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Thanks, I just learned from a friend that it is not yet relased (2day!). But I am beyond interested in this phone!

@ lynxnoon

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I use 9300i and a tiny nokia phone which I bought after they stole my other 3250. But though I have 9300i, I want to buy the new E90, N81 and now fully captured by N96!

Who knows tomorrow what Nokia will release? maybe a fully touch screen Nseries with 40GB Inbuilt Memory and also with an external jack to plug to AV on Television including a remote control to operate it! - Thats just my imagination!

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@ texazzpete

WOW! I never knew about the 32GB MMC , I will call that a Hard Drive - So, it means if you combine the 32GB MMC with a Nokia N96 you get 48GB Space

I will load that phone with all my musical on my PC including those I am even tired of, as well as get more from the nearest CD Center in Sokoto.

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Great tobs!

The phone comes with inbuilt 16GB space and has a memory card slot. If you buy additional 8GB Memory Card, you the get 24GB space in your phone! - This is unbelievable!

I really can't wait to hold this phone.

This phone is really beyond imagination! Nokia is really trying.

I was so shocked to find the new Nokia N96 with 16GB Built in Memory!
yet + MicroSD Slot! Beyond the massive 8GB.

Unlimited Phone book Entries/Fields

5 Mega pixel Camera + GPS Receiver + WIFI and 3G

Well every other thing the Nseries have.

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Thanks to all, though I am having bad moods here. I just keep feeling bad! - But don't bother, I know I will be fine. Its very painful from the inside, I do feel burning in my heart when I think of her  . That I still can't get off me, the thinking!

Like I've said, I know I will be fine,   

The good thing is that I aint the only one suffering this case! - Her Sister told me she didnt sleep that night, that her mother even wanted to talk to me untill she changed her mind.

Her Sister told me she was lonely in her room crying the whole night! - I was a little awake too, till around 3am before I could close my eyes and sleep.   

Its all OVER! - I will never love anyone again, I am done with the verb LOVE. I take it to be a NOUN!
First and Final Experience by God grace, I pray I never have someone disturb my life again. I hate Love. 

Thanks once again to all posters.

@ real_demi - I live at Runjin Sambo Area, Just behind Mukhtari Shagari House (D. Gov.)
Hows Lagos? I always want to visit that State, I've never been to Lagos.

Thanks real_demi, and thanks all responders too.  

I've got good new to tell, finally I am over this relationship last night. I asked her to choose one "me-or-him" and I guess she chose him and then I told her this relationship is over.

Actually I asked her if she was in my shoe would she live the pain she've been putting me through? She said NO! I said, why then am I taking the wrong judgement? - I asked if she wants me to leave, she said NO then I said should I then Stay? Her answer was I don't know, do what you want.

I then said, signs are enough for the wise. I shouldn't depress you until you disgrace me in public, I take my leave and may you find happiness in your relationship. I told her I will not be coming back again!

Right now, I don't know what she's into. But for me, I am trying to carry on with life.

Hakuna Matata - That what I remember since when I was kid watching Lion King!

I believe my journey has just begun the circle of life.

Guys,

Thanks for all the asistance, but considering my above post. I just wanted a smart way to forget LOVE or an easy way to get her back! - Though I am much good these days, minding my own business.

I am very grateful to all your asistance. God Bless All!

WOW! - Diversify.

Well to me, there is time for diversification; thats when the present is strong enough to have partner. The good thing is that, if you have other businesses to run which are fully out of your present industry, you have every chance of max. success.

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Thats just my own view, not a law.

Thanks alot aniffy4eva, you remind me of been  MR. NICE GUY - You really got my feelings! I wish I could have one-on-one talk about my case with you.

aniffy4eva:
A computer geek, (reduces his chances of being a show-stopper ), except he develops a program and hits it big like Microsoft. , then all the chicks will be around`you because of your money,
Sloppy

You caught one of my role models, Bill Gates; I also have Henry Ford and Warren Buffet!

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Well,

The main problem no one yet looks over is that she loves me and I love her too; I don't know if I only see it that way! Maybe I am blind like they say love is blind.

Its just too bad I TRULY love her and I can't even simply quit the relationship; still waiting for a reason to do that.

My main problem is that I don't live in a Socially Live Community, I live in Sokoto where everyone minds his business! No Games, No Clubs, No Amusement Parks, No beaches, No Cinemas, and I have No much Friends. So precisely, NO FUN! I could only go and see this girl to talk, laugh and go shopping or simply walk.

If I have any other thing to do, thats my Computer! What Else? Sometimes Listen to Some JAZZ (Kenny G) and BLUES (Phill Collins) or Read Novels; Robert Kiyosaki, Stephen R. Covey and other authors.

Thats just a summary of my life! Thankgod, School keeps me busy when its open.

Someone please Annalise my case and give me a solution, I am really done with this case. I want to quit, but how?

Thanks Big BIg BIG Sister (steaming),  I appreciate your view

Thanks alot to kingsikaz and the entire reponse writers.

I was ill for the past 3 days, thats why I could'nt get to reply your posts.
though, I am a bit OK for now. It was just the normal sickness of Sokoto, Malaria Fever.

Outrageous  News:

Just yesterday, this girl came to check on me because she knew I was not good. She was with me for while and we talked jokes and little of our relationship, I just told her that I have given up on her and she could run her life the way she wants with whom she wants.

! She said; No I should'nt talk like that because if its that guy she isn't with him any more, that she truely loves me and I shouldnt worry my self!

I was idle and I told her, no I wund believe her besides I can't struggle any more because of the guy. Like i've said she should just go on with life,

I left the room to get a drink, when I came in she was holding my picture, steering at it with no blinks! I said "hmm, what are you doing?" She replied "Nothing, just that I like the picture." I said no she had enough of my pictures with her, I can't give her this one now.

*Shorten

She appologized to me about the odd times and that things would be good, i just said its OK because I don't want her to start pimping out tears in my house as she normally does when she is sad.

Today, she called me and the Hello my love is not over yet. I reply her too with love compliments, though I really want to quit and I don't want it. But I am afraid if I take it the hardway, I'll hurt her maybe and that I would want to experience.

Maybe with time we'll be over it, because I don't want her any more. If you guys got any more suggestions on how to haddle things now, i'll appreciate it alot.

Thanks to all.

I am a bit Ok trying just to be me 

I've even begun planning for school resumption, my second year in the University. Did I say that before? Anyway, I study B.Sc Physics at Usmanu Danfodiyo University Sokoto.

Well, I don't think I need any more relationship now! Dont you think so? I could be more strong been just my self and having other things to keep me busy,  .

Even though I am not dropping her entirely, I'll just keep her out of my mind and make her a usual friend and dont show her any thing of that nature. I'll just let her do her life! - Thanks my thinking and I think I'll be ok with that.

He he he, even though I am trying to keep a young girl for me. She's in JSS2! - A beautiful young girl that could fit me when I am more ready to be a Married man, So I better think off now and plan life.

Thanks to all once again.

Guy at OVENET I'll get to you tomorrow! - I want to meet more people, thanks the third 

Thanks kobe

I thought so too, I just to to have fun and enjoy the luxuries of life. Play Games, Hang with Friends, Meet new people and just make life worth living.

But, How do I do about the girl. If we meet, what should I do? How about her family, should I just abandon them? Should I also collect some of my things in her possession?

I am not saying gifts! - I have some of my books with her, I borrowed her!

How about her pictures with me? I've a wall framed photo of her, how do I do with it? Pictures of my Birthday Party we took together makes me miss her. She even Organized the party for me at that time, sponsored everything!

Thanks to all, I appreciate your concern and help!

OK, Everyone suggests I quite? I will, but!

Someone write to me how to quit, what should I do? Remember, she's back to Normal and she even said she'll be coming over to my house to greet my Mom this week. I also have a good relation with her Sisters and her Family in whole including her mother!

How do I get things over?

I agree this is the perfect time, the most precious time to make life green and better in the future. Everything I do has a huge effect to my future at this age! That's why I want to do things that will make me a better man in the future.

I am really going to miss her, my only girl. - It's OVER! because I have to QUIT in fact, I now WANT TO QUIT

Thanks once gain to the whole forum.

Thanks to all, let me answer some few questions,

1. About Studies,

I am not such an unserious person to drop my studies, right now I am going to UG2 this February, we'll resume on Monday 4th been my Second Year in the University. I study B.Sc Physics at Usmanu Danfodiyo University Sokoto!

So, tkb417, I guess, I've passed your expectation.

2. She could repeat it, I know

I take to be beyond just repeating, because she still keeps this guy. Its just that she doesn't want us to talk about him, even if I start it she'll only tell me stop! I don't want!

I don't know how long will it take for her to just leave him for god sake! - A friend of mine said I should let her do what she wants, treat her good, buy gifts and just show her I still care, With time, she'll get to know what she did was wrong and things will end good


Thanks to dewaledeyi and mecussey, also to atiku07 and the rest of the posters.

-- -- -- -- --

Someone answer this for me please, I have never loved before, now I don't find it good. How do I quit? Do I just stop going to her house, stop calling her and ignore her when ever we meet even on the road?

Another,

Should I try as my friend and her sister told me? Should I try to give her time, make her good, buy things for her and just show her much of how much she mean to me by doing just what she wants?

Girls, what do you think? I need assistance please.

I want solution on how to make things better, thanks once again to all.

@ xgbovo

Exactly what I thought too, this guy has a car I don't have one  . My DAD wunt let me have one though my MOM seeked for me, but he said NO!

This guy is her TAXI, he takes her everywhere she needs to go to on Occassions and also picks her up. I can only pay for a bike for her!
but why?

@joshjosh

Miserable life! How could you talk like that, I dont do that. Your question! How I get to love her that much? Because she proved to me she loves me earlier, she would sit and cry and if I ask why she'll say she just doesnt want to loose me. She loves me! Even her sister said sometimes she does that, she's too hearty.

I begun to love her more and more, to a family extent. I dont have any relationship with any girl except her, if I need someone to just talk and have fun its just her. No one else, no one.

Wanna know my age? well, I am 18! that was just the last November I got to that.

Guys, She's acting normal now. Its Like she wants me now!

This morning, I was with her. She said she could't take any brakefast because she doesnt have the appatite for tea! So, I rushed to the nearby Oasis Bakery and grab for her some Pizza and Drinks.

We took it together in their house and she was pretty fine and funny as she lost a 50 Naira note and she was dancing the whole house for her note. We were laughing with her Sisters . - The family is quite OK!

What do you think guys, she doesnt want me to talk about this guy or act sad. She just want me to be good!

Should I go ahead to quitting or should I wait and see what turns out? Another thing, I dont know how to quit a relationship. Someone tell what to do incase I have to.

Thanks chistiana, - thats what I would like to hear

So, I like I said I will see her.

Well, I have and she was just silent to me. I run the conversation, so I talked to her about our early times. How we use to be happy, make fun and laugh. The way she doesn't want me to go when I visit her, she use to tell me she love's seen me!

I reminded her of all the Glo Voice Messages she demanded I send her just because she want to hear my voice,

I talked of times she want me to carry her behind my back, lift her up and all the run plays and dances we had. - She was silent though. But I continued to remind her how she stay up late just to talk with me over the night when I will tell her she needs to sleep because she needs to attend school the next day but she refuses saying she need to talk with me the whole night.

After that,

I said to her "just look at us now, both sad! No more fun" all because of a guy who popped just to ruin our well being. I told her how sad it was for me to sit down and just begin crying of pain. (Still silent she was!)

I asked her if she wants life as it is now or the way we use to be earlier, I asked twice before she said, she wants us happy!

I then said OK, then do something to make it because I am already low. I can't make any effect,

She then said we should go out to the shade and sit, she brought out a mat and we sat. She then gave me a mint, I collected and took it though I wanted not to.

She said, do I feel like eating? I said no, then she said I C. You must have eaten I guess, Suddenly she begun to be normal and said she doesn't want us to talk about been sad again and said things will OK!

I have no option that to say thank you. I then said I will see her tonight, She said she really love me, she even gave me a hug. I was a bit OK then

What do you guys think? Can someone write full perception please,

I will see her later - Hoping to see changes,

Thanks,

I said I will see her this morning, so you guys are keeping me off (its already time). I dont feel good about it -- I know she loves me, its reached family case you know. Her sister told me to be patient and give her time! - I am in the dark,

If I need solution, I want to know how to keep her and change her to be good.
give me a solution on how to make her leave him and be with me.

I cant afford loosing this girl, I never loved before and now I am madly in it, I wish I never loved.

Love is painful.

Thanks,   

The thing is that I am addicted to her, I love her with all my heart. I never loved someone before, I give her total submission and trust! I always endup going to see her everyday! - Now its hard for me to just leave her one time.

Like I've said, I took 5days with no calls, no visits, no even text messages. Those days where tough for me, I spend the whole day thinking of her. I can't even eat and enjoy my meal, everythings seams misserable to me. I only sit down and cry out my tears of pain!

Tears I've shed could fill a bucket,   -- She rule my life, I dont know what to do!

Just now I called her, she rejected my calls over and over before she pickedup finally and said "I thought you said you will never forgive me!". I was poissoned to say I am sorry while she was to say that to me. Yet she said she wants to talk with a friend and sleep, we shall talk tomorrow!

Now I don't know what to do,  I just have to wait tomorow,  I only told her over the phone, she should forget I said those words and I don't care whether she's keeping him or not "I LOVE YOU" was my statement,  I can't believe its me like this. I am blind!

Over the phone, she even wanted to quit the relationship as I heard her say its over.  But I just said I am sorry, things will be good.

Help!!! 

I don’t really know what’s wrong with my relationship, I need your assistance.

To brief what is actually going on, my girl showed me true love until I trusted her 100% and then I realise she sometimes lie to me. I found out that she was keeping another guy outside there that she doesn’t want me to know.

I begun to sense it because I see him come see her some days, but I was just suspecting that they have something running! So, I decided to clear my doubts and ask her if she is actually keeping another man outside. She said no, he's just a friend! -- I accepted it like that!

With time, I saw his text in her phone, he wrote “my love” in the text  . I asked her why he has to write all this crazy text messages to her. He is in love with her but she rejects him was her reply. 

So, I said she better do that because I don’t like games (because she's the one I wish to Marry Her).

After some weeks, I couldn’t satisfy my curiosity so I was checking her phone again.

I saw a text she sent him, she was writing please come to my house I want to see you, I need you. -- I showed her the text and asked why? She was idle and silent! – After a while  she said, it was because he's been asking her out for long while she rejects and she's afraid he could be so bad to attend to "Babalawo!" thats why she's showing him like she love him, but she doest it.

She was shedding tears  , tell me that its me she wants. She doesn’t keep any one else!

I then said why? "Why my love?" was my statement,  I then said it's OK, if she doest want him she shouldn’t play him. I asked if she wants something from him, she said no,  So, we talked and talked,  I give up it because I had no option.

Since then, she kept me confused by making things so complicated for me to understand. But I had to escape that from my mind because I really love her!

Just two days after that, a neighbour of mine told me he saw my girl at a party inside someone's car kissing! (I don’t know whether its the same guy) My neighbour had some witnesses, so I can’t deny it. Besides, he's someone I trust and believe will not tell me lies,    -- That night, the earth could not carry me!

(To cut things short)*

So, I approached her and with few little conversations that shows its true. She confessed and said she just give the guy a peck and it was not the same guy, this one was her friend. I know its not just a peck because that was not what I was told, but because I love her  I had to forgive her and warn her that things like this shouldn’t happen again.

All that while, my life suddenly changes. I can't enjoy anything,  Not even my friends could keep me happy,  I can’t watch TV and be happy; I can’t spend few hours with my family to have fun!

I only want to go and see her day after day yet I feel more and more sad, because I always think and think.

Suddenly one day he called her while I was sitting with her their house, I didn’t know he was the one. So, after a while she began to pretend her stomach is aching and she needs to enter the house and take a rest. I had to pardon her even though I wanted to talk more with her,

I went home and suddenly I realised I left my keys in her house. I called her number to ask her to check my keys. Suddenly, her sister picked and said my girl wasn’t there in the house. I was shocked  because the time was after 10pm! - So I rushed to her house and WOW its true she's out! - I picked my keys and was on my way out of their house and there she was with the guy in his car behind their house!

Men this is though for me to take,  I waited till the next day before I talked to her about it. She wanted to deny it, but I told her I saw her my self and I even describe what I saw. She said yes she was with him, but she didnt stay long. Besides they aren’t talking about anything.

{Hmm,  How do you expect me to believe that?}

So, I asked her again if she loves him or not. This time around she said she online like him and that’s all.  Its me she loves! (can you believe that)

(HOT in me!) - I was sweating,  Now you like him,  IC, I demand she leave him right a way! - She said NO, she can't just send him away for nothing. I said ok, I am now nothing! She said no, its just that she can't do it.

I demand she choose me or him.

I left her for 5days; no call no text no visit. - She did the same thing, she ignored me to.

I had to go and see her after, I asked why she didn’t even respond to me. She said she wanted to see if I really love her, she knows I will comeback. I was OH that’s it, ok do as you wish. But I love you, nothing can change that. 

Today, I am from her house and she doesn’t want me to talk about our early happy times. She said she feels bad, and she needs to go in. I was like WOW, you don’t want to remember our good times? She said she just want to enter inside.

I said I am not going no where,  I will stay.

I couldn’t believe it,  She then walked away from me.

I called her sister and complained; we talked and talked with her sister. I then have to go home; suddenly I saw the guy’s car packed outside. My girl was with him! -- I waited until they are over, that was around past 11pm.

I called her and said thank you for showing me you are really with him,  Now I see he has more value than I do, she said it’s not like that,  I then asked what ist? She said I don’t know! 

I then said, may GOD punish you and I will never forgive you,  I walked home.

Please I need assistance and suggestions, should I quit this relationship or not? I really love her. Please help!