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I wail and moan when I see people comparing themselves with others, comparing their male/female friends with that of others, comparing their wives and husbands with that of their friends, comparing their sons and daughters with that of their neighbours, comparing everything even to the extent of comparing cars, phones and other cosmopolitan things. Asking rhetorical questions such as, why must she marry before me? Why must her son make money before mine? Why must this and why must that. Honestly, one needs not be told that these things are futile, bunkum and gibberish. I am not preaching to anyone. But the granite fact is that we've got to love ourselves, got to appreciate what we have, got to understand that the world is not about comparison but contribution. Just do your best, leave the rest for God, accept the things you can't change or control and be hilariously happy. Happy New Year Once Again, Au revoir, Shalom!

Let me remonstrate smartish lest I will be accused of sexmongering. I look forward to the day, that this sex obsession, inundation and deluge will deteriorate and plunge into and irredeemable milieu. Relationship section of this site has soared and progressed at the dire expense of every other part of this forum ranging from Education to Entertainment. Indubitably this three letter word (sex)has stupefied, mesmerized and beguiled us. It has sent many to the world of mirrage, illusion and wishful thinking. Running out to avoid what happened to St Stephen in the bible.Shalom. Tak kia.

Buddies, Lately I have been contemplating on the aforementioned clause. Below are the thoughts that have deluged my little mind. What makes a woman to be in a man's class or vice - versa? Is it education, wealth, power affluence etc. Now I have come to a facile conclusion that it would amount to thoughtlessness, superciliousness and hoity toity attitude to write people off with the words not in my class, simply because they aren't educated to your level or not from a rich family. Also is the fact that the inability to have a good education per se is not usually the fault of the victim but mere lack of the privilege either because of financial constraints on the part of the parents or otherwise. Furthermore, since we were'nt consulted at creation, we had not option to choose which family to belong to hence the need not to snub people or look down on them, saying that they are not your class. Finally, the fact that you are privileged enough to have come from a rich family, to have had a good education is not in anyway your own making but the blessing of the Lord. So it would amount to callousness to despise others. Please, don't be imperious, help those that you think you are better than. Kindly give ya lovely opinion. Thank u. Tak kia. Shalom!

Hope you have seen Jonathans and Atikus wrestlemania cartoon, I mean the one being sold by newspaper vendors. It was a myriad of laughter when I saw it. The climax was when Jonathan was doing atiku smackdown, Honestly, I laughed die.

Honestly, training a girl in school these days with a view to marrying her usually boomerangs. Look at the case of my maternal uncle: He picked this girl from a humble background, sent her to UNIBEN and later married her, (she cajoled him to have court wedding), they now have three children, a boy and two girls but the problem is that this girl now uses my uncle as football, always likes her decision to prevail over his, used his whopping sum of dough to send her brothers abroad. As if these were not enough, she now uses their residence in Ajao, Estate, Lagos to entertain her male friends because the chap now recides abroad whence he sends goods that are sold by his house boys at Alaba, who in turn send him money through western union. So I conclude by saying that training a girl nowadays seems to be an impudent act except in extreme cases, what do you think?

With all probity I don't think there is any need for this furore in the name of voter registration and its attendant presidential election, since we all saw how Goodluck Ebele Azikiwe 'Nnamdi' Jonathan clinched a stupefying victory at the Primary. Again, it is glaringly obvious that any PDP flag bearer will invariably win overwhemingly at the Main Election. Finally, Methinks that this forthcoming election will amount to sheer waste of resources since it is palpably clear that GEJ is unopposed. (So, 'shiaharie ya'. I kwuo gini?) Tak kia. Shalom!

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Lately, there has been torrents of complaints mostly from chaps that their wives are evil, have bad attitudes, disrespectful, can't do this and that, etc,, hence the inestimable number of them craving divorce just after few months of marriage. What dispirits me from the whole scenario is that these same men complaining, were the ones basking in their supposed sizzling romance during courtship. What then prevented them from noticing from the beginning, this incompatibility they are now grousing over if not THE THRILLS OF THE WOMAN'S BODY, which mesmerised, befuddled and prevented them from having critical thoughts. (I quite know that some, not all pretend during courtship but such can only be used on a man that is not observant enough). What do you think?

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For sometime now I have watched the vacuousness of youthful existence. I have watched with stun how SEX has wreaked humongous havoc on our youths. I haved watched dolefully its failure in making good its (sex) promises of pleasure, psychological, emotional and overall well being. I have also watched the spate at which the lives of our potential leaders are marred at the expense of few minutes of useless, ephemeral and tosh pleasure. What is more baffling is the fact that the few minutes pleasure we get from SEX is downwright disproportionate and incommensurate to what we give hence we are often left with feeling of guilt and compuction after the shameful act. Oh! it is regrettable and saddening. I can't help but say that Sex has indeed failed us. Ta-ta, Mon Ami(e)s.

In the olden days our parents lived with little or no dress yet there were little or no promiscuity as opposed to what is obtainable these days. So buddies what the heck really went wrong?

@MR BROWN JAY, I was stupefied by your abuse of the pronoun 'WE'. What makes you think that those your irrational pontifications pertains to everyone. The way you generalised as if you were an arbiter or better still knew what was in our minds wasn't methodogical. It's like you still have a myopic or blurred view about life. In fact your comments are bunkum and gibberish and has not vestige of sense in it. Illusions and mirages are rife in it. It is palpable that you must have spoken out of ignorance or sheer youthful exurberance. I am a man and I know whereof I speak. And to other that were ignorantly praising him, I humbly advise that you get out of your soporific state and embrace existential realities. PLEASE, LET NO ONE ESPECIALLY LADIES LISTEN TO HIS INCOHERENT BLABBINGS AND TWADDLE. I am peeved.

Upset

It an aberration that this site has deteriorated to an irredeemable state. It is heart rending that it has plunged to a puerile state where all sorts of balderdash are discussed. The disparity between what is discussed here and what happens out there is majorly.Eighty percent of things that are discussed here are quixotic, utopian and irrelevant. This occurs mostly in romance section. I believe it's time we stopped deluding ourselves and come to grip with the realities of life. Let no one live in fool's paradise. Shalom!

How far?

Wetin?

Wetin?

Why do people commit suicide? Why are some tired of living? It is when sorrow transcends happiness to the extent that the victim's resilient strenght is exhausted. In our quest for happiness we often resort to all sorts of social menace like smoking, undue drinking and humanizing. Men often take delight in what can best be described as foolhardiness, or what else can we call the malicious and reprehensible onslaught being unleashed on ladies by men. Why on earth will a man intentionally try to date a lady he has a preconceived notion, ie he is blitheringly sure that he cannot take to the isle. He revels in the feigned and phoney love that he extends to her, and some ruthlessly leaves this inglorious dating protracted, only to ditch the lady when he might have despoiled and plundered her, at a time when she probably might have innocuosly given her heart to him and after she might have rejected all other advances from men who might have had genuine crush for her. The conclusion of the whole matter is that these despicable and neantherthal philanderers go about their businesses with the uncanny thought that Nemesis will extol them for leaving these benign and mostly jejune ladies forlon and dejected. They brag and count it as one of their achievements and thus should be patted and praised in glowing terms. How warped and blurred their visions are because the spirit of these girls will cry to the high heavens for vengeance. How erroneous their thoughts are because nothing in this planet works like magic. They forget that the biblical fathers eating sour grapes and the childrens teeth being set on edge and the proverbial saying that what men do lives after them is no longer tenable. What men do these days lives, sleeps, dines and wines with them. Finally, it is understandable that harvest must be greater that the seed. If we continue in this heinous demeanour, our posterity will be bleak. Honestly we will writhe in pains, our children will follow our footsteps because the apple can never fall too far from the tree. They will be despoiled, abused and even rap**d before our very eyes just like it was in David and Uriah's case. Let us bequeath good legacy, fairness and uprightness. I pray that this will not indict or find us wanting, Amen. Shalom!

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Which fabricated picture is this?

I decry unequivocally and unreservedly the outright abuse and derailment of this site mostly as it regards EDUCATION by these so called, self acclaimed and demented "Doctors, ranging from Dr. D*nald, Am*di  Ab*niyi , et al. It is indubitably worrisome that these  dunces are filling this site with their irrelevant, extraneous and uncanny 'Skam' and "Spirm" news. I also bemoan in its peak, the ineptitude on the part of the M*der*tors to sanction these impostors and spurious charlatans. For crying out loud, they are making this site tedious and boring for serious minds and by extension reducing it to frustrating, decrepitude and abysmal state. It is also their unholy culture to open multiple accounts and thereby having inane conversations with themselves as a way of enticing unsuspecting, jejune and gullible people so as to hoodwink them to release their hard earned cash. I want all and sundry to be wary of these phoney characters and wolves in sheep clothing. Finally, all hand must be on deck if we are  to get rid of these lacklustre 'Skamm*rs' and 'Spirmm*rs'. I also  wholeheartedly call on the big hearted M*der*tors of this site especially the Education threads, to abate this ugly trend in infancy before it exacerbates and metamorphoses to an irreversible, insuperable and egregious state." Let us rise and fight"

I decry unequivocally and unreservedly the outright abuse and derailment of this site mostly as it regards EDUCATION by these so called, self acclaimed and demented "Doctors, ranging from Dr. D*nald, Am*di Ab*niyi , et al. It is indubitably worrisome that these dunces are filling this site with their irrelevant, extraneous and uncanny 'Skam' and "Spirm" news. I also bemoan in its peak, the ineptitude on the part of the M*der*tors to sanction these impostors and spurious charlatans. For crying out loud, they are making this site tedious and boring for serious minds and by extension reducing it to frustrating, decrepitude and abysmal state. It is also their unholy culture to open multiple accounts and thereby having inane conversations with themselves as a way of enticing unsuspecting, jejune and gullible people so as to hoodwink them to release their hard earned cash. I want all and sundry to be wary of these phoney characters and wolves in sheep clothing. Finally, all hand must be on deck if we are to get rid of these lacklustre 'Skamm*rs' and 'Spirmm*rs'. I also wholeheartedly call on the big hearted M*der*tors of this site especially the Education threads, to abate this ugly trend in infancy before it exacerbates and metamorphoses to an irreversible, insuperable and egregious state." Let us rise and fight"

Why was I banned. They asked me to send my name to antispam@nairaland.Com. I sent my name to anti, through Email but haven't seen any results. Is there any other way to do it?

Injudicious spending