₦airaland Forum

Killermamba:
I still feel most of this guys are poorly Raised teenagers who knows nothing about the real reality.

yes..and some of them are influence by hard drugs

Killermamba:
bros I like you, I think say na only me dey feel this way here

I ignore always...but the thing is just too much these days

kinibigdeal:
Its a joy for me to do anything for my wife. She's my wife so I cant be a simp for my wife. Most people that give opinion online are not yet married. Some are still seeking admission into the University. So things are beyond there age

you have said it all...may your marriage continue to bloosom

Nyascobar1414:
I mean 50/50, who was talking about 60 here?

Share the bills equally since you aint her slave and she ain't your slave,boy.
Abi you be Olodo..

You men are so weak.. Just Imagine what a man over 30 can say..

Men are gone: spits..

I mean the woman paying 60 and the man 40..I really pity people that takes cow dungs like you seriously

Nyascobar1414:
Errand soy boy..

Tell your wife to start sharing bills with you 50/50 that you ain't her slave...

Men like you are the problem, I wonder who raised you.

don't be a slave to rigidity and stupidity...I know woman that share bills even 40/60...you generalising makes you sound weak and threatened by the female gender

StrongAlphMale:
Ain't no fan of relationships, dating nor marriage son. However, at the bolded, that's exactly what you should have said since. Everyone with his cross.

The moment you start pleasing a girl you're in a relationship with, let alone in marriage, that is day you become less of a man in authority. Simps will do anything to please a girl and make her happy. Bros, this is plain stupidity and foolishness. I was shocked when your fellow simp man in the comment box said he wouldn't mind Washing his wife's panties.

May we never raised simp men like you and the other guy. I'm very sure his father must be regretting in pains wherever he is now.

since you ain't a fan of relationship or MARRIAGE.. Don't you think you are only adding more to your frustration by reading, commenting and trying to prove a point in Marital and relationship issues?...son save yourself the stress and stick to your beliefs

kinibigdeal:
Only a married man can be this specific. Bro, it is frustrating. It is our cross

na so o..but it's far better than being a foolishly frustrated alpha male as we see online...using the word simp randomly... Lol

Nyascobar1414:
STFU, marriage is for simps..
Women respect their babydads and pastors than their husbands..
Babydads dont own up their sh!ts, you simps(husbands) own up their sh!ts

your opinion and perspective...good for you

Edusouls:
kai see one of them silly and shameless simps, one reason the male gender is taken for a ride by fish brain pussy’s are people like you

Lol... everything na simp for una...well,it shows are shallow minded you are if you see things done in marriage as a woman using her pussy to control the man...what a poor ideology...I speak of marriage not your roadside boyfriend-girlfriend nonsense

tctrills:
Everyone feels they have the best recipe for marriage. Oga, no two marriages are the same. Know this and know peace.

no recipe...this is not a recipe...it's a fact...she is have to ask you to get something at some point...do what works for you

womenareapezz:
marriage is for men then who are the ones divorcing?
Children

Think before you open your gutter to talk

I'm only responsible for what I write...not what you choose to understand...happy new year

MrColdsweat:
So men should do certain things because women find it cute?
Radarada

whether you like it or not..every happily married man does one thing or to the other to please his wife...no matter how little..forget this alpha nonsense you see online...

Kingstanding:
. This is new in Nigeria. 99% of married men do this in Europe or America including myselfl, it's not a special thing to me or reliable men on Western would.

thank you...because the way these kids throw the word simp online,makes me wonder if they really know the meaning...is it possible to be happily married and never do things to please your wife sometimes?..no matter how small?

CaptainFM1:
Our women are gradually getting western balls now.

it's nothing though.. couples Should do what works for them

StrongAlphMale:
You were making Sense until you started yarning dust like a simp man.

Which one is women find it cute to ask you to buy stuffs? Are you doing it to please and worship her or what?

Bros, a Sane man would of course purchase and fill his house with lots and lots of foodstuffs and not those rubbish you wrote above. Oga you don't do things to please a woman. Stop sounding like a simp

look bro,any man or woman happily married and tells you he or she doesn't do things to please his or her partner is a big liar...forget all these alpha nonsense you kids claim online, marry your wife,the way that works for you...have a great year...I laugh when you people throw that word simp around... Lol

if you ain't ready to do things like these, DON'T MARRY because women find it cute to ask you to buy stuffs on your way back home...know this and know peace... marriage is for men not some silly poorly raised kids


EVERYDAY YOU SILLY AND DISGUSTING KIDS WOULD COME HERE TO WRITE NONSENSE...THERE ARE VERY BAD WOMEN IN THIS WORLD,BUT A FEW GOOD ONES,BUT STILL IF YOU ARE LUCKY TO GET A GOOD WOMAN,YOU WILL STILL MALTREAT HER,AND WHEN A MAN APPRECIATES THE GOOD WIFE,YOU CALL HIM A SIMP...foolish kids that will claim what they are not on nairaland...if the world is made up of you guys in real life..na so so war we go dey fight...liars,you will even wash your girlfriend's undies not even wife o..and you come here to write trash

casemiro for me
rodri is out of form
partey is good if fit....

Nayturalistic:
Leave them.. I pity the boy much more.

I feel arsenal would be a better option for him... Chelsea don use money turn him and the club brain

deal hijacked!!

nigerians Should continue to live in denial... UNDERAGED VOTERS ARE MANY IN THE NORTH...UP TO MILLIONS...too many...they force you to register them,cus they want the government to give them more wards

you ain't a bad person,you can't afford it..period!...stay focused on your wife and baby...ignore all her attitudes and possible tantrums...it's hard o..but ignore.. don't let that irresponsible man that abandoned the kids cus problem in your family... THINGS ARE HARD,ONE BABY NO EASY,E COME BE THREE,THAT YOU NEVER PLANNED FOR...good luck,

remember,KEY WORDS "IGNORE ALL HER ATTITUDE AND POSSIBLE TANTRUMS"

that's the way to go.. NIGERIAN POLITICIANS deserves no atom of respect or love

#tasting# the microphone

same people attend all the rallies,so even go there for brand T-shirt and caps...these POLITICIANS are using poverty and joblessness as a strong tool

EnterpriseMan:
Abeg leave this clown!! Na she dey find suger daddy up and down the other day Hustle no go kill person

na was... LoL

trouble everywhere since this man ventured into pharmaceuticals

Hafeez5000:
Wow that's cool if you don't mind can I see the design if that's okay with you.i understand you bro Nigeria na cruise

I don't have it anymore..it's been long...but I still have in my head...it's a simple reservoir design about 30-40m high..just that the discharge outlet will be located about 10m such that at all times the reservoir has water in that 10m line strictly for fire fighting purpose and gives room for proper sedimentation as well

i designed a reservoir that had provision for fight fighters as well as serving the community...till today nobody send the design...fire fighters go dry run around with empty trucks...

NIGERIA na wa

Fahvvy:
Benefit of doubt? ...
Not in this case sir ...

See eh...
I'm not against her advising her man to save, that's a very great advice, but my bone of contention is, WHY EXACTLY SHOULD IT BE IN HER OWN ACCOUNT?

Is there something special about her account that she's not telling us? ... Abi if he saves the money else where, would the money not save? ...

Oga sef would even get interest if he opens a fixed deposit as against saving it in her bank where bank would take monthly charges ...

Chief, leave that thing ...
This girl has mahd plans for that guy ...
She wants to use that guys money as a "security measure" just in case things goes south ...

Lol..she went to far though

Fahvvy:
@rickpat

Does this girl look like she has good intentions for that guy? ... Because why exactly is she suggesting her own bank? ...

Aren't they online saving platforms?
How about a fixed deposit account?

Omorr...
Leave am...

This girl has bad plans for that guy ...
And did you also read the part where she said she "subtly threatened him"? ...

After the guy has saved like 500k in her account, when he decides to leave her, she will also "subtly threaten" him again ...

This time she'll be like, "if you leave me, forget about your money" ... And if them get issues, she will also "subtly threaten " him and be like, "if you don't apologize, forget about your money" ...

In summary...
I see more "subtle threats" in the near future ...

Lol..you thoughts are not far from it but it's good to give people the benefit of the doubt...but I still stand that pressuring Someone to save in your account even in marriage is wrong... financial issue Should be what the couple willingly again to do

Banilla:
I suppose. We weren't born rich, so I absolutely want us to live better. When I had a job, I saved but I don't think he did. And it's frustrating. He talks alot about the future but all this time, we haven't really started working towards achieving any of our goals, atleast I'm trying despite living in the poorest country. He's doing better, so I expect some effort but I'm getting nothing.

I'll encourage him to save, I did when he first got the job, five months after we started dating. I know he'll quit again, he keeps doing it. All I need is stability.

Or I should just risk it? Stop planning, depend on fate? Trust him to make the best decision for us both?

since you have discussed it with him,just chill..if he is someone not serious about his finances and he is not ready to adjust,you can break up.. financial stability is very important in marriage..if he keeps messing up his finances,you should have a rethink about the relationship