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Once you laid hands on the student you opened the door to be disgraced.
This is not high school.
You send the name of the student to the dean to deal with the student.

TLDR
You must have put it there when you work up in middle of night to use the toilet.

She has already been slapped - why do we feel we have the need to assault someone .
One of the many things I dislike

We commented on this issue in another thread.
You abandoned that one and created a new one.

Stop wasting our time Sir!

Lance008:
To be honest I tire for am
Person mak dey provide for u
I swr God Nigerians are too ungrateful
I no fit raise pikin mak I no born
Jus to call him dad Na him u carry am come Nairaland

Why must he be forced to do something he doesn’t want to do . He lost his dad biological dad. When the time is right he will call him father.

Mariangeles:
Okay. You were quite grown.

If you don't mind me asking, what do you call your stepfather presently?

Uncle x or y.

Kobrakai:
My dad passed away years ago and my step dad has been with me for some years now.

My mom always tells me and my bro to call him dad. She said he isn't happy when we don't call him Dad and for me it feels awkward calling him Dad. I dont feel comfortable. What do I do??

Tell mum no bi by force . It will come naturally to you when you are ready, you’ll just say dad automatically and he would say “ what did you just call me “ ? And you would say “ dad” and he would dance like it’s 1999.

Youngvegetable:
Help family. I have a child, a 5 year old boy who grew up with his mum. We were much younger when we had the child.

Until recently, she brought my child to me, she traveled to Ghana and married. I don't have a problem with that tho. My problem is with my son. He is too gentlemanly for my like. I don't even know if gentlemanly is the right term.

Dude is too timid for my liking. He looks exactly like me and all that but his behaviors are just not what I was when I was his age. He is too timid, kind and lenient. Please what could I do to toughen him up apart of beating. I need a my child. Imagine one small boy was dragging the biscuit I bought for him and he still have the boy and still give him water. It was the strangest thing I have seen in a while. Where the hell did he get that leniency and kindness from? I was never like this

I’ll say what others are afraid to say.
The boy likely has feminine tendencies. He’s effeminate.
Nurture vs Nature. You have to change his orientation . Expose him to masculine things . Soccer, boxing , wrestling, athletics. Play with him - have him join the local soccer team. Give it time, he will change

Why is W double u and not double V ( VV )

This is the issue. There are various kinds of media data and video. For data von will work but for Media most of these companies have blocked or blacklisted datacenter IP address. So instance when you use a VPN you are likely using a static IP address which is shared with other subscribers from the same location. The big players will have maybe 3-5 IP addresses per location . So when I connect the receiving database sees 3 or 4 connections with the same IP address.
What you are looking for is a residential IP VPN address which is used by one location/user and not a data center .

Non of your business bro

ElevationD:
Is it a secret that our security forces are under equipped and under funded?

They are under trained and under motivated.
Not under funded or equipped

Hezmatosky:
Do you want to teach us our work?

I think he should or what are you doing here on NL ?

Jackanda1:
Have you not had enough porn photos and videos in your life.

Why not let your poor brain rest.

Bros - there is always room for one more

motionarena:
For this naija?
Make I bend, any money he receives will be from sympathizers

Really so all he gets is sorry 😣?

Where are the photos ?
I came for the photos !

motionarena:
So what will be his compensation

Good Question . Should be N15,000 x 240 working days x 24 years. N86 million less taxes

anonymuz:
Nigeria judiciary system is gone.

US Justice system … hold my beer 🍺

People who don’t work hard for money spray money as such.
If you value money and know it’s worth you’d treat with respect.
Only in African parties you see someone spending in $$ when local currency is N. Flaunting the law like he is above it .

cybernaut:
Hello Nairaland,
I meet these girl about 2 to 3 months ago , we started talking and along the line we exchange contacts.

Our chatting and calls was going smoothly. Sometimes I share data and airtime for her but not regularly.

One beautiful day she ask me for a favor that I should support her financially which I acknowledge and do little for her. She thank me for that and we keep relating .

I invited her to my house which she came and I entertained her normally but no sex though I try to advance and she declined and I accept it like that. As she wanted to go back I gave her some money for her transport fare.

After some weeks about two weeks later I invited her and but on that particular day she gives excuse that she is ill and I later visit her a to see her well she is and I bought little things for her.

So, later after some days of visiting her she was asking me for some money that she was wanted to plate her hair .

Please guys, in a situation like these what's is your suggestion to me because given her the money to plate her hair is not my main problem but I want to know if she really like me because I really want to settle down .

Thanks

You sound like you’re in your twenties.
You also come across immature.
You want to settle down with someone who said
A. She wants you to support her financially.
B. Doesn’t have money to plait her own hair.

Maybe it’s a Naija thing but are you her father that you have to support her financially?
How old is she ? What does she do for a living ?
Does she make you happy, smile ?
What does she bring or add to your life ?
Are you stimulated mentally ?
Do you share the same faith /beliefs ?
Has she cooked for you ? Does she tidy the house when she comes around ?
Have you had arguments ? What were they about ?
How did you resolve them ?

Good luck o

GanagiBitrus:
I see him becoming Tiger Woods of Africa.

Lol 😂. He’s 30 years too late

The 2.25billion was not meant for road construction but rather to alleviate suffering!!

“ Nigeria recently secured a $2.25 billion World Bank loan to support reform efforts and alleviate the cost-of-living crisis affecting over 60% of its population “


https://www.stears.co/article/nigeria-secures-225-billion-world-bank-loan-ghana-concludes-debt-restructuring-talks/#

Interest 8%
You have 10 years to pay back principal but interest 40 years ?

And most of you are celebrating !! These guys just mortgaged your future on oil revenue. Leaving it for you guys to pay off. Or economist on this forum

It’s a bad loan.

No 11. The Lagos Calabar Coastal highway
No 12 . The Badagry to Sokoto Highway.

MaxInDHouse:
Her problem came through her father!

Rachel was Jacob's choice but Laban didn't want her to get married before her elder sister which is not necessary Leah started sleeping with her husband from the day they got married that's why she had many sons before seven years when Laban later gave Rachel to the same man.

The mistake Rachel made was nursing the idea that Leah stole her man because she's the one Jacob love not Leah had it been she refused to marry him after having her sister she wouldn't have been through all those troubles.

Later God told the Israelite men not to repeat what Jacob did to the two daughters of Laban:

“‘You must not take a woman in addition to her sister as a rival wife and have sexual relations with her while her sister is alive" Leviticus 18:18

She shouldn't have agreed to marry her sister's husband since Jacob has been sleeping with Leah!

That’s a nice find.
Back then they always intermarried as the earth was not yet populated. Abraham married his cousin. Lot’s daughters slept with their dad. So those sister had a reference.
Those are what we know but it was rampant
Thank God for Gods Grace. I don sleep with sisters before albeit not married to either .

Plut01:
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Not all the wrestlers allow Scripted show......Brock Lesner does not and some few others. Reason why he always having one Issue or the other with Managers.


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You can’t be in business without going along with the script. It protects you and the other wrestler to know the limits. You can veer off script but it better not be major

I couldn’t believe it was scripted .
The injuries are real but the whole shebang scripted !!!
I stopped watching like when the likes of hulk hogan , undertaker, Kane , HHH , stone cold Steve Austin faded .
You should watch the IRON CLAW on prime . It a documentary about the von Erick’s.

Didn’t even know those smaller ones existed.
So why aren’t they in production ?

Jackanda1:
It is Shocking that you don't have any issue with erection?

Were you involved with Mastuxbxtn too?

Weirdly with my gf no . But with other side chicks I need assistance . It’s the weirdest phenomenon

Jackanda1:
How long have you been on this? How many years?

Of and on 15 years

Melagros:
Really?

Let’s Mexican catch you . They will blood eagle you alive

EreluRoz:
God knows abroad doesn't freak me. Holidays yes and boom I'm back. I can't function well in a country that I'll have to follow protocols in everything.

Naija mentality ! That’s why nothing works in this terrible place

Jackanda1:
It was after I became an atheist, that porn became attractive. I would confess that religion really helped me to stay disciplined.

I can remember opening a porn website on my laptop and after watching a couple of videos, I decided to masturbate.

Everyday I tell myself this is the last one, but like all addictions, I kept relapsing. I think the highest I had gone without porn was four months. I struggled so hard, but kept failing.

At a certain point here is what I noticed:

1. DESENSITIZATION: You can call it habituation or tolerance if you want. You see, if one bottle of alcohol gets you high, as you keep drinking, you would find out that you need two bottles to get high, over time, three, four, five and so on.
It the same thing with porn, there is a particular category I use to enjoy, overtime it got boring and started looking for another, have watched and masturbated to several porn category to the point where I spend hours looking for more graphic and intense ones.

2. LOW LIBIDO or SEXUAL DESIRE:
Porn numbs the brain. I noticed that after a time, porn became less exciting, I mean it doesn't even move me again. I see the video of a naked women doing things and it takes a lot of time to get it up. It can be frustrating. Before now the just the thought of watching porn gets me aroused. Even having a naked woman on my bed doesn't move me. It takes a lot of concentration for arousal, this wasn't the case before my porn addiction. This is a road to Porn Induced Erectile dysfunction.

3. IT KILLS YOUR ATTRACTION FOR WOMEN: I'm not able to fall in love or have any emotional connection with a woman no matter how attractive or curvy. Have had beautiful girl around, but I can't just feel those butterflies in my stomach anymore, even the sex part is gone. Sex doesn't just interest me again. I feel death. When you have seen thousands of graphics of women with different sizes and shapes doing things, your brain gets too used to it, killing your attraction for real life women who might not be as glamorous as the one in porn.

4. YOUR REWARD SYSTEM IS RUINED: Ponography dulls the reward system. Too much of every thing is bad. When you get overstimulated with porn, dopamine hits every part of your brain making you feel pleasure. When this happens too often, the part of your brain that controls pleasure gets tired and shuts itself down making not just sex, but every day to day activities less exciting.
Everything becomes boring, talking to people, playing sports, traveling etc

If you're a porn person you need to have a rethink. Forget what Vaseline crews would say, porn isn't good for you and so is every kind of addiction.

Can this effects of porn be reversed? What's your experience with porn? Lalasticlala

I am different sha!

Porn heightens my sexual prowess.
I wan mount any matured lady I see.