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Women love attention, they go to social media
Men love sex without consequences, they go to porn sites

Porn sites to men is what social media is to Women.

In porn sites, a straight man will settle on the best porn actresses. In social Media, a woman will settle on the top tier men to receive attention from

Where the rubber meets the road is REAL LIFE. Reality is where there is a balance.

For men, bring your online dating to real life and maintain it in reality, not behind screens of 1'0 and 0's. Nothing triumphs personal connection with a loved one.

Electronic connection was suppose to bring us close to loved ones. But people purposely self-sabotage their beautiful personal relationships with others, all because they can get another replacement online via dating apps and what not

For women, there can be no price tag on your beauty that would be enough.
Men run to porn and stay off real relationships because women reveal their body in fictional porn videos. If all women were chaste, porn would never exist.

A straight man engrossed in pornography would never want to date women in real life when he weighs his options: seeing plethora of beautiful naked girls for free or dirt cheap In porn videos, compared to the time, energy and finances involved in wooing a woman in real life

Men shoot themselves in the leg by going to social.media to start a relationship with women and women shoot themselves in the leg by revealing selling their body for sex to men.

Everyone has to do what's good for themselves AND what's good for the group. If what's good for themselves isn't what's good for the group, then it's advised not to do.

Read and digest with context. There are good and bad to everything. The same oxygen that supports life, also supports the burning of buildings too.

People don't change with time. They do so with basic understanding of themselves. the basic understanding of themselves is then wrapped in time. thats why you hear phrases like "time heals"

NO. TIME DOESNT HEAL. if not all @ 40yrs would have been veerry wise and children would be the opposite.

But look around you...

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Interesting.

Thank you for sharing your experience and for your time here on Nairaland with us

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Thank you for your expository

Truly the local government in Nigeria isn't functioning.

If they did, each local government should have Corpers lodge, libraries, ability to generate and maintain electricity and other amenities.

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Weak men create strong women. The failure of men in the society and greediness of women make women take on masculine roles. Because they were deceived by society that 'what a man can do, a woman can do better '

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Why punish people for what they do not know of?


Why impound my car for following a restricted area when I did not know that such an area was restricted?

Buhari is quite popular in Nigeria. He was Nigeria president. But regardless of his title, he was one man. He wasn't born a president. He became a president.

There was once a time buhari was a teenager. He has his ups and downs as a human
But this man had great influence in the lives of millions of Nigerians born and those yet to be born.

Buhari was one man who made great changes in Nigeria, good or bad, depending on personal perspective.

Now Tinubu is another man. He's just one person.

Don't you see.

Jesus was one man
Mary slessor was one woman.
Barack Obama was one Man.
Adolf Hitler was one Man.

They're just one person! That's all it takes to make a change: for one person to know and accept a message through personal experience, divine illumination or learning from the experience of others.

Not everyone can be your friend. Even the son of God had enemies

You're not coming to the world for you or your message to be accepted by everyone. You just need one person to accept you. And you'll always have your life as number 1

Imagine this:
How do you think players are formed?
How do you think serial cheaters and heartbreakers are formed?

A man promises a girl his love and marriage. He eventually sleeps with such a girl and ends up abandoning her.
Now such a girl feeling vengeful,finds the next man and she decides to repay the gesture she received to such an innocent man.
She toys with his heart, same way hers was played with and bingo, she cheats on this new man.

Guess what?
A vengeful man who believes girls are Promiscuous could be formed. The ripple effect of the action of one person

So you see now, don't you. It takes one person to make a change, positive or negative

Just One person can stop a cycle with understanding and or forgiveness and just one person can start a cycle with vengefulness and or misguidance

Because to 'realize' an answer as answer, you must first initially have a question you've been pondering about.

See it this way:
If someone passed by you and said
"store in an airtight container and keep in a cool place"

How would you know that what you just heard is an answer to storing 'most' food produce

You wouldn't know it's an answer
And why is that?

because you never had the question about how to store your food products in mind in the first place. You never pondered on the question. That's why the answer will escape you even when in proximity.

People saw Jesus perform miracle and heard his teaching of Truth, yet they didn't believe he was the son of God. That's because seeing isn't a criteria for believing.

Those men who believe all women are 'profane names' will continue to see women in that manner, even if a good woman happen to come their way.

'By questioning' is how you set yourself on the path to Believing
And by believing, you start to see ⭐

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