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dickt:
One thing is certain: you are too ashamed that that your secrets have been made public

I have been going through my mom's phone for a while now and things I see on it are too bad. She has been having sexchats with 3 different men, I am most certain she has met and had sex with one of them.

Background to the story....

My dad has never been the very responsible type, a chronic womanizer and he was always hurting her because she loved him to the extreme. There had been cases where she was even arrested by the police from one of his side chicks who he sponsored through school till she graduated, also a time he brought another one home who engaged in fight with my mom and nothing was done by my dad. There are so many cases like that whom i may not be able to say much on to avoid long story.

As I write this now, he has been out of the house for the past one month living with a girl of about 24. I called him severally to know his motive and he said he can't just explain it but mom has not wrong him in a way because she is a good wife who knows how to take care of her man.

My mom is very beautiful and looks younger than a woman in her fifties so it is not unexpected that other men would hit on her.

I took time to imagine walking in her shoes and I understand she is really hurt, she has asked to leave his house several, I've been the one calming her down and advising her not to leave at her age. She is independent and has a good job, and according to her there is no sexual relationship between them again.

Now I know she is flirting with these men due to loneliness and several heartbreak but then, it is disgusting to me that my mom is involved in that even to the point of sending nudes, I saw all these and I am just confused on how to handle this matter.

Should I confront her or just keep mute

extremelygolden:
Sorry about your experience.

That's why I love Lagos State, irrespective of how crazy it might appear sometimes. See ehen, everyone in the neighbourhood might be forming and all, but let there arise any form of emergency. Even that neighbour you have never greeted before in the street will rush in to help assuage the situation, not to mention your immediate compound neighbours!

And if for any reason(s) your immediate neighbours ignored you at that time and didn't come to your aid, if the news filters out within the neighbourhood, the culprits would have earned themselves multiple enemies within the community. Even some street neighbours will tell them to their face that they're heartless and wicked.

Lagos State wey person wey you no know, no relate to in any way, will take over your fight. They'll push you aside, face your opponent and tell them to fight them if dem born dem well. And before you know it, you'll have many supporters running in from different angles willing to fight on your behalf. Not to talk of your neighbours, nitori Olohun! Are they not witches and wizards like this?

Neighbours here that after helping you, might still bone and pretend they haven't ever met you before. But they MUST surely come to your aid in that situation first before any other thing.

You entered a restaurant and you saw your partner on a date, would you confront or pass?

noble2faith:
U wicked ooo. Y now?🙄

Freshtruth:
Make una pray for me na Middesbrough remain for my ticket make I win 5million I carry am starght win
Cardiff dey do am for me
Atlehico dey do am for me
Na Middlesbrough' remain cashout no show at all village people make una still pity me na I follow una sign poverty contract?