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Datboredberry:
I don't contribute in the politics section but I'm not here following a movement that doesn't better my life... And I on red pill threads 24/7?

When men from the poorest, most corrupt, third most insecure country...'don't like politics'... there's something really really wrong... Especially when they call themselves alphas...

Like I said, nothing wrong with the red pill ish... But there's a lot of misplaced priorities...

I said... These so-called alphas are tribalistic there meaning they are immature... With nothing worth impacting...

Datboredberry:
Not a bit...

These idiots... You would think that after the preach the red pill here... They would go to the politics section to contribute meaningfully since the government is the true source of their problems...

But they go there to be tribalistic dimwits... commenting for likes...

Nigerian men are beyond help...

But it's alright to fancy yourselves alphas... Who said we can't dream big?

Datboredberry:
By men from first world countries...

But here are Nigerian men who can't even afford decent meals...

They call themselves alphas for having enough common sense not to give their girlfriends money for transport fare...cause that's the most they can do...

If any of these men had functioning brains, they wouldn't be so obsessed with following a rule book made for men living better lives they can't ever hope to live...

The red pill should be applied to aspects of your life that needs it the most...

Nairaland men have proven themselves to be sheep...

Men from the poorest country singing red pill is comic relief...

I wonder what those white men think of you... Primitive Africans trying to seem as cool as them...

But keep on wallowing in poverty... [right][/right]

Favfables1:



Nahhhhhhh...
Neither is more important...
If the head is more... Youre heartless...
If the heart is more.... You're stupid...
There should be a balance between the head and the heart...
That balance is what makes you thoughtful...

Kriss216:

A rotten head is not important than a delicate heart.

Datboredberry:
The stupidity of Nairaland so-called redpillers is thinking women are the only ones out there who can manipulate and exploit them...

Your life doesn't start and end with romantic relationships... Women aren't the only ones you deal with...

If you're an alpha, be so in other areas of your life...

Don't be an unemployed loser claiming alpha on the internet...

Wawelexy:


having good heart doesn't makes you a fool, you can always use your head

Wawelexy:
ALPHA,
SIMP,
ALPHA simp,
SIMPLY alpha,
NON OF THE ABOVE

the koko be say, have a good heart

schoolboymatt:
no!
I am an Alpha!

Alexaonfleek:
I don't agree @ bolded
Relationships where women bring more to the table,they're still expected to be submissive to the man.The man won't tolerate the woman trying to call the shots,as you said
It's just something that has to do with the male ego.
That's one of the reasons why men feel that they have more worth than women.

Ladycewhy:
you didn't answer my question,OK let me be direct what qualities will a wife possess that will be of value to her husband to earn his respect?

Ladycewhy:
can you please highlight those responsibilities that benefit men that the modern women need to start taking so we can all learn and work towards in your words "earning the respect of men". Also you can also do well to list the qualities you feel are of value to men that will make them give a woman their respect.

Ladycewhy:
self worth doesn't seek or earn my friend we ignore and discard. Lol.

It has been proven that it is a dead end trying to earn respect from a person who already has a mental picture that you don't deserve it.

Ladycewhy:
saying nice things is actually supposed to be part of sane and well groomed humans irrespective of gender,not just men.

Under psychology being rude, hostile and emotionally manipulative is part of toxic behavior and not even a gender thing. Many men would rather roast their balls than agreed their woman have made an impact in their lives because they feel it will only bring a sense if self worth to such women.

Over and over again full blown narcissists have used this tool to the extent their victims develop Stockholm syndrome . you can dodge all you want but psychological manipulation is a very powerful tool to control human behavior which is why someone can be talked into strapped themselves with a bomb and setting it off. This form of emotional manipulation might not be to that extreme but it has great consequences never the less.

Ladycewhy:
The bolded is actually the reason for this thread tho.

So who told you people not to litter the whole front page tho? If women are not special maybe you should try bleeding through out the day lets see. That it self is a special and divine engineering by the Creator.


Its not an excuse but an explanation, if you don't see it that way, your perception,i cant help you with that.

Ladycewhy:
if you had read and understood you would have known how women were being conditioned.

Anyway let me repeat, constantly being told you have nothing to offer, you don't matter ,these are tools for psychological conditioning . Many therapists and psychologists will even call it a perfect covert emotional manipulation tactics .

Saffi:
Are you stupid?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Ok.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Your opinion.

UyaiIncomparabl:



It's not personal, and no, I don't know the bitch.

Genea:
every two months you mean.

Genea:
I don't trust Jumia jobs. Work for 2months and they begin to lay you off