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Sisi_Kill: When it comes to buying shoes, we are so selective and conscientious about it. To make sure it is just the right fit, we try it on over and over and over again, check it out from the left, check it from the right, check it out on tippy toes, check it out using a back mirror before paying for it and if, when we get home, we try it on again and notice it gives us a tiny pinch. . .we return it without a second thought. But it comes to Churches and the decisions we make when it concerns our papas, mama, mommies and daddies we hesitate even if it a matter of life and death.

The first day you got to the daycare and saw a teenager should have been the day you got to the bottom of it...No IF or BUT about it. Ideally, It is not even all the Adults who apply for jobs at daycare centers are hired because some aren't capable of the doing the tasks required of them. . .not to talk of a teenager. I don't know how many people have been to a daycare center at time other than nap time. . .it is a MAD HOUSE!!!

One child is spilling milk here, another is child is trying to lick it off the floor, yet another is trying to snatch the littler baby's bottle, one has dropped his cookie and wailing because it's what is soothing his hurting gums and the baby that just wants to be held all day is crying because you have put her down to check up on the other two fighting over the barney teddy bear that belongs to the little boy standing in the corner because he is shy for pooping in his diaper.

These are the things one deals with at a daycare center and if you don't have the psychological makeup to remain calm in the middle of chaos, you can lose it. This is also why the law requires that a certain number of children require so so number of teachers and nowhere in that equation does a teenager under 18 comes in. How is that girl gonna handle multiple crying babies?

Does she understand the importance of cleanliness? That you can't go from wiping one child's bum to feeding another without washing your hand? Yeah it sounds like something that should be common sense but in the middle of chaos, one tends to lose all rationality and taking your time to wash your hand properly when a child is seriously crying her eyes out just seems silly. All your thoughts are geared towards picking that child up and stop the crying. If many adults aren't capable of remaining calm, what do we expect a teenager to?

What about first aid? A child sees a small object on the floor, picks it up, throws it in her mouth and starts choking. . .what does the teenager do? Does she even know there are certain things that shouldn't be in the vicinity of a child. . .enough to quickly get rid of such things as soon as she sees it?!!

Everything I mentioned here is just a teeny tiny aspect of the entire task oh.

Honestly, If people really understood what it means to care for a child, they will know that not just anybody will do.

hotwax: The same BS we hear everyday from criminal related minds.
"Confession thrown out of court"? You mean they confessed having A̶̲̥̅​ pistol or A̶̲̥̅​ pistol was recovered from them?
You mean they confessed sharing the money or they were caught sharing the money.

I have been robbed before and it was A̶̲̥̅​ near death experience that saw many people massacred.

Since then, my perspective towards armed robbers changed. When I hear people beating armed robbers, I will join and pour acid or whatever I have at that moment on that robber.

You are talking about human right? You jeopardize your human right once you shoot A̶̲̥̅​ gun at an innocent man. Are you saying the victims have no human right? Criminals have human right but victims don't.

You are talking like that because you saw those guys wearing humble face. That's the trick. Even A̶̲̥̅​ baby knows that when he is caught doing A̶̲̥̅​ wrong thing he show A̶̲̥̅​ sorry face. That doesn't rid them of their criminal nature.
I know in the next 2 months, those guys will be free and they will continue their business.
I have seen a lot of them when I was in agege. They arrest them and due to human right wakos like you, they release them back after some months. And you will see the same set of guys robbing and killing people again.

Best comment thus far !
That's how they killed my childhood friend around this time last year.
What was it they wanted
His car !
He quietly gave them the keys and stepped down, only for the urchins to shoot him before driving off.

brigglez: My question is, after our police makes arrest of suspects, should they be beaten to pulp to show that they are doing "their job"? In as much as these boys are stupid & giving lame excuses for their actions,Personally I think its inhuman to beat up people after arresting them.

ghettodreamz: Because the thread focuses more on them and a handful number of them are guilty of exposing themselves to the disease with little or no caution. Funny enough, some even keep numerous mates,prolly cuz of the financial gains.. I pity some people sha...

Virgin Finder: lol.nice try anyway.

Aside those men who deliberately lie to themselves, every man would love to have or marry a virgin.

From my greatgrandfather to my grandfather to my dad and even some of my uncles, they were the first men in their women's lives all the way.

So I believe am not asking for too much.

Also my experience with non virgins has been...

pythonwizpro: Pls, what are the criteria of banning someone?

Someone asked a question about having a safe oral se-x and I pasted an article that sheds light on it, instead I got a ban as a price.

I thought the thread was created to enlighten us about the venereal disease, perhaps I might be wrong.

@RooneyBoy.....Check this link for the answer to your question about having a protected oral se-x.... http://www.dummies.com/how-to/content/how-to-have-safe-oral-sex.html

@MOD... I don't give a F, go ahead and ban me again, it's GHETTODREAMZ. Nairaland don't feed me na,you ban-ning ME has no meaning as far as I'm concerned. Get a life!

You can as well hit the ban button again, I don't giv a F.

Virgin Finder: Of course, its expected.

They must be feeling very naked and ashamed of themselves.

After all the accusations that men are promiscuous bla bla. They turn out the real villains.

The only ladies that'll be courageous enough to view this thread are the virgins. They are either still in bed or at work already.

ghettodreamz: And virgin girls are free from the virus, huh?



Unprotected Oral Se-x (Some virgins do this)

coogar: words on a marble.....
men should be wise too - especially all these randy men-forward-slash-billy goats who dip their sausages in different smelly swamps and then infect good wives at home. it's a vicious cycle so everyone must be extra careful! AIDS is real!

2good: Anther conspiracy theory the Catholic church use to brain wash people like you. The problem with Nigeria is that there are too many gullible people not using their brain to reason and you my friend just happen to be one of them.
People have been waiting for the second coming of your Jesus for the last 2000 years with disappointment because he is not coming. You're too lazy to study the history of your religion.

ifeness: Big fool!

y D insult bro ?
If u have a different belief from hers y don't u just state it
Really u didn't hv to expose ur myopic nature here.

moreeni: Nasty.Not your fault.Look who is dragging us through the mould;OP

Goldieluks: I can now see why you have been acting like a lunatic. You were rejected huh?
And what women cannot accept rejection? Aren't you as a guy suppose to move on, after rejecting a girl?
Why should you bother about if she takes it in or not? Stop sulking and acting like lot's wife already, and Move the hell on!

moreeni: This is unbelievable!I have a feeling you are just a researcher taking a survey. Why would any girl mess up a relationship in which the guy is taking so much care of her.Of course,you loved in your. Stupid way but you are just too much of a brat to get your hands dip into the wrong pot.Or how else can we define your efforts to get back with him-going to his mother's,office and others. Gosh,you missed it cos you might never find someone like him again!

Babe are u for real
Did I hear u say research ?
Aren't u a Nigerian girl ?
How will u suddenly forget u girls' modus operandi ?

190-the-clown:
Later they'l say 190 doesn't know what he's saying

chiover: @ op, u sef ur penisss too dey rise o, u drink magani bruntashi for d club? D chik notice say ur joystick burge out wen una dey talk dats why she give u fb instead of phone digit so dat u go watch pix so tey u go begin soap ur dick, nex tym wear babari go party so dat ur manliness no go dey knock job for u. Chie toto dey sweet o. @ vivian, u dey lie pass politicians o

Guy when did they discharge u from the psychiatric hospital

Rooneyboy: underrate a sixteen year old Naija girl @ u own peril .

By the time u enter the place u'll find ur self stranded.

this is one of the negative effects of highness.

Pritheeann: wich wahala b dat ooo??lyk u aint qona qet married??huh