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chronique: So so sad. Everytime my dad disturbs me about getting married,I keep telling him that the ladies they had in their era can't be compared to what is obtainable today but he doesn't seem to understand how bad things are. It's easier for SU brothers and sisters to marry than for those who've had experiences of what life outside the church looks like. how do you explain your wife slamming your younger brother? Not your neighbour or friend or colleague;your own blood? What's as humiliating as that? The more I read about issues like these,the more it makes me drag my feet towards settling down. Wouldn't it be better for one to be single and happy than for one to be married and sad? If you dig deep,you'll find out she's been shagging others aside his brother.

Sorry for the loss of your friend. Once had a girl who was doubling up between me and my bestie(although the whole thing started as a game). My bestie opened up to me about it and at first,I was heartbroken and embarassed. But I had to be a man. I told him to carry on. We both screwed the bitch and when we were done,we left her. But in her silly mind,she was playing games,not knowing we were busy chilling with drinks at night to discuss her p**sy and the stretchmarks on her saggy boobs. When I left that hood,I passed her round to others.... The irony of it all is that one innocent man would marry her and start a family with her. These are the kinda girls you can't leave at home without them testing other dicks behind you. Unfortunately,there are so many of them outthere. Yes,he was wrong to have taken his life but nobody knows how destroyed he was,inside. Maybe he would have been able to cope if she was still his girlfriend but his wife,mother of his child? That must have been pretty tough. May his soul r.I.p.

pleep: Its not competition its the fuckin truth lady.

Cheating hurts men more because of different instincts. This is not only about ego and self confidence bla bla bla, its about "who is the real father of my child." That is something males have to deal with but women don't. And so we evolved to have a deep seated tik that women don't have

You ever wonder why many women can tolerate polygamy but almost no man can? its because we are wired differently

You cant argue with evolutionary biology... cheating effects men more, just accept it.

We pay the "bride price" so its not so much to ask.

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Subomi-luv:
If this story is true then this is really sad. We should not judge because we do not know what the person went through to do such a thing. But why was the bro living with them in the first place. Most of the stories you hear of a family member staying with married couple something always happens. Either the sister or cousin slept with the husband or the bro etc slept with the wife.

What sort of question is that

vivian chinaza: Oh yes, I agree with you. You are practically right! Bravo!

But if men aren't so selfish and egocentric, they would see that cheating destroy women just the way it destroy men. You guys are not the only with pride and ego bullshit, women have those too!

If they aren't so self centred, they would notice that something dies in these women whenever they cheat! And they (women) begin to wonder "am I not good enough?" "Am I not beautiful, and intelligent, and smart enough?" "What has this 'other' woman got that I don't?"
Do you guys realise how you crush women's self esteem when you cheat? Of course how would you? When u are so obsessed with urselves.
Do you u think women don't contemplate suicide, or maybe blow ur fu..cking brains off? Along side ur who...res?
Yes, they do! But they are stronger and more passionate and compassionate. You have no idea what women tolerate, the pains they bear to put up with ur shameless cheating azzes! And at the end of the day, destroying their lives because of one lousy son of a biatch is not worth it! There are plenty thing to live for.
So don't u ever think for one moment that men's cheating is less grave. Just because a lot of women tolerate it doesn't make it ok.

Trust me, if putting a trigger to one's head is legal, a lot of men would be with their ancestors by now.

Cheating is bad on both sides! Let's not make it competitive.

Who's the man that offended u this much

U've been sounding so bitter

Lulu_Sparklez: most of the guys writing they can't kneel for a woman are actually the ones who kneel & cry & drool over women....odonyo

Stop deceiving urself young lady; kneel down over what na

Temismith: I cant count d numbers of d times dat guys hav knelting down for me

ayobase: I only did it once, and that was in 2004.....she still respects me till today!

Rooneyboy, where we went together!

If I'm gonna do it again, its gonna be for my ONLY!

I remember vividly bro

Donalð Genes: Abeqqy make we hear word ko!!! Your lies won't take you anyway

190: But that girl looks fineee


Love her shape - my kind of lady
Probably cud tell her I'm sorry
But kneeling down for her - Naahh can't do that
Especially since she's Nigerian and dark skinned

Could only knee down for a white lady

Ur a real enigma .

GraceBestowed: [color=#CD3700] Hia!!! First of all, my condolences to you, RooneyBoy, it is never easy losing someone, talk more of losing them in such a way!

It is, grossly, insensitive to insult someone who already made a mistake in committing suicide, (even though it's one he has to deal with for eternity); it's not easy for the OP (who is grieving), so compounding it isn't cool.

Maclatunji was on point! The devil whispers to people, and depending on the strength of their spirit, they may succumb, or not. Please, don't ever condem people who've gone through stuff; unless you've passed through that fire, you really shouldn't talk about someone at the other end of it!

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ednut1: NOTHING CAN CONVINCE ME TO GET MARRIED, PURE RUBBISH, SWEET BEGININING TROUBLE PROBLEM WAHALA FOLLOWS , LOVE DIES

vivian chinaza: I don't feel sorry for him, committing suicide? That's the height of selfishness!






*let the insult begin! *

This just came from a woman

maclatunji: If he truly loved her, her betrayal with his brother would have killed his spirit. I think those who knew about his condition amongst his family and friends could have done more for him.

The devil whispers into the hearts of men at their weakest point. Suicide is wrong but at that point- do you think the guy was mentally stable?

ITbomb: Trending
From there I go to wherever catches my attention

dgitrader: OP must likely be of festac origin!

Appears u grew up in Festac as well

*i be Nazareth boi*

Itoroetti :
Agbo lives in Calabar. Agbo lives in Calabar.

Agbo did not live in calabar,rather he lived in the town of lagun if my spelling is right.
Edet lived in calabar.
It was just fun.I wsih we go back to those era where u can cramed the entire text book just for the fun.

[color=#006600]How about "Eze goes to school "

ayobase: This one pass "men should be 'careful' of the woman they marry"

Everybody is always careful when marrying!

NA PRAYER SURE PASS!

Marrying is a big For me right now.

I'm damn scared of them .

*To me, they are the devil we all talk about*

hottiechoco: Are you justifying suicide?
People are going through worse situations,
Everyone is praying for life and someone is taking his because of a woman.
He went to the extreme

T-smooth:
I read this thread last year in The Sun newspaper. Your thread would not make it to the frontpage by Gods grace.

overdrive: Can't happen here an average Nigerian man hardly takes that route out over affairs of d heart.He wld rather machete one or two of them on d spot

Idowuogbo: Roobobo, tell me u joking? For real?

hottiechoco:
Dude went too far by taking his life haba!
The wife is still alive and she will still enjoy herself, even enjoy the brother more.
Suicide is never an option no matter the circumstance.