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NYSCRe: NYSC Batch A 2016 Stream 2 Corp Members by Ruq: 5:15pm On May 16, 2016
BlackGoldBoy:
whats so important abt camping experience. ....if u neva climb rope b4, go join man o war or woman o peace wic eva!!
Then when this one comes up, make sure you decline the offer. Same sissies like you will come out and whine about how they denied you camping even after ypu willingly accept to decline.
NYSCRe: NYSC Batch A 2016 Stream 2 Corp Members by Ruq: 4:55pm On May 16, 2016
jaybabs16:
well done, u av said it all. the question is how do we get the world to read this detailed petition?
What's the sense in all what you're applauding, so people are willing to waste the money spent on camp kits and forfeit camping. And you're all hyping that Shi claiming it has said it all. Are you yourself willing to forfeit the camping experience.
CelebritiesRe: Is This The World's Safest Baby? Surrounded By Voracious Dogs by Ruq: 7:32pm On May 15, 2016
No no no i'on play like that. You need to see these dogs destroy, you wouldn't trust them with a teddy.
CrimeRe: Enigma Laduchess: "AliBaba's Cousin Raped Me" by Ruq: 6:36pm On May 13, 2016
doveda:
YOU WILL GET WHAT IS COMING TO YOU
What is your own, why are you placing curses. Isn't it obvious that the whole story isn't clear enough. Put your sentiments aside.

Abi you were a rape victim. I can understand if that's the case.
CrimeRe: Young Househelp Battered By Her Madam In Bayelsa (photo) by Ruq: 11:43am On May 13, 2016
Watch them sly this thread but troop in like wolves when it's husband and wife battering.
FamilyRe: "I'm Afraid I'll Literally Be All Alone The Rest Of My Life" by Ruq: 11:25am On May 13, 2016
Hallack:
'forced' introvert? Do u mean influence frm frnds nd such?
You're subconsciously seeking acceptance and it's not matching. Now you won't know how much advantage it is that you don't fit in because you want to fit in. You don't want to be alone, you hate being idle, which is normal unlike an introvert who naturally appreciates being alone and wants to be alone . I'd say you're in the process of understanding self and it can be frustrating.

What was growing up like.
FamilyRe: "I'm Afraid I'll Literally Be All Alone The Rest Of My Life" by Ruq: 9:14am On May 13, 2016
It's because you're forced Introvert
FamilyRe: Roles In The 'nigerian' Family by Ruq: 8:33am On May 13, 2016
The strict roles will always hold know matter how much laws or views are held to rationalize it.

The (men) you identified in your post still have a lot of understanding and growing up to do, if you think that's how majority are, you probably might have made the internet your reality.

I don't know about others but seeing that nature has automatically decided who plays the major role of child bearing I think it's only fair the husband take up responsibility of providing.

One of the reasons why no matter how much attempt is made at switching roles the natural roles will still fight to stand.

I presume the reason why all these talks came about is when husbands felt has the provider they were automatically the 'superior' and downplayed the role of catering by the wives or where wives felt catering for the home is boring and downplaying her providing ability and some because of sentiments just feel nature has cheated them in some way. Any right thinking human knows better than to make realities like this a supremacy battle or tag a role irrelevant. Any man who thinks the role of the wive as caterer is nothing to be compared to the role of providing has probably never done a chore in his life. While wives who think because they play the nurturing role they should be worshiped because they feel nature has cheated them in a way, these kind of women are easily spotted, they're the kinds who are naturally angry that they are the ones who have too get pregnant anyone woman who's like that is obviously good at claiming victim. Such mentality is why debates like this will always be endless, and reasons aren't far fetched, its all from the home. And life with its eff ups shows us that both gender must be able to play each others role, but this doesn't mean there shouldnt be a default and regardless how this role is switched, in a large percentage the husbands will always be and expected to be the major provider and wives nurturing. Who does the job of a Mother better than a Mother.


On why the strict roles will always hold especially here in Africa, I think majority of us knows this but because of the misconception of these equality schemes, civilization makes us all want to claim hip we are trying too hard to ignore how both gender are really wired. No matter how much it tries to switch roles we have to agree some roles should never be switched and male provider, woman nutures will always stand, along with others of course there will be exceptions both it will still always come to play. Even the T-bills scenario affirms it.

All in all it all boils down to having an appreciative spouse.
Christianity EtcRe: Why There Is No God: Quick Responses To 10 Common Theist Argument's by Ruq: 12:10pm On May 12, 2016
tartar9:
In order words-a God doesn't exist because I can invent theories to explain the complexity of nature sad... Atheism is just as dogmatic as much of the religions you condemn.Agnostism is much better.
Just say you're scared of rapture so when God asks you'll say "at least I did totally deny your existence" then maybe He will give you heaven's pass. You're either theist or atheist.
PoliticsRe: You Are At War And Saw Her, What Will Be Your Next Line Of Action??? Pics by Ruq: 11:32am On May 12, 2016
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: See How A Man Carved Out A Statue Of A Woman From A Large Mass Of Rock! by Ruq: 4:20am On May 12, 2016
Even the scenery speaks of Eden, I can see barbed wires around the tree of knowledge.
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: See How A Man Carved Out A Statue Of A Woman From A Large Mass Of Rock! by Ruq: 2:03am On May 12, 2016
Remains breath of life. The rock was a piece of Adam smiley
Christianity EtcRe: Should I Pay My Tithe Or Pay My Brother's School Fees? by Ruq: 8:02pm On May 11, 2016
Anextin:
Did u also consider that the Fees of the brother might consume the entire salary hence his agitation
From his post he wasn't concerned about his salary in any way, his emphasis was on the tithe. Even from the post one could conclude that he was still going to have enough left if he decides to give the tithe money to his brother. But seeing that it's most likely a troll the overall thread was just to kick debate.
CrimeRe: Kidnapped Hunchback Man Murdered In Benin by Ruq: 2:33pm On May 11, 2016
Exxit:
The police need to arrest every native doctor In naija. It's a scam. Black magic is fake. "Juju" is fake.
I'm thinking some doctors too are aware of how it runs.
Christianity EtcRe: My Thoughts And Questions About Religion by Ruq: 7:26am On May 11, 2016
Now this is how you go about enlightening. Very good thread bruv.
EducationRe: 18 Hilariously Smart Answers To Homework Done By Kids by Ruq: 6:36am On May 11, 2016
AirSultan:
Kids ehn.. Wonderful creatures. This is hilarious mehn cheesy
And you're convinced kids actually wrote this.
RomanceRe: One Word For This Couple (photo) by Ruq: 6:27am On May 11, 2016
lol, kiss of tug.
CrimeRe: Sex Workers Cut Charges In Calabar, Tempt Men by Ruq: 6:21am On May 11, 2016
This is why slut shaming will never end. How many ladies pay for a good dicking?
EducationRe: Oldest Everyday Things, Items, And World's First Things In History. by Ruq: 2:51am On May 11, 2016
Condoms should have been one of the 1st inventions. I wonder how Indians and the Chinese didn't think of it.
Christianity EtcRe: Should I Pay My Tithe Or Pay My Brother's School Fees? by Ruq: 1:48am On May 11, 2016
Vivly:
It's obvious the OP is an atheistic troll looking for stale and over flogged ways to mock tithing and religion.
Does your tithe constitute all of your salary? Tithe is just 10%. You made no mention of the other 90. Infact, you don't sound like you've ever paid tithe. Ever.
I'm surprised people didn't see through. But people's responses shows some would rather pay the tithe.
RomanceRe: Checkout This Hilarious Epic Reply An "Over Sabi" Babe Got From A Guy (photos) by Ruq: 2:57pm On May 09, 2016
Sad joke.
RomanceRe: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Ruq: 10:14am On May 09, 2016
Ask who first made sex cheap?.
PoliticsRe: FG May Increase Petrol Price Soon - Marketers by Ruq: 10:06am On May 09, 2016
SleekAboki:
A recipe for violent revolution.
If I hear, there are always pacifiers on standby.
Christianity EtcRe: PART 2: Pastor to Atheist: Why I will NEVER be a Christian again by Ruq:
It's obvious majority of the atheists in here are just like their theists counterpart, the theists naturally think they're saving atheists from the infinite abyss by persuading them that God loves them and wants them saved while newly 'enlightened minds' (atheists) take it upon themselves to liberate people from their shackles of illusion. Y'all have something similar, atheist think the world be a better place if we all could dump religion, theists think if y'all could accept the teachings of God the world would be peaceful, shows everyone dreams of an utopia.
One thing is obvious y'all both bullies, but atheists on this forum appear to be heartless, you're no different from those who mentally torture depressed individuals with suicide taunts and yet you all think you're helping humanity by liberating what theists believe to be true despite not being sure if their god is real. Plus it does already appear a lot are certain that God isn't real, where are your open mindedness?.
I'm not going to lie I enjoy the sarcasms you involve in exposing what you term as myths but it still doesn't mean you aren't heartless, I prolly might have said things myself that warrants my head on a guillotine. The way you all go about it shows you don't even care about the mental state of those you claim you want to free. A quick look of the posts of atheists here shows you why blasphemy was grave back then and why they wanted them silenced by all means.

Majority of you atheists when you argue about the existence of God you appear as persons who are really concerned about humanity which is a wonderful feat. It's been an overflogged issue when y'all come up with why these Gods can't regrow an amputees limb, why he won't restore the little boy's eyes, how god is a wicked, vengeful, misogynistic being. True, an omnipotent god should be capable of all these, this points that majority of atheists are empathetic about their fellow human it also shows you lot hold onto an utopian view of the world despite knowing its an impossible reality but your responses show that we all expect heaven on earth, but the theists have promised you this utopian world somewhere in the metaphysical realm but yet you still go ahead to debunk them accusing them of how silly the idea is. True it is, because no matter how perfect the world is we need a negligible amount of imperfection to appreciate perfection.
Then again it's also an over flogged issue when you talk about these religious institutions and their belief systems and how wrong they are and contradictory their God is, yes we seem to have come to the conclusion that the bible/quran were written by mere men who were selfish, bias, delusional and power drunk, I'm not disputing. But anyone who has read the bible and quran will no doubt feel awkward about the tales in it but those books are indeed powerful and they're beyond psychology far beyond it, look at the years it took Sigmund to come up with psychoanalysis which gave more ground to understanding how the we think they're lies. There are a lot of universal truths in those books which will hold as long as the universe keeps expanding. If observation is regarded as an impotant part of science I can boldly say these books are scientific books in the psychological field but then again I could be wrong. So now ask yourselves as it has mostly be claimed that these books where written by mere men because it appears to be. Couldn't it be men like you who were also concerned about humanity and how to make them happy after observing a lot created these concepts based on what they could as the time just as science keeps doing it's best in these times.

Cloudgoddess I must say your biological knowledge is something I admire. Your recent explanation on evolution and how we likely came about is grand, sometimes I forget that it's actually a theory. You lucidly explained in one of your posts of how the current man is no different from an animal but thanks to evolution which has given room for more brain to create and perform complex abilities giving room for creation of language, maths, tools, social groups and man's journey to becoming a higher animal. I think in there you alluded to why prehistoric man could form religion and make sense of it.
Now you and I would agree that there are still animals among us as a matter of fact we are outnumbered by them but then you're angry and hell bent on ridding people of their beliefs of religion thinking the world would be a better place without it, you just like every other atheist in here do not realize y'all are priveleged on a big scale very privileged. The people you're trying show the light aren't the ones who need it, majority of the world lives as if there's no god already. Like I once said, when push comes to shove and it will happen no matter how long it takes push will always come to shove these atheists will create God all over again when we go back to our beast nature that we naturally are.

Plus if you understand the God concept to a point you'll acknowledge those books are just too fuckin complete even the contradictions aren't lies just as they say every prayer answers. I use to think those who believe in God were wrong but they aren't it may be false reality and all but they aren't wrong for believing and they aren't totally stupid either for believing. I cannot even build the courage to tell my sis, mum, that there's no one answering those prayers but still I could be wrong, as a matter of fact I'd give up anything to admit that I am. And I do mindfully hope that I'm the one who is wrong about God, it's still 50/50 fairytale or not they could be right also. Even if I find myself in hell, I'm sure I will be able to stage a protest.
RomanceRe: Why Most Ladies Fail by Ruq: 9:01pm On May 08, 2016
Seyibabalola:
I read of a man who beat his wife to death on my facebook page. And down the post, some ladies commented that all men are evil and dangerous. One of them even expressed a doubt if she would even marry. Now, it is not a new thing that lots of ladies now believe that all men are bad, after probably being jilted or used and dumped by a guy or after reading or hearing about men who beat their wives, even to death like this case here. But this is what i have to say: Marriage is sweet, if only you get things right before going into it. If you prepare well for it, you won't regret getting married and now believing that all men are evil or dangerous. The first preparation is you yourself changing your bad characters and building yourself up to attract the kind of loving, God fearing, rich and caring man you want as husband. One major error many ladies make is that they want a good,caring, loving, and rich man, but they are placing themselves too high or expensive in such a way that many of these men think that all they want is money and material wealth. In this case, they have opened an easy way for men who have this money or material wealth, but wrong motives or purpose for relationship or marriage and who would only marry them for their bodies. And after getting married and getting their bodies, they start showing them their real colours(the beast in them). Besides, marriage also takes a humble wife to succeed. How many women now a days are submissive to their husbands? No matter how rich, beautiful or educated you are, the man is still your head. Be submissive to him. And how many women in marriage have a good relationship with God? If you don't have God in your life, you have failed already. In conclusion, not all men are evil or bad. If you want a good man, be a good lady. If you want a sweet marriage, be submissive and have a good relationship with God.
Brace yourself.

Butchcassidy we might need you here
FamilyRe: Woman Celebrates Her Marriage Breakup With Cake by Ruq: 8:51pm On May 08, 2016
Flashh:
[color=#1970BC]It's so obvious you're trying to tell me you don't care who's at fault, the women are always right.

Wonderful!
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You should know pant sniffers when you see them.
CrimeRe: Family Pics & Corpse Of Ronke Shonde Who Was Allegedly Killed By Her Husband by Ruq: 2:25pm On May 08, 2016
mumtriplet2:
Read it yesterday from blog,I cried while reading it because am in the same situation now....my whole body is paining me nw....I didn't go to Church because am weak.the beating he gave me yesterday is just too much and here I am trying to make it work.



Am afraid ,I don't want to loss my life. God help me.
Isn't the story enough reason to wake you up ?.
EducationRe: 18 Pictures That Describe Having The Worst Roommates At University by Ruq: 9:43am On May 04, 2016
SweetieConstie:
LMAO! gringringrin Extremely hilarious...


















Thumbs up OP!grin
Extremely indeed.
Jokes EtcRe: Picture: When Your Dad And Mum Are Professors Of English Language by Ruq: 7:58pm On May 03, 2016
Fun eyan loyun = Give somebody pregnant
https://i44.tinypic.com/oteptd.jpg
No be we get English abeg.
FoodRe: See What Two Nigerian Men Found Inside A Pack Of 5 Alive Juice They Bought(pics) by Ruq: 7:53pm On May 03, 2016
Mutuwa:
undecided
*sipping my Pepsi and staring at the picture*
Anyways....
Lol, the lies inside those cartridge eeh.

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