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coogar:
verbally abusive only after they have been abused. no man goes about the forum looking for a woman to abuse. it's always in retaliation.

coogar:
i don't bring up such with wrinkled women old enough to be my grandma.

act your age - you are too old for this.



mumu!
i don't discriminate - your gender does not give you any special treatment. if you spew nonsense, you would get verbally lashed.

moca:
That is
Until u encounter a man with loose mouth, u will never understand.
Woman own is even better.

One of my cousins has a very bad mouth.
Don't ever try engaging this guy in tongue lashing context
Sure he will win
Even coogar will bow down
I don't know how he can manufacture so many insultive words in a short time and d way he dish them out eeh,osuofia is a learner .

Don't ever look for his trouble. After severally warning u, if his head is full, na u go run

I hope and pray he has stopped.

coogar:
ladies generally can't handle responsibility.
when they verbally abuse, it's natural. when they physically abuse, it's a hormonal issue. there's always something to blame when a lady is caught behaving rabidly.

johnny1980:
Abi o waiting for when they would carry out a research as regards the number of women who verbally abuse thier partners.

I know it would be 98% because most of the "champions of women's right" always say when someone abuses you. You should walk away or say your own back. Blaming and telling the abused not to react without cautioning the abuser. To them it's not a crime and is normal. It is always "Women were created with bad mouth and should be excused"


if so. Men are also created with bad fists and we should excuse such when it happens. It's the nature of the man. Isn't that right?

babyosisi:
Comment on the topic
We already know many nigerian men beat their women and say they deserve it,that much is settled
The scary thing is that about a quarter of nigerian women think it is ok to be beaten by their husbands
That is the main issue
Or are you saying a woman who tongue lashes her husband deserves the beating?
Is that your point?

Owliver:
No sane being would say beating a woman is good. Rose your missing the point... The point is try to stop what's causing such... Now after your lamentations you failed to warn ladies to desist from people's husbands and go get theirs. On the other thread you equally almost totally ignored the cause of the aggrieved man. That was my problem. Good evening dear.

mcdokwe:
I don't envy your husband. I guess he's in amelika too as to afford you all the time you have on nl typing trash, or how do you manage to build your home, take care of the kids and hubby? Choi! You need a life o

mcdokwe:
less than 200 posts and over 50% mentioning me, sister my heart still dey my lady hand o, so no vacancy for u biko. U fit go rest now

johnjon:
Damnnn!
You are very slow o. So it took you how many days to finally agree that they were both wrong.

freecocoa:
I said I was done talking about it but I'll reply this.

He did something ofcourse, now remember she didn't refute all he said in his thread as to how it all started, she just told us her part.

He was holding his phone with her sim in it, an sms came in, he replied it and probably asked her why her friend would be waiting for him to leave before coming to the house, an argument ensues and her friend calls her, told her whatever which further annoys her, she got madder, started insulting him with a 3rd party present, he must have replied and they exchange words, it's getting heated and he makes to leave, she stops him, hit him with things, smashed his phone and he beat her up, why then are you blaming only him?

freecocoa:
Honestly you seriously amaze me.
What if Mcdokwe's girl had killed him with whatever weapon she was able to lay her hands on? She hit him too after insulting him, why can't you see that part?


Granted, violence is never the answer but understand that some women start it by insulting and even hitting the man first, I have seen it happen. Mcdokwe is not a beast as far as I'm concerned, he had a lapse, take a look at how the girl insulted him and still went ahead to block his way, preventing his attempt to leave, he pinned her down but she would have none of it, smashed his phone and made for whatever she could turn into a weapon, hitting him and that was when he lost it.


I'm done talking about this.

Idowuogbo:
Hold on,are you saying if you were in Mcdokwe's shoes you wouldn't react to someone insulting your loved ones that passed away? Oh plueeeeeease!!

5minsmadness:
P. S
How in any way is this horror story related to the Mcdokwe incident?

freecocoa:
I don't understand why you are making it sound like we were saying it's okay to beat up one's spouse, atleast I know that's not what I said.

This is not the same with mcdokwe's case is it?

Teespice:
ehen

where are all those misogynists and chauvinists dancing on mcdokwe's thread glorifying physical abuse.

come and defend this one na.

bloody set of twerps.

I won't mention monikers cos y'all know yourselves.


they are all tongue tied because they know in this scenario the woman has done nothing wrong.

cococandy:
Deleted I guess by mods.

So someone actually wishes you'd lose your husband and kid.
Over difference of opinion?
It is funny and not.

Some people would murder fellow nairalanders if they knew where they lived.

kaboninc:
At no time did I support any form of physical abuse. I never supported the guy and I've always said that to me, there's no moral justification.

However, that lady needs to be told the truth, that her mouth is really uncouth, confirming that she's indeed verbally abusive. That has always been my stand. But people like you, cococandy and babyosisi especially, console yourselves with the one-sided judgements you give. You attack the fire from the surface and neglect the root cause.

Now it will be very shameful to me if my daughter was in that mess. In fact I'll scold her for taking such a decision. I'll also share a blame for such irresponsible behaviour. And yes, if her abusive mouth causes her some slaps, she deserves it. (I know you'll take solace in that)

However there are boundaries to which a corrective measure can be taken. We need to speak the truth always, not for the sake of swelling our followership.

cococandy:
Lol

But gay guys don't hate women sha o.

That reminds me, I need me a gay best friend.

kaboninc:
Thank you o jare.
This is what I've been advocating for since last night.

fem29:
Rose ooo, you are dancing around the issue, this was a mutually abusive relationship. She admitted to hitting him because he was an expired person , im guessing she means broke. Someone who is controlled does not hit their aggressor. Let us tell miraijj the truth so that she can learn

fem29:
I think it is important to Address this young lady as well. This is a man that she dated for 5 years and eventually had a child for. How can she now say that a 100 of him are not worthy of her. What was she looking at for the 5 years. Then she admits to being violent towards him. Why though?. She has some issues she needs to work on and you are doing her a disservice by not pointing it out and just focusing on the young man. Yes I will always condemn violence but it goes both ways. Men should not hit women and women should not hit men.

Tell her where she went wrong too as well as condemning him, let us be fair.

Rose2014, I'm tagging you in this too

babyosisi:
After taking a little time to read your post history I changed my mind about my original response and only have one thing to conclude
Whoever damaged you damaged you bad or shall I say good
Hopefully you are 19 or below, there could still be a chance but if you happen to be up to 25 or above,kpele.
All hope is now lost
[b]Nne muru gi gba aka anwa,[/b]hopefully there are other siblings she can bank on.Nwanyi i bem ndo
Not mad at you anymore actually now very sympathetic.
This is the type I refer to as evil children that entered their mother's womb by apiam way
Chai

babyosisi:
Isi mgbaka

muafrika:
You just hate women. Not marriage.

babyosisi:
Many Nigerians hate the happiness of others
They would wish everyone was some miserable person at their same level
My prayer when the time comes is that my girls will meet and marry a man as wise,as intelligent,as successful,as hardworking ,as respectful and respected and as loving as their father.
I wouldn't dare wish them a man like their dad if I married a beast
If they find a man like him,they would have done excellently
Maybe there are only a few good men,my dad is one
I married one,cococandy married the other
I loved in a house where my father never for one day laid a hand on my mother so I didn't grow up with violence
Perhaps those who excuse it did,I didn't
I didn't see it in my home and thankfully didn't marry a man who speaks with his fists

babyosisi:
Hahahahahahaha
So it actually hurts you deranged physical abusers that there are men who don't subscribe to your lunatic ways
You would wish that all Men did and all women tolerated it
Sorry o

The only people that will be pained by my threads are men who see pummeling their women as a sign of manhood
I will continue to tell young women how to detect and run away from men like you
If you don't like it tough
It almost looks like the young lady discussed in this thread read me and fled but no she didn't
She was brought up by good parents who taught her that a man punching her is not alright
She fled and you are pained and has been ever since
Deal with it
She ain't coming back

cococandy:
ok next time I will support the abuser so that some disgruntled fellow won't use that opportunity to take pointless digs at me

Khabuqi:
That quote was not to you na.

dinachi:
Beat you keee... This girl wan kill me with laugh.... Which kain beat I go give you now way go pass the twice daily pummeling from your gorilla husband?
A beg I take God beg you, stop scamming other women here...it is an act of sheer wickedness!