First of all you knew she was a first born before you married her. Am sure her family were depending on her before she got married to you. Even If you marry a first born, the family will not stop looking up to her for many things.

My advise is to sit your wife down and you guys can plan a specific amount of money to give to them monthly for their food and their welafare.
And that they can visit maybe one time in a month or one time in two months because you need a space for you guys to enjoy your marriage or family life.
And it is okay for her to visit them whenever she want in their family house.

Please note this, when you feed people who dont have or people who are in need, there is a big blessing in that. So speak to your wife and organize your home..

May God be with you and your household.

From what you have said, there is nothing wrong in your hubby washing the plates but all men have ego and always want to protect it.

African men mostly nigerians dont believe in helping their wives to do domestic work because of this traditional ego issues.

Just apologies to him and try to get any of your cousins, relations or younger family member to come help you with the shop work.

Believe me, A man without a job and has a family is not always in a right state of mind and he will always be depressed and it take grace to keep him going.

just apologies to him.

There are couples that understands each other so much that they are friends, spouse and lovers and they can do anything for each other and dont care about any third party comments and interpretation. But i think yours is just a husband and wife thing.

So just apologies to him, i am sure you did not mean to degrade him because of his joblessness but with what he is going through right now, he is not mentally stable thus interpreted your words wrongly and reacted to that.

Dont worry all will be fine. just continue with your business and continue to pray for him, he will find a job soon and dont be surprised that he will apologies to you in the nearest future for slapping you.

As a happily married man. reading your story and if your story about what your wife has been doing is true about you, i will advise you to stick more and draw closer to her and listen to her advise and see that your life will change completely for better. if you trend on the part you are trying to do now, you will end of in regret and by that time someone else who have taken your wife away from you. so please my friend throw away your ego and cliff to your wife and see how your life and home will positive change drastically.

The mistake most young nigerian men does now is that they still want to act single (in their decision making) while they are already married. it does not work like that. A man can be a head (President) of his home, the woman is the neck (special adviser ) of that head and can help to navigate it to the right direction and part in life. God has made it so.

This is why President and Governors have special advisers to lead them to success in their administration otherwise they cant do it on their own.

in your case you are the head of your home and your wife is the neck. so listen to her and reason with her advise and put down your guard and see how successful you will become.

I am talking to you from my personal experience. so my friend, please do the right thing now before it is too late for you. Your wife is a blessing to your life and not a cause or an Ogbanje as you have called her.

As a happily married man. reading your story and if your story about what your wife has been doing is true about you, i will advise you to stick more and draw closer to her and listen to her advise and see that your life will change completely for better. if you trend on the part who are trying to do now, you will end of in regret and by that time someone else who have taken your wife away from you. so please my wife throw away your ego and cliff to your wife and see how your life and home will positive change drastically.

the mistake most young men does now is that they still want to act single while they are are married. it does not work like that. A man can be a head of a home, the woman is the neck of that head and can help to navigate it to the right direction and part in life. God has made it so.

This is why President and Governors have special advisers to lead them to success in their administration otherwise they cant do it on their own.

in your case you are the head of your home and your wife is the neck. so listen to her and reason with her advise and put down your guard and see how successful you will become in very areas of your life.

I am talking to you from my personal experience. so my friend, please do the right thing now before it is too late for you. Your wife is a blessing to your life and not a cause or an Ogbanje as you have called her.

buzzybrain88:
believe it or not Nigeria is much more better to hustle Dan Dubai,i returned back after 3 months working in a construction company.dat is not a job,its slavery.african and Asian rights are not respected at all.my master (mudin)wanted to kill me with work,i work 7 to 7.they don't lift a finger to do anything,depending on us like slaves.an Arab man killed a Nigerian delta girl in Doha Qatar,till tomorrow d case was melted down.there is a court to report abuse cases,but little is done abt it.MR JULIUS IDAHOSA is an agent in egbeda that collected 500k from me to do d company visa.am coming for him cos he is still holding my passport.DIO GRACIA STO E EUROPA.n nonsense agents.theives

hello please i am a nigeria who lives in doha Qatar, please what time, date and location in qatar did an Arab man kill a nigeria girl. i am living in qatar for 5 years now, i never heard of that. please let us make sure you are telling right information.. please i am interested in what you said, where did that happen in qatar

Going to university or polytechnic gives you a basic & pillar background in Life and the next level depends on your positive mindset.
Despite the situation of the country, your mind set towards what you think about yourself matters alot in Life.
Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh, As he thinketh in his heart so is he

This is a saying that goes those, where purpose is not know, abuse is inevitable, one of the reasons God gave us a mouth as individual, its to construct our future and not to destroy it.

please my friend i am not trying to condemn you but just to tell you to use your mouth wisely & delieberately speak positive things to your Life & future . And you will be shocked at what will come your way.

I was once in Polytechnic those days, where poly was highly downgraded in labour market, but when i got my job after graduation, i was paid equally as the university guys and after like 2 years i rose up to become the manager in my department (all my subordinate where UNI and poly guys).

Today what i earn, even bank managers are not getting that salary.

But what i will tell you is that please keep your mind focused and have close relationship with God. Your life depends on the resources of his kingdom and not the resources of Nigeria.

Screen your friends, because your association determines your destination.

In Life who you spend most of your time with determines the outcome of your life.

Just to let you know most people in the country are frustrated and very aggressive because they have concentrated their believe system on what is happening in the country and where the country is heading to.

Please my friend i know you are intelligent and you have a bright future. what you need now is having the right groups of friends who are positive & naturally incurable optimistic people. I was those kind of persons during my school days and i always speak positive even in bad situation and my friends then who can not just understand what i am saying logically always say i am crazy. but today they tell me i see that positive thoughts and words really shapes your life.

Please i am a very busy person but i take out of my busy time to write up this piece of information just to help you and other young youth who are given up because of Nigeria situation.

Since you read marketing you can start up with online marketing of product and services and you will shock at the response you get.
You dont have to wait until you graduate before doing that.

The state or local government area in which you are schooling now, go to any shoe maker shops, cosmetic shops, phones, laptop sellers and related items and take photo of the items and advertise online such as nairaland, facebook, olx and more websites and see the response that your get.

Please marketers can sell any thing. You can make your first millions even before your graduate.

Moreso people use facebook to show their daily life activities when they can equally use it for something more profitable.

I was once told Poverty is a mindset (very true). You become rich and successful when you solve other peoples problem.

The difference between a rich man and a poor man is simply the way they think, Rich see problems as opportunity to make money and poor sees it as a problem and complain about it.

People are in need of items and if they can not find it from the street easily, they can find it in facebook or olx and contact you directly and deal with you.

So please concentrate and focus, move with positive minded people and more importantly be very close to God and you will get the right direction.

Read inspirational book... Commendably book from JOHN C MAXWELL and if you starts with that you will see other related books to impact your life more. I wish you all the best in Life and God Bless.

Incase anyone need any form of advise and couselling from me...you can email me on rollyfemmy2003@yahoo.com..i will create time to reply you.

I will end my write up here. have a good day!!

Is he saying PDP will win Lagos state or PDP winning Presidency...Bro Politics is not your way to success abeg continue with your previous profession.

PDP has already messed up for so many years now and the name cant be revived by just you that could not win a state during an election.

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Success is a science

Sir, is it integrated Science or Agric Science

hahahahahahahahahahahaha...abeg ask am o!!! We would like to know the exact type of science...lol

Obviously from the cake...it simply tell her occupation and what she does for a living. If you check and investigate her..i think she would definitely also be an illiterate.

I AM A RESIDENT IN THE MIDDLE EAST AND AM 45 MINS FLIGHT AWAY FROM DUBAI.

THE PROBLEM IS THAT YOU DID NOT HAVE ANY KNOWLEDGE OR EXPERIENCE ABOUT HOW THINGS WORK IN DUBAI.

MOST OF THE VISAS OR WORK YOU CAN GET EASILY IS LABOUR RELATED JOB EXCEPT YOU HAVE SOME DIPLOMA OR DEGREE, THEN YOU CAN DO SALES REPRESENTATIVE OR MARKETING JOB.

YOU SHOULD HAVE MANAGE THE CONDITION AND WORK FOR LIKE 6MONTHS AND AFTER THAT PERIOD YOU WOULD HAVE KNOWN HOW THINGS WORK AND DO THINGS IN A CLEAN AND SMOOTH WAY.

FROM MY EXPERIENCE YOU ARE LIKELY TO BE DEPORTED. THE ONLY OPTION FOR YOU NOW IS TO PLEAD WITH THE COMPANY THAT YOU WILL DO THE JOB AND CANCEL YOUR COMPLAINT THAT YOU HAVE FILED AGAINST THEM.

THE PROBLEM WAS NOT FROM THE COMPANY...IT WAS FROM YOUR AGENT FOR GIVING YOU WRONG INFORMATION.

WHATEVER COMES LEARN FROM THIS BE PATIENT NEXT TIME.

THE TRUTH IS THAT WHEN YOU COME TO THE MIDDLE EAST TO WORK AS AN AFRICA...THINGS DONT GET ROSY FROM THE BEGINNING BUT ONLY PATIENCE (IF YOU CAN HANDLE IT) CAN SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM.

TO GET A GOOD AND HIGH PAYING JOB, GCC EXPERIENCE IS REQUIRED AND YOU CAN NOT GET THAT EXPERIENCE WORKING IN NIGERIA OR ANY COUNTRY OUTSIDE GCC COUNTRIES.

MANY PEOPLE STARTED WITH LABOUR JOBS AND THEIR STORY HAS CHANGE AFTER SOME FEW YEARS.

PLEASE MY ADVICE FOR NIGERIANS WHO WANT TO COME TO DUBAI, QATAR, OMAN, KUWAIT AND THE OTHER GCC COUNTRIES, MAKE SURE YOU LEARN HOW TO SPEAK ARABIC AND ALSO HAVE SOME BASIC SCHOOL QUALIFICATIONS OTHERWISE YOU WILL WORK AND DIE AS A LABOURER HERE.

ALL THE BEST GUYS.

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from your comment, it shows you are Jobless. that's why you have the time to sleep with and manage 3 married women at the same time. My advise is for you draw close to God and renew your relationship with him, cos you have gone astray, Get yourself a Job that will take your time, Change your mobile number and relocate from your address that they know.

Before then changing your lines if they call you dont ever pick their calls again. It's seem to me like you were gaining some financial and sort of other help from them. Pls desist from it..If you want to live long.

Even God that guide and protect us from evil, can remove his eyes when evil want to strike you as a result of this. Please am advising you as a brother. Get yourself a Job, change your mobile lines and relocate to a new address.

To keep a relationship, it's constant communication and to break a relationship, it is lack of proper communication. Start by breaking the relationship by stop contacting them. It is your choice to do the right thing or not. God will help you IJN.

you are still a Boy, her anger is to help you turn to a man. there is nothing wrong with her getting angry...because even guys when they are giving and giving and giving, they also get fed up and tired. Perherbs you also you are used to collecting from her. from school days up till time. Boy try and grow up. Get yourself a Job and start giving her some money and see if she will not become the best woman on earth on your life.

Note: Her nagging does not mean she does not love you or she's cheating on you. It is for you to grow up and take it serious with your Job search. Dont worry You will get a Job soon and all will be well. Dont leave her, she's your wife. All the best.

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Everytin abt d post looks fishy...if u look back at his previous post frm way back(2012) u will see everytin wasn't straight forward..also requesting for scanned doc&upfront every sane nigerian sud know its a scam..na him papa dey give d visa? Only a gullible idiot like him will fall for dis crap..

You are entitled to your own opinion. At-least no one has stated that i scam them before.

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