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@Rapoo...Please is it through western union money transfer? Or can you guide me abt the process because I want to pay money into a dollar account. Though I'm with naira here..im at Enugu

Rapoo:
I did some international transaction just yesterday and first bank sold N199 to $1 and I even asked about €€€ and the bank representative told me dat euro is been sold at 218.45. So am very sure of wat am saying

Hmmm

Offer letter is not an issue....I resigned from my previous job and joined a new company, the letter wasn't ready wen I resumed till after about 3months when I was told is now ready for my signature and collection...fast forward to almost 9months now I haven't even had the time to travel down yet to collect...so if the job is guaranteed then the letter isn't an issue.

enstack:
I had to create a new account just to post this as it's quite sensitive. It's quite lengthy too but I'll be brief. I need mature and friendly advice from people here.



No amount of advice here will change anything until you understand the definition of marriage


When I first met my husband, it was in a library. We talked briefly and we became close. I have had past relationships in my life so I was careful as possible. I realised that he had no past relationship. He was a typical virgin and was new and I was his first girlfriend. So I felt comfortable with him. He was so kind and loving so I agreed to marry him.



Yes of course...once upon a time tins



Now it has gotten worse. Everytime he does anything I want without asking questions. At first I enjoyed it but now I'm starting to worry about him as it's getting out of hand. He does not display any act of manliness in the house. He behaves like my puppet or my foot stool. The other day he was watching the soccer game and I just jokingly mentioned how boring it was and I would prefer the faith channel. He changed the channel to the faith channel just like that. Even at work he would be calling me and texting me I am even scared he would loose his job if his employer finds out.
This is where got me angry...and i will keep saying that you are taking him for granted. You shd keep enjoying every tin your husband does so why do you suddenly start to worry..is it because your husby doesn't beat or slap you makes him not display the manliness you want? You are referring him as a foot stool and not feeling any remorse. You are wicked

I have no time for myself.. he is always around. Sometimes if I say no to his advances for sex he would act like I am a wicked woman who has cheated him or rubbed him of his right. He would give me the silent treatment for weeks until I give in. On Sunday he insisted on going with me to the salon and it's now embarrassing as every Sunday my mates in the salon would gossip about how my husband is the only man amongst women making their hairs because his wife is there. I try to talk to him but he would feel so sad like I have taken smething away. I don't understand.



You are boring and not romantic atall



If I'm studying at night, he would suddenly begin to romance me and strip me of my clothing without saying anything first when he can see I'm studying. If I rebuke him, he would be very sad. Every time he must have one intimate relation with me everyday and life does not work that way. I don't know if it's immaturity or he is sick mentally. The day I returned home 11pm due to huge traffic jam, I was expecting him to be furious like any other man.. he was with all smiles even offered me water and collected my bag and books. Christ.

I need sincere help. I told his family that I'll file a divorce if this continues as I cannot live like this. It's no longer love but idolatry. I thought it's wives that are submissive.. he is the one submissive. Anything I ask... he grants even silly things. Things that a real man would query before granting.

I am sure that if I ask him to bathe in acid he would do it. I'm sick and tired of this marriage. Just a year. The last quater he gave me his ATM to spend when I went for training in Abuja. When I was spending excessively he was quiet about it until I returned and found it he was broke that i wrecked him. I was wondering what happened to him. Why didn't he talk?

Please Nairalanders what is happening? I love him still and divorce would be my last resort. I need your advice and help on how to fix this because I don't know what to do anymore.

Thank you all.

I would av told u little abt my relationship because is similar to what you are complaining about but i want to drive my wife to saloon now...and later go pick her up.

enstack:
I had to respond to you. Perhaps you are missing the point here. I never said he is too loving or something. If i am to write all the silly things he does in the name of love you wont even be able to read it all. I just put a few.

Even neighbors around have noticed it. They have called me to order many times! His elder sister accused me of giving him a love portion. Its that bad! You call this love? Then I'm sorry i don't want such love anymore. The other day, i asked him to purchase something for me, he had no money, instead of him to talk to me about being short on funds, he went to take a loan to get it. Something that even I dont need so urgently(He is still owing his partner for it)

So sir, read again and understand! Dont be to hasty in talking or commenting. Call me a girl, Its no big deal. After all, this same Man threatened to stand in the middle of the road if i dont accompany him on his field trip. This type of a man can commit suicide if i dont give him what he wants at a given time.

You are taking your husby for granted...if you dont see anything good in your relationship, do you now expect others to see anything good? Try and manage your home and ignore outsiders. Even his family won't have a say if you manage the situation well..enjoy everything he does and try to see something good in it.

enstack:
Seriously? I am selfish and Wicked? Everywhere i go, he wants to be there! He wanted to accompany me to a women convention(Women Only)! Amongst almost 200 Women very few men were there because its a thing for women not for couples. He threatened to Hang Himself.

So I am selfish because I dont want my husband turning me to his boss and he is my P.A? Sometimes he would hold my purse or handbag and sometimes people would begin to ask "Is he your husband or your driver?"

I hardly make comment on relationship issues until i hear from both parties....but be it as it may! All your statement from beginning are contradictory. You seems to be confused and allowing what people think or say to distract you in your marriage.

1. From ur quote above you said few men were there so what's the big deal if your husby is among the few....you also say he likes carrying ur handbag sometimes again i ask you what is the big deal there since he doesn't do that at all time..i must be frank with you..i also do this tins for my wife sometimes and she enjoys it, she sees it as a support.? You are seeing yours as a problem? Even in church if they call for women to come forward for thanksgiving or whatever you will always see some men like me coming behind them..all these are symbol of support and celebration

Let me remind you that nothing last forever...your marriage is still new that is why tins looks rosy but you are seeing it the opposite simply because of what people are thinking or saying. Many time my wife drives me around town anywhere we go even church and i heard people talking all kind of tins and when they knew there gossips doesn't change anything, infact that made me even allow my wife drive so that they can die if they wish.

You should appreciate ur husby because he wont be doing all this forever..A time will come he will get tired and start doing the opposite.

[quote author=doghorp post=40418996]call and then e mail after d

@ doghorp ..Do you know the number they use....i saw this number as a missed call this morning 54-717-67389

Good day...pls check this VIN 5TDYK3EH4BS027263.

Thanks

Xiadnat:
nmadu1: re excess saliva: it can be due to some medical conditions, certain foods. If it is to bothersome, do get it checked out, most especially your salivary glands to see if enlarged. Then get general check up and lab work ups.


Royal30: The numbers are normal compared to the normal ranges given. It is hard to say if ovulation has occurred from numbers. At what point in the ovulatory cycle did you obtain the test?

dazzle86: I think you are wanting to know if cyst can affect pregnancy? it is unlikely that the cyclic ovarian cysts would block your tubes to impede pregnancy. What is size of cysts and is it causing you pain or abnormal menstruation? Ovulation is simply when egg is released from ovary into the tubes.

yemixxxxxx: it is best to inquire about this from someone who works locally in your state, in Nigeria as I do not currently reside or work in Nigeria. I believe that you are likely have hormonal dysfunction. What do you mean by detox? If it is just hormonal profile that you are going for, there is no need for anything special like fasting etc.

dotcomnamename: it sounds like a lumbosacral pain, possibly could be herniated disc impinging on nerve especially if there is shooting pain and tingling/numbness in your lower regions. Treatment is simply moderate physical therapy exercises and pain control. Also: good posture. Take short rest, can use massage to relax it, cold/heat pack when actively painful. Also try: short term muscle relaxants--will need prescription from your doctor

Good luck
Good luck

The test was done on Day 23.....(27days monthly circle)

She did it on cd 23

RipVanWink:
@royal 30, is it cd3 or cd 21 result?....from ur question am guessing its cd 21, but the result looks like cd 3!.
progesterone of 30 n above on cd 21 is a sure sign that ovulation occured

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mikesword:
I applied for a Deck Hand and my email was acknowledged by bwoffshore, although my frnd jst started workin wit them abt 2 months now, and d info he gave to me was dat they wil start inviting for interview bfor d last week of Nov 2015. He works 2 weeks on and 2 weeks off. He works wit one of their Vessels.

Please i sent you a Pm....can you reply? Thanks

ProcessXpert:
check it out.

What is the name of this FPSO. The details you attached isnt complete..what about the propulsion details.?

Hello...please how much will it cost to change my phone screen on samsung galaxy S4.

Good day....please how much will it cost me to change my phone screen on samsung galaxy S4..

chiboy11:
Whaoo ure so luck Ooo

Yap....all the land there are very swampy and expensive to build though i have completed mine up to 95% with electricity

saintjoel:
ALL I NEED ARE YOUR NAMES,ADDRESS AND VIN....


WE CAN EVEN START PROCESSING THE DUTY PAPERS IN NIGERIA BEFORE IT BERTHES IN COTONOU.

Ok will get the VIN later.....what is your company office address in lagos?

saintjoel:
NIGERIAN CUSTOM DUTY - N550,000

BENIN DUTY - 510,000 CEFA (N191,200 @ N378 - 1,000 CEFA)****** SUBJECT TO FLUCTUATIONS IN EXCHANGE RATE*****

DELIVERY CHARGES WILL DEPEND ON LOCATION,KINDLY REVERT.

THANKS.

OK.....Will keep you posted once arrangement is completed and its about to be shipped from USA to Contonou
Kindly let me know what informations you will be needing in order to fast track all the relevant documents processing while its underway and how long it takes...

saintjoel:
Goodmorning nairalanders,

We wish to inform you that your favorite agency is back online,bigger and stronger.

The proposed 75% increament by the FG has been postponed,so we are still operating with the 35% increment but our esteemed customers and prospective customers should please note that even with the increment,we'll still bring your cars into Nigeria with no hassles. The only difference is that many under age cars will now pay 91,000 as bank charges as against the 65,000 and 71,000 been paid before.

In order to make things easy for our dear customers,we've decided to reopen our idiroko office,which means that we'll be switching borders in order to get good deals for you and the reasons will be illustrated below.

Some charges are been waived at the idiroko border,charges like the 5,000 naira parks fees has been reduced to 2,400 naira,several other reasons makes the idiroko end of the border cheaper for some cars coming out from cotonou.

Our customers are also informed that custom duty papers from seme and idiroko borders still carry the custom reference number which they can use to verify the authenticity of the papers from any customs command before their vehicles leave the border.

If you've vehicles coming in through cotonou ports,please be informed that custom charges inside cotonou remains the same for every vehicle been shipped in regardless of manufacture year but the bill of lading must be submitted a week earlier and also note that demurage for vehicles is still six months which shipping of vehicles through cotonou port cheaper and safer than lagos ports.

Once we have documents from idiroko border, we'll post online.

For more information,kindly contact gbenga through the following links-

BBM - 79D28AE1 and 22B2B2C9

Mobile - 08062948193 and 08178489280

Mail - jelad.ventures@yahoo.co.uk

Whatsapp - 08062948193

Viber - 08062948193

Wechat I.D - akogun79

Do you also clear cars coming through cotonou port from USA with cotonou customs? Or you deal only with Nigeria customs alone.
I want to import 2011 toyota highlander through contonou port.....how much is the clearing for the car to arrives my doorstep in the East...

chiboy11:
Yes after white sand,u go deep deep inside more, am regreting buying that land cuse I was told to add 500 to buy d ones outside but I refuse,I taut its goin to open up quick

Wow....thats serious...i bought mine 4years ago abt 700k and the area now sells for about 4million...there is light in the area but the street roads not fully developed yet.

chiboy11:
I bought mine 2009, Stil suprise up til now dat 10 acre area haz not develop

Which side is this 10acre...is it the new developing area just after Ade Ojo street? Or you are talking about white sand area?

What is your showroom address in lagos. .I want to come and make choices

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skup008:
the enqiry I made from a reliable relative who is into the biz...
1. Currently,clearing the car in cotonu is around 450,000CFA which is equivalent to about 180,000naira.

2. bringing it in through the proper channel and custom duty would cost like 250k.

I can get you connected to this man. He's reliable and have been in the business for long.

Hope this answer your questions?

Please how much will it cost me to clear 2011 Toyota highlander from cotonou to Nigeria with genuine Nigeria and cotonou costum papers.

segzy14:
Taiwo/07052048417

Thanks

segzy14:
Painting

Nice job..please is this satin paint? Or what type is this?

Can I have the painter number?

how much for toyota highlander 2011 full option

good day, how much for Toyota highlander 2011 and what is the milage

Are the parents available for sighting?

which kennel did u buy your dog?

Eveezy:
thank u oooo, I just tried ma best and damn am impressed so api i got him, no regrets at all