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Make a firm decision to let go, sweetheart. Don't live in denial. You cannot control nobody's decision or action to leave or stay with you. Let go now cos all this can only get worse.

She'd prolly go the Shaggy way; It Wasn't Her.

Yeah, my grandmum was intelligent alright. She could pound the life out of yams, uhuh. It requires a certain level of intelligence to get that right and I can't.

Nah, I'm not. The 'bother' again.
Yoruba... Can you speak your lang? Cos you seem to be playing with German a lot.

Of cos not. Don't run away though. Your interview session is still available. What is your job area if you work at all? Are you hausa or what?

I didn't say that I could do anything oo. Hmmn. And worked as a student??
I got tired of trying to understand you.

My services don't come cheap. You should send me a copy of your bank statement.

Yeah, please help me discover me.
Gladwell's outliers...hmmn. Interesting title. Nah, I don't write but I could if I want to. The 'bother' is what gets to me. There are tonnes of things I like, that I could do at the same time, if I had my way.

I have no favorite anything. Color is relative to....nothing. I love looking good but don't necessarily run after the next hottest things. I've more than a lot on my hands anyway. My field is medical.

Yes, I work. And I discovered rock all by myself. I've always loved music but at some point, I discovered that not all genres give lyrically fulfilling contents. My head needed something more provoking, thought-wise. Something it can work its way around, to reach some other thing. Hip hop and others just don't cut it. I mean, how can this suffice?; I wake up in the morning, I brush my teeth, I cook, I eat...what in tha You get my gist. There's more to it really, but that's the basis.

Anyways, you gave no answer. D'you love Jesus? I mean, this thread is for both of us, right? What kind of books d'you read? Music? What is your gear? Critique my druthers too, if you so wish please.

I like the happy endings, so that rules out Danielle Steele. Romance's pretty straight forward and no one needs to bother their head, unravelling some mystery, before the end of the book. Unlike what happens in espionage.
And no, I also do not enjoy any of those one million and one laws of power or any of the so-called inspirational books. They tend to drain out 'something' from their readers, leaving them robotic as they cleave to logic alone, while they explore the perils of their own creation. They like to describe themselves as 'venturesome' too....hmmmn.

Truth be told, I'd say I am guarded. But not so much that I do/would not know or suspect the right times, to be unguarded or expressive. Hence, why I said that I am a moment to moment person....confusing I know. Even to me.

As you know already, I do rock music. I read lots of books. Romance fiction only....yeah, wack I know. I'm a lady afterall...
And isn't it just possible that both God and rock can actually make me tick?

sauer: Something must be responsible for that. Isn't there?
Anyways, what do you enjoy doing? What book are you reading at the moment? And are most of your thoughts really influenced by religion?

Religion? However did you get this notion? I like to believe that my thoughts and actions are guided by my own principles primarily...whether that becomes inversely proportionate to religion, I wouldn't know. But yes, I love Jesus if that's what you want to hear.
Don't you?

Now that I think about it, I don't really know Sauer. I guess I'm a moment to moment person. Whatever appeals to moi today, may not on the morrow.

D'you think you lack oral care? D'you think she's got conservative beliefs? D'you think you come on too strong? D'you think your technique is bad? D'you think your timing is always bad? D'you think you can ask her what the prob is?

If she doesn't feel the spark for you, you shouldn't push her. Let her go, if that's about everything that you seek in a relationship. But again, you could stick it out if you really care. She just might not be all that into you, right now.

maclatunji: I don't disagree with this, emphasis on married [/b]woman here.

[b]Who is she trying to impress? I ask because obviously men will admire them and being married, one would think she understands that she shouldn't do anything that will make other men who are not her husband well... "hit on her". What are your thoughts?

My thoughts are that she'd do whatever makes her feel good, yesss! Men will be men even when a woman sheaths herself in potato sacks!!!!!

JallowBah: If anything; I prefer for a long-shot compliments from women over compliments from men..

Exactly.
Hmmph, I really do not want to say too much right now. Even though, I am sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo tempted.

No.
Because I don't know how I'm going to fall in that love. I'm certainly not gonna fall for his 'good heart' alone.

What I don't understand is why it is okay for married men, when it isn't for the women. Hmmmph, una matter taya me.

@TOPIC-The assumptions kill me. There are loads of things that we actually do for ourselves. Not for men. Makeup, posting pics, and even dressing seductively aren't always meant to catch you lot, really.

sauer: Everytime, you make sense with your post, almost as though you are old and wise. Yet we know you are young and wise.

Some of us are just with it, Sauer.

Hmmn...This is some serious shite.

And what if it turns out to be true? Special people exist for real, you know. He did say that the woman claimed to have noticed it when she was four. I mean, what's the worst thing that can happen, if she goes to the media and cannot prove that she has what they say she has?

Meet any of the vendors. Especially those that allow people to read for little cash, without buying.

I can relate, really. It can be a real bother sometimes when you have to open a new tab to access gmail, just so you can see 'Hi'.

cindyrella: Sleeping I guess

Mmmn...maybe. Too much energy in one thread gets me dizzy indeed.

Every weekend? The thought alone saps my energy. She must have her reasons though. Maybe it's the only time and place that she can hangout with pals, who knows? And she might not want to alter her entire lifestyle based on promises alone, who knows? Marriage changes things. One can only hope for the best.

Mhmmn...where was I?

Hmmn..hard life all around.

sauer: oh, really! . Okay, start arguing differently now

Okies, if you promise to take my place. Start.

sauer: Okay, I wish you would be liberal. Yea, I am buff too! I favour classical more though. Okay, are you exactly daring? Cos I'm confused now. And yes, am Nigerian too.
I think Inkie's back, only she hasn't been around very often

OMGosh, that is so cool. if you'd told me earlier, I would have argued differently. Nobody gets more daring than that! It's all good though.