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I don't particularly blame him.when women have become so cheap and low and place price tags on their vaginass why will men have interest in marriage again

Women don't even realise they're the major reasons aside from financial issues why men are disinterested in marriage.no single day i will enter social media without seeing naked women of all ages and sizes displaying themselves as if theyre just things,you think a man will be eager to buy a cow when he can eat meat for little or no cost?

Razz village boy turn local champion

Going to America is now an achievement and something to boast about for Nigerians

Just like those clowns that go to Dubai and snap picture in every supermarket and train stations for social media

Awon mosheshe losi doobayi

Freeze is fast becoming an entertainer and comedian


Anyway to each his/her own

Oluromantic:
Me and my bae go jolly jolly for bedroom that night. Na love-making we go take crossover.

and by September,2019 we will come visiting the new borns you are about to produce to populate Nigeria more

So every irrelevant issue has to enter nl abi?smh

NoisyNaybour001:
lol, ur been realistic, so what about other countries like UK, Germany, Singapore n others.... look women have evolved more than u think ok

those countries you mentioned are developed nations were there is little or no patriarchy and blind religion.women are respected and held in high esteem and the ratio of educated, enlightened and well travelled women are more


Its not as if it takes only education to rule a nation but the way women are viewed in UK or Singapore is different from the way women are viewed in Africa

In developed nations the women are well equipped from their socialization process not just to be wives, popping out babies or cooks but are raised to be well balanced women in private and public life

However its not so in Africa. The system is so designed that women have little or no chance to be political leaders and those who managed to succeed did it with the help of the men in their lives

Meanwhile even the women themselves are helping to enforce the patriarchal culture through intrusive and controlling mother in-laws who are only on the look out and interest of their sons and not the woman

Women also portray and objectify themselves as sexual play things while further entrench patriarchy.the only few women that broke the iron bar like ngozi okojo iweala and she did that with outside support.

I can show you evidences that make even me as a woman ashamed

mogbojaiye:
Thank u ma

U even went too far
A female nurse or a female doctor day hear word wen trying to balance her home and her office it's just d grace of God some of their marriages are stil surviving not to talk of u want to enter presidential level,
It's just ovious dat jalade is the one controlling d husband or she gat nothing doing at home (family housewife)

I don't care who is controlling who in her marriage. That's her and her husband's issues but my own is that women cannot handle power.look at the women in leadership positions for example that aren't even governors or local government chairmen, look at how domineering, overbearing, caustic and temperamental they are. The day they have pre menstrual syndrome, na everybody go feel the heat for office

The day Mr husband no fok am for 3days,every surbodinate will feel the heat,not to now talk of female president

Take for example buhari walked into House of assembly, people were booing him,he handled it, I remembered when jona was in power. I know how mama peace was misbehaving up and down

I remembered a governors wife that evicted a pastor out of his house because he didn't give her priority in church. Mind you these are just 1st ladies that are so power intoxicated. Imagine they're now Presidents?

Church business

WaffenSS:
Yeah?

See where it got them?

I won't even bother with Croatia or Liberia

UK's May barely survived as she's being undone by Brexit

Germany's Merkel is unpopular due to her immigration policies

Besides, you can't compare Nigeria's loud, flashy, materialistic, envious, covetous, temperamental, uncouth, uncultured, under-sophisticated women with the likes of Theresa and Angela or Sirleaf-Johnson.

Also, fukk you.

gbammmmmm.

Now someone has gotten my point

In other leadership positions which is not political, women are so unemphatic,inconsiderate and egoistical not to now talk of a female president


Your annual budget will be used for the latest owanmbe lace


Remind me of that female politician that embezzled billions for home decor again?

Her man friend abi toy boy will just be having a field day in aso rock even when the Husband is aware and nobody will do sheet about it

NoisyNaybour001:
this one ur sounding anti-woman..r u really sure ur a woman?

I'm being realistic. Put your emotions aside and be logical if you have to get into my mention

That office is too dangerous, violent and full of drama for a woman, not to talk of a developing society like Nigeria

For a woman to ever get that office, the patriarchal system must be dismantled first and that dismantling is not a walk in the park because the patriarchal system is older than aso rock.it has infiltrated our political and social culture

See the didirin that is even kneeling down to close the door for another human being like himself


Grown up adults for that matter

Age is not a function of wisdom truly

OGHENAOGIE:
shut up u are useless woman...

while you're an irrelevant, inconsequential entity who's opinion has been disposed into a thrashcan

mogbojaiye:
Madam don't even waste ur time, becus nigeria men, guys and girls wil not even try it, d few opportunity way we give una for house of Representatives (ete) and minister of aviation wanting 3 bullet proof vehicles like say she is d president they all blew it, ,,,so don't think we are going to take another chances again on that.

Woman president con man president ni

Even American no try am but we know it's implications

Welcome to nigeria were religious has taken over d structure of d state, imagine a man saying I can't worship a woman, or bow to a woman even at d presidential level, so make madam just rest,
Nigeria men will not allow it, even d few times we just close our eyes to over look things and sly them inside d federal they blew d chances

I am a woman and women do not have such emotional strength to occupy that office. Let me not even talk about the ego

How will a president who's a woman manage a crazy,complicated country as large as Nigeria and still manage the home front. Help her kids with assignments, ensure they're taken to school,monitor their feeding etc.na high bp ,stress and hypertension she dey play with. Its not realistic. She even has to satisfy her husbands needs and her own personal needs.

If at 2am she's called for emergency meeting, can she handle it? Can she even handle the invasion of her private life because she won't even have a private family life as family, siblings, in-laws,cousins,nieces and nephew will be coming to meet her for one help/favor or the other

Only a mad/brave man can rule Nigeria. The office of the Nigerian presidency is not for ladies or gentlemen. Its for those who are ready to pull the bull by the horn

Obj has remained the best president Nigeria ever had

pocohantas:
Lmao, you are joking right? remind me never to do this with you again. Hahahahahahaha!

alright. I certainly will

mayze:
Stop typing like an illiterate..the lady is even making more sense than u ..taxi, uber etc have rules,the fact that it's ur car doesn't give u the liberty to act or dress anyhow..that's why they knock some people off their platform,and I am sure he made himself available online before accepting the request,so he has time to change.would you allow ur sister or gf to enter that kinda cab?

you that you're educated, you dont know the difference between YOU AND U or YOUR ENGLISH TEACHER DIDN'T TELL YOU YOUR IS NOT UR. I can see how lettered you are.

Anyway to the matter, even if its a company where customers come first,can't you correct him verbally, man to man with courtesy saying Mr,thanks for coming on time but this your towel,I dont feel cool about it.shebi he's a man like you,if you're so particular about his towel,can't you tell him than entering social media with the intent of making mockery of him and attracting criticism. More so do you know the circumstances surrounding why he wore towel? Did you even care to ask or show the empathetic human side or come on social media with the I better pass you,self aggrandizement to bash him on cyber space?

pocohantas:
He is riding under a platform, Taxify. Taxify rules, their customers first, not him and his towel. His personal car? then we can let his actions slide. Commercial bus, we can still pardon his excesses.

You don't tell an adult what to wear to his office, maybe because we expect adults to be sensible enough to dress appropriately to their offices. Especially when your office is service based.

well,that's your own point of view which I respect but for me o,I put it to you,that customer is a PERVERT .what is the eyes of a man looking towards the direction of another man's waistline to the extent that he noticed he didn't wear trousers but towel?

pocohantas:
Now we are making progress...

Yes, everybody deserves respect, but if he had any respect for his office and prospective riders, he won't show up in a towel.

I agree with the privacy part. That is the only wrong I see here. No same human shows up for work in a towel, none at all. Maybe I should just go to work in a towel on Monday and hopefully you all support me.

don't forget the office we're talking about Here is HIS CAR. its not a formal set up where there's a formal dress code, so he's at liberty to show up however way he pleases .there's no dress restrictions for such drivers with exception to those drivers employed by banks or by other formal institutions or set up where they're given uniform or asked to dress in a particular way

pocohantas:
Aunty, a guy posted it. Please, go read the opening post again.

1. A towel is not a piece of clothing.
2. The cab is his office.
3. You Ron's show up at your office in a towel.

I dont care whether he is a man,woman,transgender or albino. He deserves some damn respect.secondly you dont tell an adult what to wear in his office,thirdly he can show up however way he likes because its his car,his body and his life. Your focus is where you're going

I can't imagine I have an important appointment to catch or an important meeting for 9am and I'll be giving a fok about whatever the driver wears.I WOnt even notice and if I notice I won't give a damn.where I'm going is what's important to me.Yoruba's say when you're going to the market, you pay attention to what you want to buy not the noise of the market

Secondly if she entered all these razz/lousy commercial buses,will she tell the agbero that he's not OK with the towel? You think he'll give a Bleep? As you're even trying to snap him,he can assault you or damage your phone

Owo diye diye Lara fe abeg

pocohantas:
The poster is male, check again...

How he dresses is important, that is his office. He is a public servant, so the customer has the right to complain...same way he also has the right to turn down customers. The rate function isn't there for fun. It means both parties reserve the right to appraise the other.

OK accepted it is so but must she/he do it with the intent of embarrassing the other on social media? I don't care if he's a man or woman,it is very offensive to snap picture and submit it to social media as if its a court.its nonsense. Everybody deserves some level of respect. Man or woman.what stopped the customer from telling his driver saying,hey mister thanks for coming on time but I don't feel good with the towel you're wearing and then highest driver will apologize and everybody moves on BUT MUST YOU BRING IT TO SOCIAL MEDIA? MUST EVERY ISSUE ENTER THE INTERNET?

pocohantas:
Some guys go call white black, all to support one of their own. Who shows up in towel to pick up a customer? That is his own office and how he dresses is of importance. I very much doubt Taxify endorses such behavior.

The reporter is even a guy, yet these alpha males still make it a woman issue. Make una take am easy with the bias. It cost nothing to use your brains

its the Lady that's a trouble maker and rabble rouser.what the hell is her business with his towel.after all the idea of clothing is to cover nudity and the towel has done that.abi she see penis?

These are the girls embarrassing other Ladies. Smh.lousy,uncultured girl.

Then in the 1st place what right does she have to snap him without his consent and upload it on social media with the intent of bashing and judging?

JasonScoolari:
Pevert? Because he came out with a towel? You call the innocent hustler who don't like opportunity to pass him by "pervert"

Please Define "Pevert"

The way some of you ladies jump into conclusion is really amazing.

I'm a lady and really its none of the client's business whatever he chooses to wear the driver is an adult so whether he wears agbada or towel,e no concern am.what should be her business is her destination

I don't know why women like whinnig over irrelevancies. Learn as a woman to mind your business .why should that even bother her anyway ? Abi na customer go dictate wetin driver go wear again.. Ladies learn to stay on your lane and stop creating unnecessary drama where there's no need for it.

You called him,he came, he addressed you with courtesy yet you had the audacity to snap him and post him on social media (without his consent) that's highly disrespectful, stupid,low,insensitive and mannerless.help these men to respect us BY RESPECTING YOURSELF FIRST AND STAYING IN YOUR LANE

Where are all those boys envious, pained,embittered, dejected and frustrated brokeasses that are always trying to shame a woman that is not Ashamed.


Let the pouring of frustration begin

ChemicalReaction:
Chief Pillar Bender

una don quick give am nick name

decatalyst:
On behave of Nairalander guys, I say you didn't do us proud!

no mind am.until he reach house he no see him phenese again or he realises the thing no dey work again.


Men learn to protect your bodies from unknown invaders.not every woman giving you invitation is what you should accept. Smh

Vado:
No single female input on this thread. Guess she's echoing their thoughts.

I'm female,read my post/opinion.She's chasing irrelevancies as far as I'm concerned

Ranchhoddas:
Even if his name would open doors yours can't it is still not necessary to take it. Just say you are his wife abi?

Attention seekers everywhere.

exactly. So if for example she married adenuga,she wants to tell me she won't be ranting everywhere both to those who care to listen and those who dont that she's Mrs adenuga.Cynthia,biko shut up,you don't have a valid point and its not every issue that is relevant

Cynthia,that's your personal decision,your prerogative and your husbands, please keep it to yourself. Every adult has the right to choose the way he or she wants to live his life.


I'm a woman but please women,ladies,make this world easier ,less complicated and better by learning to keep however you want to live your life to yourself, that's why we're from different families, educational backgrounds,religion and ethnic groups.many of your opinions are always subjective, biased and sometimes not pragmatic.

I'm also a fan of women having the right to choose the name they want to bear after marriage but I won't shove it down another woman's throat. Learn to mind your business abeg

inkofgold:
Some girls did this same thing to Davido recently. I think the issue is with guys, most guys see nothing wrong in this. On the contrary, they enjoy it. So sad.

those girls touching davidos penis was consensual.he allowed/invited them for it.however, a performer/musician is doing his work,entertaining you and instead of you to mind your business and enjoy the show,you pass your boundary with unwanted touches thereby not only distracting him but committing sexual harassment

The point is,if you don't want strange men touching your vagina at your own place of work or while you're busy working, then don't touch a performer who is at his own place of work,doing his own work

Im a woman but Women need to stop doing what they cannot accept.this is a clear case of sexual harassment. However its not harassment if he said touch me but for crying out loud this is trespassing

If tiwa savage was performing for example and some men or obsessed /star struck male fans starts groping or touching her vaagina I'm sure everyone will go haywire and demand for the guy to be prosecuted for sexual harassment, so stop engaging in what you're fighting against, this is nonsense and should not be accepted

Secondly its high time men start suing women to court for sexual harassment/unwanted touch in the penis so that every gender will respect themselves and keep their hands and lust to themselves

I remembered 2 incidences.first when a fan of davido claimed she was groped and went to Twitter to demand justice and she was given the needed attention from davido,

The second imcidence was the yaba market march (which is a good idea by the way ) where a group of women and few men went to protest against male traders who grope their breasts and hit their asses and demand it should be stopped. yet these same ladies are groping a male musicians penis.this is very uncalled for and is making women look like hypocrites who demand for respect but at the same time don't give respect

undefeateds:
old cargo

your mama na new cargo? Symptoms of imdomie generation. I'm very sure your mom is not yet a grandma and this woman is obviously firmer than your own mom who's not a grandma

ct2:
Pls is she married, just want to confirm

she's a grand mom if that's what you want to hear