₦airaland Forum

TenthMan:
Humans are blessed with the gift of thought and reason.

It separates us from other species.

If we go by human instinct, the female will always choose the male that has the highest/better propensity to produce offspring with healthy genetics and a male that will support her with resources and security. It is therefore basic instinct for a woman to choose men who are financially capable in today's world. Also, the female is considered vulnerable when she is pregnant and nurturing her young. After this, she has always been productive resource wise.

People calling for women to select/choose/stick to men who have little or nothing are asking the women to override their basic instinct. A lot of women are having none of it. Men who accuse women of ''not knowing tomorrow'' do not know how nature works. A woman will rather stay with a man who she sees his fortunes/resources than one which is imaginary. ''I go fit get am'' no be property. It is the woman's right to ensure that her offspring are properly nurtured. It is the woman that gets pregnant. It is the woman that bears the child. It is the woman that nourishes the child. Hence do not expect the woman to take such major risks by selecting a ''weaker man''. In the past, the males had to prove themselves competing with other males. Nowadays it is financial strength and material comfort that is the yardstick. Not brute strength and the ability to hunt a mammoth.

The woman is also aware of the risk in the man's desire/propensity to procreate as many times and with as many females as possible. She needs security for her own offspring. The woman too, if the man is found weak,unable to provide at any point in time, may lead to allowing another man have his way. People are shy to state these facts or simply do not like them because they do not conform to what they believe, which is fine.

What the women have to know is that happiness is not usually based on lavish comfort. Men also have to note that because she stayed with you when you had nothing does not make her a good person/mate either. Nothing is guaranteed.


My responses are objective (knowledge/fact based) and you must know I answer without any form of bias (cultural, religious, tribal, ethnic, class, gender, age, race, nationality, blood, acquaintance, etc.)

Dharma? What is it? I saw in in your signature. Nice write up by the way

boiz2men:
Too late I'm swimming in love

Now I feel like its you I have waited for all my life.

You are not taken. If your fingers have no ring, our fingers could still cling

ma real guy

Apination:
Issues like this dey complex, you can't stop the father from knowing his daughter but it should end there. He gave up the right to her the day he denied her

long time bro, where have you been?

You are mad I swear, I hate you

Pls I wish to know how much ( estimate) it will cost to build a three bedroom flat from scratch to finish. Pls those who have knowledge in this field or have built theirs should help out. Lefulefu you don build?

lefulefu2:
u wont understand why will guys love ukwu
God bless all ukwucious ladies

you will not kill me in this forum. I seriously love the second pix

Sabby1:
My new year resolution is to be closer to God than ever. God's grace was exceedingly evident in my life in 2019 and I want more of it in 2020

I need this grace for a project next year, I pray God do it for me

Talk less, engage in less nairaland banter, reduce my already small circle, save more cash than I did this year.

ubunja:
that's right. Feel sorry for yourself.

mehn! This is so childish, I thought you were mature don't bother replying, you will be ignored. I don't banter with kids

ubunja:
Lol people are starting to see just how attention-hungry women can be.

would you have believed her otherwise?

Jacqueline22:
Still waiting for the 300 bridesmaid.

bitter aproko people, bridesmaid dey for traditional marriage?

Revolva:
Wetin concern us with dat nonentity wat has she got to change d economy

Very stewpid gal

the thing pain you sha, poverty na bastard

DonJayrome:
What is wrong with the police

what is wrong with Nigerians?

Merry Christmas lefulefu pcguru pocohantas ornicus

IceColdVeins:
Paste your acct no

hmmmm

2019 will soon end and this topic is still on, like what da heck? This shit is old mehn, if a girl is billing you, move, you are not tied there. If Nigerian girls tire you, move, find foreign girls and stop disturbing the cyber space

BadRadio:
I cant cope with that kind of lifestyle...

GO TO HELL

abluck:
Vanity

are you sure all is well?

ZombieTERROR:
Nigerian Police is the worst in the world right now.. It's like bribery have been legalized by the institution....

I wonder the kinda women that marry them... Those guys are beasts

funny how you dont wonder the kind o women that marry politicians and other guys that embezzle huge amount of money in public sectors. Corruption is bad but just stop the police thing, its all over the country. Every one wants to make the police look the worse when they are actually the worst

kellight:
sure my mother is a prostitute

I knew it!

RiyadhGoddess:
If you need help to get registered, let me know.

pls is it still available? I will need your help please

TissuePaper:
Somfin light

I personally preferred spaghetti to rice, Nigerian rice is a nightmare

if I eat 4 plates of this one eh, he nor go anywhere for tummy o.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Beautiful

Apart from the protrusion

This babe don dey turn into amoeba (shapeless)

Damnnnnn niggarrr
Beautiful

We are the best any day anytime twice during paying of bride price and marriage

But ehnnn
Apart from marriage period

Dating Edo guys is stress full to ladies. Especially we the binis and esan. They can fustrate girls. The young bini boys and ishan(esan) guys are too proud

that lady look shapeless to you? Mehn! You need glasses as Christmas gift bro