just when i thought av seen it all...what is this rubbish

never had a heartbreak before so i will just read comments

ebubey:
i dy... i know say i go see u hia

hehehe...u know right then

ebubey:
r

hafa...

sinaj:
Lwkmd

3months is not bad, I hope they dnt miss their exam.
They can get materials nd read at home

hehe,,,exam is next 2weeks in u.j

Estharfabian:
lol. why you apologizing tho?


I don't bite!

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Estharfabian:
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having a guy friendzone a girl?




that's like very rare.
never happened to me tho.....They all wanna get to your panties. even if they got a girlfriend they already shagging.

sorry for quoting u o....but guys indeed do friend zone ladies not even bordered about shagging them there some ladies who u just can't date but like them.

most of the girls whom are friends because am free with them sometimes the take the whole tin fa so when I notice I start discussing another to them they don't like being friend zone but do it to guys...just know guys do friend zone girls my point sha

IamLEGEND1:
look all the people you mention well..... most are either mixed tribe or biracial as in the case of Di'ja. general consensus is - Jos & KD babes no fine.

you have no idea what you are saying if you see jos girls that base in rayfield,ecwa staff,federal locust u won't say what you just said now

lol...op you base in jos? I base there too o make we rapour btw i saw susan there she is in linguistic unijos this is just small those ones in economics can make a man forget his house.

but its not possible na, your ex buys u this kinda car are u his or her creator?

some guys suck at communicating with there g.f but the love and cherish them so number is not really valid

ireneony2:
I think plain guy are rude especially the ones i see here.

not all o some girls are the cause

i no it laugh o, this peppersoup talk just made me wanna have one.

Funkybabee:
maybe u are dating dull girls,try and date a sharp lady with good physical attractive

lol...i don't date girls who are dull view my d.p the lady there is a final year medicine student in Singapore all the ladies i have dated are pretty and physically attractive and thanks for your contribution tho

schumastic:


ABIA, YOU EXPECT ME TO BELIEVE THAT...ABEG JUST SHIFT JARE CUS NOW I KNOW WHY YOU CREATED THE THREAD.

IT WAS NOT ABOUT YOU NOT BEING ABLE TO KEEP UP WITH A RELATIONSHIP BUT ABOUT YOUR GETTING MORE LADIES FROM NL WITH THE THREAD.BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME

ouch its a good thing you figured it out..i won't try to defend my self or prov anything to you worst of all convincing you .if you don't believe fine and btw i don't need any attention or nl ladies whats the point wen i can't meet them physically?

EmperorLee:



Rose am not saying communication is not vital but don't choke me. We don't have to chat or call each other every other day, am sure Op can relate to what I am talking about. It's not like I am being inconsiderate, it's who I am, even as ordinary friends I still don't like when I get choked. I might be all over you in the first few days but after that I get bored of it. A little closeness a little space won't kill a relationship, it will even rejuvenate it.

gbam...you indeed have a perfect understanding about what i mean.

Emperoradrian:
Op,pls r u d rexhenrex I grew up wit,abi na anoda one??......if na u,den dis ur problem started in Pri 2,you r Neva contended wit one gal,u always want to be wit evry chioma,Ada,bola,hauwa,ovie,isere,imabong,ifenyinwa,ebube...(d list is endless) on d street...well u call it a problem,Bt I simply call it WOMANIZING!...

in other words,meet ur pastor/Rev for counseling.,tnk me later.

lmao...innocent you no well...so na me you call womanizer?

skarlett:


You try jare

Don't have much to say except that until a man finds himself, he'll ruin every woman he comes across. The op isn't mature to handle a relationship yet.

you sure bout that?

rosalieene:

what kind of relationship is this!!. You might not call each other even for a week! Holy SHIIT !!
communication is the key! For a person like me, communication is one of my love languages, its very important in a relationship. Anyway, you both understand yourself that's why we are all different.

indeed pple are different i can visit maybe 4times a month thats what i prefer.anything more than that is a burden

Eddodoh:
I am in the same problem. I have being involved with different ladies but I don't stay long in the relationships.
I had sexual relationship with most of them and within 2 months I get bored and want to quit. I have tried to learn to have a long term relationship but I found it difficult.

I still wonder how my friends got glue to a particular lady and some are married. I don't have any serious relationship as I speak.

then this thread is for you also.

[quote author=kevinberry post=48357955][/quote]thanks man would try it. Hope it works when ever i kiss her or touch her i get this guilty feelings in my mind

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Toks2008:


How old are you? An answer to this will determine how i will approach your matter.

i can't see how that is necessary i won't disclose it,just know am old enough.

richard870:
Have you ever asked yourself if she's replaceable? If the answer you get is yes! then you haven't experienced love. Trust me, no one will tell you when the right person comes along #PonderOnthis#

ok thank you

schumastic:


don't b angry bro but if you can't then you are not ready for a relationship because that is the main ingredient in it..is like not putting salt in your food at all, which is the basic ingredient.

although you might find a girl(5% chance) who will share the same mind set with you but bro she will still cheat on you if the urge comes since you won't satisfy her sexual urge and still claim to love you.

I still don't or won't believe you don't do it, don't bkame me but I don't believe such easily, especially if one have tasted the forbidden fruit, is very very hard.

not all guys are same and for your info i have never had sex.

schumastic:

why if I may ask?

i soo much detest and hate it thats a very quicker way for a break up.

EmperorLee:


When we reach that bridge, we will buy canoe








Lol you call it communication, I call it choking. If you choke me, we won't last.

indeed we share something in common...lalasticlala come and do your magic so we can get more views and so ladies don't think guys like this are playboys

IamLEGEND1:
affirmative,bro.
Tenemos un problema grande.

It is highly advised you do not create emotional dependency on a mentally distraught gender.
I no call names oh.

lmao...trouble maker,she has been my bestie for couple of years now, we grew up together

schumastic:
I guess you are not ready for the word RELATIONSHIP if the thoughts of breaking up keeps coming to your mind after a month or two and if care is not taken, it might affect your marriage.

my advice is this, ask yourself what do you want in a relationship? leave the issue of marriage out of it cus you can't handle it yet.

am sure you learnt one or two in your previous relationships, try to avoid those mistakes and learn to open up to your partner. communication is one of the basic keys in a good reparationship.

finally you said you don't have sex, I don't know how true that is but if is true, then please try and have sex cus it helps in creating more bond between partners.goodluck

thank you sir,would put this into consideration but the sex aspect i can't,

ireneony2:
Op chill. it happens... so i went into celibate.(2yrs counting) To rediscover myself

ok,but did you ever go through something like this?

Cool23:
Is it that u and ur gfs have been having issues and u get tired then break up cos maybe that's the problem

i don't normally break up due to misunderstand,what happens is a situation where by she calls often and we see often i start getting fed up or at a point everything she does will irritate me and eventually lead to a break-up.

Richiy:
Op, obiorathesubtle and emperorlee have given you really great advise. Consider it seriously.

I am going to come from another angle. I am not trying to reprimand you, but just what do you think will happen to the girls you just dropped like hot coal? You drag them in just to leave them broken? Even if you don't consider anything, please consider these girls. Don't purposefully leave a trail of broken hearts behind you.

Fin advise: If you are not absolutely sure, do not even start it at all.

Obiorathesubtle, that story was so touching I'd really wanna know what happened

ok ma'am i have heard you thanks alot i don't dump them on purpose sometimes i feel its not normal because this are pretty girls who mean well for me pple some guys would kill to have.