Politics › Re: Lagos4lagos: PDP Needs 8 Years Of Planning & Hard Work To Win Lagos – Ogunlewe by sabreal: 8:58pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: I Am No Longer In Partisan Politics - Obasanjo To PDP Leaders by sabreal: 7:01pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
FreeStuffsNG: Addressing the PDP delegation, Obasanjo said, “I’m no longer in partisan politics and there is nothing that can bring back. Anybody who wants my advice, I will always be there in the best interest of Nigeria.
“Whatever I do in my own life…because I became president on the platform of PDP, PDP will continue to be part of my life. Since the day I tore my PDP card, that was the day I ceased to be a member of PDP. That day I vowed not to be a member of any political party.
“I will continue to be a statesman.”
O pari.
Meanwhile, good evening my fellow patriotic Nigerians, please vote for Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu. Asiwaju Tinubu is extremely capable and competent to lead Nigeria to greater heights. Asiwaju Tinubu is an experienced public administrator and a Patriot to the core. He will deliver and keep his promises to lead Nigeria to greater heights. I plead with you to please vote for Asiwaju Tinubu. He is a visionary, brilliant and extremely capable and hardworking leader. Please vote for him. May God bless you and may God bless Nigeria forever. Here's free book on business ideas & money sources directory for you,it's 100% free! https://www.nairaland.com/6666800/looking-business-ideas-money-fund. Cheers. If not for his excessive greed, I would have supported all part of your submission. I hate when anyone use his/her position to take advantage of others. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu 2023: The Time Has Come To Choose Wisely - Senator Kashim Shettima by sabreal: 12:33pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Season of deception for the gullibles |
Travel › Re: Woman Crashes Her Car Into Frozen Lake, Takes Selfie As Car Sinks In Canada by sabreal: 12:31pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
I guess she did that as evidence for insurance claim |
Politics › Re: Prepare For Uprising If You Hike Fuel Price, Abdulsalam Warns FG by sabreal: 12:08pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Leadership of deception for the gullible by the deceptive |
Business › Re: Pound To Naira: Can You Believe This Tiny Coin Is N780? (Pictures) by sabreal: 3:00pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
If.he does.know what to do. He should.be go and continue his rest at home AntiBMC: You telling him to do more of what exactly? Cos all d things he has been doing has only succeeded in battering the currency. He should not do anything please, before a Pound Sterling will start going for #1500. |
Family › Re: Cute Abiola: Navy Gives Reason For Refusing To Release Comedian After 10 Days by sabreal: 8:15am On Nov 25, 2021 |
He is a human being. Is the punishment for his offence death sentence? Abovebest: Is he a civilian? |
Politics › Re: Kenneth Okonkwo: Buhari Has Done More For Igbos Under APC Than PDP by sabreal: 5:50am On Nov 25, 2021 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: World’s Oldest Ever Person’ Francisca Susano Dies At 124years ( Pics) by sabreal: 6:39pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Where in African. Please mention their names .. KingEverest: but there are people here in africa older than her |
Politics › Re: Timipre Sylva: FG Has No Control Over The Price Of Cooking Gas by sabreal: 8:17am On Nov 24, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Bosun Oladele: South-East Will Vote Massively For Tinubu In 2023 by sabreal: 8:15am On Nov 24, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Jibril Walid: PDP Will Send APC Packing In 2023 by sabreal: 7:44am On Nov 22, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Kano Beats 5 South-Eastern States In VAT Collection - Daily Trust by sabreal: 7:42am On Nov 22, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Why Are Women In A Rush To Get Married? by sabreal: 6:50am On Nov 22, 2021 |
You can't blame. They have serious complex Moreign001: Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.
I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.
I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.
We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...). We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..
She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.
So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.
Last month.. She called, and said her friend needs an advice, that she and her date just graduated, and that another man is asking her out, and she's thinking of dumping her guy since he's not ready, and that the newly known man is ready to pay for her marriage rites. Immediately I knew she was the one in the story, because I already had several dreams were she left me. I pretended, I told her to tell her friend to "Follow Her Heart".
Last night she called, and said there's something she wants to tell me, I responded, "Is it what I already know?", she asked what? I told her she's getting married soon, and she said yes! I was speechless. I asked her for how long has this been going on, she said it started when she came to stay with her Aunt. We spoke, and I congratulated her, she started crying, I ended the call, sent her a good luck text.
This morning, she called and said she couldn't sleep last night. I asked her why she did it, why she decided to get married, she said she doesn't know. I asked if she likes the guy, she said yes. She couldn't stop crying and was saying I shouldn't leave her, while she's the one leaving me. I was totally down, but I have crazy friends. I WhatsApp a friend, told him what just happened, his words boosted me up. He said, " Support her, we move, no be God leave you". That was enough, but it's hard, really hard to move on without her, and she said the same thing and kept pleading I shouldn't leave her. Now I'm asking, if I was the one who had left, what would have been the story? That I used her and dumped her, because this has always been used against the guys. Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria. |
Politics › Re: EFCC Vs Kogi: Governors, Others Fingered In 2023 Plot To Stop NC Candidates by sabreal: 4:13am On Nov 22, 2021 |
Are you privy to this case? Please give conclusive facts. A Baawaa: Yeye bello you are a thief they set trap for you and you entered, while are you crying.You kept almost 20billions that belong to Kogi state,they left you as if they don't know but waiting for this time,you can't come out of this |
Romance › Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by sabreal: 3:57am On Nov 22, 2021 |
.. You better be very careful so you will not partake in shared cured You don't judge something you know nothing about FutureIsFemale: Men are terrible.
Please lawyers in the forum. Help me reach out to this lady on Facebook. Her phone number is on her Facebook. Let's try and make sure this man is locked up. Why waste someone's time?
Let's use him and teach other men a lesson. Thank you.
And may God Almighty punish any man who does not have intention of marry a lady but uses marriage promises to sleep with her. May he die miserably. |
Celebrities › Re: BBNaija's Whitemoney Receives Chieftaincy Title In Enugu State (Photos, Video) by sabreal: 10:15am On Nov 21, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: I Hope I’m Not Dating A Corporate Olosho? Help, It’s My Girlfriend & Waist Beads by sabreal: 5:38pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Correct man Let him upload her pic with her her phone no and Instagram name so we can help wellest  Mood11:
 Did you get your girlfriend from Nairaland? Is her best friend on Nairaland? Is your spiritual director on Nairaland? Is your common sense kept here on Nairaland?
Why coming to ask total strangers to tell you if the waist beads YOUR girlfriend is wearing is diabolic?
You did not even upload the pictures of her waist and the beads  |
Education › Re: Mother Beats Up Teachers In Ibadan School For Disciplining Her Daughter (VIDEO) by sabreal: 5:25pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Farooq Kperogi: Revolt Of “Repentant” Boko Haram Terrorists Proves My Point by sabreal: 3:43pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Follow the law. tsdarkside: nawa....wahala no dey finish....wetin una wan do now,kill them after they surrendered....??
they are still pow.... |
Politics › Re: Farooq Kperogi: Revolt Of “Repentant” Boko Haram Terrorists Proves My Point by sabreal: 3:42pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Is It Right To End A Relationship Cos A Partner didn't Oblige Ur Sexual Request by sabreal: 3:24pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
What is the essence of relationship without intimacy? BadRadio:

What do we call babes or guys who end relationships because a partner says "No sex"
Is it proper for someone to end relationships because of no sex? |
Politics › Re: IMF Tells FG To Remove Electric And Fuel Subsidies, Give More Jobs by sabreal: 3:00pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Useless world powers! Give more jobs or give more businesses Its in their own interest. They want more profits for their economic agents They don't care what the consumers are going through to pay for what they don't enjoy. Consumers pay more. They don't get commensurate value for their money. No body is addressing the poor infrastructure for these products. They just want the poor the poor population to pay more and more. What their own people will not tolerate. Poverty driven policies . BeeBeeOoh: https://dailytrust.com/imf-tells-fg-to-remove-fuel-electricity-subsidies |
Family › Re: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by sabreal: 12:19pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Your marriage is too young to accommodate her. Now you have enough reasons. You have displaydf yo do not hate her and your in-laws. Talk to you wife about it to earn her kid sister. If no change. Inform the kid's parents. Tell them if there is no change she will need to come back to them. Put a time to it. It's better you do this now before your kids begin to pick her character. Before theycbwgun to claim their daughter wasnt like that until you trained her. However, you need great deal of patience and wisdom. May God direct you. Amen Sirlancelot: I won't bother you guys much. I married my woman last year June during the lockdown. Things were rosy for us as a young couple till we brought in a girl of 15 years from my wife's family to stay with us in order to help my wife with house chores and other things during the time she is heavily pregnant.
Mind you, from day one I have been dating my wife, this girl has been on my neck, telling me how she will come stay with me in Lagos if I get married to her sister. That would be my greatest undoing as I grudgingly obliged after many persuasion from her Mother as well. After my marriage, she came over to Lagos to join us.
Now, she is very useless to me. She will go to school from 7am to 5pm. After coming back from school, she will take another excuse to go for evening church and come back by 8pm. No help in doing house chores. COOKING, she no sabi.. My turn off about her now is that she can eat for Africa. The little provision I manage stock at home don't go anywhere now.
The last straw that break the camel back is that she always steals my babies food, like milk, biscuits etc.
My wife is in dicey situation because she once lived with the girl's mother for like 15 years back then, and such can't just pursue her away like plague.
Right now I am fighting the urge and anger to mess her up. I have advised her on numerous occasions but it seems she can not learn easily except with hard handling. Everything bad about human traits, she has it; Lies, false swearing and the likes.
Mature minded people in the house, if you are in my shoes, what would you do? |
Celebrities › Re: Davido N1 Million Challenge: Wema Bank To Meet With Singer by sabreal: 8:01pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: EndSARS: Lai Mohammed, Federal Govt Silent On Judicial Report by sabreal: 8:01am On Nov 18, 2021 |
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Business › Re: I Received Account Number From GTB And I Was Asked To Activate It. by sabreal: 3:43pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
Be very careful oo Did u open any Account awaiting activation. If not do not activate. What scammers do now is that they use your account to apply and collect loans on your profile Be careful Reader530: I received message from GTB. I was given account number from GTB and I was asked to go any branch and activate it. |
Business › Re: Lottery Commission Intensifies Campaign Against Under Age Gaming by sabreal: 2:06pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
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Career › Re: My Former HR Is Disturbing Me by sabreal: 1:17pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
How many days notice were expected to give? How many did you give. Ordinary, you are supposed to be paid for the days of notice given So clearly spell out what actually happened so you can get adequate advice. In interim, tell the hr staff to tell/send to you how much you are owing and ask him tell explain. Eg, if were supposed to give 14 days notice. You should be for the 14 days worked. ayomilore: I created a thread sometimes ago about a recall from my former place of work, a bigger firm in the same industry with better pay. I thereafter left the company i was working with then though with a short notice and i forfeited almost half month salary and the little savings i had with them. I was not confirmed as the time i left so i felt i'm safe but to my surprise the HR was calling me that i should not forget the balance i have to pay them in lieu of notice, this is so frustrating and the last time he called i had to shout on him to stop disturbing me. I tried to get across to few friends in the company and they confirmed that HR is just doing his own bidding as the MD is more preoccupied with more important issues than my case. Please is there any danger in this, note they are aware in my current organization how i left the company. Do i need to be worried for anything.
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Career › Re: My Former HR Is Disturbing Me by sabreal: 1:13pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
How many days notice were expected to give? How many did you give. Ordinary, you are supposed to be paid for the days of notice given So clearly spell out what actually happened so you can get adequate advice. ayomilore: I created a thread sometimes ago about a recall from my former place of work, a bigger firm in the same industry with better pay. I thereafter left the company i was working with then though with a short notice and i forfeited almost half month salary and the little savings i had with them. I was not confirmed as the time i left so i felt i'm safe but to my surprise the HR was calling me that i should not forget the balance i have to pay them in lieu of notice, this is so frustrating and the last time he called i had to shout on him to stop disturbing me. I tried to get across to few friends in the company and they confirmed that HR is just doing his own bidding as the MD is more preoccupied with more important issues than my case. Please is there any danger in this, note they are aware in my current organization how i left the company. Do i need to be worried for anything.
Thanks. |
Politics › Re: Buhari: Bandits Shouldn’t Think They Can’t Be Crushed by sabreal: 6:37pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by sabreal: 6:33pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
My son. Keep this in you mind. An average female is a born liar and there is nothing you can do about it They are entitle to harmful fake life soundOsonic: I met a lady last year, we talked well and vibed well. Later on I would go to her shop to discuss and I would have this eye contact with her and I thought I felt something like a spark though. Even the Lady with her suspected we had a thing together but I just recently knew her. We both talked as if we know each otherfor like forever.
She asked me for my number, I gave her. I never asked her for her number simply because I wanted to make sure that the signal we are getting from each other was purely romantic and not platonic and I wanted to take things slow.
I felt that her asking for my number was that she needed to spend more time with me if I am not available physically. So we started chatting. The chats was going smoothly and to my surprise we do chat all through the day we literally chats all hours of the day. Then I did what all single Hot guy will do, out but apart from the Hot which I am not most times; I asked her out. I was not after sex perse I just wanted enough closure bridging through the platonic platform to a more romantic setting.
But she replied with this exact same words "I am not ready for a relationship, I want to complete my schooling and be focus with my education."
Well despite her reply killed my envisioned sun setting romantic bliss; I understood as she was a good girl, a virgin and someone very focus with academics. I know this because she tells me everything about her things happening each day, minutes and seconds.
I was contented with the platonic relationship, I thought I would wait maybe 2 or 3 years as that's what she was indirectly telling me. A month later from the time I asked her out and was turned down, that time was December: Christmas period. I took my sister out to a nice eatery and I asked her if she could come along as a friend. She obliged but told me she would be going some place after that I said ok.
So after she left to her place of wherever. My sister told me she is worried, I asked her why, she said she went to her guy's place. I was shocked this is a lady that is not ready for relationship. This guy in question is a Yahoo guy by the appearance and all. The guy later broke her heart as that's the first time she is dating I think at 21. Another guy in the area too was like dating her as well after that guy, at the point of dating he got another girl pregnant and broke her heart (same Yahoo guy).
I thought why did she ever chose not to date me. If at all you were not physically attracted to me why didn't you just tell me instead of all these mumbo jumbo. I am actually an average looking guy. Maybe a 6 or even a 7 based on world standard.
My question is why do girls always refuse to date me, I am not a good guy neither am I a bad guy. The one I am asking out says I am not in her level, that she is in a very low level for me to look at her or ask her out. She believes I am after sex.
The next one said I am too low for her. Though she was older. The one I confessed my feelings for her heart isn't even with me but another but she started catching feelings but sometimes she gets to her senses and she convince herself she belongs with another.
The girl who I don't even know that keeps greeting me Everytime but I keep ignoring her, I later went for her after a year she turned me down. I just tire o.
Edit: Not every woman I meet, I ask out. I have a particular type of lady I ask out that depicts my taste. Any Lady beyond or below I show zero interest.
People saying I should move on, I have already. I was never pained o. And those calling me a simp I no even understand, where did you read any simpish move from me? Or do you at all know what SIMP is? My problem isn't sex o. If I wanted sex I would get it easily from those low class street girls without spending a dime. I am after my kind of girls but they are saying NO. |