₦airaland Forum

WoundedLamb:
Tell this to the men that sleep with anything in skirt.

you forget that men dont get pregnant, women do. She knew she will bear the consequences alone (if it's a policeman involved). This girls are something else, they pass out from college and once posted, they start sleeping with everyone who ask them out because of the money spent on them. Pls don't argue this, I have lots of them in my division. It's crazy, not even up to a year in the force and you are pregnant? Not like you are oblivious to the rules

WoundedLamb:
What's the bases for this, please?

section 274 police act and regulations bothering conduct of police women.

WoundedLamb:
Maternity leave is a financed absence. If financing her maternity leave was the problem, she could have been given approved absence. This means she wouldn't be paid for the period. Sacking cause she got pregnant is simply inhumane.

no dear, there is no inhumane act here. I hate it when people flaunt rules, you knew the consequences but still went ahead. She made her choice. I support the decision

sapphiere:
She has served more than two years.

no my dear, she is a constable who passed out april 2020

crafteck:
Cos persom wey employ married must leave space for maternity at any time

funny enough, police never employ anybody with the "married" status, you have to fill single, wait till two years and do police marriage

Blackdisciple:
Funny.

I think hisbah should be recognise as NPF so that when a woman I sighted putting on trouser should be arrested and flogged 99 strokes of cane.

Then we will understand that the NPF has no job doing

read what you wrote, where is the sense?

jaxxy:
Doesn’t make sense. What if she has a fiancé or wants a child?

if it’s against the law she should have known and avoided that bt seems the law was repealed.

she is very much aware, the new law have not been gazetted.

sapphiere:
I asked you, do married policewomen go to work with pregnancy? Why should the married policewomen get maternity leave and the unmarried shouldn't? Is it not that those (men) who create the law place so much value on marriage? Marriage to them is medal.

I will clear you on this. There are different duties being assigned to police women and 90% of the times, you carry out these duties while on uniform. When pregnant, a women is issued "excuse uniform" as it is called in the force. It's a signed document that permits you not to wear your uniform, without it, you will be punished if you are found on such duty without uniform. P.S this document is only given to married women (married in the force, I am sure I explained this before).

After given her that document, she will be posted to counter duty (she will stay at the counter till her maternity leave begins), all assigned roles at the counter requires uniform hence she will be given the role of "available" which does not require uniform.

In a division with low strength (manpower) and they have like three pregnant women at the counter as available, do you know what that means to them?

Now, newly passed out constables are expected to work at least 2years before marriage, they are usually posted to cover up counter duties, now this same constable is pregnant. Like seriously! Why did you think they enforce the rule of compulsory 2years before marriage? You just think the whole world hate women and are trying to oppress them? Kindly think this through

Omihanifa:
Are you saying in the whole of Nigeria she's the only one guilty of this crime ?

For this issue to be in the newspapers somebody somewhere is having his or her own pound of flesh

that's how you like to assume nonsense. Oya bring facts did the person force pregnancy on her so he could take his pound of flesh? You broke a rule but cry foul when given the punishment assigned to that rule the fact that others were not published doesn't mean hers is the first case. One of my intake was dismissed one month after we passed out so what are you telling me?

Draslo:
Oga every woman is entitled to a maternity leave whether she's married or not. Some countries sef get paternity leave so there's that. Also labor lasts from 20 minutes to days at a stretch. I've never heard of someone in labor for months, guy.

we usually say, when in Rome, behave like the Romans. In the force, an unmarried pregnant woman is usually dismissed. If her dpo or other senior women decide to hide her, she will not be able to apply for maternity leave cause one state headquater can approve that. If caught, those who covered for her are in trouble. Why should I put myself in a difficult position for your recklessness?

sapphiere:

Investigations by The PUNCH, however, showed that the aspect of the Police Act which was being relied on to justify the sacking of the policewoman had been repealed in the amended Police Act that was signed into law by the President, Major General Muhammadu Buhari (retd.), in September 2020.

same Buhari that signed increment of police salary in 2018 and nothing was done. After endsars protest, he signed it again and till now, not even one naira so abeg, leave that thing

lilvicky68:
She shouldn't have been sacked..she should have been suspended for some months..But why she go dey open leg anyhow self as a policewoman somebody that supposed to be responsible.. e no go pass one tout wey give her that Belle self

the punishment for being pregnant before marriage in the force is dismissal

sapphiere:
What of the married pregnant policewomen? Do they carry theirs to work? If yes, why can't they unmarried? Do married policewomen get maternity leave? If yes, why can't the unmarried? What concerns marriage and career?

lol, we have rules for a reason. Section 274 of police act and regulations bothering conduct of police women forbids a police woman to be pregnant before completing two years in the force. After that, if you wish to marry, you apply at your state headquater, both families of bride and groom will be invited and police marriage will be done. After that, nobody will disturb you. Why couldn't she keep to the rules, not like she was even ignorant of it

Omihanifa:
Am sure somebody in the police force is just trying to punish her for not doing his/her bidding
Nah today police women dey carry belle ni

A lot of unmarried female police officers get pregnant and they don't get sacked or punished so why is her own case different

Southerners keep pulling each other down for silly reasons if this woman were to be a Northerner the matter will be covered up and nobody will get to know about it

don't say what you don't know. There is something called police marriage, you are not entitled to it if you haven't spent at least 2years in the force. If you like, do traditional and wedding, you remain single In the eyes of the force if you haven't done police marriage. The said women who you refer to have done their police marriage, after that, nobody cares if you continue to traditional.

The said girl is a constable who passed out last April, she knows the rules because it is one of the first things you are told by your matron immediately you step into college, but she decided to flaunt it. Let her face the punishment

DEMZEE:
Did I mention force??

As a man u should b the prize and u should ensure ur frame and values dominate the relationship

Marriage isn't a democracy

go and rule your home the way you want, don't come here telling me how to control my home. Men who allow other men dictates how their homes should be managed in the name of one funny movement or name are the real simps.

LMS1:
That Is To Say He Didnt Die On Duty Rather At A Joint
Like Maybe Palmy Joint
Hmm May His Soul Rest In Peace.
But Who Else Has Notice That Both Direct And And Indirect Murder Is Becoming Rampant In Nigeria?
Na 2021 Bring All This One Come Abi Na Fulani Herdsmen? Cus Am Confused On What To Blame!!

so as a police man, you don't have right to relax at a joint after work? Or he is suppose to spend his whole life at the office?

DEMZEE:
U saying this shows u don't have any self worth and will buy any rubbish women throw ur way

so I should force her to kneel cause it means she will be a good wife or it makes me a man? Shift!

EmptyGarden:
You be like who go stingy for this life.

I don't like it when people feel entitled

TimT:
Yes oo... He lives close to me.. But him get money yet we no know wetin him dey do...
well, na the wife I dey pity.... Today I go waka pass there make I see if dem still dey there��

abeg give us feed back o

TimT:
Ooh my Gawd!?? this world is really a small place oo.. So this David na thief?? Aaargh...
Well, such is life... Someone who I call friend... Too bad... Always flaunting money.. yet we don't know the source... Chai... I hope to see u one day...

you know am sef, he cup don full

lonelydora:
Policemen are involved in 80% of crimes in Nigeria.

your IQ is on the negative side

EmptyGarden:
You be like who go stingy for this life.

I hate entitled people. Being entitled to my money or property cause you work for me (I am paying you o) is total rubbish

zedegit:
Na so e dey start. Simps suffer the most.

see them, when you call out their stupidity, they start shouting simp.

Una don start. Who force you do pre wedding photo? If you don't like it, face front. Did anybody complain to you that his mariage collapsed cause his wife was sitting like a CEO during their pre-wedding pix while he was standing? Mumu talk

matm:
Some Nigerians are becoming social media foolish.
Things that u won't even like ur neighbour to hear,they post to social media.A kid pours powder on the floor,the mom posts,a kid is flogged by a neighbour for spoilling an item,the mom picks a phone,snaps the spot it and posts.That silly issue u call a problem and which u are posting on social media,if people open up on family dirty linens,u will come to realise u are still a learner and quickly put it down.Certain issues which u can't handle can be handled by relatives and friends.Stop making urself a laughing stock by going to social media.
When Davis mother was ranting uncontrollably on social media and people were supporting her,today what has she gained?Have u heard anyone gave her money in support of her seeking for justice as she claimes.
Now the case is being handled in the court where she should have taken it to initially.And she will bear the expenses all alone and must have to prove the case beyond all reasonable doubts with enough evidence b/f she can get justice as her lawyer feeds on her cash and keeps telling her to fight on.
Before u escalate any issue,make sure u have exhausted every inside available options,for nothing is new under the sun so that u don't make urself a laughing stock due to ur inability to control ur emotion.Maturity is of the mind says our forefathers.
The wise hears and gets wiser,while the foolish hears and keeps arguing until he ends up in the grave.

so Davis mother shouldn't have escalated the issue? From your write up, you said she was suppose to take the matter to court then again you said her lawyer will be feeding from her while encouraging her to keep fighting, so at the end what you are trying to say is that because no one will support her financially, she should have kept mute? You are an idiot with a phone

NewDelhi:
Free the small girl. If you're helping her with bra, panties, sanitary pads etc, she wouldn't consider taking yours.

I don't understand. Do your employees buy you underwears? If you are being paid, why can't you buy what you can afford? This entitlement mentality of Nigerians is crazy

DaddyRochie1642:
That woman up there in that video is extremely Foolish, she must have thought that by bringing the issue to social media, she'll be causing that her maid shame but smart Nigerians can already decode that she maltreats that her maid for that maid to go to such extent... Nonsense.

if you are being maltreated, you quit. Abi na slavery?

EmptyGarden:
My sister na private matter be this na. If you dey buy pant and bra for her, she for no wear your own.

is she not being paid?

DEMZEE:
Goodluck with that

She kneeling shows she respects you as the head

if not kneeling shows disrespect, then so be it. After kneeling, some will still quarrel and insult you, if you are not careful, use knife to stab you or pour hot water on you. Kneeling shows nothing joor, a woman will respect you if she wants to, kneeling or not

Coronavirus84:
This is unnecessary for now, Fulani herdsmen are kidnapping, killing and rapping the people of south west. Peter Okoye should find one place and sit down for now

so he should stop existing because your country cannot fight insecuryty abi?

OrdinaryNigeria:
He said Tony believe in himself, so Tony won.


Abeg where the believe carry Tony go!!?

Abeg this thing pass believe. Prayers, otumokpo, witchcraft fit dey involve.


I dey here the gather my believe sha

o lawd!