₦airaland Forum

wisepigeon:
which arrest? Let them show pictures!

Exactly !! It’s all smoke screen until I see the report that he has been charged with 3 counts
1. Slapping the driver -Assault Section 252
2. Public indecency Section 231
3. Disparaging remarks against Police. ( I don’t care about this one TBH)

EmperorCaesar:


I thought naysayers claim that in Nigeria, the law is only for the poor

I guess this lawmaker isnt an elite and prolly a poor man too


Kudos to the Nigerian Police.

I ain’t kudos anything until he is charged. For all we know, he is sitting in the police office sipping tea. The drivers vehicle has been impounded - why ?

cidieschat:
You're not wise as a driver. You serve the public, you're paid to deliver an item, why not gently bring out the item and hand over, You expect him to go to the car, while you're sorted and open the boot. Pride, you won't meet your destiny helper with such ego.

These Bolt drivers if you even ask for AC, they tell you rubbish, instead of making you understand politely. Some even charge you more than what the app shows...

That does not give anyone the right to slap someone 3 times and rip his shirt off. If the driver will not get and deliver in the real sense then ask that the item be returned back to sender.

SoftSport:
While violence must be unequivocally condemned, we must also avoid hasty judgments.

The bolt driver stated that he was struck three times and had his clothes torn to shreds simply for requesting that the lawmaker, Ikwechegh, step outside to collect his package.

We must also await a response from the lawmaker to achieve a more balanced understanding of the situation.

The lawmaker deserves respect as a prominent figure in this nation, and we must exercise caution in addressing these matters.

Dude is that the same kind of justice dealt to thieves ? Or as a lawmaker is he above the law ? The MF lawmaker showed not one ounce of sympathy. So now you want to exercise caution ?

Daejumong:
Hello Daejumong! Can I use S£x toys as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with passion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!

I think any progressive person will understand that we have evolved and are exposed to more sensual stimuli than previous generations.
It’s all in the heart - let me elaborate . When men watch porn they are not having sex with the wife or gf or side chick but with that lady which fulfills a lustful desire. Either a MilF or BBW or onion booty or PAWG or whatever kind of person you desire.
With a Love Machine , to me as long as your object of fantasy is your husband then you have nothing to be guilty about .
That said, it would be nice to have the discussion about how you are feeling with your husband, some men are able to be present on the phone and engage in phone intimacy to assist the lady climax. ( I personally have no clue what to say but I’ve read on the forum men who are expert )
Besides this, review what you are listening to and watching . 3 years is a long time and I respect your desire to be faithful.

Pochettino:
We Nigerian women have become shameless harlots

Go to Instagram, Tiktok, Facebook and Twitter, Nigerian women are now displaying their nudity for views and likes in the name of revenue.

Men just literally ask women to strip naked and they do it. It's not even difficult because the brain dead whores want to attract more views.

Look at the trending IndecentStar daisymelanin that bleeped 6 able bodied men for revenue.


It's really scary and I will advise any man out there to not look at a Nigerian woman for marriage. You might just be marrying a hoe that small boys have used and passed around their circle.

Tufiakwa


I have two adolescent sons and I will make sure they never marry from this country. It's really sad and heart breaking.

Not sure how you can take the 10% of the population and assume to applies to everyone. Despite the decadence there are still a large number of people who refrain from sex before marriage .

robosky02:
“I represented Libya alone” – Al-Shalmani laments lack of support as Nigeria dominate AFCONQ dispute hearing





https://soccernet.ng/2024/10/i-represented-libya-alone-al-shalmani-laments-lack-of-support-as-nigeria-dominate-afconq-dispute-hearing.html

Let’s see if Libya Oil surpasses Nija own. We await CAF results

Sleekfingers:
How many Nigerians caught are for drugs are really serving their sentences in Nigeria? Most them get sn option of fine..... I have a some first hand information about that.

Being forced is an an excuse or the reason. The judge used her discretion. It better she pay the fine. And definitely her country drug law enforcement agency will be contacted. She will be arrested in Canada. And sentenced according to their law. In some cases , if she wasn't born in Canada or grew up there , they might revoke her citizenship.

Really !! Wow your first paragraph is a real eye opener to me. I would have thought we would me
More strict on that as the damage it does to kids and users of the drugs but I guess my ignorance on the matter shows .

Sleekfingers:
Of course....that was the idea of of the judgement from the start. The judge threw it all out opened

It is quite unusual maybe they believed she was coerced . How many of the Nigerians caught are given that rulling ?

Unless the West but most importantly Europe are prepared to put boots on the ground.

Then do the following
1 Create a law that just like Cuba and Mexico can’t have Russian Missles , Ukraine can’t be a member of Militarised NATO.
2. Ukraine must be neutral to NATO but sign MOU with individual countries ( US/France) to have a base.
3. Create a demilitarized Zone with Russia - like there is with North and South Korea.

Let’s close this war theatre and move on.

My brother in law mentioned it to me and I laughed it off . Till it happened to me and I got scared .

Sleekfingers:
Option of a fine . 100m..... She might not even serve any sentence in Nigeria. If you know how some of these things work. .
They will tell her to reach out to her country's embassy in Nigeria or send someone to her . She will be sent back to Canada , where she will serve some prison sentence.

Only if they can work out a deal - and it makes sense for Canadian Government .

What type of ruling is this an option of a fine
“ However, the judge provided the convict with the option of a fine of N50 million for each of the two counts, totaling N100 million.“

Wow $81k. Vs 6 years in prison.
She had better find the money . Nigeria isn’t a place you want to go to jail in.

designking:
Osinbajo was part of the previous government which plunged this country into its current problems. He deputized the pilfering of our common wealth.

He didn't think it wise to resign or raise complaints about how is boss Buhari and the cabals were ruining this country. He enjoyed the charade and now he is talking about integrity.

He is part of the problem of this country.

He was a VP. I don’t think you understand the role of being a VP. It really is just a means of cajoling votes from a region. He is not to be seen nor heard except when president is incapacitated.

Funkyswagzz:
When are we going to get update on federal roads in Nigeria or are those ones not important?

You mean the elephant projects

Screw you !!! There is nothing new under the sun .
Can’t be anything other than vote buying

advanceDNA:
He should give her money out of what he put together for travel and be explaining/begging her..??
As in .....is asslîcking a woman even when she's being unreasonable a normal thing for you...or ur wife will beat you of u tell her no??

He agreed to assist albeit not right now. I don’t see an issue giving her 1million out of the 8Million required. I don’t know what body issue she is facing maybe sagging belly and cellulite. She is dealing with some issues. You don’t want her depressed .

Balancing:
Hello Nairalanders,

I need advice because I'm not sure if I'm being selfish or if my wife is acting unreasonable and out of line.

I've been married to my wife for about two years now, and we have a son. We're currently planning to relocate, and by God's grace, we should be out of this country in a couple of months.

My wife and I have discussed severally even before marriage about her getting cosmetic surgery after we finishe having all our children, which I’ve always felt is a nice idea. I've always mentioned that it should happen later, after she's done giving birth. Recently, she brought up the possibility of getting the surgery done sooner, and I thought she was joking. However, she kept repeating it and then I playfully said she could go ahead if she had the money, I didn't think she was serious and if even if she was , I didn’t think it was something that would be up to 3M( pardon my ignorance)

However, she brought it up again three weeks ago, and I realized she was serious. When I asked how much it would cost, she told me it was 8 million naira. I was shocked cause it was even way more than I expected. Now, My wife is a businesswoman, and while her business is doing well, I feel she can afford the surgery but it's really going to eat probably 90% of her savings.

She knows I have savings of about 25 million naira, which I've been accumulating for years for our relocation. Also, recently, I’ve spent around 5 million on processing the move, and I intend to use the remaining funds for travel expenses(flight,e.t.c) rent, food, and living costs for about 6 to 8 months in the country (it's a cheap European country) of which she is very aware cause I have informed her severally about.


I was shocked when she suggested I take some of my savings to help fund the surgery, asking for around 2 to 4 million naira. I found this request annoying and unreasonable. Although she didn't ask directly, but where does she expect me to get that kind of money if not from the savings?

To me, her body is still in good shape, although not as great as it used to be but I understand it was caused by child birth and I feel she is better than most ladies/ mother of one in terms of body shape( even though she feels the boobs aren’t firm anymore and the stomach isn’t flat anymore but I’m not complaining and it’s okay to me, she’s still very attractive to me ) , while I understand her desire for improvement, I think it should wait until we’re more financially stable. We should be focusing on investing and accumulating wealth, not spending on what I see as a luxury. Now, she's a matured lady as that was one of the reason I married her. We are both in our 30s also. So I really do not understand why this sudden frenzy about body work. Worst off, she doesn’t seem to have a sensible reason for wanting to do it now. All she says just doesn’t make sense cause the only thing I can grab from everything she’s said was she wants to look better and with the way Nigeria is going , it’s going to be way expensive in coming years.

Additionally, I feel it was unfair for her to bring this up suddenly, especially since she didn’t communicate this desire early enough. If she had, I might have been able to save up some money for her. Instead, it feels like she’s trying to make me touch the savings without saying it directly, which I feel is very disappointing.

I have told her point blank that I cant touch that savings and even if I want to give her something it won’t be substantial cause I really don’t see the necessity of the surgery at this time and it's coming very impromptu . Not wanting to sound like an unsupportive husband, I told her I can give her something but I don’t know how much yet. She asked for the range and I told her I'm not sure but it can't more than 800k and she said okay, but I know she’s unhappy with that amount.

Since our discussion, she's been trying to act like everything is fine but I know deep down she's angry cause she's been giving some kind of silent treatment which she knows I hate. Thinking about the issue just spoils my mood and makes me angry, no matter how hard I try to think about it, I feel even madder for even wanting to give her something as much as 800k cause i don’t feel happy about it and I'm sure she even feels it’s too small( which is what makes me angry cause I’m squeezing an unplanned 800k and she feels it’s way too to small or equal to me not giving her anything)

So, what do you guys think? Am I being unreasonable? Feel like I should discuss with someone but we have agreed not to discuss stuffs with third party that’s why I’m coming here to do this anonymously

I know if I try to discuss with her to ask if she’s acting this way because of how our last discussion ended, she’ll deny that it’s not it and nothing is wrong.

I apologize for the lengthy post, but I'm open to questions or clarifications.

Thank you for your advice.

Hmm without sounding obvious , your wife suffers from serious low self esteem.
You can do the following - give her 1M and explain to her , break it down to her why she can’t get anymore. Due to living expenses and cost of travelling and misc expenses.
My fear is once she completes the surgery ( what type of surgery DM her photo , if you like) would she be satisfied ? Would she want something else done ?
I would go to the clinic myself and find out why the rush to have it done sooner .
You can’t compromise on the amount you want to give her .

Which kain basketball mouth comment is this from a minister. ? Doesn’t make it right ? From N163 a litre ?

Shocks !! Oh yes we can tell 😂😂😂😂

Debt for state rise means Lagos has to cut spending . If not very soon you’ll all get a letter for VAT increase.

Preciousgirl:
Share your experiences

But then, check this out:

1 Corinthians 6:13,15
[13] Foods for the stomach and the stomach for foods, but God will destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.
[15]Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a harlot? Certainly not!

You ask an engaging question yet douse it with cold water.

Sunkyboie:
Don't we have ambassador over there in Libya. Or what is the duties of Ambassador?

My thought exactly !!! The embassy should have scrambled to get accommodation for them.

sirwilson:
Libya, your next match in Nigeria... We go book Okada for you guys...

lol 😂

Someone can correct me but what the heck do you have an embassy in the country. You should have people who make sure that all these things are in place . Proper accommodation and housing facilities. If inadequate you report them to CAF that unless a luxurious bus 40 seater bus is present you ain’t boarding all these associations are rich as they get money from FIFA

Yes, I agree the only reduction would be elimination the cost of transportation- uploading the crude into tankers , shipping off , loading, reloading to destination and back. That cannot be a pretty penny.
Dangote is also saving cost by buying local as against exporting raw crude oil and shipping back to sell .
Hence there is no way in hell that it should more expensive.
What Nigerians deserve is a leader would should sit down and break these figures. I mean PMS is not only what is refined from crude oil . Jet fuel, kerosene, diesel and asphalt base.
If Dangote isn’t selling to us at slightly above cost then someone should look into his cement, sugar contract deals and make sure he understands that all the existing rebates will end.
We don’t have Oil sands , we don’t have saboteurs blowing shit up , we don’t have war so exporting the oil should cost nothing.

Holla911:
As you portray yourself so shall you be treated. She's obviously nothing but a maid and cum bag.
There are several women working hard and booking flights with their money.

Ouch “ cum bag “ that cut deep

Why ?

Lungs:
Tinubu black had already cracked and faded away

Tinubu is 90 already he even doesn’t know his true age.

He will fine O jare. Didn't we just learn that there is a VIP section in prisons !

Damn !! 84 !!!!! Black certainly doesnt crack

Salewa97:
The price of the crude in the international market is fluctuating, it would affect the local price too.

NLC and TUC should stop playing immature politics with this issue

Dude with all due respect by how much ? The oil is not being exported so remove all those related transport cost . Why are the prices reflecting as if it is being exported and imported. The price should be halved !
What I don’t understand with the government is that one would think that the idiots would give the people a win somewhere and drastically address this .