₦airaland Forum

SeaTrade:
The only luck you get be say the guy no get crew,else you'd have been screwed for real(cultists).
I don't support his act ,but you laying hands on him when he didn't lay hands on your people was wrong.
Talk is free,women get all sorts of comments from different people all the time,it is only advisable a smart woman simply turn down such advances and go her way,rather than calling the husband to come and fight.
Your wife is a dull and classless woman in my opinion,what if the scenario turned out worse and you and your crew ended up getting injured?
Over what a simple "not interested" would have solved?
I'm sure you'd want to come and beat me too,be my guest mr flying nodding.
Treat things like this with tact next time.

Wisdom

Very weak write-up. I wonder why it's on front page

The trademark of a Naija celeb

By the year 2030 marriage as we know it would have gone extinct

LMS1:
What We Should Expect From This Collabo;
Olamide Part Of The Song:
"She Say Make I Put Firewood For The Fire,
I Say Omoge Omoge Give Me Your Greenlight,
Abi Sho fe Pa Mi Ni?,
Emini Badoo Mo Like Ibadi Re,
Ma Pa YBNL Boss Cus Mo Bad Gan
I Go Change Your Life Like You Dey Zeeworld
So Tell Me Sho Ma Do Re Mi So La Ti Do Titi Lala!!"

Sarkodie Part Of The Song:
" You Know What Time It Is,
AbadaBombidi!
Obadi Pem Peh (yea!)
Otovodi Ma Prah (quick!)
The Bigger The Ass The Expensive The Shit (one Time!)
Cus Oma Gunu Pede Ma Tra Ready For You (naw!)
Black Ebony Ma Kumo Ti Da Para Guno Ti For Me ( One Time!)
Shoutout To My TM And Accra Boys I Got Love For You (haba!)
So Ti Go Nu Am Pag Tra Ni Mo Ti Gonu Da Tivo Gam Pa To Our Enermies.... One Time Lets Go!
( Jay Z Hooks In)


I Nor Well Abeg

This is lit bro

Madness! Can we finally agree that this Buhari government is surrounded by incompetent and myopic baboons

The fvck

internationalman:
This goal celebration dey pain Arsenal fans then

Philippe Senderos dey scared of Drogba like say na lion he dey see for Drogba face

Wat of gallas

timibare:
my fwend will u keep quiet

Very stupid boy

Imagine if one day NO!

This one choke o

dewiseacre:
Over 80% of responses here were reactions without proper understanding. Some did not even read half of the story but reacted based on the reaction of another person who only read the heading...kai

It's sad because this is the same trend on all other social platforms...Twitter, Facebook, Instagram etc. You can see that the average Nigerian is devoid of proper critical thinking. Very sad indeed...

This particular post breeded the worst comments ever. A lot of dafts are really on this space and it was proven today

design102:

I just read the whole thing. He didn't lie. He was born with a pussy like opening so the doctors at the time confirmed him to be female.

Isn't this wonderful?

Thank you. Nlers just don't know how to read and understand

kponkedenge:
This he/she no get sense.... I mean you know you're a man and having been able to hide your sex throughout your sporting life.... What made her goan join the military which is very easy to blow his/her cover.

Wow! Bro pls read again

And then MTN borrowed them life vests

This is what you get when incompetent bastards supported by imbecilic cretins that shouldn't even be allowed to reproduce in saner climes are at the helm of affairs.... This is just what you get

Subsidybad21:
Truth

That's what NNPC has been screaming since forever

At some point keeping fuel cheap is going to cost you billions of money that could have been used for other things.Like new refineries

It is time to let subsidy go. Many African countries who are poorer than us pay higher for fuel.

Subsidy has cost us billions in lost revenue and investment in new refineries and by extension jobs. Plus since 2012 the oil revenue has not been able to sustain the subsidy well. Time to let it go

You speak like a fool

History555:
I don't care if the price is 250. As long as buharist and i are paying the same price for fuel , i am happy

Even 1000 sef I'm happy

Fahdiga:
Even if this is a made up story but in my little experience in this life I've learnt not to reveal a lot to women and I intentionally overlook them at times. women tend to take advantage of good men a lot. folks it is real. I've seen and experienced it. the phrase give a woman an inch and she will take a mile is 100 percent correct

A man must be a man bro.
You are 100% correct

izito:
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In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

*What's your take?*

I can see my wife doing such but I won't take my reaction to this extent you are now bro. Women are just wired to be cunning and sneaky. This shouldn't surprise you bro. The only problem was You trusted too much and that's what is hurting you.

Don't let this break your marriage bro at least she didn't cheat

Some peeps just can't condone evil and then there are peeps like Buhari

W

GloryGlory01:
The problem I have with your mindset is that you allow life to pass you by and then you put the blame on other people.

Allow someone have a contrary opinion mr Know all

I pray he's caught. During those mmm international days some one did this to me via same block chain scope. Thankfully the other sender was already confirmed. Your employee made a very honest but costly mistake

Stop seeking validation my friend. That's a feministic trait. Grow some balls because it's glaring you are all pussy at the moment

Abegeee

No one can blame the UNI after such overwhelming facts

Them get match

Very useless producer.
Why didn't he add a Range Rover and a banana Island house in the offer? Nobody would accept knacks for a supporting role na

Betrand3:
Should not be a basis for the Fed government to ‘steal’ Delta state’s money.
Wike was Ameachi’s employee...does Wike have to suffer for Ameachi’s crime or will Amaechi suffer for Wike’s crime? No!

It is also essential to note that Ibori had a great output in Delta State, meaning he hasn’t been the worst thief; he has simply been the targeted thief.

Jame Ibori fell out with OBJ because he was the frontline fighter for the RESOURCE CONTROL battle. Which led to a 13% return to Oil producing states. He was hated by the federal government for this. This made him and Odili lose possibility of Vice Presidency. So Fed Govt kuku set the guy up, he did what others were doing, but them change him own for am.

Modifications

I am sorry if I didn’t explicitly condemn him. The way people take attack me, I fear. He did evil. He is a thief. Just like Ameachi, Seraki, Tinubu, Akpabio, Nnamani, Buhari...they are all thieves.
Irrespective of where the money is returned to, it would be relooted. My initial statements were like a ‘he without sin, cast the first stone’

You are wise my man!
Idiots berating you thinks Tinubu, Buhari and co are saints

1. MaD melon & Mountain Black

2. PlantashunBoiz

3. Mohit


4. Artquake

5 Junior & pretty

And then Psquare.

TheLoneCitizen:
Elder sis.

She just convinced my mom to run a package my mom citing mmm and Ultimate cycler insisted she won't but somehow she convinced her using Davidos ad wherein he endorsed it

Omo

For the sake of my elder sis, I sincerely pray it's just an ugrade