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Khabuqi:
Oh well. You brought this on yourself. Sorry to say that.

For saying the truth

I stand for the truth anytime no matter how many like of mcdokwe and dinachi are ranting behind their keyboards

#saynotoviolencewhethermaleorfemale#

By the way I think mcdokwe = Dinachi

Violence all the way

dinachi:
Since you have admitted to being pummeled twice daily, and you are still in the marriage, why advice others to leave?
Scammers association of Nigeria(SAN)
Can your husband beating blood cool down now?

I feel your pain.
It's bn quite hot on you today. Now u're fighting all the ladies at the same time

Ndo nwannem

At Dinachi, at least you can't beat me online. Save the beating for the miserable women in your life

dinachi:
So you don't know that husband beaters and abusers like your ass wipe self are in the minority? Who says the boobs and the puccy can't be cut off too...
Stop scamming other gullible women here... Intact post your picture let me show you the scars on your face gotten from heavy pummeling by your husband. You are one hell of a hypochrite!
It is wicked to be scamming other women when you yourself are still managing with your husband in your one room shack in the village with 12 children including all the beating he gives you when he come home drunk as usual. A beg say the truth and shame the devil. Can you deny that your husband has not whooped your ass in the last 3days. Pls say the truth and shame the devil...remember there is God oh!

Yes he beats me twice everyday
I already mentioned that.

Now you've won so your wife beating blood can come down.

Khabuqi:
The lady will is fine. She said so on her thread. Take it easy o.

Some damages are internal
Until she goes to a doctor, she can never be too sure. Believe me I'm genuinely concerned cos imagine when two men fight, how violent it could get not to talk when a man agrees he gave a lady deadly blows two different times in one day. Scary

But thanks for your advise dearie

cococandy:
Ok my husband beats me every time I don't kneel down to serve him his food in sparkling China.

I hope that makes you feel better.


Sadist.

And my husband beats me too twice a day

Dinachi you've won. U can now clap for yourself

Khabuqi:
Do you know these guys outside of NL?
Your taking this so personal.

I don't know them
I'm just worried about the lady. She may need some physical exam cos I don't know the part of a woman, a man will comfortable give deadly blows two different times a day

Mirraj ndooooo

dinachi:
Are you one of the scammers, scamming other gullible women here!
Giving advice, you know deep down even you can't take...
Just because Miriaj beats and emotionally abuses men doesn't mean every woman does.

Like I said, because you show your man power on ladies doesn't mean all men do the same. Infact women beaters like you are in the minority

The ladies are no longer smiling these days o, they can cut off your JT if u don't take care. No one has the monopoly of violence
If u can't take the heat, the exit door is open

Why beating? If we all deserve to be killed cos of our mouths, u angel GAbriel urself would've bn killed by now

mcdokwe:
well I said something too of her family because I was hurt
I regrettably gave her some blows
I expected her to behave more in their presence but that was to wishful of me and unfortunately the ladies couldn't stop me as I gave her even deadlier blows but mehn, she never really got enough.

The relationship lasted for a little longer without fights and she left while I was away

My question to mcdokwe a.k.a woman beater alias Kiliwii Nwachukwu is this:
Nwa nnaa biko what part of her body were you giving these deadly blows? Her face, her head, her breast, her chest, her stomach

The answer to this question could bring about a different topic
Hopefully u haven't damaged a sensitive organ like womb
For u to describe the blows yourself as deadly, you obviously didn't mind murder cos she deserved it according to you.
I fear u may have done more damage to her health than is visible now

dinachi:
Thank God I have finally figured it out! Thank you Jesuuuuus! Here goes....most women like babyosisi, cococandy and other ass swipes giving divisive and silly advises are in very terrible marital relationships. In essense the evil advices they sell to other gullible women out here are ideas they WISH they have the guts to carry out in their own husbands house. Since they do not have they guts to do it, they now push it to other females fools to judge the effect will have on the poor female fools blindly following them. In other words, they are busy experimenting with other peoples marriages and relationships....THESE LADIES ARE VERY WICKED! Follow them at your own peril...A word is enough for the wise! Imagine women who are constantly pummelled by their husbands for fun like babyosisi and cococandy coming out here to tell other ladies how they will never tolerate any man beating them . Yet they come here and sell their husband as angels from heaven! . A beg forget those scammers!

Just because mcdokwe beats women doesn't mean every man does.
Pls don't generalize
Thanks

cococandy:
I insulted you?

Chei. The hunter has become the hunted.

When you were gloating about how you can't wait to see the day I'll cry where you drunk then?

What were you expecting?
Oh I guess I was supposed to say thank you sir.
I know.

That's the only response acceptable to you.

Meanwhile all your condescending bullshiit is not insulting to me I guess

Don't worry I'm waiting for the shock.

Meanwhile I won't mention you like you so 'politely' asked if you would do me same courtesy of removing my name from your list of people you can't wait to see sad.

Or better still think it. Don't bother voicing it because if you do, I will serve it it you hot.

Take my leniency today as an advance Easter gift.

Don't mind him joor.It doesn't take rocket science to spot abusers

See how he's now upset cos u fed him with his own medicine?
Thank God this is online cos he'll beat u and claim u deserve it

Bunch of cowards

babyosisi:
You are a woman abi
May you taste the same Mohammed Ali punches twice in one day from a man who hasn't paid kobo as dowry and remain there

Iseee

Iseee. Don't mind them my sister
They are making mouth like u know abusers by face. The guy deceived the op and used her like tissue paper

The abuse from the McDokwe beast that they're supporting here will come to them a hundred fold
Iseeee

And may their minds be so closed that they will advise their daughters to remain with the abuser till he kills her

Iseeee

johnny1980:
Thank you. You have had your 2 minutes fame.

You can now stroll along.

I know the market was slow today and you need someone to go back and forth with to fill up the time. I am sorry, I am not available.

It's actually better u remain unavailable than coming here to make no sense

Good riddance to wife beating bad LUBISH

johnny1980:
Please desist from commenting on this thread.

Your utterances sound like that of a kid and someone lacking logical thinking. Before you judge people, you would do well to imagine what the circumstances behind those actions. THANKS for your cooperation.

Another mcdokwe wife beater detected
Just continue beating women until we read your miserable end story here one day and type RIP
No one has the monopoly of violence o

Thank God you can reach me to beat me not to talk of having the nerves to open a silly thread to justify nonsense

If the lady's mouth earned her beating, then mcdokwe's insult on his father in law should have earned him 'JT cutting things'
Shameless cowards

akinsadeez:
so for which offence and under which law will he be jailed when she wasn't a minor.
Abi when they were both mutually sexually exploring each other did they call the father or the police.


Many peeps r just allowing emotions to cloud their reasoning.

Honey in a western world his ass will be cooling off in prison by now for raising his filthy hands on the lady.
There's a reason physical violence is a crime.

His verbal abuse may not have earned him a jail term but the physical too? Jeezz
Maybe u guys would've bn visiting him with food in prison by now
At least he wouldn't have had internet access to be posting his justification here. Nonsense


Save the justification for the judge

sweetcocoa:
You are obviously still missing the point. I am not supporting the OP, I just don't think it is fair to blame him for something they are both responsible for.

You keep saying he got her pregnant as if he tied her hands and leg, then inserted a baby inside her, they both got pregnant, she gave consent for sanity's sakes.

How can I be happy if my daughter is with an abuser? I just won't go about blaming him alone after I have warned her about him, I will do my best to remove her from the situation and if she insists and he kills her, well she's dead and she chose to die, the dude will also face my wrath and that of the law, the point here remains, she chose to stay.

Are you saying women should stick to "beasts" because they got pregnant and their families rejected them? If staying with him is the better option, why won't he feel like a god and treat her anyhow?

@your last paragraph
From your posts, your daughter cannot even come back to someone like you because as far as your posts go, she deserves to be killed for not listening to you

Again remember you can't dictate who she falls in love with

Finally before I step out of the thread


The level of hypocrisy on nairaland is nauseating
People like sweetcocoa are here blaming op why she chose the guy and whether she was taped bla bla bla and bragging about what they would've done if it was their child.
Yet if someone opens a thread asking for advise on whether she should accept someone without her parents approval, u'll start hearing things like 'it's your life', 'your parents cannot dictate for you' etc

Now this one has gone wrong and she's termed irresponsible girl that should've listen to her parents. Be careful what u say sha
Karma doesn't fail to react

God is watching all of you

cococandy:
Very violent.
He forgot to mention he's been locked up before because of his violent attitude. Dunno if it is towards this same girl or another one.

@bold ugh pls don't remind me of that horrible pic I saw last week.
That's not something to joke with o. I still can't get it out of my head.

Better she left than resort to such a horrendous act.

#i believe you're kidding sha. But don't kid with that stuff.

Lol I'm kidding jare but men like mcdokwe need to begin to understand that no one has monopoly of violence. Ladies are no longer smiling these days o

cococandy:
I've read his thread and read hers now. The root of the matter is him. EOD.

I agree. Let's go back to the genesis, why will he reply the lady's text? He's controlling, verbally and emotionally abusive
To crown it all, he went physical with deadly blows again cos he didn't think the lady should say a word back to him just because his name is mcdokwe and he has a JT(which the op could've done him a favor by cutting it off already )

sweetcocoa:
For starters, age is not a prerequisite for wisdom, now let's move on.

1. It's not like am making mouth about what my kids will become, I said I'll do my part by teaching them to make better judgments like my mum taught me and it's been working for me because I chose to listen, now if my kid decides not to listen, especially when she is of age, why should I suffer for that? Why should I absorb her of responsibility when she decided to be irresponsible?

2. I disagree, the signs are always there, people are just often too blinded to see it, except the dude became who he is overnight, even in which case, she should have packed and ran instead of staying to exchange punches and invectives.

You shouldn't support him ofcourse but you shouldn't support her hitting/insulting him too and stop saying he's not supposed to hit her because she bore him a child and is a woman, he is not supposed to hit anyone, that's what you should be preaching.

Yes I'll say that again
This guy is a coward that cannot near his fellow men out there in a fight
He beat her because she's his baby mama

Also don't forget her family wasn't in support so she'll do everything in her power to stay with the beast. Now for her to brace up with all the shame and move back to same parents shows how much she has endured in mcdokwe's hands
So u're saying if ur daughter dates an abuser and he kills her, you will be happy abi because she didn't listen to you?

May whatever we support reach our hand. Amen
For me I can never wish any such treatment on my daughter no matter what because honey guess what? U can't dictate for your child who to fall in love with. It's a heart thing

The op knows he's dealing with a calm family that's why he's insulting them up and down after impregnating her outside wedlock and giving her what he described as 'deadly blows' twice in one day

mcdokwe:
I am sorry, I won't oblige you and the likes. She wasn't a misfortune. I know you expect me to say how bad her family is, but no. To guide you, it is all linked to how I felt I was treated which even though uncalled for were understandable and thus excusable, what other deduction you wish to make is at you discretion. I learnt my lessons it is upto those who are likely to make our same mistakes to learn or not. I offered myself as a blackboard you could all learn from. I tried making things up between her dad and herself for my gross irresponsibility but failed, the tables have turned and I am willing to take the fall.

With exception to the outright insults, I still pick a word of two from people who think they are bashing me, hopefully she won't see those saying things that don't favour her as spiteful. None of you actually knew what we had and for the records, even though a single push is as bad as beating a spouse black and blue, it wasn't exactly as bad as people want to see it, whichever shouldn't have happened. For those who'd keep bashing, Kontinu, we could get back and laugh at you all or find better spouses and prove we aren't all that unsaleable.

She has won a place already and whenever I talk about her, it would be with a regretful passion not a spiteful one.

To people out there who could grab something from all this, people's wants can't be same as yours, and the greatest mistake is to judge what you have from their eyes. People who have told her she should leave me as much as I know have personally told me she should feel lucky she had me, now knowing both contradicting sentiments from same souls, I wonder what they stood to gain. I think I am done replying these posts.

I could careless about most of you especially the acclaimed wife of Azubuike.
I learn, I take blames and I work out where I need to.

Unfortunately in your rants, u forgot that u already said some of the stuff u said about her family. U even agreed u told her u used her to explore sex. I throway cap for you
Telling her dad u won't abandon ur child like he abandoned his daughter' talk about guts: you have lots of it

U rant like a woman but remember u can't beat a lady in mouth battle no matter how hard you try. So pls don't rant and expect her to be quiet. Or go beating her and come and start describing the blows u gave her

icedbeatz:
OMG now I see why the guy whooped ur azz, you're a ghetto, ignorant, insulting, manipulative, psychotic, annoying BITCCH!!!!!! GODDAMN wonder how that guy managed to be with you all these while?!?!?!!? no atom of respect and you ain't got respect for yourself.... I'm surprised damn that guy is THE BEST NIGERIAN GENTLEMAN I will testify to that. You are DAMAGED GOODS (emotionally, spiritually, intellectually and other ramifications) . IF YOU'RE LIKE THIS ONLINE THEN WONDER WHAT U R IN PERSON, you just confirmed that what THE guy was saying /typed were true.

#FkBitcches. #MyHapinessOverEveryAnyGirl

Please these are not insults dear, you should just be on your own. no SANE MAN can be with you.

I beg to differ
The man rants worse than a woman. Did u See what he said to his father in law?
Did u hear the kind of things he said to the lady?

Even opening threads up and down nl shows how much of a ranter he is
Yet the same him beat the lady in mouth battle and still had the guts to beat her mercilessly

He's lucky he jammed a nice family. That's all I can say

sweetcocoa:
wtf are you talking about? If my daughter packs her beg to go live with a man she's not married to, then whatever she gets, is her beeswax.

I will do my part by teaching her to make better judgments, you hear me? I will actually bury my head in shame if this OP is my daughter because as far as I'm concerned, I failed as a parent, I'm in my mid 20's and I've never gotten pregnant and if happen to get pregnant tomorrow, I will take full responsibility so long as I wasn't raped.

Women too were created with common sense, is it a crime to use it? You go out with a guy, get pregnant, decide to have the baby and you turn around to solely blame the guy? What kinda thinking is that one?

Lol @ cutting his JT, why do you all think it is only abuse when someone gets hit?

Sweetheart I'll give you this advise cos I see you're much younger
1. When it comes to raising kids, pls never make mouth about what they could become or what could happen to them. Not every irresponsible child has irresponsible parents
2. There's no way the guy showed all these traits in the beginning and the op went ahead to get preggy for him. You can never tell the heart of a man or woman so u can never be sure of even the person u think is good for you or for your daughter

As time goes on, you'll begin to understand these words I said to you today.
Be careful what u say cos of tomorrow

For me,even if mcdokwe is my son, I can never ever support him hitting the mother of his child especially when she already had a child for him outside wedlock. Do u know how much trauma it carries in this our society. To make matters worse,Beat her after impregnating her with no dime as bride price, even open a thread to describe the kind of blows he gave her, insult her father. Jeezzz
Don't forget the guy replied her friend's message(which is what brought up this whole drama) talk about controlling!
On a very serious note,I don't think I'll wish op's condition for my enemy

Pathetic to say the least

@sweetcocoa defending mcdokwe
I hope you'll say the same if an abuser gets his hand on your daughter tomorrow, sexing her like no man business, impregnates her outside wedlock and gives her the type of blows he himself described here, and insults your husband

Just because this another person's daughter, u're asking if she was raped.
Let's be careful. Karma never dissapoints


If this lady was abusive as u paint her, she could've silently cut his JT that night or at least before moving on. Just saying

sweetcocoa:
Okay, You are not totally without blame, I will keep saying I'm a woman and that's to lay emphasis on the fact that I understand how most women behave especially when it involves a fight.

One thing I agree with you on totally is that you can and will never be able to match the OP word for word, it's just not possible except she didn't write what I read. It's just that since you hit her and many don't understand that verbal abuse is as bad as physical abuse, you will forever remain the beast for hitting a woman.

She didn't refute all your claims, she's just trying to tell us why she did what she did which is leaving me confused because you are saying you didn't do all those things.

One thing is clear, this woman does not respect you and is very immature, how can you call the father of your child all those names in a public forum?

You on the other hand deserve some strokes of the cane for letting it linger for so long, and you sound like you did her a favor by being with her, that must have affected her self esteem and further damaged her, you two should stay away from each other for now atleast.

I beg to disagree o
This guy rants more than a woman
Don't let him sweet talk u like he did op and started mocking her and her family

The guy is worse than a beast and op is lucky he didn't kill her
Imagine his rants to his father in law, talk less of the lady in question

I smh in disgust for him

mcdokwe:
Like I always say, even though you would and continue to insult me, I'm not about to say disparaging things about you or family here.
Thank God you are here finally and would hopefully state the truth. Even though I don't remember which friend you said I harrassed, I remember I had to sacrifice my relationship with the so-called ex to be with you, I remember how you tried your best to be friends with her and moan that I leave her, she was at an advantage but loved you and came for you, thankfully she was wise and gave me all the support to be with you instead, but remains a good friend whose impact in my life can't be overstated.
The post you refer to wasn't a pity party or a plea for you to come back(I've done that, don't regret it and like I said to you, I'm proud my ego didn't stop me) it was rather an advice to people out there not to create reasons for others to hit them, I only tried using my story to pass a message.
I remember saying I said some words but never could match you in words, saying I used you to explore sex was one of them but the least I could say as sex was explorable and we both explored each other.
It has been making the rounds that I insulted your dad to his face, lol. I won't say I didn't because I talked proud when I should be ashamed I got his daughter pregnant. But for those that would discern, I got a shocking call from your so called pastor, and then your dad that I shouldn't do anything I might regret, both sounding as though I had plans to harm anyone when the only thing I asked was for you to come so I could see you and my child and go back to base, I didn't understand but having wished to get across to your dad without success, I figured that could be my chance to sort out things with him and then offered to travel to meet him so we could sort things out, but your dad said I shouldn't bother coming but should rather wait till more than a year to try again. In that fit of anger (admittedly stu.pid) I asked if he expected me to abandon my own child like he abandoned you over a year and that was the insult.

You're calling your father in law to make your so called peace and you said the bolded. Chai u really have no atom of respect. Just be careful is all I can say to you. No one has the monopoly of violence.
If you did this to a violent family, they could silence you walahi

I can see through you very easily
It's so sad you're not only physically abusive but even more verbally abusive than a woman

What a shame!!

MarvellousGod:
I'm not biased really, just feeling for the girl.. Don't you know how painful blows could be esp when given out of anger, anyway wait till a soldier lands you some blows

Asides the beating part, the guy was also verbally and emotionally abusive just like the girl... so why go extra length of testing this wrestling skills on the girl?

I still suspect you're the guy in question, you have been on this thread since morning replying every comment. .

The shameless guy was even proud of himself describing how heavy his blows were. Imagine

Let him go and fight his fellow guys na or his mom or sisters
Oh I forgot they never make him angry

Herzumpther:
Oh. His right lady will soon locate him.

Amen amen I say

bestestgirl:
the fanta still neva finish??
are you related to the widow in the bible whose oil was not finishing?

See me laughing at work when I'm not supposed to

If U make me lose my job today, I'll call mcdokwe to beat u for me

Herzumpther:
Vouch ke, my non woman beater hubby will soon locate me.

Funny enough I just vouched for him without seeing this. And no he's not abusive. He just needs the right lady that'll understand him

Cc Bros Owliver

MarvellousGod:
Oga, that guy is one hell of an abuser, he even had sex with her that same night. Who knows if he even forced the girl because no woman in her right senses will think of sex after being beaten up/disgraced in the public. .
Seems to me the girl was vulnerable while with him..

I may be right to also say that the girl started being aggressive after the ugly experience with him..

Even his words while describing how he beat up the girl, he said "she never got enough"... who knows how mercilessly she was beaten. ...

I say it again, for a baby mama to walk away in this society where single moms are seen as bad examples, the situation must have been so bad and uncontrollable. .

btw, are you mcdokwe? because the way you go about quoting people and defending the guy is so suspicious

No sweerie, oga Owliver is not mcdokwe

I may be wrong but I believe Mcdokwe= Dinachi