Someone’s imagination is running wild. Wild wild wild

They can totally avoid it by not sleeping with other men’s wives and girlfriends.

Well he’s more disrespectful for letting a visitor she doesn’t want to stay in house

RisenPhoenix:

To the op's culture it is a sign of disrespect. The SIL also considers it is a sign of disrespect and is doing it deliberately. The op's husband also considers it a sign of disrespect and is permitting it. The point is that the op feels disrespected in her home. Whether your culture considers it as disrespectful or not is not relevant, nor is it a meaningless complaint. Intelligent and open minded people tend to be accomodating and tolerant and understand that what is considered acceptable in one culture may be very much unacceptable in another. Address the issue not your prejudice.

@skyfornia with your close minded attitude I predict you will soon have no clients. The real illiterate is the one who still doesn't have a multi cultural understanding of the world despite the presence of the internet.

He never deserved her in the first place

It’s clear that this is a fake story. But it shows how lowly black people think of themselves. If this baby were to be lighter in color, then he would be considered a cute baby.

How can you be African and have problems with dark skin? The rest of the world has evolved towards acceptance but the race that is to be accepted still have problems with self acceptance. Evokes feelings of pity for those still living with such a crippling sense of worthlessness because they are black.

Doveyvia:


So, it's cool I call her aunty while she doesn't reciprocate? No problem.

But she’s not your aunty is she? Am I missing something?

Why can’t people be called by their own names?
How’s your name disrespectful to you?
I’ve never understood that.

The more serious problem is to figure out when she’s leaving. Prolonged visitors that you didn’t agree to their stay can become very physically draining with time.
She needs to leave. if not now, there should be a plan for why she’s still there and when she’s going to leave.

Preshy561:
Give it up to Nigerian women.
No miseducation, no red pill, no hating of male gender or online whinning.

But they are still winning codedly.

milemimi93:
Send me ur bnk acct maybe i can transfer u small cash to cool off this 25th

And then what?

I thought your thing is that any woman who accepts a gift from a man without giving him sex deserves to be raped.

Are you planning on raping me?

milemimi93:
Sorry i dont do resident sluts

Residentsluts don’t want you either.

Someone loves you as you’re like this?

Sorry for her.

You’re onto something

czarina:
This one will still make front-page, then people (mostly youngsters) will get curious about who they are and what they do. Eventually, they'll google them and it will take them to a porn site!

The result? "Innocent" lives about to be damaged by pornography and masturbation.


Not every news has to make front-page or even be allowed in the "free-zone".

I. M. H. O

beresponsible:
Which kind people will be making offers in the millions to smash this one ?

men

Who hurt you?

Sorry

Martinez39:
Don't kid yourself. Female nature is universal. Foreign women over there are worse than Nigerian women here even though both are brutal, ungrateful, and greedy vultures. The divorce story you mentioned happens so frequently with foreign women. All women will capitalise on the system when it suits them. It so often happens that when men bring a supposed well cultured and traditional lady from his place of origin as his wife to developed countries, the women change when they become familiar with the system and feminism. There is no unicorn anyway. Stop watching Hollywood. All girls are the same.

In the Netherlands, there was a bill passed that divorced men were going to pay alimony for 5 years instead of the usual 12 years being from 2020. Guess what? Netherlands witnessed a record breaking number of divorce cases in December 2019. (Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Omar09, healthserve, AstroG) Tell me again how foreign girls are different. The reason why I said Nigerian girls are better even though all girls are the same is because, unlike foreign girls, they don't have the tools to wreck you the way foreign girls would and feminism is not yet political in Nigeria.

We can agree to disagree. As long as you are committing your heart to women and entering into relationships and marriage, there is a limit to which you can be careful with women. Besides, you can never know which is a good girl, even if they existed, because you are not a mind reader and women are capable of great chameleon acts.

Nigerian girls are also done with you.

Canada Canada.

thorpido:
Lol,there are exceptions.In this case the pregnancy can affect the health of the child.She is at risk of VVF and other issues.

That’s exactly why being pro abortion is a good thing.
Being pro abortion doesn’t mean that the person supports abortion for every pregnancy. It means one can apply reasoning when needed instead of being blindly conservative about it.

thorpido:
A child shouldn't be having children like Cococandy said so in this case the foetus will be aborted(though I'm not pro-abortion).

That’s also called being pro abortion.

Abortion should only be used when necessary but not as a birth control method. So if you support it in this type of instance, it means you’re pro abortion.

Papers.

Your black brothers are known gold diggers. They just get upset when a woman beats them to it. Or won’t endure them at their poverty levels.

Then she’s a runs girl

Mindfulness:


What does she have to offer?

Our country is filled with unused potential

Break up with this asshole please and thank you

Don’t even marry

Prognose:
Personally I agree with the op. It's difficult nowadays to see what the advantage is in marriage for men. Except maybe to have your own kids to pass on your genes or to boast to society that you're a responsible person. Men no longer live like Kings in thier own house. They provide food, shelter, clothing, gifts, sex, etc, and in return what do they get? Entitlement mentality, is sex food mentality, cook your own meals mentality. A woman wants to be a queen but won't want to treat her husband as a king.


Societal changes has scammed a lot of men. I would advise any male getting married to look very well before doing so. Don't marry for love. Marry with sense.

bukatyne:


What is the appropriate number of slots?

Could be anywhere from 50 % to any number that ensures the women are adequately represented especially in areas that affect women the more.

I’m not caught up in the specific number that it is. But a population that is mostly made of 50/50 men and women is doing poorly if only 11% of it’s female is represented.

We wouldn’t be having this conversation if there were 89% of women in government with only 11% being men.
Everyone would know without being told that it’s not balanced.

But since it’s women, let’s have a discussion about it and critically analyze every aspect of it.

bukatyne:
Emmmm, do they have examples where better qualified women were passed up for men?

Or did the Governor promise them a percentage of his cabinet during his campaign?

I’m sure there were more than enough qualified women to fill the appropriate number of slots.

Statistically doesn’t even need to be asked.

What’s wrong with that?

AbdulHakeem44:
Give them 50% involvement in government and they will crave for 70%. No be women again.

If you act like scum, you will be called scum. By feminists and non-feminists alike

slyfoxxjoe:
Feminism of today has gone way beyond that initial definition my dear.

Today’s feminism is all about demeaning men, calling them trash and scum and telling other women that they can do without men..borderline advocating hatred of men by women and that is the kind of rhetoric this woman engages in.

So If you believe all that, how do you then go ahead and get yourself played by a man, falling pregnant for him without him committing to you?

And you do?

Go and sleep

justli:


You are the dumb one here. You have no idea what the ideals of feminism are

Boringdraw1:
louder please, the feminists at the back can't hear you.

Also feminists didn’t tell you women don’t need men. Get smarter

Yes that part

MrHistorian:
Are Nigerians deliberately dumb or is it just the twitter users?

Being a feminist basically means being an advocate for the belief that women should have the same rights and opportunities as men.

How does the above stop the woman in question from engaging in sexual relationship with men?

The trolling is justified if she's a proven man-hater (misandrist). Even at that, you can't be too sure if the pregnancy wasn't a product of artificial insemination.

But then. . .what do I know!?

She’s clearly demonstrated she doesn’t need marriage to have a child. Those attacking her do not have any reasoning

Look at black men. Agreeing that they have issues

tstx:


Even before opening the thread I knew it was going to be a black man...

My people are not that smart.

Sometimes I wonder if it's a psychological thing

alizma:
The black man want to be rich so that he can oppress his fellow man while a white man's intention is to get rich and leave a good life in a cool environment.

elin100:
it be like say ... something they do all blacks all over the world...

HDT13:
i bet he was trying to show off to his ex.

something like that. But she probably already moved on and don’t care nothin about his ass