₦airaland Forum

Felabrity:
Africans are not the only people immigrating to USA

He was referring to every immigrants

SharingIsLife:
We know.


In case Obi is reading this, PLEASE PLEASE, DO NOT BE READY TO GO THROUGH ANYTHING. Nigeria needs your contribution, not your martyrdom. Do all you can to protect yourself. We've lost everything in Nigeria except hope. If something happens to a Godsent like you, many people will so lose hope that God would reject your martyrdom.

Here's the link https://twitter.com/ParallelFacts/status/1736505625301905811?t=W8QVosPemoVeQnepp_AjhA&s=19[/quote]Very wise words

Solsix:
Onye nkea osi nah ogini?? I more Igbo than you

Paystack:
You're an idiot


What do you mean build hate for Igbos?

How much more hate can one take with all the hate the yellowbars have been giving day in day out.



Even if they erect half story building in Lagos these yellowbars will want to rub it to your face.



You're the one whose state of origin we should question.

Paystack:
Because we want this reaction from you.

Your pains truly brings smile to my face.

Son of fallen demon

Awesome05:
Never you allow boobs to tie your life.

okoroemeka:
there are some breasts you will see,you will agree with me that it is not meant for breastfeeding babies only,God created that for a reason to console us men and feed babies,God is very wise indeed

Afodot0022:
Op, read this very well and assimilate to understand, it carries everything you need to know and the knowledge required. This is exactly what you will face if you end up with such a woman, you will regret and feel so sorry for yourself for starting such journey, worst case scenario is when the woman later cheat on you after you have toil and work hard to give her kids and herself a good life. Such kinda woman are just like time bomb waiting to explode. I have experienced this first class and this is my story. I suffered to take care of my family and what I got back from the ungrateful woman is to cheat on me. It's so painful.

spice123:
Fine face and good body shape does not put food on the table. When you get married and have at least 2 children, you will understand better. You pay house rent, feeding, schools fees, children clothes, utilities and co all by yourself without her input? I laugh...

Have you thought of when you die early after marrying her and how she's gonna cope with the bills? Let me give you a simple run down...

1. House rent --- minimum (500k yearly)
2. School fee (2kids) termly 200k (Good quality school oo)
3. Feeding monthly (40-60k) for family of 4
4. Emergency and utility / gas/ others (20k)

My bro, after 2-4 years of marriage, you will regret such a decision. Even if you open a business for her, It is still you that will hustle for that setup depending on the business. After 5-7 years of the marriage when you have exhausted yourself trying to proof breadwinner alpha male lolsss you will look older than your age

10mobile:


You have said this based on the trick the Nigerian government played on you. The word 'anioma' translates as 'good land' from Igbo to English.

Meanwhile, OP, what do you gain by proving that Igboland is not landlocked? Look at Africa today, the most thriving nation (Rwanda) is landlocked. Nigeria is not landlocked but is it doing better than landlocked European countries like Switzerland, Austria, Luxembourg, Hungary, and Liechtenstein?

Great people are known by the obstacles they conquered while failures are known by the opportunities they wasted. Nigeria is wasting opportunities like crude oil, coastline, etc but countries without those things in Europe are doing far better.

Oga, stop this low-quality behavior. There are many great Yorubas that you insult when you use that word in this dirty way.

budaatum:
You obviously lack any data to support this your claim, just as you have no data to support your view of women, so I'm not going to bother with you much.

Fact is, it would be rather difficult for any woman to take what you own if there is no evidence of your piggishness and indecency.

budaatum:
I don't think you know how valuable and useful a decent man is. He'd be there loving you so much that you'd never let him go, and that's apart from helping bring up your children to be as decent as he is.

Destroying a decent man is like destroying oneself and the future of one's children, and only stupid short term thinkers behave that way.

budaatum:
Why should I remain single when I can very easily find myself a decent man to be a couple with? Not all men are pigs you know.

Farrason:
Bro... For this type of marriage... The men lost control over the wives and hence lost everything else.

I tell you this for free, if all you have over your wife and kids is CONTROL in Nigeria... When you travel abroad with your family, you will loose everything you built with them. Cos in abroad, FREEWILL speaks so loud even the deaf can hear it. Alfa Male or Not.

There are families where kids can't even crack a joke on their mum's makeup or dad's haircut. Not to talk of wife joke about the husband's dressing.

Don't control your wife or children to love you but let them do it out of freewill. This will automatically come with concern, respect and understand of the new environment for you - Oga Alfa male.

letout:
If it’s about emptying the trash, washing plates, cooking food, cleaning the house I do that from time to time on a regular basis and my wife hasn’t left me, and we are in Nigeria

The reason why the women left is because Nigerian men used the society to control their wives period.

ednut1:
There is one major characteristic of those men. They used money to entice the woman in Nigeria. You are a 29 years old man doing well, na 19 years old babe you go date or marry. Sponsor her through school, pay her parents rent and siblings bills. Now the bad part- emotionally and physical abuse, her opinions don’t matter, during NYSC you quickly marry and give her belle and prevent her getting a career. you know she cant leave because she is dependent on you.

But when you reach abroad, she can enter lucrative fields like nursing and tech. Starts earning good money and contributing to the bills. With her workload, child care . Many Nigerian men refuse to adjust to the realities and demand she cooks, does all the chores like in Nigeria. You still carry cheating come abroad. With time she begins to see there is no need for you and sends you packing. Many times its payback for patriarchy in Nigeria. Marriages where the man was a good man in Nigeria mostly still waxing strong abroad.

budaatum:
Please be reminded that if there's a mortgage on our house and I have children for you, you'd be made to continue paying the mortgage for a house you can not live in.

Be a nice proper husband and I promise not to betray you, but if you choose to be a pig I deserve whatever I take from you plus some.

Magnoliaa:
Even beating someone to the point of death, lmaoo?


Abeg, abeg, abeg.


Just as y'all are fond of saying, 'I will wait to hear from the other side.' You guys are not waiting to find out what he did, but you're already jumping into conclusion. Would it kill you to at least find out what happened before the wife did something like that?

Nope. Prejudice will not let you see road.

budaatum:
Sorry, but if you wickedly beat me I will call police on you, and hopefully they'd arrest you and ask you to go live elsewhere for my protection, since this is not Nigeria where men can do whatever they want with impunity.

Men should learn to not be pigs.