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BlackGoldBoy:Then when this one comes up, make sure you decline the offer. Same sissies like you will come out and whine about how they denied you camping even after ypu willingly accept to decline. |
jaybabs16:What's the sense in all what you're applauding, so people are willing to waste the money spent on camp kits and forfeit camping. And you're all hyping that Shi claiming it has said it all. Are you yourself willing to forfeit the camping experience. |
No no no i'on play like that. You need to see these dogs destroy, you wouldn't trust them with a teddy. |
doveda:What is your own, why are you placing curses. Isn't it obvious that the whole story isn't clear enough. Put your sentiments aside. Abi you were a rape victim. I can understand if that's the case. |
Watch them sly this thread but troop in like wolves when it's husband and wife battering. |
Hallack:You're subconsciously seeking acceptance and it's not matching. Now you won't know how much advantage it is that you don't fit in because you want to fit in. You don't want to be alone, you hate being idle, which is normal unlike an introvert who naturally appreciates being alone and wants to be alone . I'd say you're in the process of understanding self and it can be frustrating. What was growing up like. |
It's because you're forced Introvert |
The strict roles will always hold know matter how much laws or views are held to rationalize it. The (men) you identified in your post still have a lot of understanding and growing up to do, if you think that's how majority are, you probably might have made the internet your reality. I don't know about others but seeing that nature has automatically decided who plays the major role of child bearing I think it's only fair the husband take up responsibility of providing. One of the reasons why no matter how much attempt is made at switching roles the natural roles will still fight to stand. I presume the reason why all these talks came about is when husbands felt has the provider they were automatically the 'superior' and downplayed the role of catering by the wives or where wives felt catering for the home is boring and downplaying her providing ability and some because of sentiments just feel nature has cheated them in some way. Any right thinking human knows better than to make realities like this a supremacy battle or tag a role irrelevant. Any man who thinks the role of the wive as caterer is nothing to be compared to the role of providing has probably never done a chore in his life. While wives who think because they play the nurturing role they should be worshiped because they feel nature has cheated them in a way, these kind of women are easily spotted, they're the kinds who are naturally angry that they are the ones who have too get pregnant anyone woman who's like that is obviously good at claiming victim. Such mentality is why debates like this will always be endless, and reasons aren't far fetched, its all from the home. And life with its eff ups shows us that both gender must be able to play each others role, but this doesn't mean there shouldnt be a default and regardless how this role is switched, in a large percentage the husbands will always be and expected to be the major provider and wives nurturing. Who does the job of a Mother better than a Mother. On why the strict roles will always hold especially here in Africa, I think majority of us knows this but because of the misconception of these equality schemes, civilization makes us all want to claim hip we are trying too hard to ignore how both gender are really wired. No matter how much it tries to switch roles we have to agree some roles should never be switched and male provider, woman nutures will always stand, along with others of course there will be exceptions both it will still always come to play. Even the T-bills scenario affirms it. All in all it all boils down to having an appreciative spouse. |
tartar9:Just say you're scared of rapture so when God asks you'll say "at least I did totally deny your existence" then maybe He will give you heaven's pass. You're either theist or atheist. |
Even the scenery speaks of Eden, I can see barbed wires around the tree of knowledge. |
Remains breath of life. The rock was a piece of Adam ![]() |
Anextin:From his post he wasn't concerned about his salary in any way, his emphasis was on the tithe. Even from the post one could conclude that he was still going to have enough left if he decides to give the tithe money to his brother. But seeing that it's most likely a troll the overall thread was just to kick debate. |
Exxit:I'm thinking some doctors too are aware of how it runs. |
Now this is how you go about enlightening. Very good thread bruv. |
AirSultan:And you're convinced kids actually wrote this. |
lol, kiss of tug. |
This is why slut shaming will never end. How many ladies pay for a good dicking? |
Condoms should have been one of the 1st inventions. I wonder how Indians and the Chinese didn't think of it. |
Vivly:I'm surprised people didn't see through. But people's responses shows some would rather pay the tithe. |
Sad joke. |
Ask who first made sex cheap?. |
SleekAboki:If I hear, there are always pacifiers on standby. |
It's obvious majority of the atheists in here are just like their theists counterpart, the theists naturally think they're saving atheists from the infinite abyss by persuading them that God loves them and wants them saved while newly 'enlightened minds' (atheists) take it upon themselves to liberate people from their shackles of illusion. Y'all have something similar, atheist think the world be a better place if we all could dump religion, theists think if y'all could accept the teachings of God the world would be peaceful, shows everyone dreams of an utopia. One thing is obvious y'all both bullies, but atheists on this forum appear to be heartless, you're no different from those who mentally torture depressed individuals with suicide taunts and yet you all think you're helping humanity by liberating what theists believe to be true despite not being sure if their god is real. Plus it does already appear a lot are certain that God isn't real, where are your open mindedness?. I'm not going to lie I enjoy the sarcasms you involve in exposing what you term as myths but it still doesn't mean you aren't heartless, I prolly might have said things myself that warrants my head on a guillotine. The way you all go about it shows you don't even care about the mental state of those you claim you want to free. A quick look of the posts of atheists here shows you why blasphemy was grave back then and why they wanted them silenced by all means. Majority of you atheists when you argue about the existence of God you appear as persons who are really concerned about humanity which is a wonderful feat. It's been an overflogged issue when y'all come up with why these Gods can't regrow an amputees limb, why he won't restore the little boy's eyes, how god is a wicked, vengeful, misogynistic being. True, an omnipotent god should be capable of all these, this points that majority of atheists are empathetic about their fellow human it also shows you lot hold onto an utopian view of the world despite knowing its an impossible reality but your responses show that we all expect heaven on earth, but the theists have promised you this utopian world somewhere in the metaphysical realm but yet you still go ahead to debunk them accusing them of how silly the idea is. True it is, because no matter how perfect the world is we need a negligible amount of imperfection to appreciate perfection. Then again it's also an over flogged issue when you talk about these religious institutions and their belief systems and how wrong they are and contradictory their God is, yes we seem to have come to the conclusion that the bible/quran were written by mere men who were selfish, bias, delusional and power drunk, I'm not disputing. But anyone who has read the bible and quran will no doubt feel awkward about the tales in it but those books are indeed powerful and they're beyond psychology far beyond it, look at the years it took Sigmund to come up with psychoanalysis which gave more ground to understanding how the we think they're lies. There are a lot of universal truths in those books which will hold as long as the universe keeps expanding. If observation is regarded as an impotant part of science I can boldly say these books are scientific books in the psychological field but then again I could be wrong. So now ask yourselves as it has mostly be claimed that these books where written by mere men because it appears to be. Couldn't it be men like you who were also concerned about humanity and how to make them happy after observing a lot created these concepts based on what they could as the time just as science keeps doing it's best in these times. Cloudgoddess I must say your biological knowledge is something I admire. Your recent explanation on evolution and how we likely came about is grand, sometimes I forget that it's actually a theory. You lucidly explained in one of your posts of how the current man is no different from an animal but thanks to evolution which has given room for more brain to create and perform complex abilities giving room for creation of language, maths, tools, social groups and man's journey to becoming a higher animal. I think in there you alluded to why prehistoric man could form religion and make sense of it. Now you and I would agree that there are still animals among us as a matter of fact we are outnumbered by them but then you're angry and hell bent on ridding people of their beliefs of religion thinking the world would be a better place without it, you just like every other atheist in here do not realize y'all are priveleged on a big scale very privileged. The people you're trying show the light aren't the ones who need it, majority of the world lives as if there's no god already. Like I once said, when push comes to shove and it will happen no matter how long it takes push will always come to shove these atheists will create God all over again when we go back to our beast nature that we naturally are. Plus if you understand the God concept to a point you'll acknowledge those books are just too fuckin complete even the contradictions aren't lies just as they say every prayer answers. I use to think those who believe in God were wrong but they aren't it may be false reality and all but they aren't wrong for believing and they aren't totally stupid either for believing. I cannot even build the courage to tell my sis, mum, that there's no one answering those prayers but still I could be wrong, as a matter of fact I'd give up anything to admit that I am. And I do mindfully hope that I'm the one who is wrong about God, it's still 50/50 fairytale or not they could be right also. Even if I find myself in hell, I'm sure I will be able to stage a protest. |
Seyibabalola:Brace yourself. Butchcassidy we might need you here |
Flashh:You should know pant sniffers when you see them. |
mumtriplet2:Isn't the story enough reason to wake you up ?. |
SweetieConstie:Extremely indeed. |
Fun eyan loyun = Give somebody pregnant https://i44.tinypic.com/oteptd.jpg No be we get English abeg. |
Mutuwa:Lol, the lies inside those cartridge eeh. |
... Atheism is just as dogmatic as much of the religions you condemn.Agnostism is much better.


