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peter0071:
Biko sleep over it. i have few questions for you before you make that decision:
1. whats her genotype
2. whats her blood group.
3. what.s her character
4. what type of lady is she?
5. lastly, confirm that she is not pregnant and wants to do this marriage project to pull you into commitment

why is your girl not ready for marriage? are you ready for marriage?

i love her bold steps though. if your girl wont be ready even 2023 and you are ready, and you love this other girl, get to knowing her and do the needful

Peterrio:
4. She feels that she is doing you a favour by funding half the wedding costs

5. She probably feels money is everything in life, so she could be over ambitious

MisterMan123456:
Think about it,
it definitely took a lot of liver for her to muster courage to approach you and say all that she said. It's actually good to marry who loves you more, not the one you will be petting 24/7.

Nicepoker:
Tell her to credit your account with part of the marriage funds first.

house10studios:
send my number to her. Merry xmas

Peterrio:
Red flags � everywhere

Avoid that lady if you like your peace of mind

1. She's very forward, she'll likely make decisions and not care what you think

MALIGNANTGuest:
Is MARRIAGE going to cure your present situational problems?
Start asking yourself why you want to legalize your stay with a woman?
Why don't you prefer her coming around and leaving as desired?

Do you need kids, that you can get without walking down the aisle with any woman.
U need a companion, that you can also get from the regular relationship we have everyday.

Better start thinking of the VALUES a woman will bring into your life on Permanent stay and also think of the DISASTERS her arrival may cause in your family, to your freedom and esteemed friends. Is it really worth it now?

kellyval16:
I graduated from unn this year tho... I need transcript and a job

13sense:
Guy, wise up and don't reject her offer. She may not desperate but sees you as a husband material, the kind of man she want. Date her just to know a lot about her person. Women are always the one that proposed marriage.

This is nothing new.

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

I smell desperation due to lack of time and other factors you ain't know shit about yet, if you still wan run am na your personal issue but remember "fire wey fire extinguisher no fit quench na him them dey use take burn bush" a word is enough for the wise and the wise one's know words are powerful.

Divoc19:
Dear Samakus, have you asked her why she is so desperate for marriage at this time. Make her to open up to you 99.9% then decide if you want to help her make it happen because you may also benefit from it somehow. That is before you decide to go ahead.

Note that if you decide to marry her she may be a good wife but you may never love her. Your marriage may not last too. Even marriages where both couples seem to love each other don't last these days

As for you woman, tell her you want to marry her, look and act serious to see her reaction. That will let you know if she is ready.

Always remember, there's not more guarantee for a long lasting marriage anymore.

cumoverna:
If I were you, I will stay away from her.
These days I don't trust anything too easy or too good to be true.

Simple

Generalwoodz:
She said that on Christmas day? What was her facial expressions, countenance when she said that? Was it flat out or laced with unspoken humor?

That statements from her was borne out of a place of ridiculously idea of a cheap wedding.

Subscribe to her yearnings and get a professional to draw up total cost of High Nigerian wedding...

Never go below 10M.

Hypothetical, if she agrees to fund half of that price then she's the prize.

She definitely can't fund half of 10m wedding. About her countenance? She wasn't playing. I laughed it off initially but she persisted and I could see that she was worried that I will say no

Tokskob2008:
Lol.....

I would said he is one lucky dude if the girl in question happens to be his girlfriend (she might have a clean heart who knows) but even at that he will still have to thread carefully not to fall into the pit but from just a "normal" friend, that's definitely a setup!

She is damn too desperate..

Ballzproblem2:
I smell desperation , probably running out of time

Nazgul:
When a woman starts pressurizing you for marriage and even offers to foot half of the bills, run for your life. Cos there's something she isn't telling you about herself which you'll end up discovering too late.

Donald7610:
I blame your culture
Marriage can be less expensive than you think
My culture is as you want

cumoverna:
If I were you, I will stay away from her.
These days I don't trust anything too easy or too good to be true.

Simple

fman:
what are you waiting for?
Do the needful and anchor your Doom!!

Slynation:
Just two weeks into a relationship, you are already low on cash for a month...

You failed to realize you are their side chick...

Sweetplum:
What could v happened?
Things dey sele gan for this life o!
May we not marry wrongly, amen.

worried222:
What’s your niche if you don’t mind?

worried222:
Money no dey am. Don’t join please.