i didnt see anything wrong wit d topic.i believ dat no one is above mistakes in dis life and we shld alz try to be our brothers's keeper not destroyer.i think wot the poster meant was dat CAN YOU ACTUALLY GO OUT WITH SOMEONE WHO IS NOT LEARNED.
we all know wot d topic entails but i believ dat ladies and guys in d house were havin fun with it anyway.so lets all be serious and contribute our opnions .

Dunnio i think what really matters in every relationship is LOVE and UNDERSTANDING.u can change him if u really want 2.we still have adult education and even part time programs.uneducated traders still go to school to be enlightened.

Do not make fun of him/her nor get irritated weneva he/she misbehaves esp in d public or in d mist of ur friends.learn to correct him/her in a good manner and i promise u he/she will learn 4m his/her mistakes.

Some pple are unfortunate to go to school because of financial setbacks in d family while some naturally have short memory .but then we shld try 2 accomodate nd tolerate such pple in our community.

i ve made the research myself also.jjyou its not dat they scared me rather its good to marry where u will be welcome 4 a lasting relationship.

Indian culture and tradition is quite similar to d hausas where their women can never get marry to a non hausa man and their men verse verser atimes on rare occasions.
But i wish they can change their culture so as to enable their children to marry whom they love.

'"UNDERSTANDING'''is the key factor to every relationship.am using my parents as an example.But i still need ur advice "HOW WILL I OPEN UP TO HIM DAT THE MARRIAGE CANNOT WORK OUT BTW US?

yeah dey like garlics alot and personally  i hate the aroma infact am allergic to garlic.but then my guy in particular is quite different.i think maybe because he is educated,matured and ve spent most of his life in Nigeria working.he prefer our food most times.so i think i gave him 100% 4 been odour free compare to his pple.though i ve never perceived dat 4m his cousins either.

wotz up kiwi and Theblessed? i cant stop saying THANK U 4d wonderful advice and encouragement.

yeah dey like garlics alot and personally i hate the aroma infact am allergic to garlic.but then my guy in particular is quite different.i think maybe because he is educated,matured and ve spent most of his life in Nigeria working.he prefer our food most times.so i think i gave him 100% 4 been odour free compare to his pple.though i ve never perceived dat 4m his cousins either.

wotz up kiwi and Theblessed? i cant stop saying THANK U 4d wonderful advice and encouragement.

men really are not scarce semid4lyfe either but it all depends on where u find ur luv.

if not because of racism,tradition and culture and hatred they ve on d blacks,i think with Obama's history and family background worth to be emulated. 4m slavery to No 1.family in d USA.actually wot KIWI and THEBLESSED erred abt indians is enough 4me 2 say NO to d marriage.but we must not be selective wen it comes to marriage and luv.it has no boundary whether a Niigerian or not but Indians are out of dis because they re worst among all.

my mother is a camerounian while my father is a Nigerian.so its all abt understanding and luv.so guys we can still follow Obama's footstep to attain to a higher level in life.but 4d MARRIAGE BTW ME AND THE INDIAN GUY IS RULED OFF .tanx guys for all ur contributions

thanx KIWI AND TheBlessed 4all ur wonderful contributions and advice.i ve already concluded not to indulge myself in such marriage.my parents are aware of dis mails.we so much appreciate.am so happy tanx so much guys.U guys have really SAVED me 4m HAD I KNOWN.


but this is crazy a woman paying dowry to a man wot 4.then who is marrying who?dis is ridiculous,ahaaaaaaa, he has been feeling bad over my reactions 2wards him but hope guys dat he wont hurt me by using my pix to perform magic

oh! my God this is strange.kiwi u ve really stayed with them to know all dis.honestly as am i typing dis my fingers are trembling .i ve been avoiding him and his cals all dis while cos i want to back off and i so much appreciate u guys advice and suggestions.am really grateful cos some of the things u said corresponse to some behaviours esp 4m his cousins.


one of dem is in indian,he works with a one company like dat they re into website designing according to him,so he wants me to help him to do on- line marketing dat he wants names to open an id for them i was like wot for.he is still waiting for the details 4m his colleague.we chat every day.he was actually talking abt his pple they re nice and that his mama will luv to see me and stuffs like dat but then am scared.but my major problem is dat d visa is in process, hope if i decided 2 back off it wldnt lead 2 any fetish act 4m him.pls kiwi can they go xtra mile 2 deal with some1 spiritual or something?

This is incredible.am really very very scared.Kiwi pls xplain more cos my parents are still doubting atleast we all are reading dis at home.

Really, am more of white than dem ?Lauretta.u guys have demoralised me and am trying to convince my mum over this.lauretta pls if u re in my shoes wot can u do?.i would ve love us to settle in Nigeria but his idea of me traveling dere to stay with the mom is giving me a sleepless nite.honestly i luv him but then i need to consider the -ve aspect of it and learn 4m my brothers experience.

Yes.am greatful 4 all your wonderful contributions and advice.am taking the bold step to travel to india and see it myself.marriage is not what one can jump in2,since they ve known my family.

plz guys we do not need to be abusive or take it personal ok.this is one house where every 1 need to err his/her view on issues.we all are learned and experts in one field or the other.Karma i dont xpect you to act dis way.Women are meant to be respected no matter how faulty they re.That is why i like an Hausa men they value and care for their wives even the least marlow man.

yes you can accomodate and teach her or if even hire a chef ok to do dat.there is nothin wrong with dat in as much as there is luv.then on week ends both of u can do that 2geda.there is no woman dat doesnt no how to cook even the least food jellof rice or whatever.
in a situation where the woman is a working i suggest that the husband must accept the idea of a chef at the moment.

tanx guys for ur contributions and advice.Really kiwi i xperienced xactly wot u re wrote in money,paper and cooking aspect of it.my only problem is the religion.the guy is quite different 4m his cousins.wot attracted him most to me is that he said i look like an indian gal but the mom is d obstacle in the sense that the father is late and being the only son to marry a black.
am planning of travelling to indian to spend 1month with his family but am scared.i never knew he was serious till the day he introduced me to his cousins.i was thinking of playing along with him as friends but you know the WHITES they re always open when it comes to Love.plz hope they re not fetish incase if i decided to back off though i love him and my family members do but then RACISM,

yeah, love matters most wen the 2 parties understands each other.but in a situation whereby the family members of the guy disagrees and the guy decided to take his own decision.

ok. but how do you see the union.

Thanx Afam. Hindus religion is it as bad as one worshipping an idol.

Could their be much obstacleS in terms of religion,language,culture and racism.pls some 1 shld educate us on this.

Could this be a perfect match or something inspite of luv btw the two couples any barrier in terms of culture,religion,racism,language and etccccc,

what attracted me to him is his caring attitude and handsomeness which makes every gal
longing to have him .and above all he is intelligent and hard working.

both are beautiful and sexy.but Rita is more reserved and matured.Nadia really look fake
anyway .

Noooooooooope its not always good to tell your husband your secrets.yes TRUTH is better
but wives should try and desist from anything that will ruin their family.please open up to your husband during courtship than when he has alredy paid your dowry.

secretopen y?re u doin ds.pls dnt spoil ma mind cos i came in 2 lag 2day 4m Abj 4d test 2morow.ds tym is ours i pray dt urs must surely come.i wish all of us dt will pertake in d test best of luck.

i was invited 4d test on 21st .i will also like the hse 2 help me on how d test will look like.is it computer base test or wot?plz sm.one shld helpooooooooo

nawa o plz what of Abuja centre any sms or information yet

yes,i ve gone 4 their interview actually its Mtn dat re recruiting they gave out d contract to Mactay company 2 conduct d interview and they needed abt 300 candidates u can still apply cos they will recruit again by Dec (2nd batch)

i got an sms abt d interview on thursday

MACTAY TELECOM INTERVIEW ON 19TH /10/06 BY 3PM @MACTAY HSE,5 ADEDEJI ADELOWO STR
LEKKI PH.1 LAG I RECEIVD THEIR SMS ON MA PHONE .IS THERE ANYONE IN D HSE INVITD 4 D INTERVIEW?.AND CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN 2 MI HOW COMPUTER TXT LIKE PLZZZZZ

MACTAY TELECOM INTERVIEW ON 19TH /10/06 BY 3PM @MACTAY HSE,5 ADEDEJI ADELOWO STR
LEKKI PH.1 LAG I RECEIVD UR SMS ON MA PHONE .IS THERE ANYONE IN D HSE INVITD 4 D INTERVIEW.AND CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN 2 MI HOW COMPUTER TXT LIKE PLZZZZZ

mactay telecom interview

pindo wotz up?am still waiting 2 see ma forms hope u ve some remaining 4 latecomers like mi plz try and assist i ve bin waitin 4 them eva since in abj.plz i wldnt like 2 miss dis great opportunity plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzi luv u all in d hse plz the great wrk moving we shall all get our jobs in JESUS NAME AMEN its all abt bin prayerful and ve faith.

helo,pindo i saw ur gud wrk the way u re assistin our fellow nairalanders plz send the forms 2 ma e-mail add.
ritdon4u@yahoo.com i ve B.SC in Microbiology plz explain 2 mi wot u mean by height or the medical exam u stated in page plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
i luv ur gud wrk tkia plz forard 2 faster b4 its 2 late

hi, felow nairas am hapy on how we comunicate wit one hrt plz i will like to see ur resume the boob in town