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Biglittlelois:
So many dregs on this forum,

Monikers I do not want to be familiar with, that think their comment is relevant and sensible,

You've been noticed, you can now fvck off.

Biglittlelois:
I'm sure you are not an illiterate, because I still don't understand how comprehension is far from you

If men gain nothing from marriage, stay away from marriage

My gender cannot stay away from talking about marriage, how does it affect your existence since you men gain nothing from it? stay away now, abi who is forcing you?

The Op that is reporting a lady to you all, if he doesn't want to marry her, why is his spirit bothered so much that he had to come and rant here on behalf of the girl? A sensible guy will tell her he is not interested at that moment instead of reporting her to nairaland, very simple

I just don't understand how most of you boys here think to be honest.

emmavictory:
Sorry for saying this;
for you even trying to consider it, you are a gold digger. Men like your type will leave responsibilites for the wife after marriage. Since she will foot half of the bills, meaning she will pay half of her bride pride. The two of you need deliverance, community deliverance for that matter. Guy, shine your eyes so you don't cry tomorrow, he get why.

zakkxx:
Oga live that desperado alone; that lady na red duvet

kellyval16:
How do I dm you, on WhatsApp?

Crystalom5:
everybody wife just fair

Panasonic101:
You Dey put mind for your current babe wey still dey school lol. Dey go microwave your breakfast when time reach.

alizma:
Objectivity gives your some fix variables to hold on to when the marriage journey gets rough and tough, unfortunately such fixed variables don't exist when your decisions are based on emotions.

Glare247:
Are u mentally ready for marriage ? If yes ,think am well,

loliapoopy2013:
See as your head don dey puff puff lol. 25 - 27 is still quite young. Get close to her and know her better if your girl is still not ready and you feel you are ready( no sex). For me, too much love bores me, I believe in mutual respect and understanding. As mature people, problems will always come, the solution is finding a common ground and settling lt whenever it arises. Some women are rear gems, no say because love never catches you, you let such go. What we think most times to be love, might be infatuation. It is when we get into the marriage the scale of infatuation falls off our eyes and the reality of marrying the wrong one, sets in, by then, wahala don start. Only guys with the eyes of experience and wisdom will see such a rear gem, and let them slip off their fingers. Remember, love, fades.

Kinihuu005:
Hmmm I know she has boyfriend but maybe the guy is not ready yet to settle down and wanted to use the opportunity on you. Secondly she av been studying you been a friend maybe by your ways of life , she like it . thirdly she might av looking at herself getting older. Now the problem is that you av a woman or girlfriend on wish you are dating , brotherly the ball is in your court play it very well.

Ezeelect1977:
Please brother if the girl in question is a good girl kindly link me to her I need a good girl to marry , I live here in Cotonou and I have a business that what over 5 million naira but I need a good wife, I don't need her money to marry her, my number is +22960506606

Charlesochigbog:
Brother is true that some girls are good why some are evil,let me askyou,1. have you ever show green light to that girl before if true,here comes your answer, but think twice,
2. how close is she with your girlfriend,
3.do you know her to her house what kind of life does she live,
don't be so fast to rush into her request, but follow her up,by making enquiry from her friends, neighbours, and in her work place, about the life she live you can make this enquiry may be with one of your close friend who she didn't know,
thanks

LilMissFavvy:
If you like listen to negative people and their negative opinions. Who told you good things do not exists? So you haven't seen ladies who help their men foot the weddings bills? I'm surprised at the comments on this thread. She loves you, and probably cannot hide her feelings anymore, or you think there are no other men she can approach? She chose you. However, if you don't feel the same way, just send her a message that you already have a woman in your life, but if I were you, I would think about it very well, weigh the options before taking a decision.

Yamiriflathead:
Chaiii, see someone with sense.
The mumu is in love with a gal who's in love with him only because she's financially dependent on him as she's still a student.
Let her graduate first, have a good job and her opportunities begin to widen and his begin to nosedive, OP mind go dey 2 seconds

israelmao:
I doubt whether she is that desperate because by your story you said you people have been friends for sometimes which means she must have understudied your financial status and understood that you may need some support in order to bear the cost of bridal items and others for the wedding even though she might be seen being desperate with her offer.The question is,do you love her?And from your observations,does she fear God?

Neimar:
She nr get yansh na why you reject am

alyarmouk:
For you to ask for our thoughts..u done dey consider am sef

Kajaard:
All these fake stories that proliferated this forum this year must not continue in year 2023

VinnyBaba:
Kai, A Desperado!

But OP,

Your so called Girlfriend, Is she Faithful? Hope she won't Disappoint

Better Access this Particular Babe oo.. Marry her o If she has Portable boobs and Yanch + a Manageable Character.

Desusi:
Interesting. My brother, not every dick are harry is wife material. And not all that are glitters are gold.Not all women in human shape are indeed women.Some are truly angelic beings in character and lifestyle. Some are wolves in sheep clothing. How then can you know the right person? Consult the greatest chief matchmaker of this world. The great God.if however you have done that by reason of your story calling a lady ,my woman and another one is calling you becos of monetary gains,you may be heading to a doom relationship. A word,is sufficient for a wise.

peter0071:
If you are quite sure that your girl will be ready in 2024 and its not late for you, then go ahead... but if not, bros get your plan B ready.

i admire your honesty

jaxxy:
ure not even in a relationship and she's asking u for marriage?? I don't even understand that one.

Yeah uve Bern friends bt she should have some regard for ur current relationship and not use marriage to want to catch u.

Let me ask u op if she wasn't sharing the bills do u think u would accept her request or even date her? if No pls tell her no.

MiaBeer:
I admire straight forward women who know what they want and at least try to get it. Go ahead and marry her and grow your love for and with her. One of the reasons why women cheat on their husbands is lack of attraction but that’s not the case here from this woman. If you’re not serious with your current girl, then go for it.

tasceige:
This story will hunt yu in 10 years if you go ahead with the wedding. This is like a business deal not marital bliss. Abi she wan carry you go abroad? She be citizen?

DAramis:
The truth is that, you should work towards marrying someone who loves you more. Check out Yul Edochie current crises. If not that the woman loves him more, something worse would have happened.

At her age, it is normal for her to be desperate. Any girl above 24 years is going to behave the same. Once she reaches 30 and above, her options reduces, which makes her to feel regrets.

My advice is if your current girlfriend is same age range with her, but not ready for you, then definitely you are not her first option(someone else is).

If you like her, give her a chance and get to know her better. Some men (which you happens to fall into) would never see a green light from a woman even if she is giving it with a headlamp of 911 truck

alizma:
Well because you say insults are welcome, I will assume that you really need the advice. On that note, this is my advice. Now that you have to see her differently from the person you used to know, you need time to study her from that perspective. While doing that, don't give her the impression that you are giving her a yes/no for an answer. This is the time to bring fact to the table, ask yourself what you want, then what do you have currently and which one can you let go, your response should be base on facts. Success

RichAbujaGuy:
Nice write-up @Samakus ... Respect for having a Church Girl profess her love for you after service and try to shoot her shot. That took a tremendous amount of courage from her
More respect for having a religious babe with money that wants to invest into a 50-50 holy partnership rather than the take. The materialistic variety dominate the scene today.
More respect for having a main chick. You should write a book for our suffering NL guys w/o such.

No advise, except to pray on it very hard. Life is coming at you at the moment and divine guidance may give you the answer.

akanbiaa:
Do not follow the advice of those that talk about her being desperate, nothing wrong in a woman showing interest of she sees what she wants in a husband and father of children ,My advice is check up if you are compatible healthwise , behaviour wise and other wise. If in most things you are compatibile then sit her down and discuss about future and tell her an expensive marriage is not successful marriage, let her and you discuss how you plan on sustaining financial independence and if you are both okay with the plans introduce everything to your parents and guardians. And your girlfriend tell her you are sorry you wount be able wait long that you are getting married now and wish her the best.

2elliot:
Hi, big Sam! My female friend from Enugu state needs a job. Could you please help?

sulorog:
Good day Samakus, how you dey and work? Hope you are good, merry Christmas.
Since you are not into her and you are not interested in her, let me have her phone number and see how it goes. I like woman who know what she want. Please where do you base pls.

Peterrio:
6. She knows you have someone else, yet feels nothing stepping over that someone , she'll probably betray more people including you if she needs to in the future