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CelebritiesRe: 15 Hottest Celebrity Mums In Nigerian Entertainment Industry (photos) by Resilience: 8:25am On Nov 18, 2015
Front page news is not getting any more interesting
CrimeRe: Robbers Kill Father Of Two, Rape Three Ladies (photo) by Resilience: 5:18pm On Nov 17, 2015
What was the man thinking, what strength has a knife over a gun. What's with the robbery incidents going on in Lagos sef. Change has truly come, it is well
PoliticsRe: Dolapo Osinbajo And Her First Cousin Segun Awolowo by Resilience: 7:57am On Nov 17, 2015
HCF:
wink
Wow, niceee pic. I see love in their smile, this woman is beautiful sha
CelebritiesRe: Olu Jacobs & Joke Silva Celebrate 30th Wedding Anniversary (photo) by Resilience: 10:56am On Nov 16, 2015
Congrats to them, I really admire this celebrity couple.
EducationRe: Non-Academic Staff Lock Entrances To UNICAL, Flog CSO by Resilience: 10:51am On Nov 16, 2015
Hmmmm.... Nigerians which way, anyway they acted according to their name. Joint Action Committee
RomanceRe: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Resilience: 10:22am On Nov 16, 2015
Why do good guys always fall for bad girls and vice versahuh?? Op his purpose in your life has been fulfilled so leave his life peacefully and stop tormenting him, he will get over you. Pray u don't get poured acid though
FamilyRe: Who Else Has This Kind Of Mum? by Resilience: 4:51pm On Nov 15, 2015
Truth is if the seller agrees too quickly for my price, I will feel cheated and that I didn't price well.
CelebritiesRe: Toke Makinwa Vs Ini Edo:Who Rocks The Jumpsuit Better?(photos) by Resilience: 11:42am On Nov 14, 2015
I think Toke rocked it better
CrimeRe: Nigerian DJ Caused Nightclub Stampede Which Killed Two Students (photos) by Resilience: 6:22pm On Nov 13, 2015
For heavens sake this happened in 2011, 4 years ago...
PoliticsRe: Dolapo Osinbajo And Her First Cousin Segun Awolowo by Resilience: 5:51pm On Nov 13, 2015
I wish to see a pic of her and our VP just like this.... like they look so cute together in d pic
EducationRe: Graduate Slips Into Gutter, Drowns After Downpour by Resilience: 5:39pm On Nov 11, 2015
This is a very painful one. RIP
FoodRe: My Disastrous Experience Making Moi-moi by Resilience: 5:15pm On Nov 05, 2015
Hilarious write up. Nice one naijasinglegirl
CelebritiesRe: Waje Considers Breast Plastic Surgery by Resilience: 5:06pm On Nov 05, 2015
raayah:
Before we misinterpret her words here, She said the only plastoc surgery she might consider doing is breast reduction. It was a response to a question.

She did not say she would do breast reduction.
Na wa for nairalanders o, this is also what I interpret it to mean. People pls read and understand b4 you react
CultureRe: Alaafin Of Oyo Celebrates His 77th Birthday With Youngest Wife (Photos) by Resilience: 11:40am On Nov 05, 2015
Na wa o
CareerRe: Is It Possible For OND Holder To Earn Upto 80k Per Month? by Resilience: 6:20pm On Nov 04, 2015
Anything is possible especially with connections o
CelebritiesRe: Rita Dominic, Dangote & Otedola At Lagos Fashion Week (Photos) by Resilience: 5:16pm On Nov 01, 2015
Rita looks so gorgeous but I sha wonder what business core bizmen got to do with fashion shows
EducationRe: UNIBEN - 2015/2016 Postgraduate Application Is Out by Resilience: 4:13am On Oct 29, 2015
adibo:
Okay you have been added. Check ur portal if you are to write
Thks. Pls help me edit out my no in your quote
EducationRe: UNIBEN - 2015/2016 Postgraduate Application Is Out by Resilience:
Whatsapp admin pls add on 0 . Thks
Jobs/VacanciesRe: The Attitude Of Friends When You Are Jobless. by Resilience: 6:11pm On Oct 27, 2015
MadCow1:
OP..

Stop whining.. Its not personal.

Out of sight, out of mind. The moment you leave their line of sight, the less they see you. Its just natural.


Also your mindset awould make you see things that don't exist. You may be reading things that are not there. I have friends who are jobless that feel that because I am working and doing well I should be able to get them a job which in all honesty I cant. Not everybody who has a job has the ability to influence recruitment. Even those that work in H.R.

I hear a lot of anger and self pity in your post. I felt the same way too. I was just looking through my account statement a few minutes ago and was seeing transactions with colleagues from my old job that I have not even heard a word from ever since I left that job. They didn't even call to ask me how I was faring and stuff. I don't hold it against them, everybody is too busy trying to make a good life for themselves to be bothered with me.

However let me tell you about how I got my new job.. It was via recommendation by an old colleague who wasn't even that close to me sef then. But apparently, he was with his uncle who works in another company when their conversation got towards work and his uncle mentioned an availability for a job description that I used to do. He just mouthed off that he knew someone who did similar job in his company that just got laid off ad that's how I got a call out of nowhere from the guy saying to send my resume to his uncle. Till tomorrow its like a miracle of sorts because the person who did this for me was not my friend, just that guy that I would stop by his office to have some small talk with. I don't know his surname, never been to his house, never sat for drinks with him, never hung out with him. Just hang shakes and how are you sort of friend. I never even told him what I did nor do I know his job description either.

Basically, stop expecting too much from other people. Help will come when help comes. Maintain all friendships as best as you can as I believe good and bad friends have their uses.

Wishing you the best.
Hmmmm....... words of wisdom, you have said more than enough
Jobs/VacanciesRe: What Every Nigerian Graduate Should Do - In Pictures by Resilience: 8:33am On Oct 25, 2015
This article has some sense cos employers tend to look at a prospective employees skill.
FamilyRe: 5 Masculine Chores I Did As A Female Child. by Resilience: 3:18pm On Oct 23, 2015
Weeding the compound then was a routine. Even though the compound was large I would partition it in my mind and alot a certain time to each. Dt made d job easier for me...
CelebritiesRe: Celebrities Kids Dress In Their Traditional Attire To Celebrate Independence by Resilience: 1:56am On Oct 04, 2015
DuchessLily:
Yes ooo ..Nigerian sch pupils were d ones who played it today , it was termed Independence match tongue
Lol
FamilyRe: A Nairalander Retakes photo Of His Mum And Siblings After 24 Years by Resilience: 8:40pm On Sep 22, 2015
Wow.... so cool. Mum still like ever young
FamilyRe: Shakirudeen Adewale Alade A.k.a Boneticsart, British Got Talent Contestant by Resilience: 10:38pm On May 18, 2015
Na wa o
NYSCRe: Evans Eboka, NYSC Batch C Corp Member Passes On In Ghastly Auto Accident by Resilience: 8:39am On Mar 30, 2015
May your soul rest in peace Evans and God comfort your loved ones.
NYSCRe: NYSC C14 Osun Corpers Holla by Resilience: 11:37pm On Nov 26, 2014
oyeludef:
Thank God i paid d 4k o. Besides, whoelse is in platoon 2?
We'r in same boat
NYSCRe: NYSC C14 Osun Corpers Holla by Resilience: 11:33pm On Nov 26, 2014
ajoskele:
Ede is very very close to Osogbo, not more than 15minutes drive if in a public transport ....most corps members in Ede do almost everything in Osogbo...partying, clubbing, purchasing items, banking etc Osogbo to Ede is just #80
Thks 4 all d info,it's been helpful
NYSCRe: NYSC C14 Osun Corpers Holla by Resilience: 9:28am On Nov 22, 2014
oyeludef:
hi resilience longest time, hope u r good 2 go. My school was in ogbomoso(oyo state) nd it was 30mins drive 4m ilorin(capital of kwara) but 2hrs drive or more to ibadan(capital of oyo). U mayb right anyway sha bt a look at d map should solve d puzzle.
Hello Oyeludef,yes I'm good to go,just waiting for time. I was told Ede is few minutes drive frm Oshogbo.Goodmrn all
NYSCRe: NYSC C14 Osun Corpers Holla by Resilience: 9:24pm On Nov 21, 2014
MarieJoana247:
Abeg o! Na where near Ede pass? Akure or oshogbo?
Oshogbo is closer to Ede. Akure is in Ondo st.
PhonesRe: Nokia N1 Android Tablet Announced by Resilience: 1:50pm On Nov 18, 2014
9jahubcom:
kk
Meaninghuh
PhonesRe: Nokia N1 Android Tablet Announced by Resilience: 1:38pm On Nov 18, 2014
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CelebritiesRe: Guys I Arrived Safely!!! by Resilience: 11:59am On Nov 15, 2014
waley007:
Pls how do I post on nairaland
That's exactly what you just did!!

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