₦airaland Forum

ohh yes i do and right in the middle of the mediterannean sea

here too but with a lot of wind and that makes it worse

Thank your ignorance and keep that fake kiss somewhere else

so what's up with cold over there?

i am fine and you?

almondjoy:
Nigerian graduates have not gotten well paid jobs e come be "domestic" workers! hmm! keep dreaming.

My problem is that 99% of these "domestic" workers have some severe neurological impairment. Just looking at them, you can surmise that nothing can enter or come out of those brains. The ignorance runs deep in the lineage and there is not hope of salvation at all. I look at most of them and I ask myself--how does someone help these ones now. Paying them well is not the issue. What kind of future do they have? None. Just by interacting with some of them alone--a wave of depression hits you. You get a feeling that the brain died at birth from lack of oxygen or something. These are the kinds of people employed to live in the same house with our kids? Heavens forbid!!!!

Even the domestic work they can't even get it right. Please there are some people that can never be helped. The very few that have been unfortunate and have some little brain wave activity can be encouraged. The majority---no hope at all. Just simple menial tasks cannot be accomplished as most of them act like they have 2 left hands or 2 left feet. The society we live in Nigeria does not help. Some are just destined to be generational dullards and all they do is end up pregnant as in this case and the cycle repeats it self from generation to generation.

It's unfortunate.

you are pathethic

winks and returns the lovely Hi

Another thread by a member about same topic for those with a little bit of sanity in their thinking faculty

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-10441.0.html

Another site about same topic

http://uk.oneworld.net/article/view/135241/1/

Another moronic view of house helps, but i am glad some sane people were on the site

http://www.nigeriavillagesquare.com/articles/sylvester-ojenagbon/darling-do-we-really-need-a.html

and the list goes on

A 2003 FOS/ILO National Child Labour Survey estimates that there are 15 million children engaged in child labour in Nigeria. These children are also vulnerable to being forced into prostitution, or, in many instances, are trafficked internationally.
source http://www.unicef.org/infobycountry/nigeria_25508.html

that is almost 11% of the population, Gosh

i did enjoy it and i am still enjoying it

jintujinta:
Dont worry, when Oyinbo man is through with using you as houseboy wherever you are now, we will find an old woman that will use you as a houseboy in Nigeria. When you are one, you can now come with your theory, form a union of house maids and then fight for your right. For now, i leave you with your fate as Oyinbo man's houseboy.

Zoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Even as a houseboy here i can buy you a better tie and clothe, useless 37 years old fool. Nitwit

oyie:
u guys are making my laughter to dry.

maid,house wats the difference?

romeo
u want to change things?
then come to niga and do something real(not start one ngo-and just make noise ooooooo),stop confusing yourself n us about which word is beta-maid,housegirl or domestic worker

@oyie

this is a beautiful place to learn but if you like remain ignorant

jintujinta:
@ Romeo
I think this guy romeo needs to be schooled before he gets lost in his spanish mentality. Below are the dictionary meanings of maid. Tell me what is derogatory in the way the poster has used it. Wake up boy and stop all that forming. Who are you forming for?

maid [mayd]
(plural maids)
noun
1. woman domestic worker: a female domestic employee such as one working in a hotel or tourist accommodations
2. young unmarried woman: a young unmarried woman (archaic or literary) (sometimes offensive)
3. unmarried woman: an unmarried woman past middle age (archaic or literary) (often offensive)
4. virgin: a woman who has never had sexual intercourse (archaic or literary)
5. woman servant: a female servant, especially one working in a large private house

Microsoft® Encarta® 2007. © 1993-2006 Microsoft Corporation. All rights reserved.

pathethic old liar, who started abusing who here? me or you? such a low life!! i have noticed you in Nairaland, please clap for yourself

debosky:
a side note. . .from Berger to Ojota like AL talk, mouth no pain you??

LMAO

almondjoy:
Why are you guys so hung up on this word "maid"? Domestic worker/maid/servant/housegirl are all the same things because the job description is the same. We might not like the terminologies, but face it guys same meaning.

If you feel bad about the socio-economic problems in Nigeria, well you can petition your Nigerian government to make life better for all. Nairaland is not exactly the place to do all that ranting!

I am so much into this "maid" stuff because i want changes and changes will come when we do not keep mute on this issue, but i want to believe you are in a developed and enlightened part of this world, if not i will understand your stance.

The Nigerian govt. is me and you and the rest of Nigerians, and Nairaland is a very good medium for this for your information.

@Revive
May God bless you and the rest of your family for knowing the truth and saying it openly

ghettochyk:
just stopped by to ikele unu. Ify, BabyO, Nwa Sudan, Romeo, gbara gawazieeee unu dikwa nma?

Onye arurualia n'akpo onwe ya "fei long", koMon remove that shyt. I yiri onye n'ara banana. hisss

i second that hiss and na oyiri onye n'ara banana

jintujinta:
@ Romeo
It is obvious that you are from the bush part of Nigeria and your generations must have been slaves before you left Nigeria. You are so blind to the first and last ( 1 & 5) definitions that are not arcaich and chose, in your myopic mind to stay glued to the ones tghat mentioned archaic. How foolish you are and how uncultured your mind is. Your selective perception and retention will be your doom. Be objective for once.

I guess you are are domestic worker in Spain. You better come home and find something worthwhile to do with your life, instead of washing dishes and clothes. Useless houseboy. You even chose to define what house maid means in Nihgerian context. Is that the way your parentys were used as housemaiids? Or is that the way they used their housemaids. Stop measuring every Nigherian with your useless background and coloured judgement.

Come home and mix with reasonable people so that they can cleanse you of your unreasonable past experience in Nigeria. And learn to respect your elders. Did your parents teach you that? What you don't have, you can't give though.

At the age of 37 you still talk like this? like a clueless human being!! respect your age and talk matured.
3 years is a long way to go to get wise and please make use of it before you become a fool at 40, you know how the saying goes: "a fool at 40 is a fool forever"

jintujinta:
Since Romeo is so concerned about the househelp/housemaid/domestic worker case, let me ask him a question. Which is better: to have them do house maid or to have them beg on streets, where they get raped, impregnated and infected with diseases and hunger?

Dont make those who take housemaids look bad. They are not bad people. In fact, they are helping the society and the government. They are employing people.

If government fails in his responsibility, why should you blame people that are helping the situation? Besides, if we go to the roots of house maids, some parents are to blame because they give birth to children they can't take care of. So they send them as house maids. So why blame those who employ them?

Dude i visited your profile and i was shocked when i saw your age!! at 37 you still have the mentality of a villa scum, but i am not surprised because if you can not arrange your profile properly how can u arrange our society? just go and cut that picture to a proper size Mr. man


I will have to teach you this, old man!! the mere provision of food and shelter is not equal to employment. I am saying this because of your constant mentioning of the house workers being employed

jintujinta:

@ Romeo
I think this guy romeo needs to be schooled before he gets lost in his spanish mentality. Below are the dictionary meanings of maid. Tell me what is derogatory in the way the poster has used it. Wake up boy and stop all that forming. Who are you forming for?

maid [mayd]
(plural maids)
noun
1. woman domestic worker: a female domestic employee such as one working in a hotel or tourist accommodations
2. young unmarried woman: a young unmarried woman (archaic or literary) (sometimes offensive)
3. unmarried woman: an unmarried woman past middle age (archaic or literary) (often offensive)
4. virgin: a woman who has never had sexual intercourse (archaic or literary)
5. woman servant: a female servant, especially one working in a large private house

Microsoft® Encarta® 2007. © 1993-2006 Microsoft Corporation. All rights reserved.

Your backwardness is Micheal Jackson large, i mean in a monumental scale. Wake up and see the world you are living in!! there is no space for archaic minds like yours. But if you didn't notice i will remind you! most of the description of "maid" are either considered archaic or offensive
You said i am forming? what for? do i know you? or do you know me? and you actually know my location meaning you must have talked to me before but i don't remember where, which shows how negative and impactless your contributions are here.

"Maid" in the Nigerian society is different from what your encarta definition gave but because your mind is warped you failed to see it.

Being a "maid" in Nigeria means:
Making sure that kids of oga and madam wear fine clean clothes while you are on dirty rags.
Fetching water where there is no water supply for their use.
Cooking and washing dishes
You only eat after they have finished eating
You run all the errands alone
Their kids send you on errands too
Even visiting friends send u on errands too ( and their relatives)
No education and school for you (kind ones send some to evening school)
No friends
To serve 24hrs a day
No free day

Summary = SLAVERY and must be condemed and abolished by saying no to "maids" and yes to "domestic workers"

My brother just go back to the US and face your jail term or get back to her and make some peace or you will lose your daughter for life, 4 years jail term is nothing compared to the 7 years your daughter spent without seeing you

I hope you will settle this matter without running away cowardly like u did before

hmmmmm also

hahahahahaahahaahhaa kedu ihe gi na sandwich na eje? hmmmmmmmm well i was watching movie in the sitting room and completely forgot the pc and sandwich for nwanyi oma

hmmmmmmmm ohhhh na o buru kwa nnenne , stefy biko jiri kwa nwayo na ekwu maka iñu ara na threadia hmmm hhahahaaha because umuazu na añu ara di too much ebea

Ifytanusssssssssss kedu ije nwanne nwanyi?

swetangel:
@Rowland'
I wouldnt have said it better.

Why crusify the poster, if you can't help
him then let him be.

Point of correction !!! he's the not custodian of the so called "maid", he is also under somebodies custody (his parents), why talk about helping him like if he made her pregnant? he only came here to gossip but definitely bitted more than he could chew

almondjoy:
And the thread de-railment continues---------------------

bia AlmendraJoy which one u Dey sef??

stellose:
don't know why some so called east graduates cannot understand English?please nairalanders post your views.

I am even finding it dificult to understand what you just wrote, please explain

almondjoy:
We all had some young person to fetch water or pound yam once in a while back home. All the same thing. Good you are thinking like that now. If you never left Nigeria, you will just be like the rest of us who never left. So do not make a big deal out of the situation--ok?.

I am still thinking the way i was doing when i first saw this topic, my stance is that the Nigerian "maid" is a slave and not that working as a Nanny is bad, they don't even go to school, just food and shelter. with loads of chores and errands, damn it


Abeg e don change to who be gay? my reason of posting his past posts was because the acts there were too dirty and getting pregnant is nothing compared to them. Imagine a man sucking abunna inside a bus in lagos hahaha this ia giving me some goose bumps

mamaput:
romeo its not fair to say only the rich. They do not steal the kids.
we have to apply the law of supply and demand.
even in schools we have child labour.
i do not want to think of the grass i cut or even buckets of water i had to carry for teachers in the name of punishment

Mamaput you came late ohhhhhhhhhh ,

thanks Mamaput for taking notice of that but this is just the begining, i will take that fight to their houses when i am back home

i was not raised by a nanny but by my sweet mama , nothing wrong in being raised by nanny but i am only asking for them to be paid accordingly and not just a plate of food and shabby shelter

mip:
see this issue is not a problem persa since u know who impregnate her just call the guys family let them know whats on ground.

And also give them an ultimatum as to when u expect to come and pick up their WIFE but befor they come please keep an eye on the girl so that she wont do something that will claim her life and the babys so that u guys wont have your familys name drag in d mud by one maid u don't even know where she come from.

Wish u luck

You gave a good advice concerning the safety of the girl but your last line is disgusting and inhuman

otele:
heheheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee otele otele, otele oma ,
otele ify, otele okpooo,
otele faketan, nsi nsi ,
otele presido, full of dreadlocks

hahahahhahahaha otele nke a nwere dreadlocks dikwa egwu atu oyi, but kedu ka isiri mata na onwere dreads? are you gay? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

kedu kwanu ihe ozo ga adi na otele faketan? only nsi nsi hahahhhahha, adi m sure na ifugo threadi maka "igbo girls and paper", nke fake ga abu "igbo boy doesn't clean otele after waste disposal"

umuigbo hiiiiiiiiii na tata bu UKA

inxx:
seen people like u before.
they never sees any thing good in whatever someone else doz

if u ve seen the 2nd nko? y not comment on the 1st?


@poster
nice work dear

Man relax a bit!!! that joke is as old as the internet and it's all over the web, so don't get worked up because of this and the poster copied and pasted the joke, not that he's the original owner. Habaaaaa