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Islie:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/2023-presidential-candidates-to-pay-n10m-for-billboards-posters-in-kogi/

Matix222:
So there is street girl that I asked out yesterday she came with her sister to sleep over at my house today while fingering the girl I noticed boils on her private part I put on a condom and we had sex only to find out the condom got torn while having sex but I didn't ejaculate and my penis is paining me are there chances that I might have contracted a disease from her please help me

Johndagr8t:
mature views only

Brunosamel:
Good day ladies and gentlemen.

I met this young lady in a super market when I went to visit my sister the magnitude of the attraction was something I couldn't comprehend without wasting time I approached her and the connection was boom we talked as if we have known each other for a long time and exchanging contact was easy.
Ever since that day we became lovers in a dangerous time due to I was heading for my NYSC and she was preparing exams for her nursing school but even though we were distance apart the love was magical, I'm no alpha but I'm redpill aware and they say something about finding a unicorn, she is my unicoin. Her good character is top notch and her bad character is something I can handle.

Sadly, I'm heart broken indeed no one is truly perfect in this world when we are about to go deep in our relationship she opened up to me she was born with sickle cell anemia. Damn this lady looks very healthy, her flesh, her angelic beauty, her killer curves and also she's a workaholic. She didn't wanna hide anything from me that's why she opened up to me about it.

Ever since the news I have been in shock due to the fact I have lost three friends who had the disease while growing up. Am scared even though my genotype is AA but the fear of loosing someone I deeply love has put me in serious delima which has resulted to me being skeptical of moving forward.

My take is has anyone in the house had such experience how did you deal with it, medical personnel in the house what's your advice?

Chidiesta:
Good day nairalanders,

I have lived in Germany for 3 years now i have a 1 years old daughter and I also have a 8 years old daughter who lives with my elder sister in nigeria.

She is married with three kids , I provide everything for them and I pay one of her child school fee but my sister is never satisfied with the money she keep demanding me for more money.

She knows it very well that I am not stable yet in this country , life is hard just because she is taking care of my daughter and she want me to carry the responsibility of her three children.

I make sure that I send a big parcel for all of them once a year as I am typing the parcel is on the way but she want me to pay school fees for all her children too and I can't afford to pay for all four.

I am paying her son school fees is 87k per term and my daughter own is 67k . On the 2nd I sent her 300k for school fees and foodstuffs she called on monday demanding me for 154k for her son and my daughter school fee I asked her what about the money I sent on the 2nd she said she bought foodstuffs for 120k and use the 180k for her two oldest children school fee and she want me to send the 154k for the youngest 2 , I was angry with her and I cut the call.

I am angry my own sister is draining me financially and I have a lot of bills to pay too and a small child to cater for.

I have spoken to my friend she is happy to take care of my daughter for me until I am stable enough to bring her to Germany. I like the idea because my sister is not helping me to progress.

I hope my daughter living with my friend will be a good idea.

I haven't told my sister anything yet because we are not in good term but I want to hear from you first please let me know if I should allow my friend to take care of her or I should leave her with my elder sister.

newold:
I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME

ccjoe:
I haven't been able to sleep since yesterday. I'm a promising young guy and still in school and this girl is my bestie in school.
We do it regularly and without condom, I never knew it will end like this.
Pls i'm just an orphan and still very young.. I need advice on how to handle this situation now..

##Mature minds only and no insult pls.

kay4kay:
Please save it.

It might not be good to you but that is what I saw

kay4kay:
Its Tinubu

Josepin:
Sincerely, I messed up big time and I never thought I could find myself in this kind of mess, please I need your advice. Not to waste time. Am married for eight years now to a beautiful woman and have 3lovely kids.
About two years ago I employed this girl to work with me, she was in her early 20's and I was 37 then. This Girl became very respectful and very committed to her job. About five months down the line we start getting too close and most time I caught her stirring at me she will smile. Each time my wife complain about her closeness to me I will assure her that there is nothing to worry about.

To cut this short, we became fond of each others and we sometimes kiss in the office and in two occasions I took her out and romanced her but I avoided making a penetration into her. I bought her phone and other things.

Early this year she gained an admission in one poly in the North. Due to her parents financial strength I practically carried all the responsibilities. My wife was aware I assisted her but not to the extend that I did.

From January till this month I send her money every month for her upkeep and other things at least 25-30k monthly. But an issue came up last month.

I saw some of her pictures and videos on tik tok which was very undecent, I called her and scolded her but I observed she wasn't happy the way I talked to her. I went ahead and reported her to her and hell got loosed. She called my wife and Informed her that I have cheated on her and that I have had sex with her twice. Which is not exactly the truth. Now my family is falling apart. My wife is threatening to end the union.

Please, I need every advice that I can get, to earn my wife trust again. Also what can I do to this girl? Can I sue her? Please bear with my grammatical bluders.

Unyimekelvin:
I have calculated My losts on betting starting from 2016 till dates...

It's something I'm not proud to say but hmmm
Just speechless on this ...

I have lost a total some of five million eight hundred thousand!!..in they space of those years,now my very own question is has anyone ever made out through betting,or is that I'm not destined to get Rich through this??

I was introduced into this by friend when I was financially incapable of paying for My exam..

He won 500k,and gave me 200k to sorts out Myself fast forward when I was done sortin out my problem.
I asked him to show me, how its been done;he did and I won 50k at first then boom i started loosing .....
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Sometimes i always think of going to the army barracks and tell one of the soldier to beat till i bleed to check if I stopped could betting...i go into virtual games and sport betting, advice need on you all,get off this shit.,.. already posted this some hours ago somewhere but cos it's disturbing that's why I decided to open thi thread again..

So if you have an ideas on how to stop this, go ahead and tell me And also recommend a good paying skills for me that i can learn that's pays very well...cos I'm Lost..
...

Betting kills,wreck, suffocate, frustrate,sabotage, licked someone's future without any compassion...

Thanks for your opinions..

..

TheGenius001:
This is not the right section but I believe most Nairalanders are more active on this section.


I have raised a thread like this before asking this same question. What could it mean? Is it something normal?

The latest experience:

There was an issue bothering me about someone who got missing. It weighed me down and so I decided to try my so called gift of seeing strange things to get to know where the missing person is.

Boom, I saw some symbolis (very strange) immediately dozed off (in split seconds, I ha e seen a while lot of things). I didn't really understood the symbol meaning, so I made some research on Google. Instantly I was shocked because already I can tell where the person was. Lo and behold it was true.

Pls what the heck is this thing?

The process is very simple for me. What I do is very simple. I could just focus on a person so much that everything I have in mind at that period is that person. If I proceed to doze off ( I do this intentionally to know certain about the person) I could see a whole lot about that person. The challenges the person is facing. The current situation of the person. The hope of the person and a whole lots of other things. Some of it will be understandable while others are totally not understandable. So I make further research. At the end of the day, I get shocked wonderinyhow on earth such things got to my mind.


Note that I am not really that religious kind of person. More reason I didn't post this topic in that section. Religious people tend to have a one track mind.


Please who experiences this kind of issue? Is it a normal thing for everyone or am I something that I don't know? This is really bothering me.



MODIFIED: I have been having these experiences even as a teenager.

joy4news:
It was a beautiful moment as Anambra State Governor, Prof Charles Soludo was captured trying to help open a car door for Peter Obi but was stopped by the latter following his humility.

Describe the duo in a word....

jeromestarks:
This good girl came around my friends some months ago. I liked her instantly but I didn't tell her.
When she left, I felt I missed a chance to talk to her so I let it slide thinking I will not see her again.
Days later she came to see my friend again and we met. We talked at length, laugh and smiling at each other.
Then I collected her number and called her the next day. She answered and sounded so nice.
I usually call to ask how she's doing and how her day went. At a point, she knew I was into her ( even though I didn't say it) and she just ghosted me.
She stopped answering my calls, stopped replying my Facebook messages etc.
Why?

ItIsWellAmen:
I was actually outside playing football when I saw about 6 missed calls. When I called back lo and behold it was my ex girlfriend. We broke up about two years now. So as we were talking she told me that she got a job interview with diamond bank in the same state I'm living. So she was contemplating of where she's gonna stay for some days before going back according to her, she doesn't have money for hotel. Please sincere advice needed....

hisexcellency34:
Wike and his associates had demanded the resignation of the national chairman of the party, Iyorchia Ayu, as the first condition for reconciliation, but Atiku and some party leaders refused to accede to the request.

Details of the meeting was not made public but an aide of Obasanjo said it was aimed at soliciting Wike’s support for Obi’s presidential ambition.

According to him, Obasanjo, who is very passionate about the unity of Nigeria, believes it is the turn of the South-East to produce the next president of Nigeria in the spirit of justice, equity and fairness.

“From all indications, it is about the 2023 presidential election. Everybody wants the support of Wike who has made it clear that he will not support his party’s presidential candidate, Atiku Abubakar.

“Baba (Obasanjo) believes in the unity of this country and his desire is that a politician from the South-East extraction becomes the next president in 2023. As you know, no Igbo man has occupied the highest political office in the land since the restoration of democracy in 1999”.

On the visit by other presidential candidates to Obasanjo, the aide said there was nothing unusual about it as they are free to notify him and seek his blessings.

“As an elder statesman and former military head of state and two-term president, there is nothing wrong in various candidates visiting Baba for prayers and advice. But he also has a right to support anyone he desires”, he said.
https://independent.ng/horse-trading-as-wike-in-uk-turns-most-sought-after-bride/

Greattestman:
Pls help advise me on what to do..

I recently got admitted into a private university in the west, it came with 70 per cent scholarship. I have to pay the acceptance fee of N50 000 so I texted my uncle living in the US requesting for 50k but he sent me 200k. My mother knowing that the 200k may not be enough to foot all the bill that may take me thru the streinous process, is now requesting for 10k to pay next term school fees of my step-sis, a wicked girl who tormented me when I lived with them in our father's house. I refused and my mom is threatening to curse me.

My mom now alighn with our step-family to badmouth me for little to no reason.My dad is dead.
Pls what can I do?

envoymedia:
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Kiddogarcia:
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thisweekng:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_eFR-yLT4Q


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https://independent.ng/pdp-crisis-wike-blows-hot-says-well-crush-anyone-working-with-ex-national-chairman/

HonNL:
Turji is the arrowhead of killings and kidnappings around Shinkafi – Sabon Birni and Isah local government areas of Zamfara and Sokoto states.



SOURCE

Previous Threads:
https://www.nairaland.com/6893197/find-bello-turji-dead-alive#108454823
Find Bello Turji Dead Or Alive - MURIC Identifies Man Behind Sokoto Killings (Over 500 Civilians were killed)

https://www.nairaland.com/6902628/bandit-bello-turji-writes-letter#108645307
Bello Turji, leader of bandits, writes, seeking dialogue with Zamfara, Nigeria Govts

https://www.nairaland.com/6920474/new-photos-bello-turji-surface#109017237
Bello Turji spotted at a wedding in January

https://www.nairaland.com/6922319/terror-kingpin-turji-releases-52#109053552
Turji releases 52 kidnapped civilians

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?