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RomanceRe: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Saecula: 7:19pm On Oct 01, 2014
moonraker: Clap for yourself.

I would like to thank you for summoning up the balls to respond. Alot of people on here write bullshit and just disappear.

Now for someone who is still very much in school, it surprising that you figured that i was that sort of person. funny.

To respond to your question, YES!!! you read that right, i would discourage my sister against broke guys but if you were that

bright, you will notice that in my very first response, i never ever touched on that.

I problem with your bullshit is that its bad enough that you classify your bf as broke who can barely spend on you. Then why o why

would you complain that he doesnt get anything for your friends?? are you for real?? You honestly think that those friends of yours

have best interest in mind?? I dont know who your friends are. but here is rule of thumb, the only person whos opinion matters is yours and

not your friends. Anyways, am done.
Guy you are spewing gibberish by saying that the opinion of friends dont matter. So if you are Igbo, you mean you can easily marry a northerner if your family and relations are against it by saying 'that their opinions don't count'?

The poster equally made it clear that ordinarily she wouldn't mind but that the feeling is not slick.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Sad Reality Of Job Hunting In Nigeria by Saecula: 10:32am On Sep 29, 2014
Your write up reeks of pessimism and defeatist approach.
I want to counter in srong terms the idea that 'you must be connected to get a job'. Scores still get jobs in multinationals without being connected to even the gate man. Because most of these firms don't compromise with competence and credidbility.

What people should know is that whole stuff is now damn competitive hence pundits counsel that students graduate with good grades as this gives them an egde in the competitive market.
EducationRe: Pls Help Me Chose A Good Course by Saecula: 10:22am On Sep 29, 2014
You mean you want to study anything at all? Don't you have passion for some things? What were your dreams while growing up and all the while in college?


Again, from analysis of your result, you did art in school, so medical, health and science arelated courses are not for you.

Again, you didn't make literature law is not for you.

I wonder if you can study courses like Accountancy, Banking and finance Economics because of the absence of Econs, again, this vary with schools involved.

You need to make a proper appraisal before you make a mistake. In fact, if need be you might consider siiting another waec, this is dependent on the outcome of your appraisals.
Finally, I wouldn't recommend sociology in this age because it is not classified and incestuos.
FamilyRe: My Father Died Of An Extra-marital Affair. Fela Durotoye by Saecula: 9:53am On Sep 29, 2014
asodeboyede: Hope the son has learnt from his dad too!

Lessons for all!
If I cant have you then nobody will. Womwn and jealousy since time immemorial.
RomanceRe: Why Do Some Girls Let Their Friends Decide Their Love Life For Them? by Saecula:
Hunty: I'm talking of someone you already have feelings for but u don't wanna have a relationship with cos of your friends. And when a friend makes a derogatory comment on a girl u like, u let him see ur reasons. Developing hatred towards such girl cos of what your friend said means you never liked the girl
And who said so. I'm telling you that the effect on the person usually is subliminal. You might start seeing issues where hitherto none existed. You could become impatient and less likely to condone her excesses as you used to. The truth is that one person does not marry in this part of the world. As an Igbo man, you could fall in love with a northern girl only for your people to disapprove of her on the ground of ethnicity. In this case do you think going on with her will be easy. Just imagine several persons making a positive comment about your fiancee as opposed to derogatory one.
CelebritiesRe: Lindaikeji Trips To Dubai With Family (see Photos) by Saecula: 3:54am On Sep 29, 2014
The pics were snapped with nokia torch and that's why they are so clear.
RomanceRe: Why Do Some Girls Let Their Friends Decide Their Love Life For Them? by Saecula: 7:48pm On Sep 25, 2014
AfricanApple: this is what they call generalization. its only a Lady who is confused and cannot see where her path leads that will let friends decide her love life for her
Ivanspring: She has inferiority complex combined with a weak will. Dating such a person could be a disaster because her friends can tell her to add some foreign bodies to your food in the bid to make you love her more and she'd do it too. Be careful.
I don't think it's about not knowing what she wants or inferiority complex. The truth is that a lot of things ranging from friends to the society affect our decisions. I can have a girl I don't think is of value and a friend might say ' boy this girl make sense o, it could be beauty, character wise etc. That comment might make me start seeing her in that light. As opposed to when a friend says ' o boy wetin u dey do with dis kain girl'. Its true that I have my life to live and make my decisions, but that comment could have subliminal effect on me which could in turn lead to hatred towards the girl.
PhonesRe: Important Information On MTN SME Data Share Service Purchased From Others by Saecula: 8:19am On Sep 19, 2014
luluosas: The bolded is never possible on this MTN SME data platform because MTN had already programmed the data to be transferred at a time to 250MB, 500MB, 750MB and 1GB data volumes. So what EnterPRO did for you was to transfer 50MB from his personal subscription to compensate you. Thank you.
Can one transfer data on mtn, like me transferring to my younger sis? if yes, how?
EducationRe: University Of Nigeria [ UNN ] 2014/2015 Admission Thread by Saecula: 3:48pm On Sep 04, 2014
lawrenceunaa: report to the email address below ur result
OK thanks. I enquired and they said nothing could be done abt it
EducationRe: University Of Nigeria [ UNN ] 2014/2015 Admission Thread by Saecula: 11:35am On Sep 04, 2014
pls one can a person do if only one subject came out in his post utme result ie English was scored other su were zero
PhonesRe: GIONEE M2 Discussion Thread. by Saecula: 7:13pm On Aug 30, 2014
thanks dozie
PhonesRe: GIONEE M2 Discussion Thread. by Saecula: 5:30pm On Aug 30, 2014
bought the phone you yesterday but no me Memory card in it. pls does it come with memory card?
RomanceRe: Reduce The Number Of Women In Your Life And Be Financially Buoyant. by Saecula: 9:06am On Dec 27, 2013
softsparky: Na mumu dey spend money on top girl head.allow a girl to like you naturally before showing her what you can do for her.

The first time I asked my boyfriend for recharge card he warned me seriously not to try that rubbish again, he later sent me 1500 two.since then I no fit open my mouth beg him for recharge card.he gives me things at his own time.he don't make promises, he will just tell you yes or no.
hahahahhaah
RomanceRe: Reduce The Number Of Women In Your Life And Be Financially Buoyant. by Saecula: 1:12pm On Dec 20, 2013
nice one @ @op,
moderators, front page things

nice one @ @op,
moderators, front page things

nice one @ @op,
moderators, front page things
RomanceRe: Was I Wrong To Reject His Money? by Saecula: 7:46am On Dec 18, 2013
from the op's posts so far, she is level and cool headed, smart and wifely. The way she responsd to contumelious posts is becoming and ladylike and smarks of a cultured lass. Good deporment is a huge turn on for me and I prefer it to beauty anytime anyday.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Third Class Candidates by Saecula: 10:41pm On Nov 30, 2013
@OP, who told you that having a first class is a guaranty to success, neither is a 3rd class. It's just that the former opens doors and grants access to interviews.

just hope you don't have inferiority complex. The fact that you excelled is owed more to serendipity. And your case is among the few exceptions which are there to prove the rule.
RomanceRe: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Saecula: 9:28am On Nov 09, 2013
Niccollo Machiavelli once remarked that 'never has anything great being achieved without danger'.
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He that risks nothing, does nothing, is nothing and will become nothing----- Leo Buscaglia.

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Your major problem is fear of failure and risk taking.
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You will sure meet rejections so be prepared for it as it's no big deal.
No guy no matter how handsome, rich or whatever will say he has never been turned down. But again does it matter. At least some will say yes while some will say no. And it would be stupid to assume that because you get turned down that you are not good enough as tastes varies with individuals. Like pesonally i prefer dark women as opposed to those that like them fair.

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The only way to conquer whatever you are afraid of is by doing that.

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So go out there and meet women you find interesting and be yourself. With time you start to get comfortable with them.

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Also set your priorities right, ie you should know if this stage of your life is the opportune time to engage in serious relationship.
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The world id your oyster
Good luck.
PoliticsRe: Anambra Elections And Gov Peter Obi Recent Spending Spree by Saecula: 8:03am On Nov 08, 2013
The only way APGA can win in Anambra is through rigging. Despite all bravado being displayed by Obi's camp, Ngiges supporters are still staunch.

People are tired of being slapped in the face in the guise of being presented with a stooge in the character of Willie Obiano. He should have at least allowed him to come out and stand on his own, or just be rendering tacit support and not bring himself out as though he Peter Obi were the one contesting. He is seeing this as a battle between him and Ngige.

The argument of zoning to Anambra north is again lame and phoney. It's just a decoy --- an appeal to pity. I trust Anambrarians astuteness though.

The issue of APC being a non Igbo party is ludicrous. Granted, the party and the candidate are inextricably linked a sort of. But in effect we vote for personalities and not individuals.
Again, those people shouting APC is a non Igbo party has the deepest insecurities and they are also the ones attending non Igbo Churches like Winners Chapel, Redeemed, etc.





The recent death of many at the Uke adoration ground has also enured to the disadvantage of Obi's camp.
Nine days left...
RomanceRe: How Can I Know She Love Me by Saecula: 8:44am On Nov 07, 2013
abimbs: How can i know that a girl that am really in love with love me back.
Basically, love initially comes as tingles, thats why you may love a person without actually knowing the reason in particular. But as things unfold love may now have to be a choice.
Again, sometimes love, lust and infatuation are inextricably linked.

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You can know if she can sacrifice for you. It doesnt have to be money but time, pleasure, comfort etc. If she can do these and also wants your happiness and success, then I wonder what else is involved if not love.
FamilyRe: Helping Most Nigerian Women End In Drama: Why? by Saecula: 4:13pm On Nov 04, 2013
ingratitude is a vice. People generally including men are not immune to this. Thats why if I feel like helping people I do it and forget it. It's sheer foolhardiness to do things for people especially women and expect something in return. I can train a woman in Uni, but never with the intention of marrying her afterwards. I will just be training her as a woman being that needs help. But if ultimately we both feel like we can live together forever, then it may be welcome. It's a very bad thing to be ungrateful anyway
RomanceRe: What Does She Mean When She Playfully Tells You That You Are SHORT by Saecula: 6:39pm On Sep 29, 2013
I cringe at the farrago of inane comments here syptomatic of a place filled by juveniles.
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@OP, the girl could be the free and playful type that talks a lot without attaching much to it. It would be very ongenuous if you attach more meanings that are required to this apparently innocuous statement.
I guess you should use other avenues to find out who you are to her.
RomanceRe: I Don Beg For 2wks by Saecula: 9:05am On Sep 26, 2013
phraze: The easiest way to a mans heart is by cooking. Find out hs best meal and prepare it for hm. U could tel his sistaz to serve hm wit it. If they tel hm u wre the one who made the meal. My dear he wil find u himself. If he doesnt inbox me! U deserve mor'
PoliticsRe: INEC Releases List Of Candidates For Anambra Polls by Saecula: 6:35am On Sep 26, 2013
moshino: Name calling, derogatory remarks and perceived big words only begs the question, and infantile to say the least. What will impress, is if you can factually refute the published allegations, or get your principal, Mr. Ukachukwu to sue for defamation. Until then, you can go and lecture Mr. Ukachukwu on honesty and civility, maybe you can use some of the big words you've learned so far to impress him.
I will indulge your green and puerile attitude, it might not be your fault afterall, maybe you weren't properly educated.
PoliticsRe: INEC Releases List Of Candidates For Anambra Polls by Saecula: 6:56pm On Sep 25, 2013
Chino_Is_Back: [s][/s]


TRASH!

Next patience please....!
cool
I'm abjectly sorry for not breaking my post down so that dolts and striplings like you will twig and comprehend. Please bear with me.
PoliticsRe: INEC Releases List Of Candidates For Anambra Polls by Saecula: 6:52pm On Sep 25, 2013
moshino: [b]Nicholas Ukachukwu will NEVER smell Anambra State Governoship, anyone else can become governor of Anambra and I don't mind, but NOT nicholas ukachukwu. He's an illiterate, a rogue, a thief, a criminal, and a murderer. Here is his history;

[/b]http://elombah.com/index.php/articles-mainmenu/17530-nicholas-ukachukwu-and-his-deceits-anambra-deserves-to-know-the-truth

http://www.elombah.com/index.php/special-reports/17537-what-kind-of-a-governor-nicholas-ukachukwu-will-make
I don't have confab with paid boot lickers and wusses like you who are always obsequeous and servile bereft of scruples.
PoliticsRe: INEC Releases List Of Candidates For Anambra Polls by Saecula: 12:01pm On Sep 25, 2013
ukachukwu ka anyi ga- eso.

PoliticsRe: INEC Releases List Of Candidates For Anambra Polls by Saecula: 11:56am On Sep 25, 2013
Willie Obiano behaves like a dolt. He looks deaf and dumb. Obi's chicanery will fail woefully. He is just trying to appeal top pity by foisting Obiano on Anambrarians in the guise of having not ruled Anambra since over two decades.
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Andy Uba and Ifeanyi Uba have criminal records and can't be trusted at this time.
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Since Ngige's sojourn at the senate he has been battling with farrago of criticisms, the latest steming from his comments concerning Fashola's deportation of some Igbo's. At least most people interpreted that to mean that he is trying to defend his party and curry favour from them.
Again, he didn't do anything at least with his constituency allowance aside some mediocre solar lights being installed haphazardly.
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Soludo should have been the best candidate if he were in APGA, because at least when there are two evils you choose the lesser one.
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From the foregoing, my best candidate as it stands is Nicholas Ukachukwu, his philanthropy, munificence, and magnanimity is ginormous, at least I have experirnced it firsthand.
Christianity EtcRe: How To Know God Exists by Saecula: 6:01am On Sep 22, 2013
your argument begs the question
PhonesRe: Airtel BB Plan Not Browsing On PC- Help by Saecula: 3:28pm On Sep 08, 2013
yhellow: The 1500 BIS subscription does nt work on system. Only 1200 and 1400 does
Who told you? Don't mislead people here.
Airtel 1200 and 1500 work on both phone and system. Am hundred percent sure. Thats what im even posting this with. It works on all my browsable 'nokia' phones and system too

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