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Growing up and avid for info as to what women want, how to toast,chike, make the happy, have them love me, fall for me etc, I learned so many misleading things.
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I was told that I shouldn't treat a woman nicely lest she take me as a piece of shit.
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This notion appears to be quixotic, utopian and flies in the face of reasonableness. It does't chime with what is practically obtainable.
It runs athwart of what I see in real life.
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I see many happily married couples whose marriages are quintessence of what an ideal marrige should be.
There is one that both the husband and the wife communicate like siblings and adore each other. In fact the wife was giving him a good hair cut yesterday. He doesn't treat her badly yet she loves and adores him and he is in control.
I can't get how a woman will love me when I treat her badly.
Who loves who treats them badly?
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I was also given the impression that a real man shouldn't engage in house chores as that may emasculate him.
Yet I see plenitude of men that help out and their wives are all thanks for it.
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Again, I was given the impression that women don't like nice guys yet I see the opposite on daily basis.
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I stand to be controverted though.
There are so many others hence YOU CAN ADD YOURS:

Yeske: Holla. I can't pronounce the letter 'r' correctly and it is embarrassing. What can I do that will make me pronounce it well? I'm tired of pronouncing rice as wice.

I know this is in the wrong section, I don't know where to post it and I want a lot of ideas on the topic. Thanks.

Guy thats lambdacism. I'm not trying to sound optimistic here but its no big deal. It happens to some people like Anambrarians. Just like some yorubas can't pronounce the letter H. And the hausas with many pronunciation defects too.
You can google the term lambdacism for further info.

madame_bebe: Aawww op you have rhotacism. Googoo dee meaneen.. Lol @ saying wice hahah .. Don't let it weigh you down.

No it's lambdacism

Lust may be difficult to be completely divorced from love.
I met a girl yesterday at the cybercafe, they were discussing some issues. I was listening and watching her from afar.
I was attracted particularly by her disposition and demeanour which she betrayed in the cousre of the discussion and when what she wanted to do became problematic.
I wanted to ignore her, but couldnt restrain myself from commending her behaviour and later collecting her number. I will still call her...

It may be elusive to completely divorce lust from love.
Again, what you mean by sudden love is imprecise. Example, I met a girl yesterday at the cybercafe, they were discussing some issues. I was listening and watching her from afar.
I was attracted particularly by her disposition and demeanour which she betrayed in the cousre of the discussion and when what she wanted to do became problematic.
I wanted to ignore her, but couldnt restrain myself from commending her behaviour and later collecting her number. I will still call her...

Chanchit: This OP is a great man o, always onhand to recieve the want aways, from epilepcy to eseke. Just like my friend wei get Phd in dating ugly gurls.
Anyway, I can date them on contract basis.

But
Ugliness just like beauty is relative.
It is instructive too to note that a person's view of an attractive person may be influenced by a lot of things like childhood experiences.
for instance, I prefer dark women to fair ones. I can't even give a reason for that. Thats just the way it is.

Ebiexy3: I can't date a physically challenged person even if he's the richest man.

I respect your opinion of it. But then again dispel the deducible notion from your post that most people that will date them will do so just because of their money. I think there has got more to it than money.

Yes, I can date one.
I saw one the other day alighting from an okada, she was beaming with smiles, her countenance and visage was filled with optimism. It was infectious.

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Too many media influences causing problems here and there.
You see chubby and attractive people killing themselves to be slim. God knows that I personally will do nothing with any of these skinny girls the media present as ideal and trendy stuffs.
Most things we wish for are quixotic, utopian and unrealiazable, they are just alice in wonderland. It's unfortunate that most people, especially girls realize that very late.
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Moreover, people shouldnt be judged based on physical attributes alone. Because these are things nobody bargained for. They deserve to love and be loved.

Yes, I can date one.

There is more to attraction than beauty or physical attributes. Most girls I have become smitten by and enamoured with is basically because of their character.
Once a woman is good, humane and considerate and virtuous, I can't help but like her unconditionally and unaccountably.
At bottom, a braw dude or lass without character is like a golden ring in the snout of a pig.

I may be interested in anything but football. I can't bear the inordinate obsession with it. I am still to know how it can have a bearing on my life.
I have made unsuccessful frantic efforts to have a penchant for it.
So if I should lose a job opportunity because of that then so be it.
Bar all that is stated above, the tidings are felicitous, instructive and illuminating.

Gibberish

If u buy say, supposing a phone is 20,000 here. And u see the same description at 15,000 online. Wont you be at a loss at the end of the day.
what is the sent item is defective?

Yes this has come to say. The dichotomy will continue to be there because there is no sign of it bottoming out.
The belief that all men are born equal is specious. At bottom, some are naturally more intelligent than others. Nature made it so. University admission is very competitive hence anybody that desires same should exert themselves and embrace the industry it requires.
Moreover. Everyone musn't attend a varsity or go for a competitive course.

It is axiomatic that life is a business. People are looking for greener pastures. This the girl has found in the other guy. It's unfortunate but true that you don't have the wherewithal she needs. This girl has stated explicitly and not impliedly why he wants to leave.
Similar cases abound in all facets of life. You come to high schools and see women throwing themselves at lecturers; giving all signs and green lighs to get their attention--- because of what?--- the lecturer has got the grades they need because they are bimbos.
The girl wants to go for the highest bid, hence you should let her be.

This is the second time I have written something here and have it either hidden or removed by the pussilanimous, spineless and lily-llivered dregs-- the moderators of Romance.
Of course am not startled because this is what happens when men of low estate command even diddy affairs.
It is eludes understanding how a dolts will hide or remove your post without let or hindrance.
Can't one express his opinions again?
He just hid my topic creation facility in Romance section
Show your ars.ss coward...

Wow! Please I need that kind of girl. Fat! They trip me.

Wow! Please I need that kind of girl. Fat! The trip me.

My Small World :
Actually, some fat girls ςªŋ't help themselves. It has something to do with the production of something, something ( ςªŋ't remember the medical jargon) by the thyroid gland. But, there's medication for it if they knew and went for diagnosis. Then you ςªŋ separate the lazy from the ones with medical issues.

Sounds reasonable, and not those ill-read and uninformed pedagogues teaching and posting bunkum here...