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FamilyRe: Tired Of My Child’s Dad by Ruke1989: 1:43pm On Aug 13, 2023
fyzaila:
Don't worry about that, you will find someone trust me. Put yourself, get fit and embrace yourself. They're lots of responsible men out there who will accept you wholeheartedly.
she is not in Nigeria where you find lots of simps. She lives abroad. You can't comprehend the whole situation using your Nigerian mentality. A Nigerian woman stop loving her husband once she earns more. White men are not interested in throwing their money on every woman just to access a vagina the way Nigerian men do. So you need to live outside this country before you can counsel someone out there on marriage issues. You can't comprehend the issue using Nigerian mentality
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Searching For A Lifetime Partner by Ruke1989: 12:15pm On Aug 05, 2023
Don't trap innocent blood to your bedroom or hotel room in the name of marriage and slaughter same for yahoo plus ritual
PoliticsRe: 'Davido's Video Didn't Lynch Deborah Over Blasphemy...Says Soyinka by Ruke1989: 9:57pm On Jul 25, 2023
BoldBrainz:
Wole Soyinka has found his voice.
He has been eerily quiet through all of the societal conundrum that Bola Tinubu's unpopular economic policies have spurred, despite the wailings from his own people.

Now e reach matter wey no dey important, him wan begin blow grammar. Nigerian elder statesmen and their oozing hypocrisy sha!
You are not supposed to look up to a yoruba idol. Don't you have idols in your land? Yoruba everywhere is tribalistic it doesn't matter the educational level. Just the way fulanis are religious extremist
PoliticsRe: Mass Burial: Amnesty Interntl Demands Coroner’s Inquest, Identities Of 103 by Ruke1989: 9:49pm On Jul 25, 2023
Zupay:
Don't worry, no one would have the moral standing to criticize or question those who ought to provide answers, when your corpse will be hidden for 3 years and tagged unclaimed and ends up in a mass grave... don't take it personal as I am mirroring you.
don't reply a half educated, silly, hypocrite. Yoruba has alot of them. They can't comprehend issues before they make their sentimental and self opinionated judgement void of common sense. It's a waste of time, they don't comprehend and their brain is not well formed. That deformity is responsible for their erratic, hypocritical and fanatic reactions
PoliticsRe: DSS Re-arrests Emefiele After Tussle With Prison Officials by Ruke1989: 9:28pm On Jul 25, 2023
FacilitatorLekk:
Bigot, is Buhari the CBN governor?

CBN governor is a role recognized by the constitution, the bulk on monetary and fiscal policies and direction, sit on the responsibility of emeifele. Mugu.
Typical Yoruba man with warped reasoning. They keep twisting and are rightly called hypocrites and double mouthed race. No sense of integrity and lacking straight forwardness in all aspect of life. You are exhibiting a trait typical of your tribe
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Federal Polytechnic Orogun Application by Ruke1989: 9:11pm On Jul 15, 2023
I applied too. I heard about the zoom interview done about two days back. However, they claimed it was just four prospective staff that were interviewed. That those people already have working experience and they want to bring them in via secondment route to help with the take off process. They claimed it is Abuja factor. But there is no way to confirm if the rector was lying to my source or if it is truly four people they interviewed
EducationRe: Fundraiser For French Police Who Killed Algerian Teenager Raises Over $1.5m by Ruke1989: 6:08am On Jul 14, 2023
You reason the matter. You are Muslim so you won't understand.

The young boy has past criminal records. That's what irked the policeman into firing a shot howbeit illegal.

In reaction, Arab Muslims raped several white ladies, burnt over 700 white houses, maimed the whites in a racial attack.

Do you expect the white not to show solidarity with a fellow white when you as a Muslim (Arab) show solidarity with a fellow Muslim(Arab) through your criminal conducts?
If you can show religious, hateful and criminal solidarity in a criminal matter, it is only fair you allow the white show love ie solidarity too to their own.

The white is still better than you because they choose to support the family of the arrested policeman (who definitely will be left without a breadwinner) in a civilized way ie financial donations rather than deport all Muslims, rape, maim or kill them in retaliation.

Muslims as savages that they are, should learn from the white civilized approach. They could have donated money to support the family of the dead Muslim rather than rape or kill whites and still expect white victims to appreciate them by donating money to a Savage Muslim. Does it make sense to you? Please, use your brain reason for once, don't always use koran to reason.

It is even a shame that these Muslim extremists could not financially support their own. This goes on to show Islamic ethics of violence takes precedence over love, critical thinking or financial donations to the bereaved.

Muslim organizations world over only give financial aid to terror organizations or in support of the spread of hateful preaching. They never give charity to sick, bereaved or poor Muslims except on for show off during festive days just to meet minimum religious obligation. No genuine love in such religion only violence. Yet, fear won't let you abadon it
PoliticsRe: Only Retired Judges Should Handle Election Petition Tribunals - Afe Babalola by Ruke1989: 5:24pm On Jul 13, 2023
9gerian:
What hype by Yorubas are you referring to?

Here are a few of the hypes:

1. they have a way of always being ahead in most human development strides and performance indicators.

2. they are usually a close second with several accolades to make up for conceding the top position as we see in every statistical analysis.


The more generally known hypes are:

3. We are the most educated tribe.
But anyone who did nysc in Ekiti, osun and Oyo knows that school children in public schools are sometimes taught in Yoruba because they cannot comprehend simple English

4. We are the most accommodating tribe.
Inspite of the violence against Igbos by yorubas in Lagos. Both 2019 and 2023 elections campaigns brought the Yoruba hatred for other southern tribes to the forefront
PoliticsRe: Only Retired Judges Should Handle Election Petition Tribunals - Afe Babalola by Ruke1989: 9:35pm On Jul 12, 2023
Solsix:
I heard his university has one of the best faculty of medicine in Nigeria. Can anybody confirm that??
Yoruba people sabi hype their own. Don't fall for it. Afe medical students are currently being trained in federal teaching hospital Ido-Ekiti just like other medical students - they train in a teaching hospital owned by federal govt.
However, he has built and equipped his own specialist hospital but his students are not trained there yet because of low patronage which can affect the quality of the training.
His hospital is one of the best based on south west standard hence the hype. Most federal govt owned teaching hospital in the south west such as OAU, FETHI, and that of Ondo State do not have MRI machine, scanners and simple equipments owned by private radiological center in Benin, Pottharcourt, Lagos and Abuja. So you see patients from UITH, OAUTH, FETHI referred to Afe hospital for CT scan, MRI, etc by the big for nothing teaching hospitals of the south west. That's why you hear Yoruba people hype afe as best in Africa. It is not true. The doctors working there on a per operation contract are thesame doctors from public hospitals in Ekiti especially FETHI. It is not foreign doctors. Indian doctors are brought in once in a while as part of a media campaign to do some medical operation. Once they are done, the doctors go back, they rarely spend up to a week, but the media would be washed by news headlines of how afe doctors cured cancer, transferred bone marrow, did brain surgery, etc. It is propaganda
Car TalkRe: Catalytic Converters: How Mechanics, Dealers, Panel Beaters Are Ripping Off Car by Ruke1989: 8:27am On Jul 10, 2023
The country is a warehouse of millions of degenerate minds and thieves
EducationRe: Deeper Life High School Students UTME Results by Ruke1989: 1:45pm On Jul 06, 2023
The deeper life high school students are from different state campuses - not from thesame state campus. In all the states where there is deeperlife high school, a total of those who wrote jamb in 2023 is about 800 students from all the state campuses. Out of the 800 students, 131 students scored above 300/400 in Jamb 2023. The overall best from 1st to 4th best are from different campuses of deeperlife high school. It is quality education. Not malpractice. My late brother worked there. The teachers really labour hard and have no time for themselves
RomanceRe: Is 5.9 Inches A Small Dick? by Ruke1989: 4:59pm On Jul 04, 2023
Yes. Small length. The girth matter alot lso
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Need Finance Writers N3/word by Ruke1989: 4:55pm On Jul 04, 2023
How much is data subscription?
$3 - $15 per word is the standard worldwide
Guys get foreign clients forget this. It's a waste of time.
PoliticsRe: State Police: Should States In Nigeria Be Allowed To Have Police Departments? by Ruke1989: 9:59pm On Jun 27, 2023
Views are not easy to generate these days. If you are doing a survey, why not just pay us a token to access our views? Nothing is free even in freetown
EducationRe: what tribe has the highest percent of literate population? by Ruke1989: 4:40pm On Jun 27, 2023
The tribes are not equal in population. Yoruba is 30 million. Urhobos are 4 million. If Yoruba has 25 million illiterates, they will still beat urhobos despite the entire 4 million urhobos being literate.
The right question should rather be, what tribe has the highest percent of literate population?
This will expose your chest beating because you will find literacy levels are higher with tribes having smaller populations when you calculate the percentages
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Ruke1989:
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CelebritiesRe: I Have Knack@d 10 Of The 30 Women Asking My First Wife To Leave Me - Portable by Ruke1989: 1:11pm On Jun 14, 2023
Nonsense. Yoruba culture of infidelity is second to none
FoodRe: Importation Of Indomie Noodles Remains Banned In Nigeria NAFDAC by Ruke1989: 5:07am On May 02, 2023
What about the locally produced indomie. It is still from thesame company indorama. Nafdac has no research and testing lab and has to rely on Taiwan and Malaysia to ban a hazardous product sold to 200 million Nigerians under it's care.

I remember same thing happened with coca cola up to 5 years back where UK immigration destroyed crates of coca cola from Nigeria saying it has higher than recommended levels of benzoic acid and sunset yellow. And that if vitamin C is taken alongside Nigeria coke, it can trigger cancer. The corrupt minister of health Isaac adewole discharged it with a wave of hand without taking drastic action against NBC or improving the standards

Nigeria is a human slaughter house enabled by both the self centered leaders and followers.
FamilyRe: If Your Wife Mistakenly Sleeps With Another Man, Pray & Fight For Her - Bukunmi by Ruke1989: 4:31pm On Apr 19, 2023
obembet:
Nonsense, which gender cheat pass? So 90% of married men have girlfriend, and yet Thier wife never kill them or send them out. If you can't tolerate it, then don't do it.
I don't support cheating. But understand that men who cheat care for the other woman's kids with their own money. They don't steal from their wife to take care of side chick. So women who cheat should not be hoping to deceive their husbands and make him waste his money raising a bastard. The cheating woman must learn to take responsibility by caring for her illegitimate child all alone without bringing that child to her husband's house and without spending his money on that child. That would make her offence triple- from adultery, paternity fraud to stealing his money to raise kids that are not his. Men don't steal from their wives to cater for children born outside wedlock. They foot the bill alone. There is a lot of difference in the two crime. Men own up to the kids born outside wedlock, they don't force their wives to accept the kids and train the kids with the wife's money. They don't threaten their wives to leave the marriage if they fail to accept such kids as the woman's own and raise the kid with the woman's money knowing she is not the mother.
RomanceRe: If You Don't Do This You Chances Of Meeting Good Women Is Slim. by Ruke1989: 11:28am On Apr 14, 2023
akinade28:
My mindset is similar to yours. Flaunting of wealth is a big turn off. Guys who do that only attract golddiggers, yet, they complain that Nigerian girls are always billing them. Why won't they bill them when money is the only thing they have to offer. It is like luring a dog with food,and expecting the dog not eat the food.
if a humble but broke okada rider with guts approaches you, you will rank him low on your preference scale to a young educated man who has money and has guts. So no woman should claim they don't go for money. You can say you are turned off by pride but not money. Money is a turn on for all of you Nigerian ladies anytime anyday because your idea of relationship is, "I need a man to take care of me". The use of the word "flaunt money" actually means money is not your turn off, but the opulence, pride and attitude of some guys who have money ie you hate pride. Some ladies too with big yansh and fair skin have nauseating behaviors and expect men to lick the nyansh. They could be very promiscuous. So, enlightened guys like me find such ladies irritating, but that doesn't mean if we see a humble, well mannered girl with big nyansh, that we will run away. It's the mannerism, promiscuity that is the turn off not the money or butt size. Some wealthy young ladies too have bad mannerism and it's a turn off for men- but there are a few others with good mannerism, only such ought to be respected and rewarded with a good husband
RomanceRe: Quick Weight Gain: What's Wrong With Some Of Our Nigerian Ladies? by Ruke1989: 8:30am On Apr 08, 2023
Prettygirl200:
those my friends now am not in thesame league with them again ooo, they are now big girls, I dey think am since but I no get the stamina for sex so there's no way I can do hookup and as far I no get the mind to go do am, it might end up bad for me. They all took drugs and became fat big ass and boob's, girls wey their breast small before. So am just alone now Watching from a distance
pregnancy and abortion is what gave some of the fats. Ladies like to intimidate fellow ladies. Don't succumb to such. You don't know how many Sexual Infections they are silently managing as a result of hookup life - they will never tell you. They only want you to see the fake wealth. Actually, if they meet the wrong guy, they can be beaten, drugged or lose their life in the process. So, forget it. Being bleeped through the nyash, vagina and drinking sperm from all sort of yahoo guys who themselves sleep with multiple girls is such a fuckery
RomanceRe: What Is The Meaning Of MAN by Ruke1989: 10:00pm On Apr 07, 2023
Nia69:
I personally think being a man is
-Being intelligent and humble.
-Hardworking
-Being in control of his emotions.
-Having self confidence.
-Taking responsibilities.

My opinion. smiley
you are describing me. Have we met before?
RomanceRe: Marriage Does Not Need Love by Ruke1989: 9:51pm On Apr 07, 2023
Divoc19:
MARRIAGE DOES NOT NEED LOVE

A successful marriage has little to do with love. Love is not the qualification for marriage.

Love is a dangerous thing.

Love can make you think you can make it.

Every divorce person was first in love with the person they divorce.
So, don't tell me love keeps you together.

Love does not guarantee success in marriage.

Love brings happiness but doesn't bring what it takes to make marriage work.

The only thing that makes marriage work, is knowledge.

You feel like you love someone, but you better get knowledge on how to live with them. And we are such a feeling culture that our insanity takes us to the alter, making commitments we know we can't keep.

Marriage is not protected by love, Marriage is protected by knowledge.
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Trust is more important than love. What you and your ideal partner need to make marriage work for both of you are:
1) practice sacrificial giving. To friends and family before marriage until it becomes your character. Too many selfish people today is the reason marriage crumbles
2) try to be empathetic. Learn to be moved to help others. Be genuine about your intention and never expect payback. Continue even if you are hurt by others who refuse to return the favor
3) try to be a dependable and trustworthy person by letting your closest pals know some of your plan and seeking and following "good" advices only. some people don't know how to be transparent or build trust. Sharing your mind, your plans, help build trust.
4) don't be a flirt for any reason. People who have multiple sex partner before marriage cannot be trusted around their exes because in most cases they will sleep with them at the slightest opportunity. Don't date people who have had too many sex partners.. do personal research on this from their friends in a coded way
5) don't love/marry a selfish person and don't be selfish yourself. Both of you must agree on how to treat or care for inlaws and agree on the limits you can go before saying yes I do. Many times sentiments around "I love my mother, father, siblings must help them even if I will hurt my partner or take from him/her" - this is what split couples
6) agree on financial plan, contribution formula and never shift ground except situation warrants eg to help a sick spouse pay bills.
Common sense is what makes marriage work not love. You must both have equal Intelligence quotient so that you don't have brawls due to poor IQ and comprehension problem from the other partner
CelebritiesRe: Actress Aunty Ramota Hospitalized After She Tried To Increase Her Curves by Ruke1989: 9:28pm On Apr 07, 2023
Divoc19:
You can imagine. Does nyash really matter when doing the do or it's just for friends validation? Somehow I like how the Muslims
cover up these things.
I personally like to stay slim and that means all my nyash are gone except I do a nyash surgery that will give me side effect later in life.

This is another reason, young girls want to add weight so that all their figure will sprout.

Na wa
it is mostly for validation. For some, I think the lust comes from yansh shaking watched in porns. But ideally, the nyash doesn't make any difference to me. As long as the vagina is firm and the dick is strong or appropriate. I would be afraid to begin a relationship with someone obsessed about her nyansh size. People who are obsessed about their own sex organs are very likely to be insatiable flirts. I prefer an intelligent person without nyansh to someone with big nyash that cannot engage me in intellectual discussion or share ideas.

Where are you based, @Divoc19?
CelebritiesRe: Actress Aunty Ramota Hospitalized After She Tried To Increase Her Curves by Ruke1989: 6:33am On Apr 07, 2023
Divoc19:
You go still wan go on escapade with nyash and boobi. Once, once cheesy
lol. Actually, I was beginning to be aware of the craze for nyansh and bobi during my 300L as I had two roommates who experimented with sex and talked about sex all the time. I was very uncomfortable with it because uptill then and even 4 years after university, I had never had a girlfriend. Nairaland was another place I began to see how men craze for nyansh. I think it's a mob effect because essentially, I was disgusted in my childhood days with the "real big nyash". When I eventually wanted a relationship the two girls I ever approached were so slim and nyashless that my female relative began to find me awkward for liking a girl like that. The relationship didn't work. But again, the point is, the girl I approached was intelligent and knowledgeable type just like me. I believe like attract like. Why should I bury myself in a big nyash when I know some of the girls like that are obsessed about their own nyash and it turns them to flirts
CelebritiesRe: Actress Aunty Ramota Hospitalized After She Tried To Increase Her Curves by Ruke1989: 9:18am On Apr 06, 2023
Divoc19:
If only our men appreciate brains and intellects all these for no dey happen.

Na so so nyash and big breast dem dey crave these days.
I appreciate brain. Chat me up if you don't have nyash but have brain
RomanceRe: Quick Weight Gain: What's Wrong With Some Of Our Nigerian Ladies? by Ruke1989: 9:08am On Apr 06, 2023
Prettygirl200:
I have friends like that, we are 5 in number m the only one still slim up till now. We seperated when I noticed they have started getting distracted by running after Money, iphones and all, they refused to carry me along bc I was against the kind of lifestyle they were about to live. They told me that being slim won't be attractive to men, since men like chubby with huge hip bodied ladies. Na so them go buy weight gain drugs, went for butt nd hip surgery, come and See them now I can't even recognize my Den friends they are all big girls now holding the latest iphones nd all, looking prettier than me bc of maintenance. Omo this life no balance.
slim is cute. I married my wife for her slim shape. Men love fat / chubby women is a fallacy. Marry a chubby woman and she turns obese after childbirth.
PoliticsRe: Gbajabiamila Tops List Of Contenders For Tinubu’s Chief Of Staff by Ruke1989: 7:39am On Mar 10, 2023
menstrualpad:
Igbo is getting nothing. The worst you can do..... You have done already. Rigging 97% for your candidate. What else? Protest and get shot pointblank range
only a fool thinks and talks this way
PoliticsRe: Gbajabiamila Tops List Of Contenders For Tinubu’s Chief Of Staff by Ruke1989: 6:52am On Mar 10, 2023
marca:
Our incoming chief of staff... You truly deserve it and may your reign be peaceful and bring us a total and unlimited achievement... Femi omo gbaja... Your such is rare
no good thing can come out of a regionalistic govt and tribalistic govt. If tinubu continue like this, he will lose the little good will. He should not try to play another buhari - bringing about tribalism heist
PoliticsRe: Gbajabiamila Tops List Of Contenders For Tinubu’s Chief Of Staff by Ruke1989: 6:48am On Mar 10, 2023
Okoroawusa:
Well, let's see how things unfold. I trust Tinubu in his ability to assemble the best brains.
Gbajabiamela has no brain. What's best brain in someone who plunged Nigeria in N47trillion debt with nothing to show for it. Your tribalism is the reason you call this egghead best brain? Yoruba generally lacks good brains these days that's why tinubu, gbaja and the likes are their best. Am sure if peter obi has won and he picked an Igbo chief of staff - you power hungry folks would tear him calling him tribalistic and regionalistic, you won't call the person best brain. That's to show how twisted, selfish, tribalistic and how much of a nuisance, the Yoruba race is to the growth of Nigeria
PoliticsRe: Gbajabiamila Tops List Of Contenders For Tinubu’s Chief Of Staff by Ruke1989: 6:41am On Mar 10, 2023
Yoruba that were disenchanted that Jonathan employed mostly igbos to key positions are here positioning fellow Yoruba for a winner take it all government of tinubu. Let me say Yoruba grouse over the years is nothing but jealousy against igbos because given thesame opportunity, they are eyeing all the powerful positions already. Same way buhari and fulanis did. This should be a lesson to any leader in the future from middle birth or south south - not to consider Igbo, Yoruba or Fulani good for key appointments but pick from their tribe and minority tribes in their region. Let the Igbo, Yoruba and Fulani power mongers go to hell

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