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Christianity EtcRe: Atheism In Nigerian Society by Ruq: 7:32pm On May 27, 2016
Oluwaseytiano:
Nope, BT these guys were 4th year biochemistry students. I was just trying to reason with them
Reason, you can't debate with someone who's definite God is the reason they wake up each day. They too will ask you questions you have no answers for and from there on they accuse you of not knowing everything too. If you really understand a few of the God concept you'll see they aren't wrong about the God they choose to believe, what you think is contradictory actually make sense even if it's seems absurd. If you keep observing you'll see all the attributes credited to this god isn't wrong.
Christianity EtcRe: Atheism In Nigerian Society by Ruq: 6:38pm On May 27, 2016
You can't never win, the stare you'll get only. Why do you even try? One of the questions they'll ask you is did you create yourself ? They'll ask you how did the animals come to be and if you can create them. They're logical too in their own way

Seriously once we come to fully understand how we came to be everyone will readily dump the idea of gods, until then The idea will continue to be relevant and as it looks we may never fully understand.

I bet you too where trying to show off how smart you were.
FamilyRe: Its Children's Day: Upload A Pix Of Your Kid/siblings And Send Them A Shout Out by Ruq: 3:49pm On May 27, 2016
This thread makes you want to stop pulling out.
CareerRe: 16 Pictures That Are Too Real For Nigerians Who Hate Their Office by Ruq: 4:43pm On May 26, 2016
DiAmOnDrUbY:
9. When it’s 5 minutes to closing time and you see a colleague approaching with a file.

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God forbid. shocked shocked
Funniest
FamilyRe: SOS: 23 Years Old Lady In Distress. Hear Her Story. by Ruq: 4:06pm On May 26, 2016
Silvofitz:
You possibly didn't get the full story then. Take note of these facts:
1. I had never seen Tope all my life, until that morning my wife called my attention to her washing at the canal, And told me she used to keep her belongings somewhere around the canal. Then, I called her and interviewed her, and post her story exactly the way she told me.
2. My wife was not in the best position to spearhead any arrangements. Remember when I posted the story, there were insinuations that it could be a scam. So, there was the need for a neutral person to be involved. When it was necessary for my wife to act, she didn't fail. It was her presence that made the Ibadan contact woman to believe Tope's story in the first place.
3. There was really nothing to spearhead in this matter. Nairaland discussants suggested an Ibadan based Nairalander should make arrangement to verify the story, and if true; spearhead the arrangement to enquire for the cost of a modest single room apartment, pay for the apartment, and ensure the money was used for the purpose of accommodation, and now see if money could be raised for a modest business for her. My wife went out, and found out with #18k, a modest accommodation could be secured. Money was sent. Tope herself got available accommodation, what else could anyone have done? What's left to spearhead again?
4. The person that sent the money equally suggested Tope's boss should make sure she handed over the money to the rent agent. How else could I or my wife spearhead that?
5. The interview day was the first time I had seen Tope. And it was the evening of that day,after we had gone to verify her story, and met the son, that we allowed her to move her belongings into the house.
6. The word urgent is relative. What's urgent to A might not be to B. That's individual difference!
Oh now I get, but then you ought to have included all that in your earlier updates, when you revealed that you offered to help her and she declined, it seemed like an offer you gave her before coming post online, and the impression about those concerned is that she was at the time sleeping in the church/canal with her luggage. No one knew you had offered to help her keep her stuff when you revealed that. That was why it appeared like you had already helped her with some stuff only to come an rehearse the original state you met her in to get sympathy.

All in all thanks for helping a soul.
CelebritiesRe: See How Nigerian Used Iyanya And The Game’s Pen**is To Compare Dollar And Naira by Ruq: 3:49pm On May 26, 2016
Mehn, Game's Putz is 500 to 1
RomanceRe: This Is What Will Happen To You When You Beat A Woman (pix) by Ruq: 3:21pm On May 26, 2016
sinceraconcept:
If a woman leaves her husband just because of a dirty slap,no man would want to marry her but the man can marry 100 more wives. Ladies,stop deceiving yourself,be patient,those that say you should leave the relationship only want to turn you to single parents. They want you to be lonely for the rest of your life
Wrong nigga, from dirty slaps it keeps improving. It's just hard for the kids cuz they would most likely turn out raised imbalanced, and most ends up being raised by the street.
FamilyRe: SOS: 23 Years Old Lady In Distress. Hear Her Story. by Ruq: 3:09pm On May 26, 2016
Silvofitz:
In fact, that's the question I'm asking here. What's the issue?
People should come out clean instead of all this. What's the issue?
I think people should read the original story again. Because I really don't know what all these fuss, accusations and counter-accusations are all about.
Oga just let it die they were right, reading your first post I thought that it was very urgent as it was painted, it seemed that was your first meeting with Tope. Not until you explained that you have tried helping her in your little way. That just made the whole ish seem like a sympathy seeking show.

Plus your wife being in UCH IB and you didn't think it was necessary for her to spearhead the arrangements in her spare time is puzzling.

Just kill it, you've been very helpful, may the universe reward you.
EducationRe: Michael Arowosegbe Is LASU Best Graduating Student by Ruq: 10:06am On May 26, 2016
adextetoo:
I have come to realise the best brain come not from the sons or daughters of the rich but from the offspring of the poor....I use this medium to congratulate him and may he continue to make his parents happy
Wrong, best brains are from backgrounds laden with solid encouragement. If follow your statement it means every poor offspring with the "best brains" will raise substandard brains since the best brains of poor offsprings will be privilege to upgrade their status which will automatically lead to the dearth of best brains.
RomanceRe: This Is What Will Happen To You When You Beat A Woman (pix) by Ruq: 9:49am On May 26, 2016
Yeah right.

https://i42.tinypic.com/2myytu0.jpg

Too many sissies these days. Please define what makes a man.
LiteratureRe: What's Your Favorite Novel Of All Time? by Ruq: 6:59am On May 26, 2016
Fight club - Chuck Palanuick
Christianity EtcRe: Why Did Eminem Live Longer Than Tupac? by Ruq: 5:55pm On May 25, 2016
maputohq:
no but pac's years should be longer.
That explains the probability of death. But why then do you ask like you want him dead and compare pac' s honouring of his mum with shady's disrespect as a basis for his longer life ?.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Did Eminem Live Longer Than Tupac? by Ruq: 5:26pm On May 25, 2016
maputohq:
and so i should disregard what the bible says?
So according to the bible Eminem is supposed to be dead?
Christianity EtcRe: Why Does God Not Heal/help Like He Promised? by Ruq: 5:22pm On May 25, 2016
Because he doesn't want humanists to lose their calling.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Did Eminem Live Longer Than Tupac? by Ruq: 5:19pm On May 25, 2016
maputohq:
because i,m relating it to what the bible says.
Well did the bible endorse being a shitty parent?

Why are babies and little kids dying? Don't they honour their parents. See on a long enough timeline the survival rate of everyone drops to zero. Death is just as random as luck is, it don't care if you're the most pious being in the universe.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Did Eminem Live Longer Than Tupac? by Ruq: 5:03pm On May 25, 2016
Are you asking that god kills him because of "cleaning out my closet", is that how god works? What about shitty mums that ruin the life of their kids.

May be the reason he isn't dead is because he apologized, have you heard "headlights". I guess you OD'ed on that honour your parents line.

And why is this in the religion section?.
CrimeRe: Who Is Behind The Niger Delta Avengers? by Ruq: 4:58pm On May 25, 2016
Robert Downey Jr. And the Thor gang.
HealthRe: Doctor Reveals Shocking Ways You Can Accidentally Get Pregnant by Ruq: 4:38pm On May 25, 2016
And there's the Holy Spirit.
PoliticsRe: Emir Sanusi: I Asked My Daughter To Retaliate If Her Husband Beats Her by Ruq: 4:03pm On May 25, 2016
Akinaukwa:
I remember when i was in Taekwando group i had this lady friend of mine who was so keen on learning taekwando. I summoned courage and asked her reasons why she wanted to learn taekwando and she replied "don't want to take nonsense from any man. My man beat me up a lot and i have decided to teach him a lesson" well, she won. The man never laid his hands on her again. Dont dare beat a woman no matter the extent of provocation please.
So she took lessons in taekwando to continuously stay in the marriage and continuously beat her man up. Just great. I see reasons why tai chi teaches a lifestyle.
RomanceRe: 15 Lies You’ll Hear When A Nigerian Guy Likes You by Ruq: 3:38pm On May 25, 2016
Op would gladly embrace me if I told you straight off I just want to tap it?
FamilyRe: 21st Century Women Are Not So Weak by Ruq: 12:39am On May 24, 2016
It's what I have always thought also, imagine if society never decided that men put on the tough act couples would just be a combo of two highly sensitive beings both shaped never to take a bullet for none, both defenseless that's fragile friggin equality. People think guys aren't as emotional as ladies they don't know guys are just better at masking it. And life itself is words and opposites it is only logical that men are expected to be the one to toughen up to create a balance.

But with growing idea that everyone should be equal sooner or later we would see the bug in it. I just pity the kids of women with such mentality, they might turn out to raise their boys as sissies and emotionally cold girls and that would be another kind of balance.
RomanceRe: To The Ladies Like Me Who Receive loads Of PMs by Ruq: 10:23pm On May 23, 2016
Guys dey Bleep up.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Sacks Louis Van Gaal ? by Ruq: 12:35pm On May 23, 2016
amagunnerfan:
Appointing Jose Mourinho is not a smart move for United. They went against their own policy with this appointment which shows desperation on their part.

This is why I always said it that Sir Alex was a greed man who left the club worst off. He made absolutely no plans for his successor before leaving the club. The squad was extremely very bad, he only managed to win the league with the same squad as a result of the signing of Robin Van Persie a signing which in it own was selfish and not long term.

Many kids who started watching football last night will disagree but those who can think know United are suffering today simply because Sir Alex was more interested in his own glory and not the future of the club.

He left behind Vidic, Rio, Rooney, Robin Van Persie, Chicharito, Phil Jones, Carrick and Evra. All of who were either past it or very injury prone or outright useless.
Exactly, Moyes mumu fell for the trap so bad i was surprised when he endorsed him as "best man for the job". He purposely didn't want continuity so that fans keep wishing he never left and show how good he was.
NYSCRe: NYSC Batch A 2016 Stream 2 Corp Members by Ruq: 6:30am On May 23, 2016
anochuko01:
nice observation. but has nysc ever opened camp during Ramadan? if yes, we av a chance, but if no, its gonna be difficult o
Really don't know, but they shouldn't have any problem running it if it comes to that, weighing the fact that they've postponed and frustrated peeps far too much. But seeing that it all seemed calculated beforehand I see no reason why they shouldn't consider it again.
NYSCRe: NYSC Batch A 2016 Stream 2 Corp Members by Ruq: 2:54am On May 23, 2016
I'm surprised you guys didnt notice all these while that Ramadan was considered all along, for if camping were to have begun by 21st it was going to end on the 6th when Ramadan begins. This shows they didnt want it to clash with Ramadan from the onset, so you guys are just arguing blindly and blaming muslims needlessly.

G-luck with the protest though.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Will Never Change by Ruq: 10:29am On May 22, 2016
This has been true since it was created.
CrimeRe: Wale Fakile Of TVC Beats His Girlfriend; Leaves Her With Injuries (Pics) by Ruq: 3:34pm On May 19, 2016
nwosunnanenye:
A positive word is enough for a wise
Yeah right.

https://i42.tinypic.com/2myytu0.jpg

Never hit black widows.
CrimeRe: Ronke Shonde: Autopsy Attributes Death To Respiratory Seizure by Ruq: 1:34pm On May 19, 2016
damogul:
This is not about being emotional or because the deceased is female this is about facts. You being female are also being emotional as this happened to one of same gender but to me thats not being realistic. What most people just want to hear and read about is a man beats his wife and they want to hang him by his balls but nobody wants to know why he even got pushed to the extent of doing so... yes I said PUSHED because most men would never raise their handson their wives but women are in a league of their own when it comes to provoking reactions from men.

If the landlady testified of his quiet nature and he also said he loved the wife so much so that he even got her a car though yet enroute and if he said (without being coerced) that he slapped her under provocation then he is being somewhat honest if all that had been confirmed. His kids are old enough to say if daddy beats mummy often and if mummy was home all weekend.

All facts right now point that the husband isnt culpable because if he said he slapped her and the pathology report says his slap wasnt what caused the water in her head then he has no case. He would probably be taken for counselling and then released. HE IS A FREE MAN.
All of them would always downplay the fact that they are sensitive to issues like this, I don't know why it seems their victory lies in nailing males to the coffin. In their mind they think every male is in support of whatever happened despite a substantial amount of guys still thinking the guy is guilty. But no their focus is those who thinks he isn't. To them that's feminism. smiley They don't see they're just following endless patterns.


I think the man guilty of manslaughter though.
EducationRe: HELP!!! NYSC Stop Toying With Our Lives. Prospective Corp Members by Ruq: 6:26pm On May 16, 2016
D.O.A
NYSCRe: NYSC Batch A 2016 Stream 2 Corp Members by Ruq: 6:20pm On May 16, 2016
okitaiji:
are we not suffering before? or do you think it is because of fun most of us are going there, it's just to fulfill their good for nothing compulsory one year service if not what will make me pass through this madness
Because you're letting yourself worked up.

You'll still see people go against the movement even if they decide to go ahead like that, issues like this never have one voice.
NYSCRe: NYSC Batch A 2016 Stream 2 Corp Members by Ruq: 5:25pm On May 16, 2016
BlackGoldBoy:
tar..... My main aim fr dis nysc nh jus cert.....ntin more....experience cn go and die
Why you no seek exemption.
NYSCRe: NYSC Batch A 2016 Stream 2 Corp Members by Ruq: 5:20pm On May 16, 2016
BlackGoldBoy:
whats so important abt camping experience. ....if u neva climb rope b4, go join man o war or woman o peace wic eva!!
Did you even read what makes the whole service year complete.

If they are acting like this over camping and you all are ready to go ahead without it, you are indirectly telling FG you're willing to suffer, if you're willing to go ahead you should also be willing to cope without their funds.

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