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Sad but true, even if it is real Love:

In the end everybody will loose, what a pity!!!

romeo link=topic=102062.msg1849869#msg1849869 date=1200311050

Why should anybody make fun of another because of[b:
grammatical erros? [/b]Nonsense!!

Hi Romeo, I like Eros, espsecially the grammatical one!!!

Read this:
http://www.iht.com/articles/2000/06/24/edguest.2.t.php

Sorry, no nonsense or lack of knowledge.
About 80% of Naija-girls that come to Europe
get involved into prostitution!!!

When they come back home they are big girls,
but I always wonder if people[b] dont want to know[/b]
how they were making the money, [i]or if they just dont mind[/i]

Is there anybody in Nigeria speaking proper English

As I am living in Germany I got the impression nobody in Nigeria nows that also abroad u have to work hard to earn your [size=18pt]money[/size].

It is not provided by the state, I dont print it in my cellar and dont grow it on the trees in my garden!!!

Sometimes I think this stupidity is cos people watch way toooooooooo much films where everybody is living in big mansions with pool
and drives around on Benzes and Beemers. After some time they take this for everybodies reality and dont want to understand
that live also can be very difficult and hard here!

Secondly, by sending toooooo much money home, everybody will stop working, starting to depend on the "havebeen", meaning we ourselves
condition them as beggars.

Start sending just little money, not to much and they again will start their own business, cos Nigerians are very good at this,
as long as u dont make them feel they can afford to be lazy.

desgiezd:
Give her a large and engraved picture of Patricia Etteh. LOL!

NEVER, cos afterwards she will want me to renovate her house for $ 5 million and buy her 12 cars, like Mrs. Etteh did with the peoples money http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/6981561.stm

If u look at it like this, there is no reason to celebrate at all, when a country is ruled by such a corrupt regime

Paulash:
If she de Germany with you,take am out to a Nigerian restaurant or that kind thing

Thx for all that hints guys, so I just will call her and wait with present for x-mas.

We definitely will not go for restaurant cos her hot pepper soup is the best in the world,
believe me!!!

[size=18pt]Hi folks,
as I live in Germany I don't know what the tradition is
about giving a present to your Naija girl on october first?

Pls need advice [/size]

Even if u repeat it two times its not going to be christian.

Are u a Buddhist?

McDoe:
Reincarnation excluded?

According to christian faith: Yes, definitely excluded!
(Aint it better to be with God forever than to be born again and again?)

I dont want to live anf die again and again but to get out of this vicious circle by the grace of god!

This is what we call resurrection, contrary to rebirth, what do u think?

Look at this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgcZAE1ULYI&mode=related&search=

Grin Grin

Look at this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgcZAE1ULYI&mode=related&search=

Thx a lot for all your answers that are mainly spinning about the idea what a boy has to pay for his girl etc.

As omoge said I am not a baby, I can open my mouth, but letz me give u another example about this girl:

When we are on the phone its alway me to say something like !I miss u", "I like u", stuff like that and she

will only answer "Me too".

When asking her why she cannot say her feelings towars me she just says its the man who have to say it.

Likewise calling first.

Its really like that?

What u think about it now

OK, maybe all of u are allrite, but tell me one thing:

WHY DOES EVERYTHING IN NIGERIA -EVEN RELATIONSHIP - END UP IN THE QUESTION FOR MONEY

By the way: I did not write this, but I even pay for her telephone bill!!!

P.S. I started a new thread concerning this question.
U find it here: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-75809.0.html#msg1446373

, this was old Beatles song.

I am not talking about prostitution where money only can buy sex.

But in Nigeria I always have the impression everybody, especially the girls, just go for your money.

Sometimes to the extend they don't choose the guy they love and that loves them,
but just the one to pay them best.

And I am not only talking about poor people that have nothing!
I am just wondering how some people (girls) can be so deliberating and materialistic,
even putting money abouve their own feelings,or is money the greatest feeling u can get?

Is this love or selling yourself for money?

Btw. the full text of the song is here:

I'll buy you a diamond ring my friend if it makes you feel alright
I'll get you anything my friend if it makes you feel alright
'Cause I don't care too much for money, money can't buy me love

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you love me too
I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you
I don't care too much for money, money can't buy me love

Can't buy me love, everybody tells me so
Can't buy me love, no no no, no

Say you don't need no diamond ring and I'll be satisfied
Tell me that you want the kind of thing that money just can't buy
I don't care too much for money, money can't buy me love

I know one nice girl from Nigeria, but always I have to call her cos she never calls me.

She says in her tradition its up to the man to call.

Is that true or is she just playing games on me

In the joke section
Very funny indeed!!!

ikamefa:
with a touch of french vanilla?
Nicon Abuja is a no go area for me oh
" " "

What a pity U prefer the Sheraton

Seems like I will have my black coffee with lots of french vanilla without u

ikamefa:
ok oh! what happened to yah?

U can read it here: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=41514.msg970969#msg970969

ikamefa:
i prefer my coffee black and strong!

Me too !!!

ikamefa:
haaaaaaaaa u fit come to isialangwa?. " "

Don't think so, is it not that place they chop people?
U can see me at the Nicon in Abuja if u like