Romance › Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Safiaa(f): 6:16pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
LadyGoddiva: I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too? Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her. And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape. Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now. Thats understandable. His actions are not justifiable whatsoever. He did have sex without her consent which is rape. That doesnt dispute that as women we need to take responsibility for ourselves. Not everybody has morals and principles, and not everybody thinks like us. Understand that. If you put yourself in such a dangerous/sexual environment please don't act dumbfounded when things don't go to your plans. As young adults we need to act with caution and protect ourselves first. Especially as women. They're certain things you just don't do, I'm sorry. Nobody is to be trusted 100% in this world. Simple. |
Romance › Re: My Libido Is Too High. Help!! by Safiaa(f): 6:04pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
If you think about it..3 minutes of kpa kpa kpa is kinda long. 180 seconds...  |
Celebrities › Re: When Banky W Picked Wizkid Up From The Slum, Ojuelegba (Throwback Photos) by Safiaa(f): 6:01pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
ChiefPiiko: hey dear, how are you? Im doing okay. And you? |
Celebrities › Re: When Banky W Picked Wizkid Up From The Slum, Ojuelegba (Throwback Photos) by Safiaa(f): 4:51pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Nobody knows why wizkid didn't attend. Please free the guy. |
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Family › Re: My Wife Is Adulterous: Advice Needed-long Post by Safiaa(f): 11:14am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Afonjanightmare: You girls / women don't understand the meaning of the word "Man", when ladies start paying bride price and financing weddings then you can have a say. The wife is a liar and adultrous demon. Op, let that bitch go Oh please! Shut up man. |
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Romance › Re: My Near Death Experience With My Ex-girlfriend by Safiaa(f): 7:35pm On Nov 25, 2017 |
Very scary if its true. |
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Celebrities › Re: 'You Are Mine': Adesua Etomi To Banky W As She Shares Official Wedding Photo by Safiaa(f): 4:28pm On Nov 25, 2017 |
dayo2me: well, rumour has it that she is a vir... Shes definitely not. |
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Romance › Re: Who Cheats Most In A Relationship.the Guys: Or The Ladies: by Safiaa(f): 12:57pm On Nov 25, 2017 |
ijayc: men cheat most when a girl is in love she will do everything to keep you How much the world has changed since 10 years ago when you made this comment. |
Romance › Re: Ladies Is This True? by Safiaa(f): 9:13pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
Because men and women are not the same. |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by Safiaa(f): 7:06pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
ibkayee: I like it, I think the video helped lol, I like the first girl dancing and the way they shot her and the video Yeah me too. Like the creativity of the video. I just love davido  |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by Safiaa(f): 6:39pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
ChiefPiiko: It's just a feel good jam, nothing super about it, I am not impressed yeah a lot of people don't like it. Its similar to 'IF'. I love it though, it's catchy. |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by Safiaa(f): 6:29pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
ChiefPiiko: Is the jam nice?? Yet to take a listen Yup. I love it. |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by Safiaa(f): 6:21pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
Davido - Like dat. |
Crime › Re: Maryam Sanda Weeps, Arraigned In Court For Killing Her Husband, Bilyaminu Bello by Safiaa(f): 3:36pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]See the way madam is holding the Koran and carrying her baby. They will always want to play the sympathy card.
Her counsel should shut up. When she was stabbing her husband she didn’t know that she was a nursing mother. They should lock her up somewhere she can’t see the light of day.
Evil and heartless woman. [/color] What she did was absolutely disgusting. No justification, and she deserves prison. I just believe she did this act out of anger. I don't believe she was in her right senses, honestly. Either way, she must suffer the consequences. |
Romance › Re: Meet My New Beautiful Girlfriend - Photos by Safiaa(f): 10:16am On Nov 24, 2017 |
Ginaz: Really? So I should not give myself hypertension? But I should sit down quietly to be insulted cos of you abi? Well, I don't know and don't care if you love to be insulted.
So I will scream and shout on top your head when I am being insulted so we can both have hypertension together. Alright oh.. |
Romance › Re: Meet My New Beautiful Girlfriend - Photos by Safiaa(f): 9:31am On Nov 24, 2017 |
Ginaz: And you this girl safiaa, you are the one causing all this, you have never for once tried to deny this accusations that I am safiaa. You always keep quiet. I don't know if your acts are deliberate, but I won't take this Shiit anymore.
People insult me cos of the misconception I am safiaa. If not you, will I be commenting on this idiot airforce1 thread?
You have to burst this seed you are sowing in people's mind that I am safiaa. Any insult on my person cos of you I will not tolerate it. I will give them hot till they get it in their stinking skull that I'm not you. Why are you giving yourself hypertension/ high blood pressure this morning? People will believe what they want to believe. There's no proof and you and I both know that its not true, what else again? Are you really bothered by NLanders? Please oh, don't come and bring your wahala to my mentions, Ah beggg. |
Romance › Re: Am Doing The Undo T9te by Safiaa(f): 10:00pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
I sprinkle this thread with holy water. |
Fashion › Re: The Contestants Of Miss Ife World Pageant (Photos) by Safiaa(f): 9:19pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
Let me keep quiet. |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerians React As Ebuka Arrives Cape Town For Banky W's White Wedding by Safiaa(f): 9:14pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
ChiefPiiko: I am sorry dear, what happened?? I think its the weather. Its cold. |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerians React As Ebuka Arrives Cape Town For Banky W's White Wedding by Safiaa(f): 9:11pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
ChiefPiiko: Coz u annoy me  My throat is dry and itchy  |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerians React As Ebuka Arrives Cape Town For Banky W's White Wedding by Safiaa(f): 8:04pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
ChiefPiiko: I feel like giving you a friendly pat on the skull with a hammer and I am sure you know why, I no longer love you from now on  Why  ?? |
Romance › Re: Lara Kudayisi: "I Had A Child At 19, 15 Abortions & 14 Heartbreaks, Now Married" by Safiaa(f): 8:03pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
15 abortions? C'mon now that's absolutely ridiculous. |
Crime › Re: Who Is Maryam Sanda? Profile Of Wife Who Stabbed Husband Bilyamin Muhammed Bello by Safiaa(f): 8:01pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
tit: She has kill before. We knows her Hmmm. Interesting |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerians React As Ebuka Arrives Cape Town For Banky W's White Wedding by Safiaa(f): 8:01pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
ChiefPiiko: He is also a lawyer and a business man most likely Nice |
Celebrities › Re: ''This Is Not Agbada'' - Femi Branch To Ebuka & His Tailor, Ugo Monye by Safiaa(f): 7:59pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
puregrace: IGBO PEOPLE SEE OPINION/CRITICISMS AS BEING HATEFUL AND JEALOUS. THEY FORGET PEOPLE FIND FAULT IN IPHONE X EVEN SAMSUNG S8. WHY IS THERE REVIEW IF U DON'T WANT CRITICS. I dont understand oh. Even though I don't agree with femi, he's entitled to his opinion. What exactly is there to be jealous of? Is it not just ordinary cloth? Some people just like to feel unnecessarily important. |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerians React As Ebuka Arrives Cape Town For Banky W's White Wedding by Safiaa(f): 7:50pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
Flashh: What does this Ebuka do for a living? Because, I have never heard of him, not till this Banky's wedding. Tv presenter. |
Crime › Re: Who Is Maryam Sanda? Profile Of Wife Who Stabbed Husband Bilyamin Muhammed Bello by Safiaa(f): 7:10pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
This story is absolutely disgusting. |
Celebrities › Re: Adesua Etomi And Banky W Release New Photos From South Africa by Safiaa(f): 8:50am On Nov 23, 2017 |
I really hope they last. |