like a sexual object
Don't treat your woman like she is on the planet just to cater to your sexual whims and fancies. No woman likes to be treated like a sexual object and would naturally start hating you because you are being insensitive to her real needs. Treat her like a person who has so much more to offer than just her body.

Using tricks and "pick-up" strategies
Some men are so insecure and scared of rejection that they try too hard to compensate their lack of confidence by trying out every trick in the book to pick up a woman. This will fail to bring you real success with a woman because you are not being your true self and it will just be a matter of time before your true self emerges and your woman wises up.

Trying to date only women with great looks and bodies
Men that are on the look out for women with perfect "ten" bodies and sexy looks will soon be disillusioned once the woman's true character is discovered. Of course they can get lucky and get both - but looking for a woman that vibes with you both physically and mentally will most probably end in a long term relationship. Looks are not enough.

Wrong body language
Women have the uncanny knack of reading your character just by the way you walk, talk, stand or even sit! Their intuition proves right most of the time and unconsciously women tend to check out the men by reading their body language. Men who come across as needy or without any confidence can pay a heavy price.

Being scared to try again
Men who have been rejected before are scared of trying again in case of being dumped again. This is the worst attitude to have. Use your past experiences as learn from your mistakes and endeavor to be successful.

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The love game takes a lot of practice. Trying to date without knowing the general rules is very naïve. It will be like going into a dark tunnel, with no end in sight. Are you thinking that just letting a girl know that you like her will easily win her affections? It is only easy when she already likes you to begin with. But what if she does not? Here are 5 ways you can deal with the tests women throw at men to help, just for starters.

Pay attention - Do you believe your continuous presence is enough to sway her? Then you are completely wrong. Women will scrutinize every detail. She will try to see if you had been paying attention. If you pass a rosebush and said in passing "I prefer tulips to roses," then give her tulips on her birthday. Simple things like that usually work, so prepare to listen.

Hold your ground - Do not, at all cost, let her boss you around. Most women prefer a stronger man. If she finds out that she can trample all over your feelings, or if you do whatever she asks you to do without arguing, then you are setting yourself up for disappointment. She will just end up disrespecting you because she will think that you are not man enough.

The case with the ex - If you talk about your ex without her even asking you, then that tells her that you are not over your ex and will give off red flag signs. If you are serious about getting this new girl, then try to keep mum about your ex-girlfriend.

Keep your skeletons in the closet -- Your prospective love interest will try to dredge up the past and find out how you dealt with it. How many girlfriends have you had? Who broke up with who and why? Try to answer these questions objectively without any bitterness (even though that might be difficult) and do not volunteer too much information. If you say too much, then she could pick out something out of everything you said that will turn her off.

Mystery is the key - It is unfortunate, but true - you have to play hard-to-get sometimes with women. If you do not tell her everything you do, then that keeps her on her toes. To really catch her attention, you should do all of the above, but keep parts of your schedule and appointments a mystery. That would really drive her crazy!

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The best way to get a woman really into you is by making sure that she thinks about you all the time. But this is easier said than done as you are not going to be around at all time to ensure this. So what are the things that you can do that will make a woman think of you even when you are not there?

Retain the power
The first step to doing so is by keeping the balance of power. There is a fine balance of power that decides who calls the shots in a relationship. Once you let that power go, you don't remain the chooser anymore. Exuding the feeling that you are the one who has chosen the woman and not the other way around makes sure that she thinks of you at all times.

Be unpredictable
Most men can be quite predictable. Women know how and when men are going to react in the manner that they do. This can become quite boring. In order to keep her interest levels high, don't divulge all that you have to her in one go. Keep the air of mystery alive and follow that up with unpredictability. Don't follow the dinner and movies routine always. Dare to be different and you'll have her thinking of you at all times.

Be respectful
Women like to be around men who are respectful not just of them but of people around them. There are very few men like this today and this is one quality that keeps women hooked onto the men they are with.

Give space
Don't hang around her all the time. Give her some space to miss you as well. When you are away for a period of time she will begin to think of you a lot more than if you hang out with her every minute of the day. This space is very important to build and retain attraction.

Demarcate your time
Don't hesitate to be a little selfish and clearly demarcate the need for your alone time. This time is your time alone and you can choose to do whatever you want to do in this time. Obviously, infidelity does not fall as an activity that you do in this time.

Make her work for your approval
Don't agree with everything that a woman has to say. Make her feel as if she has to earn your approval. This also helps is retaining the balance of power and helps in building attraction in women. Strangely enough, you will find her working harder and to get your approval when you are sparing with it. This way you will also be making her think of you at all times.

Be in demand
Give her some reason to be insecure about. Be loyal and faithful but make sure that you get seen as the guy who is "in demand". This way she will never take you for granted as she will know that she has competition to fight with!

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It is common knowledge that sometimes women get fed up with the typical "goody goody Prince Charming" type of guy, and are now looking at the "bad" more exciting 'macho man' as the man of their dreams. Perhaps a look at the tips below will give you an insight as to why this is so.

Women like to be surprised by her guy. If you are boring and so predictable, then you can be in danger of losing your girl. She will look at guys who are more exciting.

Haven't you noticed that the bad guy always gets the girl? Sometimes being nice, and giving her a shoulder to cry on is just not enough! Get tough!

A bold and daring attitude is what makes them attractive. The more arrogant they are, the more the girls like them. Turn them on by that "love me if you dare!" look in your eyes.

When "bad boys" are rude and insensitive and say things like "you look awful in that thing you call a skirt!" or "Let's see that smile "funny face!" they take the edge off by saying those things with a smile! It's as if they know that you won't mind!

Being "ordinary and polite" is out and being "arrogant and saucy" is in! Women don't mind being treated badly by a guy with an attitude as long as they feel that he is interested in her.

Bad boys are not clingy or shy. They keep their distance and play it cool. This usually has the opposite effect and the girl comes running!

Bad Boys are not afraid of trying out something new. Girls love the excitement of not knowing where things are heading and are pleasantly surprised when the guy has lots of exciting new activities lined up for her!

Sometimes girls somehow know that a bad guy is not really 'bad' inside, and underneath all that narcissism and egoism, there lurks the sweet charming boy who wouldn't hurt a fly!

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If you have been dating a particular girl for some time now, and have not passed the stage of just holding hands and an occasional hug, it could be that you are ready to move on to the next stage! If you are not sure as to whether your girl is ready to be kissed, the following tips should help you!

Never assume that your girl is ready for a deeper, closer contact with you. Read the signs and body language. Whether she is aware of it or not, she is sending you signals that you have to learn to read correctly. Watch her posture, facial expressions and her gestures.

If your girl leans towards you while talking, it may mean that she is ready to have bodily contact. Assuming that she is now comfortable in your company, and trusts you, it should not be surprising that she is willing to graduate to the "kissing" stage.

If your girl is always touching you, holding you, sitting close to you or even on your lap, hugs you intimately, and even gives you a peck on the cheek, all these are indications that she wants to go further. Try holding her close and kissing her back, and if she does not protest or tries to break away from your embrace, then of course she is ready!

Set the stage for your girl. It is obvious that you should not even try to kiss her in a place that will make her embarrassed and angry with you. Instead take her to a spot - a beautiful spot near the lake, or where the ambience will put her in the mood! Women like being taken to romantic spots and being wooed.

More often than not, women love men to disclose their feelings and fantasies. It makes them feel sexy and desirable. If you talk to her and let her know that you dream about those luscious lips, she'll pucker up for you!

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If you have started dating a girl and want to kiss her then rather than trying to convince her to let you kiss her or worse, trying to forcibly plant a kiss on her lips, change the situation in such a manner that the girl gets impatient to lay a kiss on you.

Here are 4 tips on how to get a girl to kiss you, again and again.

1. The first step is to get her into a romantic and passionate mood. Simply waiting for a kiss without any feelings attached could spoil the magic of the first kiss.

Talk romantically with your girlfriend and if possible get her in a nostalgic mood. Hug her if you can or simply hold her hands while talking to her or walking with her.

2. Get those kissing machines ready for the kiss. Yes, your lips have to seem attractive enough for your girl to want to kiss them.

If your lips are dry, cracked or chapped then even your pet dog will not come near you, forget about your girl coming near to kiss you. So, get that chap-stick out and drink lots of water to stay hydrated for a kissing session in the near future.

3. If possible, take your girl to a well-shaded park or embark on a small trekking expedition where you might get some privacy. If that is not possible, then the last option would be to look for two corner seats in a movie theatre.

4. If your hugging, caressing and romantic talk has had its effect and if your lips are moist and ready for the first kiss along with your fresh mint-laced breath, then you can expect your girl to be ready for her first kiss too.

Take the initiative and kiss her lightly on her lips. Stay only on her lips until your tongue gets the permission to wander into wetter pastures.

Use these 4 tips and get ready for a mind-blowing first kiss with your girl. Set up the right mood and get your lips ready to enjoy a delicious first kiss from your girl.

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Different people have different perspective in life that governs their liking as well. So what impresses one woman need not impress the rest as well. Some women like men with good looks and some like men with a good personality.

Intellect attracts some women but sense of humour attracts some other. There are few traits which appeal to women more than the rest of the things apart from the looks of a person. Women also like well dressed men but do not need to be drop dead gorgeous to attract a woman towards you.

- A good personality helps in drawing attention towards you. There should definitely be something in you that can stop the gaze and turn the heads. Women are always attracted to men with unique and interesting personalities.

- You should be confident but not overconfident. Women really admire endearing personalities. Be mysterious to a woman. Every woman is attracted to men who have an intriguing personality and discovering them is like a job for them. Do not brag about you wealth, achievement and success. This might put your woman off. Be comfortable with what you really are. Your personality should reflect what you really are at the end of the day.

- Honesty is one trait that appeals every woman. This quality makes him a lot more desirable than the rest in the crowd. You should also be passionate about few things in life. This can even be your dream or vision for life. Women like men with a lot of perspective.

- It has been noticed that women really like men with a very good sense of humour. She would definitely want more of your company if she enjoys it. A person with a very good sense of humour can really attract women more easily.

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If you are shy by nature and do not have much experience about the girls then you will be nervous before asking a girl out. It is natural to feel nervous and afraid if you are rejected. Being afraid is the most important point.

You project that you will be rejected or what if that happens! So you make yourself all the more nervous. It is not that difficult to ask the girl out without getting rejected.

You will have to develop different skills for the job. You should know what the girl want from a relationship. You should be able to read the body language of the girl which will help you in knowing her better and you will have to pay particular attention to the timing of asking her out.

If you want to ask the girl out without getting rejected you should

o Get to know the girl in the fist place. Start talking about general things with her. You should find out more information about her. Let her see that you are a fun person to be with. Once she is comfortable around you ask her out.

o Make sure that she is attracted towards you. If you behave with confidence when she is around and have a relaxed attitude you will stand out in the crowd. It will make her curious enough to go out with you.

o If you have any particular skill such as singing or mimicry, make sure you display that. Very few girls are able to resist a talented guy.

o Be a good listener and talk only when you have been asked about your opinion. This will add the mystery value to you. She will love to unsolved your mystery. So she will not reject you if you ask her out.

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Asking a girl out on a date is something that terrifies most boys. Well, the reason this happens is because they have a hidden agenda on their minds and want something more than the date itself. However, if it is only a date that you are seeking then it is a very straight forward affair after all you are not asking her to marry you. Here are seven steps that you need to follow when asking a girl out on a date.

Confidence
If you have known the girl for some time or have been just introduced to her and if you are not confident about yourself then she will never agree on a date. Women like their men to be cool and confident when approaching them. If you are unsure then wait till you have the requisite confidence.

Forget the clichéd lines
Lines like "hey baby, wanna go....." or "hi, hottie want to have a good time" will ensure that you never land with a date. Instead just suggest "This new movie is really cool. Would you like to come with me I have 2 tickets for Friday night" this casual approach will put her at ease and if she is not doing anything on Friday night she will surely consider your proposal.

Suggest a functional date
This is perhaps the best way to ask her out. Just volunteer to help her with her assignment and if she is comfortable with you during the assignment then suggest that you take a coffee break at a nearby restaurant or café. This non intimidating approach is best and you still get almost an hour while having coffee and doughnuts.

Involve her in your activities
This is another harmless way of asking a girl out on a date without making it obvious. Tell your girl about your favorite activity and describe all the interesting things that you do. After she is enthused subtly ask her to join you. If she agrees you are in luck. However, make sure that she has a good time.

Tell her frankly
Instead of asking her on a date tell her you would like to get acquainted with her and then suggest an eating joint nearby that serves great food. If you are honest and ask her while looking her in the eye she is likely to agree.

Flirt before you pop the question
Before you ask her out just ensure that she is relaxed in your company by cracking a few original jokes. Once she knows that you have it in you to keep her in splits then ask her out very casually. However, do not pressure her if she says she's busy; ask for another time and she will probably agree.

Don't show that you fear rejection
Act like a pro and don't give a hint that you are nervous. Whichever of the above methods you try do it confidently and if she rejects it do not show that you are hurt. Just shrug your shoulders and smile and suggest maybe some other time.

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If you have your eyes set on a popular girl, then you will have to work hard to impress her. Since she is popular, she has the benefit of being the "prize." And since she is coveted you have to work harder to get her attention. But it is not an impossible task to get a popular girl to like you. All you need is a strategy that will work. Here are a few great ways of making a popular girl like you.

Ooze confidence
For her to take notice of you, you will have to be very confident. Why would she go out with a guy who is a wimp? So, work on your confidence and be absolutely self assured when you are around her.

Be the leader
You will fade in the background if you are not the leader. It is only leaders who get noticed and it is only leaders who get all the popular girls. Dunk the notion of being in the herd and following a pattern. Set your own methods and make your own notions and let people around you follow them. Make sure that the popular girl is around when all this action is happening.

Don't care about your surroundings
Have an "I don't care a damn" attitude surround you. Be open and playful around the girl you like and don't conform to social norms if you want to say something.

Acknowledge her but that's it!
You will also have to play some mind games here to get her attention. So when you see this girl, just acknowledge her and nothing more. Make her feel like yes she is popular but you are not crazy about her.

Don't go overboard with the compliments
Be civil and polite with her and pay her a quirky compliment or two but don't go overboard with the complimenting. Since she is popular she is used to being complimented. What she is not used to is being ignored. So, if you want her to get attracted to you, pay her a compliment and then ignore her. When you challenge her position it is then that you will get her attention.

Dress to kill
You will also have to look like a good package...one that is worth chasing if you want to attract a girl that you like. So look the part and dress to kill.

Don't be a recluse
You might not be the most popular guy around but being a complete recluse is not going to help. Look like a fun guy who has friends and you will have a popular girl inching towards you.

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Seduction comes naturally to girls; remember that Eve was the first to seduce a man, Adam. For men a little bit of training is required because seduction is fine art and needs considerable practice before you can attain a fair degree of success in your attempts at seducing pretty girls. Here are three ways you could try....

Seduction is not mere action but courtship-

Seducing a girl takes lots of time and you need to be patient. You will have to weigh the pros and cons before every move you make. Each move has to be calculated and calibrated to achieve the desired result. If you are having a dinner date, linger a little longer after the dinner is over. Talk of the fantastic time you had with her that evening, offer a few extra swigs of sparkling wine. Be truthful and sincere when you compliment her looks or her dress. Women like it when you compliment their hairstyle, clothes, eyes, perfume, sense of humor, and intelligence.

Look for tell tale signs-

If the girl is really interested in you she will laugh at your jokes whole heartedly with a naughty look in her eyes. She will touch you flirtingly and try and get a bit physical. If you see these signs respond accordingly and touch her lightly, maybe hold her hands or play with her hair.

Speak in a soft and sensual tone-

When talking to her don't be mechanical and avoid saying rehearsed lines. Try and whisper compliments in her ear and smile mischievously. This should convey the message that you are interested in taking the relationship to the next level.

Apart from all this whenever you are dating a girl, remember to put your best foot forward and dress well. A clean shave and a pleasant deodorant will make you more desirable.

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You are attracted sufficiently to a particular girl and would like to have sex with her but you need to attract her and gain her confidence in you before that can happen.

• Get to know each other. If she is in company you know then it's easy to get acquainted. However, if she's alone then tread carefully or she'll reject you at the first instance.

• Do not dominate the situation. Give her a chance to talk so you come to know her better. Tell her about your self as well so that she knows you're a great guy to know and be with. See that you're jovial and fun too.

• She should be able to feel relaxed and comfortable in your company and know you're the dependable kind of guy who is caring and is considerate about others.

• It is not always that a person has the best possible looks, so ensure you're attractive in other ways, by dressing well and having a demeanor that is pleasantly attractive. Shape up if necessary!

• Initially accompany her to your work place cafeteria. After you see she is comfortable with you, arrange to date her. Give her an option of places if you like. Do see it is a place of repute and status; at the same time it should suit your pocket.

• If the place you have taken her to has a band or music and a floor to dance, don't miss the opportunity, especially if the number happens to be romantic. But make sure you know how to dance before that!

• Hold her gently, but firmly and courteously and do not show that you're trying to make the best of the occasion by grabbing her tight. Your hands will know if she is relaxed while in your arms.

It won't be far now before you can move further in your effort to have sex with her. Probably on this very night when you drop her she might ask you in.

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Mistakes Men Make When Approaching Women

What is it that some guys have that makes all the girls notice them almost instantaneously? Some guys seem to have been born with that natural charm and charisma that attracts the girls while some find it hard to get a woman to even notice them! If you read the following tips you will come to know what you could do to become attractive to the girls and make them notice you.

Your personality should be bright and attractive
Let's face it. Not everybody is been blessed with Tom Cruise looks and therefore it is obvious that they have to build and boost their personalities to the level that will catch the attention of the opposite sex. Concentrate on your walk, talk and self confidence.

Get rid of fears
There is no way you will be able to go out there and catch the attention of that girl you like if you are filled with dread and fears of rejection. Look at it this way - you have nothing to lose! You have to move into her circle of friends without fear of being made a fool of or also being embarrassed. Girls automatically notice cool, savvy guys with attitude.

Do stuff that makes you noticeable
How can the girls notice you if you are going to hang out in your basement playing some video games or sulking in your room, full of self pity? You have to be active doing something or the other that will not only keep you busy enjoying yourself but also ensure that others notice you.

Go up and talk to the girls
Of course the girls are going to notice you if you go right up to them and strike up a conversation. You could ask them where they go to have the best burgers or ice cream! Not only will it give you experience of talking to girls you don't really know but will make you feel more comfortable around them.

Be "unavailable"
It is a known fact that girls tend to want something that they can't have! You should talk to them, make sure that they notice you and even flirt with them a bit! It's going to drive them crazy if they find out that you are not free to go out with them. Be cool and distant to a point. They will notice you the more aloof you are.

See if the "bad boy image" suits you
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What Not To Text A Girl

When asking a girl for her phone number there are three tips that you need to remember in order to successfully ask and get her phone number. Each one of these is in order and works like a charm. So without further explanation, here they are!

Smile and Make Eye Contact-

This one is really self explanatory, but I'll break it down for you. When you walk up to a girl that you like, always make eye contact with her. Eye contact means that you are interested in her and smiling sends a positive message that says "I like you". It also says, hey, I want to know you. Let's talk. This is an open invitation to talk.

Introduce Yourself-

When introducing yourself to a woman, bear in mind that you don't have to be a slick operator. Just stick to being yourself. Use your name. This is an offer to the woman to give you her name. Then use it in the very next sentence that you speak after she gives you her name. This is the most powerful word that you can say. Remember, when introducing yourself use your first name in informal settings and first and last for impersonal situations.

Compliment Her-

Call attention to some detail about her, that is positively flattering and flatter her in a positive way. It must be something specific to her. Be polite and creative when dishing compliments or flattery either. The more creative you are, the better it is. A guy will lust with his eyes, but a girl will lust with her ears. Find out what she is into and compliment her some more. Take the time to get to know the girl and don't be afraid to ask for her number after using the named steps above. You will be sure to have success.

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How to Text A Girl That You Like

Being single has its advantages and disadvantages. The worst disadvantage of being single is that to attract women to you naturally you have to face stiff competition from both single as well as married men. You not only want the perfect date but you want the whole package like attractive, decent, smart, successful, intelligent and someone you can relate to. Well, you are not the only one on the prowl there are thousands of men trying to do just that.

Here are seven ways you can do that without putting up an act.

Make peace with yourself
Nobody in the world is perfect and those that are, are few and far between. So make peace with what you have in life. Don't pretend to be someone you are not.

Live within your means
To attract a girl or women you don't have to hire sports cars or buy an expensive bike. Live within your means there is no point in going bankrupt trying to win the affection of someone who theoretically might dump you within a month. Girls and women like men that are rich not men that act rich.

Ambitious
If you don't have the riches it still does not prevent you from being ambitious and striving to better your situation. Work two jobs or study hard and let the world know that you will make it big one day. A man with ambition has better chance of attracting women than someone who is happy with the status quo.

Well groomed look
A decent haircut, clean shaven face and well fitting clothes on a lean frame will attract women. You will not have to make extra efforts if you do these simple things. Bad breath, sweaty odor and dirty socks will make the girls run in the opposite direction.

Laugh and make others laugh
Your ability to enjoy a joke and have a hearty laugh will make you look more natural and endearing. Wit and humor never went out of circulation even in these depressed times.

Approach and remain approachable
You should be easy to approach. So hang out in places where you are likely to meet women and girls. If you act like a monk then all you get will be disciples and not girlfriends. Also make it a point to sometimes stay away from the crowd so that if a woman likes you she is not intimidated by the crowd around you.

Converse intelligently
Funny intelligent conversation attracts women. Everyone wants to be associated with someone that lightens the atmosphere. With people you don't know well keep the conversation light and don't touch on sensitive issues like gender, race, religion or human rights.

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When To Text A Girl for the First Time