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mcocolok: Please i really need your Help Nairalanders.....


I have been with this Girl like FOUR years... The first three Months of our relationship was sweet and cool until i noticed changes in her attitude.. The Tape worm(EX) crept in. I have been there for this girl.. Loved her and cherished her... I took pains for her just because i truly LOVE her...I took her to see my people so she could understand i truly want the best for us...

I met her when she was really struggling to gain admission into the University and we worked out the MATHS together just to see her through...Immediately she gain the admission, she changed.. She tells me its OVER at every little problem we had and all i do is CRY because i really do LOVE her and cherish HER so much... I give her everything she needs and i spend time thinking on how to make her HAPPY ALWAYS just because i cared about her....

The real problem began when she traveled Home after her first year. On a cool evening two weeks after she got home, she uploaded pictures on her Facebook between she and her EX...I called her and she never picked up the call.. I left her messages so she could explain to me what happened and she never replied. I tried calling that Night and she never picked up until 1am and her reply was " WETIN SELF, I NO FIT SNAP PICTURES WITH SOMEBODY AGAIN,I TELL YOU SAY MY EX DEY STAY MY AREA..I DEY WAKA I COME SEE AM ,HE SAY MAKE I SNAP WITH AM SO I COME SNAP WITH AM" I was heartbroken by the response but i had to be strong.. She later called and told me she was no Longer interested in the RELATIONSHIP and that she LOVES her EX... I tried explaining to her that i was there for her and i love her so much and i really want 2 be with her. I explained 2 her that i so much love her and this can KILL me so soon and she insisted i should stop calling her... I was furious all through the night...Then she later called me crying. I asked why she was crying and she said she had hurt me so much and i was too good to her. She said she never deserved me and that she had things 2 tell me... She later Opened up that she lied about her EX and that she slept with HIM.. I was Heartbroken again and wept. She said she never intended to do it and she felt guilty about everything.. I said i still Love you and still don't care about the Mistake you made and we can move on and i will still LOVE u.. She later said she slept with her REV father. I was speechless on hearing that and asked how she got involved with him. I also asked if she slept with HIM when we started dating or before and she said after we started dating and she slept with him three times.....My reply was "I was there to make you happy,gave you the best sex,showed you LOVE and cared for you all through for good 3 years and all you had 2 do is sleep with your EX on seeing him once and also sleep with your REV father" I love her so much and just couldn't stand 2 see her cry so i forgave her...

I made her strong and also forget about the silly shit with the HOLY MAN OF GOD....She called me two months after the whole drama and said she had something 2 tell me,she said "I still Love my EX and i want to back 2 him" I was MAD again and said why don't you want 2 leave your EX and let it be? Why do you always make me wanna cry... I later TOLD her i am no longer interested in the relationship and want i wish her luck with MR EX...I hanged up and switched off. She left me messages on Facebook saying she was sorry and wanted 2 see if i still LOVE her...I forgave her and we still Moved on. Now we have been together for four years. I had a chilled bottle of RED wine last night and decided to think about all she had done and also made up my MIND to call it QUIT. I LOVE HER SO MUCH that i was ready to die for her but she doesn't even appreciate everything .

I really need your help nairalanders if this is gonna be the right thing 2 do.. I need your advice before i take actions....

Tanx and One Love....

If ur story is for real, the best bet for u is to dump this b*tch like a hot metal, u obviously have a fragile heart, and am sure ur ancestors won't be glad if u commit suicide because of this girl...So bro, dump her and move on...we all see pretty and amazing girls almost always, there are many fishes in d ocean... I can't hang on further if I were in ur shoes

Hmm....this couple face na die...na just their ride cover them up

Caseless2: oboy, u are right ooo. Oyel company fit carry person go off-shore.

Shuoo....yes na

Caseless2: Na oyibo people you go warn. Wetin wan take me enta sea go swim? Wetin concern blackman with going to the sea to swim? Left to us all wild animals (both on land and sea) should be killed and none left to be filmed for animal documentary on NATGEO WILD.

Never say never oh...work fit carry u reach sea side na; after all, undersea welders dey na

marieolae: Yes I think men should be able to cook. Its not all the time that his wife will Be available. And its romantic to cook meals for his wife here and there surprisingly. When she's heavily pregnant nko? Men, start learning how to cook the basics oh!

Rumour: Domesticated men tend to have more sex and respect from their spouses....

EbolaParasite: Wrong!!!
We would have led to their extinction.
Look at what is happening to Elephants, Giraffes, Lions, and all the other big animals. Gradual Extinction.
We have one thing over all the animals, OUR BRAIN, and that is why we have survived and continued to evolve.

I agree with u oh, but u knw that those pre historic creatures would have wreaked more havoc than the aforementioned ones u just listed

Lord knows why these enormous creatures are now extinct, they would have chased all of us from this earth

Saw a pic of him weeping profusely earlier today on twitter...he"ll deny as usual...

marieolae: naturally when you talk, the saliva in your mouth is meant to be swallowed. But some people like to store it in their mouth, and when they talk all your seeing is white foam everywhere

My God! Hw did I just read wat u just wrote wen am eating white yam and pepper soup...chaiii

Hmm.....3 years experience? Nawa....lemme go for my service by Nov first....we go use mago mago take do the rest things dem

R.fella....its Rockefella...cos of my obsession with metallica and hard rock music

lightheart: @ the bolded, Ruggedy Baba is still very much around. He did a massive collabo with EedrisAbdulkareem and MI off the new Jimmy Jatt's album. Baba still dey vibe.

Oh...nice one then

I really hate it when u see a damn cute chic spitting anyhow on d road...its a massive turn-off.

True word......they should knw entertainment is all about constant upgrading, else the more vibrant and upcoming ones"ll push u out of the market...pls where's Ruggedman

shinawaju: jah bless u. Can i av ur digits

07030296466

Neldrizzy: OP ur wife is definitely seeing some1 on NL, all these NL boys conniving pple's wife, God is watching oo....... i suggest you seize her phone and buy her phone with no internet connection!!!

All these boys....una head just dey shake; hw person go use fone wen nor get internet dis kind Jet age na? Shuooo....omorboy ur mara harsh o

nikkyshyne: So sad. Never knew it would get to me like this. I have abused you countless times. I am so sorry Joan. So very sorry. Rest in peace.

Too late to eulogize dearie....she don cross border oh...

Crixina: since when u don dey love me?

With d way my head dey shake dis season ehnn, I need better kwale igbo oh...all these warri own nor join

anytaij: So make u begin dey enlightening peeps wen dey area too make dem no welcome visitor rm that way cos na wahala be that and if possible make una try get d num wen una fit take control peo wen una go call if una suspect any EVD case.

No wan...

We wen dey warri dey fear this ebola matter..because as e don enter Ph, e don near Delta be dat...na only God go help we, because nor be by to hide for house, na baba God go protect him pipo...because who dey cry, dey see road oh...

Like most of her peers, simply overrated

Idk hw to pm some cute girls I meet here, and its getting frustrating already!

shinawaju: ;-
boss, i'm also an intending batch c corper and i want to influence it but i need help on how to go about it. I will apprec8 if u can help. BTW Nice and inspiring write up

Ok, I just made contact with a serving corper on how to go about it...hopefully, once he gives me d details, I"ll pm u

Nice one babe....am really impressed with ur write up...am an intending batch 'C' corper, and already made up my mind on the things you just said, you just took it out of my mouth! Kudos!!!

IMO, if we start looking @ d shortcomings of these churches, nobody"ll go to church again oh...almost all the churches have their blemishes...Pastor Chris is in a messy divorce situation, Oyedepo has been barred from the UK for financial crimes, Pastor Okotie even....am typing from the comfort of my bedroom, this wet sunday morning!

surgecom: Send her to shekau.

Chaiiii....omo u brutal aswear down

red101: is it a sin for a guy to wash clothes and perform labor around the house?

Am shocked ur saying this oh...really really shocked...any guy who does this has sold his rights to his woman for pu**y

When u find yourself in a very difficult situation where u have been badly hurt and scarred for life, u"ll know why forgiveness is a lot harder than u portray.....

farano: Story... Is he rich?

Omo...make God bless u for dis question...all these Hot girls sef

litetias: Light wey dem dey ration 2 days on one day off na im you dey talk say na european abi. Ur head dey shake

No oh, we side steady oh

Here in Airport road, Warri....our light na European own oh...we dey flexx am like say tomorrow nor dey...I no fit south