Blitzking:

A guy on nairaland bears the name #hungerbad hope he is still alive its been ages.

No... He is dead!

What are some of these women feeling like...
Simps are disgraceful!!

CuteNbad:
Good day y'all,


I need y'all input on this.

So there's the girl I'm seeing currently. I'm yet to ask her out since these days no one does that again. I didn't wanna put a label on it or apply pressure. I just wanted it to keep flowing the way it was. I said was because there's the new guy she's seeing now.

She told me about it the last time we spoke. She said she gat her virginity to him. Something she promised me.

I feel hurt really. I do love this girl but she's slipping away from my grasp and I can't seems to accept that.

When I asked her why she slept with him when she knew we both had planned I'll be her first. She said it wasn't intentional and that it just happened.

Now she they've had sex thrice and she keeps calling him her bf to my face.

She came to my crib last week Monday and I was to have sex with her but she was on her period so we only smoothed and all... No sex.

Since she left my crib she's yet to call back or reply my text

She keeps saying I never asked her out each Time I asked why she's with the other guy.


I truly love this girl fr.
I have like three other girls in my life but I don't love them the way I love this girl.

I even stop talking to two of those girls because I thought she was getting serious with me.

Also she's never billed me before so it's not like she's after money

Anything I can do to save this?.


Ps: we're all undergraduate students.

That's a slap on your masculinity and she is making a mockery of you.

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She even puked just to show that the guy irritates her and when her value decays she'll remember him I bet that she'll do and from the way the Mumu dey give her time for more insults he'll gladly accept her as an expired and an invalid product.

This is the main reason I don't have any girl as a friend.

Men and women cannot be friends. It doesn't work that way.

You won't know when they friend zone you. I don't even chat them let alone talk to them but once they chat I just keep it short and concise.

Girls know how to use guys to cure boredom via WhatsApp chat, I won't volunteer to be one.

The man brought the humiliation upon himself. I still don't understand the psychology behind a man maintaining constant interaction with a woman who friend zoned him..

I didn't expect him to return this early

Eduek59:


It's not gonna be as simple as you think but you too can do it if you have a good phone

Do you have a good phone? If yes

Meet me on WhatsApp for more information and step-by-step guide

/eyacne

Here is my WhatsApp number 08171558398

Eduek59:


That's the reason we should encourage salary earners to get a high income skills that pays them.in dollars on the long run.

Not really long but could take some of them 3-4 months to start earning reasonable amount of money online at least $500-$1000 is not bad for beginners

We can talk more on WhatsApp

How can I make money online

Nemesis0147:
I pity you.
Don’t come and be crying foul on this forum later on how betting has ruined your life or how you used your house rent to play bet or how you got scammed on telegram. Una no dy ever learn for this country

Hehehehe!!! I have heard you.

VawulentComrade:


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I have joined the group already.. is the guy predicting the games a white guy or Nigerian

VawulentComrade:


Search for IAJ ONLINE on telegram and join, it's their games I play

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VawulentComrade:
Few minutes left to getting desired ROI

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Search and join IAJ ONLINE on telegram.

It's their games I lay always.

How do I get into the group and how did you build your profit to that amount

Karlifate:


You folks should join the moving train(s) on Telegram, and stop this paranoia of thread deletion.

The owner can do whatever he likes cos it's his property.

Share the telegram link for the group

Pukkalolo:




I've talked about sexual comfortableness on this thread...I think you can find it here:

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1899#120410679

Preferably, I'll advise you read that before continuing reading this post.


Ok, let's continue.
It's a straightforward issue: She allowed you press her oranges and ass because she's attracted to you. And that's pretty much it. Attraction has it limitations... You might be thinking, "then what alpha moves can I make to get her to drop her panties..."

The true is, you are already alpha enough... If she had perceived you as a weak wussy dumbass beta she wouldn't be allowing you her press Ass and oranges.

She's attracted to you...but that's how far, attraction sometimes can go.


You said, you don't understand why she'll let a guy press her, but don't want him to fucc.... Yes, it's no surprise: women can be confusing. Sometimes, the underlining attitude of yours that makes her allow you press her at will can also be the very attitude that makes her never let you run yout hands down in-between her legs.

Unbelievable right? Well, women themselves know they are unbelievable, that's why they try as much as possible to stay away from their fellow women. They prefer to be friends with a more believable creatures: Men.

Like I said, the very behavior that get her to date you can also be the very behavior that makes her give up on you. For example, your playboy I-don't-give-a-Bleep attitude can attract her into dating you but that same attitude can also frustrate her out of the relationship.

Letting you press her is simply just a sign that she's attracted to you. Basically, she's low-key saying, "hey dude, I'm attracted to you that's why I'm allowing you press my ass."

Again, now you are thinking, "well, if she's attracted enough to make me press her orange and ass, then why doesn't she want me to fucc?"

Well, that's because attraction is sometimes not enough. Most men think getting a woman to become attracted to them is the difficult part. In reality, its actually the most basic part. As you go about your day, there are couple of women who are already attracted to you from just merly sighting you but you don't know because women are good at hiding their attraction for men.

The society complicate things by saying you are not worthy of the companionship and affection of a beautiful girl unless you do something epical. As a result, guys think they have to accomplish something epical like building spaceship, curing cancer or traveling to moon before they can be worthy of the companionship and affection of a girl.

But the legit players understand that all they need to smash pussy is just their looks, confidence and conversations.

So while Sammy, the fearful nice guy is waiting to build well completed beautiful mansion in the hope that Anita(his crush) will be impressed.....Richie, the Confidence bad boy is holding her hands and taking her to an uncompleted building where he's about to Bleep the shit out of her.

Ok.... let's continue.

Like I said, Men think getting a woman to become attracted to them is the difficult part, so they believe they have to play games and make alpha moves to create attraction. But for the most part, attraction has already taken care of itself.
In few minutes of meeting her, she already knows if she's attracted to you or not. That's because biologically and psychologically women have different taste for men...so once she sight you or at least once she start interacting with you, she quickly subconsciously decide if you're are kind of man. It's not a conscious intellectual decision. Remember, Attraction is not a choice.

A woman's attraction for a man is predetermined; meaning, even before she sees you or meets you, she already attracted certain trait and qualities about you

This is why when I'm meeting a new woman, I'm not trying to create Attraction, I'm only trying to "confirm" attraction. If there's no attraction I'll move on to the next girl...if I confirm there's attraction, I quickly move on to building "sexual comfortableness."

Sexual comfortableness is the key.

Attraction is sometimes not enough. She can be attracted to 7 guys that woo her a day but doesn't sleep with any of them.

The truth is, most women actually don't Bleep most men they're attracted to because they would feel cheap.

Her feeling cheap isn't really about the fact the she gave you the pussy quick. You can go on many number of dates with her or give her excessive gifts... infact it doesn't matter how long she met you: she can know you for years but still feels cheap about giving you the pussy.


The reason she doesn't let you run your hands down in-between her legs is because the attempt triggers the psychologically barriers:" he just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" OR "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm cheap."

You're obviously doing well enough to press her without her reacting negatively. The reason why she allow you press her ass is because she likes you. But when you try to advance, her ego is saying, “It's wrong to allow him touch you that way, it makes you look cheap"

Women enjoy sex but they’re socially conditioned to pretend that they don’t for fear of appearing cheap.


Years back as a little kid, I saw this neighbor of ours coming home, carrying a bag ... just like what every little kids around the neighborhood would do, I ran up to him and helped him carry his bags...

I carried the bag to his house... As I drop the load to step out, he told me, "you can sit and relax a bit... don't be in a hurry to leave."

So I relax and sat on his sofa.

A minute later, he offered me some yummy snacks... But then I remembered my parents warned me never to collect things from strangers or else they are gonna flog the shit out of me.

I respectfully rejected the snacks... He insisted, "common, don't be shy, have a taste."

The snacks seems very delicious, even from the Aroma...I was tempted to taste but as he attempt to give me again it triggers my psychologically barriers that my parents install in my small mind: "collecting things from strangers is dangerous because you can be poisoned" and "if you collect things from strangers, dad is gonna flog the shit out of you."

So I respectfully declined the snacks again.

As he made attempt the third time trying to convince me to have a taste, I said innocently, "sorry Sir, my mum said I should not collect things from strangers."

He seemed confused by my statement, then he shot me a cold glance and said, "your mum said you shouldn't collect things from strangers, but she said you can enter a stranger's house and sit on his sofa."

That statement hit me like a straight bullet. I awkwardly stood up and left his house.

Just like you are confused that she lets you press her orange and ass, but then wouldn't let you fucc?"

Same with this Man. He seem confused that I can chill in his house and relax on his sofa but I can't eat the snacks he was offering me.

Yes, I respected him enough to help him carry his bag and I sat on his sofa...but I wasn't "comfortable" enough with the idea of eating the snacks.


Just like mum warn little me not take things from strangers...Her mum has probably warn her that if she gives up the pussy too easy, men will think she's cheap and not a wife material.

If you're concerned about getting the pussy, then you have to be more concern about her sexual comfortableness with you.

And this has nothing to do with game or being alpha. Using game or being alpha or showing toughness might make her feel sexual attraction for you...but that is totally different from the feelings of sexual comfortableness. Most guys don't understand this, and this is probably one of the reasons why they lose out on girls times without number even though these women seem attracted to them.

Few Years ago I was watching this dating game show on YouTube were 5 guys had to compete for the affection of an attractive lady (still trying to recall the name of the dating show).
The winner get to go home with the lady and he would also be given a cash gift.
The lady would interact with the guys, ask them certain questions and see their response... 3 guys were evicted... Only two guys were left.

The game got more intense and interesting.

The first guy seem like your proverbial smooth alpha tough guy. The second guy seem more like your normal carefree guy.

They put the men in certain situations with the lady just to see their response, reactions and general attitude.

They took them to a bar... She sat with the tough alpha guy to drink...the lady asked if he's an heavy drinker. He said he drinks but he often controls himself not to drink to stupor. He said he never allowed himself to over drink. The lady compliment him, she said, "Wow, that's cool."

She sat with the carefree normal guy. She asked if he's an heavy drinker... He laughed and said he used to be a heavy drinker..he then share story of times he got so drunk and literally fell into the gutter while going home. The lady found his story quite hilarious. Then he said after that day he has learned to caution himself to drink responsibly.

The tough alpha guy act like a perfect person who never mess up... But the normal guy isn't scared of showing his imperfections.


They took them to a swimming pool...
While in pool with the tough alpha guy, he was busy showing off his swimming skill and showing her how to swim like a pro. She seem impressed with him. She was like, "wow, that's awesome."

While in pool with the normal guy, he was busy whispering in her ear and telling her that she's free to pee in the water if she wants to...that nobody is gonna find out and he's discreet, so he's not gonna tell anyone about it. She laughed and playfully said, "you are crazy"

When it was finally time for the lady to choose... As expected, she said she was more attracted to the tough alpha guy. But then she said she chose to go home with the normal guy...

"Unbelievable! are you kidding me?" The judges exclaimed. The judges and observers were surprised that she didn't choose the alpha tough guy.

She said she doesn't even know why she prefers the normal dude.

Well, I was not surprised though... No one noticed that the normal guy build sexual comfortableness from his behavior and from the way he responded to her questions or statements.

She felt sexual attraction for the smooth tough Mr Alpha guy...but I guess she felt he was putting up a false-front. He went home alone that night.

...She felt sexual comfortableness for the normal guy... he seemed more genuine to her, so she felt safe about spending the night with him. He got the girl and won the cash gift.

When a lady is attracted to you but resisting your sexual advance, then maybe it's because she's not sure if you genuinely care about her.

When a woman feels that you genuinely care about her, that would naturally neutralize the psychologically barriers:" he just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" OR "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm cheap."

In case you don't know, real Playboys and Pimps genuinely love women... If you've hangout with Real Pimps and players, you'd understand what I'm talking about. And as a result women shower them with pussy.

The Legit playboy show genuine love differently from the way the nice guys show love .

The nice guy take it the wrong way. He think the way to show her he care is by saying it verbally, "Baby, I truly care about you, I love you." Or worse he think is by showering her with expensive gifts Or even worst he think is by doing things for her.

But he still lose the girl. That's because the girl doesn't value his nice caring act: she thinks he's only doing that so she can reward him with her sexual companionship.


Using that dating game show for example...
Remember while in pool with the tough alpha guy, he was showing her how to swim like a pro. She seem impressed with him. That seemed like he cared for her, but she didn't view it that way. She felt he was only doing that to impress her.

But the normal guy was busy whispering in her eye that she's free to pee in the water... that's he's discreet, so nobody is gonna find out.

Although she finds his statements wierd, silly and funny... But she automatically viewed him has someone who won't view her negatively if she actually pee in the water and he gonna be discreet about it i.e he won't tell anyone.

She view him as someone who won't judge her negatively like the way society would judge her.

In her shallow feminine mind, she interpreted that as "he genuinely cares about me,"

You might say, "well, that doesn't make sense." Yes! You are right, that's women for you. The way they think doesn't make sense that's why men are just confused and clueless about women.

In summary,

She would willingly give you the pussy when she feels that you got good intentions, you truly care about her and you won't judge her negatively if she show you her sexual side.

Good write up but how do you confirm a girl sexual attraction?

KennethIbe59:
It will be difficult to learn the nature of a woman and still get married.

You can't be redpill and be married it's doesn't connect

I completely agree with you.

Negroid001:
Lemme drop this here.
In reality. Women are uglier than men. It's why they use makeup and the whole masquerade effect thingy.
I'll be dropping some points from a book I'm currently re reading.
The manipulated man.

Why the guy dey write all these long epistle na.....

.

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Miracood2, have you read my piece, shameless approach Or better say, have read most of my posts here on nairaland?

If you have, you won't be saying this.

And no, I'm not making this thing too complicated... In fact, quite the opposite. I'm actually trying make it simple.

Interactions with women is actually quite simple and stressed free if you can just change your focus. So when I say stop being pussy focused, there's a point I'm trying to pass across, but I guess you missed the point. Only few guys here get that point.


Of course, you should indicate some kind of (sexual) interest when interacting with a woman as soon as possible. I have said that couple of times even here on nairaland. Go through my posts, you'll see it.

But there's difference between indicating sexual interest and being pussy focused i.e concentrating on getting into a woman's pant.

I won't go hard here in explaining why you shouldn't be pussy focused... because a 30 pages won't even be enough for me to write why you shouldn't be pussy focused. This is part of the reason why I decided to put it in a full book by writing shameless approach and provide a more effective way of getting pussy thrown your way as a natural byproduct of exhibiting certain kinds of Behavior.

When I say stop being pussy focused, this trigger your emotions. Well, it's not your fault, it's the society fault. The media and society have brain washed men to believe that pussy is an highly valuable commodity that must be chased and acquired. A highly valuable commodity you should be focused on getting.

And on top of that, In most women's dating advices, women are directly or indirectly advise to leverage the power of their most valuable asset: the pussy....so she can control men and lead the dating dance.

As man, Getting the pussy is totally out your control because It's the woman that "decide" if you'll get the pussy or not.
So being pussy focused naturally gives her the power because their pussy is their Power House.

That's why I DON'T' focused so much on getting laid, or getting some pussy.

As a guy, your ATTENTION is your Power House. Women know how to leverage the power of their pussy, but men are not leveraging the power of their attention.


Your attention is a source of power: set a high price and don’t give it away continuously for free.

The alpha guy and loser beta guy have the same interest: to get the pussy. But the alpha guy and beta guy have different focus. That's why the alpha guy get the pussy, but the beta guy get heartbrokened.


I DON'T' focused so much on getting laid, or getting some pussy. With women, what I concentrate more on is what amount of attention(time, efforts & money) am willing to put out in my attempt to woo her... So I can happily live with without any regrets regardless of what happens.

Let me just summarize this.
Understand this simple fact:

Pussy = Distraction.

Being Pussy focused actually 'distract' you from being a highly confident and no-nonsense guy.

Many Women are highly deceitful and crafty like the green snake under green grass.

Women get high ego boost from watching a man trying to get some pussy from her. This is why she actually want you to be pussy focused... that gives her more power over you.

I wish you can understand this.
Can you send the shameless approach to my email... ogedegbejeferson@gmail.com

My nairaland email doesn't work so no DM

Marvyx:
Learn how to use some platforms like Opay or Palmpay (my best) to make your transfers. They are fast, efficient and intra transfers within the platforms are free., small businesses can even utilize them.

How does this PALMPAY FUNCTION?

Adexchelsea19:
I am in one WhatsApp group for BBT, the kind fight wey dey happen there btw naija and southy no be here

Abeg add me to the group or send me the link 08171558398.. my email no dey work.

joeeee240:


Come back and talk to me when you have years of valuable experience under your belt not stuff you read in books

Like I said you are a nuisance here. Who gives a Bleep about your experience.

joeeee240:



You're already acting defensive. The only thing you alluded to that got you irritated is that she said "Girls rule the world"

Im not in your head or mind to know the specifics. That was the ONLY thing you mentioned.

And again, no matter your so called reason is, what you described was bad game and a mistake.

That was my point. Had you handled it better, things would have turned out different. You sounding bitter and angry already proves my point.

And don't be deluded by abundance mindset

An abundance mindset with girls wont stop mistakes. I know people that bang 80 - 100 girls per year. And they all make and admit their mistakes. Which is what you should be doing

An abundance mindset just helps you care less so you learn and move on from your mistakes. Not to act angry amd ignore them

You should really be ignored!!

RavagedHeart:


I don't agree with you on the bolded. Redpill is better found before such experience. It saves you of the losses and the PTSD that follows the trauma. The redpill did a lot to restore me to some point and pointed my mistakes, but I would have been completely saved if I knew earlier.
Getting back to where you should be is not always that simple.

Alot of people on default take red pill for granted. For most people they need personal experience of betrayal or disappointment before they can logically relate with the painful truth of the red pill. If you had stumbled on the red pill before you had that experience with your ex gf chances her you would have ignored, or even denied the truth of the red pill.

Miracood2:
I helped a lady download an episode of a movie series.

She came back the next day for me to download the next episode

Guess what I did?

What did you do?

dmg1:
There's this little girl I'm with (I don't know if we're dating cos I carefully avoided relationship like plaque) she's 15 about to complete her ssce next year, initially I didn't want to have anything sexual with her cos I see her as a little girl, but when ever she comes to my place the kind of discussion we'll be having I always doubt her age, there was a day she visited and we were alone, she told me she's on her period meanwhile such taught never crossed my mind cos sex was the last thing to reason with her.

I told her I don't understand why she's bringing that up as I still see her as a small girl. Long story short after three months I ended up disvirgining her, now she's all over me. I'm 30 and I have like 5 years to complete my building projects and other stuff before thinking of relationship with her. Given that she has a reserve personality. (One of the reason she's close to me) have promise to marry her when she's 20yrs.

I'm a very respectable individual in our church and everyone knows me, you know nothing is hidden, two of her friend is away we're seeing, because of my reputation I can't do away with her. Except she changes her mind then I can remove her from my plan completely.
Now the question is can I keep/maintain her for over 5yrs before commitment cos I'm less or zero emotional when dealing with women /girls.

Lol...what dah Bleep man! Some people are just .... SMH!!!

Dabronze:
Don't be captain save-a-hoe

Which book is this

ubunja:
by encouraging her to share most of the times (women are narcissistic and love talking about themselves) meanwhile yourself be giving her only breadcrumbs about your life. And remember the more private/confidential/personal the information a woman shares with you the closer she feels to you and the more she bonds with you.

Okay good point.. what if she is also curious to know about you and she ask you questions about yourself.. always answering her questions may make you lose the mystery about yourself to her...

Tonnyray:
Wrong caption.
More like the nature of women you always look out for.

What is the difference between the NATURE OF WOMEN and the the NATURE OF WOMEN YOU ALWAYS LOOK OUT FOR??

ubunja:
don't overshare too soon....

How can someone be mysterious with women or maintain mystery when interacting and dealing with ladies?

Kipaji:
Men, I wish you all the best
I hope we can all realize that there is higher value to this world than women
Please, focus on God/nature/ancestors/life/values and yourself.

From the bottom of my heart, I would like to thank every person that contributed to this forum. You built a highly valuable bank of knowledge for men all around the world.
I came to this forum to learn about life, society, men, women, relationships, and sex. Unfortunately, much of what is written here is pure misandry, degeneracy, delusion, and/or evil. But intelligent and wise people will be able to filter out the dirt and get the gold. It is what I did and I come out of this journey wiser, more mindful of intersexual and social dynamics, and better equipped to face and understand the world.

Now, I need to take women off my mind and focus on my ancestry, my family, my legacy, Africa my country, and myself. I will not log back in Nairaland for at least a year. Until then, I wish you all the very best.

Bye.

Okay bye... Mr Goodman