₦airaland Forum

dingbang:
I agree with you. But you know Nigerians.. They will be like, who are you to tell me how many kids I will born, and stuffs like that.

Its easy to proffer solutions, but let's not forget the hindrances. Our people are not ready to be disciplined..

beetown:
Hello Guys.

This will be the first time I'll be asking for relationship advice on here since I've been on Nairaland

I've been dating this girl for some months now,I really love her a lot but she has some issues

Lemme explain, when we started dating she was the perfect girl until after about a month, I noticed any time she was with my phone she would go through my WhatsApp. Any time I confront her about it she'll accuse of me of cheating and hiding things from her and because of the that we had a big fight, I tried calling her to apologize but she avoided my calls,it was not until she got into a fight with one of her friends because she was checking his WhatsApp that she apologized and we settled.
Now to the latest,I observed that she loved reporting every little issue we have to my friends,which I don't like (I like my privacy) she actually reported our relationship to a friend of mine who I'm not in talking terms with, in the course of the guy trying to intervene, he insulted me so much, he called me a liar so many times and I couldn't do anything cos my girlfriend was the one who involved him. After the chat I got in touch with my girlfriend and told her politely that I didn't like the way she carried our relationship issues to my friends, that my friends' girlfriends never reported their issues to me they way she did to them and she exploded, she called names,she started crying saying I should give her space because I'm making her regret getting into the relationship. Now she hasn't answered my calls since then.
She doesn't respect me at all,she makes me feel as if I'm maltreating her, she doesnt take anything i say and does anything she sees fit. please should I continue with the relationship or not.

PS: she's the only daughter of her family, could it be the reason she acts like this?

dingbang:
I really don't think corruption can be rooted out from a normal human society.. Corruption exists everywhere. Where there is good, there must also be bad.

If you were given a slot for a job unmerited and you know within yourself u aren't fit for that job, would you take it?

dingbang:
same humans..different structure for policies.

dingbang:
well not in Nigeria

graphiti:
What precisely do u think d Kaduna Oct 1st declaration was meant for??

dingbang:
You can't control birth.

nurex01:
What is the most useless and
annoying punishment a man thinks he
can give his Wife?

A) Silence.

B) Deprive her of sex.

C) Beat her.

D) Refuse to eat her food.

E) Leave the house for her Without
telling her Where you are.

holybabayo:
Hahaha. I just dey laf una two.

wristbangle:


Na me now repo! No fall my hand 4 public biko

wristbangle:
hehehe No be you tell me yesterday say u want make ur man schlong be like one single cucumber whey e cost like 500 naira?

wristbangle:
Lol see this pretender

Ishilove:
Size matters. The bigger the better

Cloud007:
but why pple dey quick vex for that area like dat?

small tin ehn.....Head don roll