Why wouldn’t they. Make the NIBSS or whatever it’s called . Financing and banking network more robust. Robust network and also insure that peoples money in banks are safe ( I hope it is) then people will trust the banking system more. Encourage people to save increase the interest on saving.
Iykegodslove: Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as i type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her. There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but i keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much. Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation. It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all. Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice. Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?
Does this so called family friend have a family ? If so then wife swap . You sleep with mine - he definitely will be ignoring his wife !!! Jokes Aside. Find out details about this man. And then confront him and tell him that “ let today be the last time you’ll have any discussions with my wife or else “ - your church Family members Work Friends will know. Also tell him you want N10million sent to your account. Then you move to your wife and have a serious conversation 1. How long has this been going on . 2/ why ? Where 3. Do you love him ? Her answers and reaction will determine if she’s worth fighting for or mutually separate.
Why didn’t APC present this dude . The whole nation would have voted for him. Innovative , smart and hardworking. Keep it up minister. Come to Lagos quick . Too many Agberos at the airport . Redo the decor - it’s too dark like someone is trying to hide things . Open it up let natural light shine through .
There was time and place for everything. There are mothers behaving now like teenagers - didn’t have fun when they were younger and now acting out. And there are teens taking life too serious when they should be having fun.
What an Ambitious project which will be an avenue to siphon money. Why not spend this money on upgrading the existing Federal roads and local government roads. Inland. Making sure that every road is tarred. Providing constant electricity. Maintenance on existing infrastructure. Who’s paying for this and what the revenue is to be generated.
ha ! No smoke without fire. Unless you are my relative , I f I travel that far , it’s because I have slept with you and want to see the lucky bastard who will continue instead. Besides that he could just be in the country for something else and decided to say hi.
Nothing is free ojare . Nigeria is either giving them money or oil for grain. Ukraine needs money for weapons. US and Europe cannot continue to fund this war and nobody wants to do the one thing which needs to be done . Put boots on the ground - once NATO boots are on the ground , we will then see who will bluff first. Personally I think creating a demilitarized zone is what will resolve this with the 2 eastern states/provinces.
Hahah - I can’t even say hi without an ulterior motive . If I say hello to you, it’s because I find you attractive and approachable . For me to gift you a laptop we must have had tons of conversation leading to making love. ❤️. I ain’t Father Christmas .
tobenuel: As an African man I can't cope or keep up with these rules, I go break am tire. now imagine 20. Dinner Conversations Are Formulated Reason: It preserves the etiquette of the event Exception: None
King and our baba back home dey for town hall meeting, and baba just shout 'bulaba'. church go close asap
and I should stop eating my food becos king of Buckingham palace has finished his meal, taah gbafuu
That’s is why most of African is as is . Lawless and without rules and decorum. These are rules they have been following for 1000’s of years.
Woman speaks against pastor adeboye saying he knows prayers will not change the fate of the country, you know the people destroying the country why keep saying we should pray when the problem is already known.
calling the likes of buhari, tinubu yet he keep visiting them and coming back telling us to keep praying.
Lots of people don’t know what happens in the corridor of powers.
Since his wife is a pastor it makes sense that he would be the one to call and pray for the government. It is not his role to advise on policies but pray. Read through the whole Old Testament there are many many instances where wicked kings called the prophet to know the will of God. Despite warnings - kings will do whatever the heck they want to do. I will not be surprised that there are clerics up to 50 that pray for the country plus babalawo’s.
Standstrong: I'm being seriously abuse at my current place of work by my boss.
I work in a hotel, one day in, one day out.
I started working there October last year, and I received the October salary ending of November after so much deductions that took almost 40% of what supposed to the salary. I received November salary middle of December (same thing) and since then, no payment again. We are in February and I have needs for the money.
Just in case he had forgotten, I earlier on reminded him of December salary and he didn't say a thing.
Due to my exposure in the hotel, over time, I'm experiencing some negative changes on my health.
At the close of work, I have no where else to sleep than to prepare a place at the open bar and that is where I sleep.
Cool air and mosquitoes deal with me to no small measure. As a result, I have been sick of constant malaria/typhoid and apparently, cold.
The cold part is evident at the constant chest pain and difficulty in breathing I have and sometimes I'm almost down completely due to it. I can't even carry myself to do what I'm supposed to do due to serious chest pains.
With all the symptoms of bad health, I need to visit hospital for care. So last week, knowing he was about to travel, I went to remind him of my salary so I can visit hospital. Since I know he's someone with anger issue, first, I pleaded he shouldn't be mad at me for approaching him concerning the matter. So he pretended to be calm but the moment I mentioned my salary, he went mad and emptied the whole glass of beer he was drinking on me, not minding the white shirt I was putting on.
Not just doing that, he stood up violently as though he wanted to slap me (have done that before) and that was when I shifted away from the place, with my whole body in mess.
The following day, he travelled. I thought he was going to pay me (even pay off) before traveling but he didn't.
With all the abuse and more going on in the place, I want to stop the work even though I have nothing else at hand now.
Some people are saying I should stop the work forthwith and "treat his f"up", but I don't understand what that means and I'm not ready for anything violence or will lead to someone else.
I just want to get my 2 months+ salary immediately so I can go to the hospital and check my health. I know how I am feeling inside me and life is only one. He can keep his job with abuse.
Na poverty and unemployment cause am.
How much is even the salary? Upon all the suffering in the place?
Please what is the best thing for me to do now?
Note: "treating his fk'up" is no option at all.
How much is your salary ?
1. You need proof of the assault - so stage a phone camera and ask him why he poured beer on you . 2. I don’t care the kind of poverty - he has no right to assault you. I would have poured a glass of beer on him immediately and cleared the air. Call it cheek for cheek. You need to get your self esteem back.
Nataliace: I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.
The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.
The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.
I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.
Please advise me on how to restore my marriage.
He called your bluff. Why would you want to continue in such atmosphere when you now know he’s a serial womaniser. And when found out didn’t even apologize. I think there is more to the story than what you have inferred but if I am wrong . You need to find someone your husband listen to to try and resolve the issue. BOL
NikoDeBonAmi: These days we see a lot of people saying at a certain age they are suppose to move out of their parents house. We even see were people attack others for still staying with their parents and thinking of marriage.
If your parents have a big and comfortable home were you stay and then you have a good job or flowing business in that same city or town, what is wrong to remain in your parents home and get married there especially when they are very happy for you to always be around them with your own family.
Dude nothing is wrong . As long as you are staying in a BQ while you are saving to get your own house and move out . Don’t be intimidated by others timeline.