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Noisemaker

Better for power to remain in the North than for Tinubu to become president.

In 2015 , we know the tribe that put the South in this mess.

Now its payback time. North to rule till South get sense.

Please where is the video?

No time for bullshizt.

I read that his body fluids were found in the victims body.

Omo DNA evidence isnt a joke.

The rewards and harvest of Cornflakes money used to sponsor islamic Jihad.

Let the North enjoy

You should have waited till you can share the story and every relevant thing that will make everyone understand.

This thread is like cooking rice without salt.

Its tasteless

Dskillful:
Please don't mind my errors but I need help because I am really confused...

To cut the story short, I dated a girl for 2 years which her family and mine are fully aware, she's an Igbo girl and I am from Rivers State.

2018 I wanted to get married to her all of a sudden her parents refused, they started talking about tribal differences, I told them even my mum is an Igbo woman but they don't want to to listen. It got worst when the Rev. Fr said no they should not allow her marry me because they are Catholic. I felt very bad, but how will I do, I moved on with my life.

That same year they gave her out in marriage to one guy who based abroad, I congratulated her without any grudges. They got married and this year the man died but they have a son, the man has been buried but I still love her and she is willing to come back to me, infact as it stands we are more than lovers.

But I am giving her space so that she will mourn her husband very well and I don't want people to feel I prayed for the man to die so that I can take her back, because she said nothing will stop her this time. My problem now is should I let her go or marry her because I love her so much 100%?

Dont try that rubbish

This love go soon clear for your eyes now.

Na half past one you wan marry?

Tokunbo?

Better look for a single girl and start afresh.

E be like say she don give you kpekus fuxck.

You have got nice plans mate. I will advise you to go with last idea if you can follow through wih the requirements.

Please leave this shit hole of a country if you can. Even if na Ghana your money carry you reach, just escape this contraption called Nigeria.

Dont get an apartment because the next thing that will come to your mind is settling down.



Another advise is to never allow all these broke Nigerian girls come near you, they are a distraction and liability packaged in their body-revealing outfits.

SarkinYarki:
Nasco knows their founder used his extensive wealth to finance terrorism extensively

Exactly!

They know their late founder is another Abubakar Shekau.

No doubt sbout that.

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JustNumb:
Hey guys I'll just be brief.

Straight to the point.

My wife is having an emotional affair.

Whats making it worse?

It's with a pastor with wife and children. Her pastor when she was in another state.

Now they're both in different states.

How did I know?

I saw her chat with him about 2+ years ago, and saw all the sweet name calling, the pet names and how they tell each other their activities of the day and even marital problems.

All the red flags and checklist of an emotional affair have been ticked by them.

The only thing remaining is the sexual part.

We've been married for some years now, she was a virgin when I married her though I'm 100% sure they have not met since we got married.

But the issue here is that this is causing serious friction in our marriage.

When I first saw it, I gave some time to be sure and I confronted her and she denied and said he's just her pastor (denial is one of the checklist).

Some months later they didn't stop the communication, I was about to tell her mum cos she visited. She pleaded and I let it slide.

Fast forward to 2021 they are still in communication. This time around the so called pastor is even always reminding her to clear chats so I won't see it.

Now emotional affair is actually worse than sexual affair
This pastor has a wife. I just pity the wife cos I can imagine how she would also be feeling.

I provide for the home, I also had to change from biz to the one that makes me travel to something that makes me work from home so she won't say it's cos I'm not always around.

We struggle with our sex life. What do I mean? She doesn't like sex. She doesn't mind if we stay 1 year without sex.

But me I'm a man with sexual needs.

Now when I see the way she doesn't like sex and I remember this emotional affair, it drives me crazy.


Those who have passed thru this, how did you overcome this challenge?
I don't want a broken home for my children cos sometimes I feel like calling her people and telling them to take their daughter back. Infact I'll dash them the bride price.

Do I go and get a side chick? But that won't solve my problem.

Guys come to my aid.

Cos if we discuss this again, this will be the 3rd time we're talking about same issue and same guy.

Sorry wasn't brief

And please do not contact her again about this affair with her pastor. You have spoken about it to her 3 times and she didn't change.

This woman has no value for you.

Mehnn! You are already becoming a simp.

And trust me the pastor is nof the only one she is having thiz with. You haven't seen others yet.

Even if she breaks up with the pastor, others will arise.

Best solution uproot the tree from the root.

The Future is actually fe-Mail


From everything you wrote here, i can conclude she is not attracted to you so basically there is nothing you gonna do to make her change. There is obviously something she craves that you dont have and she is obviously not hiding it from you.

This Pastor is gonna finally dick her whether you agree or not.

As for you, i feel your pains. You love her and want things to work. You can sacrifice for this marriage to work but that thing you married is a HOE. She is already feeling locked by you and wants space to explore her fantasies.


This advise gonna be hard but i will still stick with the bro code and tell my man the truth.
Your search for a compatible partner continues. Find a way to give this fe-mail a chance to go do whatever she wants with her pastor. Get another woman that will be happy to be a wife. Next time avoid virgins.

Make sure to find a woman you can both explore safe sex together before going to the alter.


Kick her out so you get your sanity back.

goziem1982:
Yes sue them if you have the capacity (finance)

Yea thats the only reasonable thing that comes to mind.

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Vaginarian:
Your favorite housemate

Guy you are wicked oooo.

See her kpekus

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Pere should go and collect his own second position from nairaland

Lol

Nice one Cross

You would have long been envicted but no thanks to Liquorose whose swap action earlier in the game helped gather sympathy votes in your favour.


Overall you had a good stay in the house

Finally this uncouth, shameless, untrained, public toilet has bern evicted from the house.

Those who kept voting for her can go suck her slippers boobz as compensation.

This LovePeddler called angel is a disgrace to womanhood


Tueh!

Emmanuel a man with few words.....

You dont talk or act much but do it wihen its necessary.

But trust Nigerians and their taste for lousiness, mediocrity and noise.

They will rather vote whitemoney because of bandwagon syndrome