₦airaland Forum

Banilla:
Hm. So I'm wrong? Should I apologize to him? I just want to be certain he's serious. I guess I can't pressure him, right?

What's your advice?

don't pressure him at all.. don't bring up the issue with him again...just only suggest and encourage him to have a savings account different from his normal account..but please don't mention that part of you wanting him to save in your account...has it occurred to you that he might be seeking advise from people on this matter too?..and most men will advise him that you are after his Money...YOUR INTENTIONS MAYBE GOOD,BUT ITS NOT ALL GOOD INTENTIONS THAT GOES DOWN WELL WITH PEOPLE..so just suggest for him and from time to time ask him how he is doing with the savings that's all

Banilla:
Hm. So I'm wrong? Should I apologize to him? I just want to be certain he's serious. I guess I can't pressure him, right?

What's your advice?

don't pressure him at all.. don't bring up the issue with him again...just only suggest and encourage him to have a savings account different from his normal account..but please don't mention that part of you wanting him to save in your account...has it occurred to you that he might be seeking advise from people on this matter too?..and most men will advise him that you are after his Money...YOUR INTENTIONS MAYBE GOOD,BUT ITS NOT ALL GOOD INTENTIONS THAT GOES DOWN WELL WITH PEOPLE..so just suggest for him and from time to time ask him how he is doing with the savings that's all

you can only suggest a savings plan/pattern for him...you telling him to save in your account is WRONG..

focus on your own CAREER...talks like these makes most men disrespect women...when I read the topic,I even thought you work in a bank and you are advising him to open an account with your bank

NB: YOU ARE ONLY A GIRLFRIEND,IF THE TABLES WHERE TURNED WOULD YOU SAVE IN IS BANK ACCOUNT?..you have no right to tell him to save in your account except he is the one that ones too.. GIRL GIVE YOURSELF SOME RESPECT...things like these doesn't always end well...if the guy doesn't want to save in your account,let him be,no need pressurizing him, financial matters Should be decided between you two only...good luck

SyrusdeHansome:
God will help u nd ur siblings to continue taking good care of her

Amen

SyrusdeHansome:
If u take better care of ur mom than ur dad 2moro i knw you'll be criticsed severely by majority of pple who have zero knowledge of ur story

ofcourse,we do our best for our mum..the world knows it..she deserves the best always..and God will in His Mercies provide for us to give her that..I DON'T JOKE WITH THE OLD WOMAN

some fathers never became a daddy to their kids just sperm donor...

some mothers never became a mummy to their kids just an incubator unit

PLEASE PARENTS INVEST YOUR TIME AND EVERY OTHER NEEDED RESOURCES IN THE LIFE OF YOUR KIDS...

my mum sacrificed everything us

my father?..hmmm..story for another day..

na wa

LoL

if you ain't ready to read or you didn't go to school or don't intend to go to school abroad...please stay back in Nigeria... before una go come dey give people bad news...na good news like this we need

nice one my brother,keep studying,getting more certifications and pushing

what do you want?..your ex or your fiancee?

just decide...while deciding,think of these scenarios, firstly if she divorce her husband,can you marry a divorcee?..even if it's against your family wishes?.. secondly,does she really want to divorce him or she is just looking for you to use you as a "head clearing" agent?.. finally whatever you decide, remember it takes a bold man(THAT HAS NEVER MARRIED BEFORE) to marry a divorcee in this part of the world..so if you can't..just focus on your fiancee...


REMEMBER WHETHER YOU CHOOSE TO BE WITH YOUR EX OR YOUR FIANCEE AT THE END, IT'S YOUR HAPPINESS THAT MATTERS...think deep...good luck

marriage is a long road... please don't go into it with doubts and fears...if you know the lady is not good for you cus of her Health..just move on... there's someone meant for everyone irrespective of our health status

I wish you the best and hopefully you make the best decision for yourself

MumEmdy:
That's it, if we can massively come out and vote for our choice candidate instead of staying online shouting Obi.. I pray Obi wins this election for a better Nigeria

yes.. nigerian ELECTION goes beyond ranting online

SenatePresdo:
I have the same fear too, but I just hope that the Bvas will curb electoral malpractice to a reasonable degree.

If everything is Sqaure, Obi would win.

one more thing...the bvas can't stop underaged voters..they will be accredited and they will be told who gets the vote or even vote for them... underaged voters are much in the north...from my time there as an adhoc staff...trust me the numbers are high...a family of one man three wives (adults) will bring kids up to 8 all underaged to register...I really fear the process...cus bvas won't save us from that

SenatePresdo:
I have the same fear too, but I just hope that the Bvas will curb electoral malpractice to a reasonable degree.

If everything is Sqaure, Obi would win.

yes,if everything is square and the crowd that goes for obi's rally,comes out to vote for him on that day..cus coming out to vote is another thing..let the process be free and fair...we should outgrow this stupidity of rigging elections and all that irregularities

SenatePresdo:
Who do you think would win?

Who do you wish to win?

I wish obi or the other nnpp guy(not cus they are so good but at least they have less scandal over their head)..

about what I think...I think the APC or PDP will go their irregularities cus they have governors in power which obi and nnpp doesn't...I still have my concerns about Nigerian electoral process...cus I have been an adhoc staff before...this is strictly my opinion and concern

TrumpDonald2:
After I watched the campaign in Yola where Buhari didn't ask the people to vote for his party, I strongly feel the election will be free and fair to a large extent.

I just pray so..it's better the people's choice win..

Unclesamo:
That's just the sad truth. This devils will frustrate his votes with manipulations.

While Obi is going for rally & canvassing, those bastards are perfecting how they would rig the election.

that's just it...those demons have it all planned out

Kobojunkie:
That story Wowo abeg!

Which kain 8-years before he could get his name changed on his passport? So did he have to go everywhere with a copy of his old driver's license that had his old name on it, while also holding on to the new, for that entire period or what??

it's crazy...but very true...the Italian government had to watch him o

Kobojunkie:
OK... you made it sound like some sort of ancestral nonsense brewing!

Yes, it is a headache in Nigeria and majorly because no entrepreneurs have stepped in to sufficiently fill the gap there in order to bring ease to those issues you mentioned. I really wonder when Nigerians will start to innovate and solve all these small problems so as to make life easier and better for the average man. A name change shouldn't be a hassle at all given we now have the technology to make all these things a breeze.

no o... ancestry what?..not at all..I don't reason in that line


in the western world..it's difficult as well for a man...I know a man that changed his surname in Italy...it took him 8years to get the new on his italian passport..he is a nigerian-italian...the had to check his criminal records and watch him for many years,to be sure he is not planning to commit a crime with the old name...for a man change of name is hell..it's only women that have it easy when they change their name due to marriage

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9JAFULLBREED:
Issues like?

you must have a new surname right?.. good,here the issues matching you old documents with your new name in your valid identity card eg if you're migrating for example,your will not have it easy,the first thing they will think is that you have a criminal record that's why you changed your surname... secondly changing your name in your bvn will be war..now at different times you will face different issues cus of conflicting names on credentials and valid ID... even with affidavit and legal documents...just ask about changing name in your bvn or nin.. you would see the trouble...it's not worth it..let him maintain his surname...he may not understand until the issues start coming with Documentation in the future

kobojunkie

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1Dray:
Go and fight for your papa. Your conspiracy theory won't work. Obi win and it won't be tough. You all know Obi will win, but trying to work on the psyche of masses to give up on Obi. We ain't giving up, we will fight this to the end.

hahahaha.. okay,I understand your predicament...sorry...e go better...you hear?

Mode4:
But i am sick and tired of him and i want to distance myself from him henceforth. Getting his name off will really help me get rid of him and make me forget him completely.

you can be far from.him..but you see changing your name as a man comes with so many issues...trust me you don't want to walk that stressful road

1Dray:
Who asked you? Obi will win this election, BVAS or no BVAS.

English dey really confuse people..I didn't mean he will not win..I mean it will be a tough but accomplishable task..

if you dey fight for your papa like this,e go good o ..na wa

hahahaha... jokers...all these nigerian POLITICANS sef...na wa

PLEASE don't,if you have that name on your credentials...it will give you very very serious issues in the future

Dailymice:
Na you e go shock when Obi wins

yeah,I will be shocked honestly..cus obi is like someone contesting under independent candidacy in US ELECTION...

i will strongly believe the ELECTORAL process in Nigeria if obi wins from absolutely nowhere...

FactBoyz:
Shut Up you Pessimistic Tinubu supporter

see this retard..you have been duly noticed,with your bad breathe

it will take a TOM CRUISE for obi to win...I don't trust Nigerian ELECTORAL process even with all the bvas
e go shock una say bvas no go work that day... goodluck to them all

it will take a TOM CRUISE for obi to win...I don't trust Nigerian ELECTORAL process even with all the bvas

e go shock una say bvas no go work that day... goodluck to them all

the dude lost passion for football years ago..just stayed s little long for the cash