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This thing God has given us between our legs has mighty power to rake in millions and every material things for us women

If you like shout olosho from now to Jesus come na you sabi.who your I love you epp

spiceadole:
What do you mean by even pastor?
Pastor is the chief rapist na

but they're the ones that emphasize on formication, adultery and tithes like tomorrow no dey

Schwartz:
I wish I could reach out to her and others in her situation. I used to be like her my situation was worse. I started life as a maid from the age of 4. The horrible beatings, the ugly painful scars, the molestations, the starvation ( being denied food many times for little things like not mopping the floor well), falling sick without acess to proper care, being refused from going to school anytime my slave mistresses wish amd the extreme hardwork! Running from one home to another only to discover time and time again, that its a different kind of wickedness for each home I ran to. When i discovered that the life of a forced maid (working for free) will take me no where in life; I took a hard decision and quit!
From the age of 19 I have been on my own. I have been homeless begging strangers for a place to sleep, food to eat. Life was THOUGH! With a capital T. From doing liittle paid jobs of lesson teacher to primary school kids, sponsoring myself back to school(it was hard i nearly gave up many times, I pulled through. I graduated from the one i could afford: a polytechnic. Some years ago I got better jobs started saving up, sickness came as a set back but God saw me through I saved my first million. Today, I look back I have sponsored myself to about 5 Western countries including USA which i returned from about 2 weeks ago. Life is not perfect but by the grace of God its far far better than where i was a dirty smelling girl that eveybody treated like shit.
If i have the power i would sponsor a bill that will protect the rights of housemaids. It should be a paid job with regulations like we have abroad. The mind blowing suffering housemaids and even house boysgo through is on another level.

the gory pictures you painted reminds me of the house help my aunt brought when I went to live with her.my goodness. That girl suffer no be small.I always pitied her.
There was a day her madam asked her to Wash and iron all the clothes given to her and she did but in the middle of it she was tired and took a quick nap.madam came back from work and caught her sleeping on her daughter's bed .meanwhile she hasn't ironed her daughter's school uniform but has done the chores and ironed most of the clothes

See beating.poured izal on her,slapped her,kicked her.and of which the girl was sick but was too frightened to tell madam because she said madam won't believe her and think she's lying or trying to be lazy.I told my aunt to stop treating her like she has no feelings and she said I should mind my business and face what I came for.I had to sneak her to a restaurant to buy food for her because she was so sick ,hungry and weak.took her to the clinic for treatment

When her oga found out it became a serious fight between me and her. She said am I the one paying her or am I the one that brought her and I told her that if we weren't relations I would have reported her to child welfare services.

I eventually left the house because I could not stand how they treat that 11 year old girl like that. She sleeps on the bare floor in the kitchen and that was where she contacted malaria because of mosquito bites,they will pack remnants and left over food and give her like a dog.that's after every one has eaten.they don't born her well to sit on the dinning table. She has to sit on the floor in the kitchen and she has her own plate and spoon.she washes hers outside.TV ke?

I have caught her several times crying and asking me why she was born and she wants to die.I try my best consoling her


After my nysc and masters When I went back to that neighborhood to ask of her,I heard she didn't go back home,she ran away and has been recruited into asewo business. In the neighbors words ayo tidi asewo.I searched for her but didn't find her.the neighbors told me the strip club she is,I went there but the manager wasn't willing to tell me.

I was like so this is how our wicked society has messed up this girls life and hope.meanwhile you need to see them in church on Sunday Aunty's gele will be big.in fact Sunday is the only day when she wears clean clothes to church so no one suspects any maltreatment

Naija men and sex.if they see goat,them go rape am,if them see dog na rape.anything that has an appearance of hole in it,na rapeeee.kilodeeee.even pastor.hiannnnn

And na them go climb pulpit they shout sheykababasotomari

caslord:
So because you're rebuked for involving in illicit affairs with not just a guy but many guys you decided to take your own life
No worry e go clear for your eyes when you reach that other side... Na your poor parents I pity. Pray God gives the ability to bear the loss

its not about rebuking the child.African parents don't know the difference between rebuking a Child,emotionally abusing a child and insults... Parents think insults is correction and those harsh words break a child who isn't emotionally stable. Parents need to mind what they say to their Kids.not that you can't correct or scold them,do it in moderation and be mindful of what you say to them in the name of scolding

Words like asewo
Omo oshi,useless child,failure, olodo,oniranu,eranko,big for nothing, useless girl,agbaya are common words parents say to their kids which is enough to break them because they look to you for comfort and emotional security and when the very people they love say things like this to them they go hay wire.

As a kid my mom used to call me olodo and me too was beginning to think I was but the moment I went to school and my teacher told me I can succeed in any subject I started believing her and that perception of me changed. When my mom scolded me and called me olodo,I showed her my result (I was in secondary school) that was the last time she said that. Parents don't know the amount of power they have in their mouth to make or mar a Child instead they just talk any how . I am very sure the parents of this girl are narcistic parents

If a man can sleep with this dirty little thing then I am not surprised when men rape goats and dogs.eri nkan na.I no even see brez.I sure say the way she son turn the vagina to public toilet she go don't catch staphylococcus, herpes etc.smh


And as for the girl,its clear she has daddy issues and looking for a male mentor or model for validation and Worth, unfortunately we live in a society where men see anything female as sex things

omoelerin1:
You are for equality and fairness of all genders, but you disqualify someone aspiring to be a state governor, let alone a president, on the ground of their gender.
You don't want someone to hold a top managerial positions on the ground of their gender.
Where is your equality and fairness? Stop living a double standard life.

By the way, will you have that mentality towards your daughter?

I am for equality and fairness yes but women can't manage power and emotions.power intoxicates them a lot.

omoelerin1:
And you are one of those feminists advocating the rights of women. Aren't you?

I am for equality and fairness of all genders

I have any oppression or entitlement mentality of one gender against the other

omoelerin1:
And you are one of those feminists advocating the rights of women. Aren't you?

I am for equality and fairness OF ALL GENDERS.I hate any gender oppressing the opposite gender,so don't bother getting cynical with me

Granpa tout and baby tout

One of the reasons I can never vote for any woman into any political office.

This one is just a wife to a government official and see how overbearing aggressive and rude she is.if she was now Governor nko?

As bad as Nigeria is I don't ever wish for Nigeria to have a female governor talkless of president because women are always so power drunk,egoistical, overbearing and emotional

The day husband or house help annoys her all her official workers will pay for it.

Just look at any work environment where the oga or CEO is a woman.any small provocation or issue that can be settled with warning, the next thing is query or sack.any driver of a female oga,pack 10 drivers,at least 8will have chopped slap in a month.

Women? Tuehhhh

WHO the hell cares.the only people I feel bad for are online traders that sell clothes,make-up, wig,vagina etc.they will loose a lot of clients and consequently money

Manueleee:
is very very bad. What's d need of doing what u won't be proud of?
Somethin dat when u are caught, u will be humilated. Nawa o

no self respect

bluefilm:
Why is it that the most intelligent girls are not the best looking ones facially?

Why is it that bimbos oftentimes tend to be always much more finer than the intelligent girls?

because as a human being,you cannot have it all

See as she used emoji to hide the layer of flabs at her back.if you know you know

Haaaa that mummy by the right with big belle and fallen brez too be farjeen


Singing in wande coals voice moku mogbe modaran,omo lodun toyi

papadoculus:
lol too much African magic phsyco

kid, when you grow up come and quote me.now run along and go and wash dishes for your mom and do your school assignment

Meanwhile when you mature in some 10 years time, you will know why toolz lost her baby or why people don't let people know before travelling out

Stoner069:
So he shouldn’t do house warming again ni. Oloriburuku

awon Ara ile egbogbo ni oloriburuku.back to sender

money121:
Thanks so much but i need to post it on nairaland becos this is the forum that I make lot of sales from (roofing business) and have posted lot of clients building on this forum so why will I hid mine?
This is not show off but appreciation!!

Thanks once again

I get you.eyannn ofenifure and the reason I said Ryan mafowoboje nipe people will Begin to think you have more than what you really have and they will begin to Carry their problems to you for financial help and if you say you don't have that kind of money they will think you are lying

Congrats op but Yoruba's say ti isu enibata,amafowo bojeni

Do you think its everyone you invited for your housewarming that is genuinely happy for you? This is africa o.everyone don't think alike.building a house and doing housewarming can actually annoy some people or spark envy without your knowledge.

In Nigeria or Africa people get unnecessarily envious for the most dumbest reasons like they're in some form of competition with you.it will surprise you that some of your guest will go and eat your food and then get home and be like at his age otiyakole meanwhile I'm still living in rented house. For some it might be the wife that can spark envy in them and be like oju otie.omo inu etikole,agbaya ara e losibe Iwo deti ra ordinary Land and before you know it he qill start over thinking and reading meaning to everything you unknowingly do and before you know it beef will start

Shebi you watch African magic yoruba and if you don't you read stuffs people say on nl.statement's like at his age he don't born,I never born,at his age he has so so millions of naira while I'm still job hunting

youngest85:
Ekiti people are in trouble now coz the revenge of Fulanis is like Noah's flood

is it ekiti people that killed the cows or ekiti people now manufacture thunder?

Manueleee:
i hate cheating in marriage. But d man stil respect s wife. Wife remains d wife bt side chick have no legal or legitimate right.

even with this degradation some girls will never learn.they're set for perdition

contigiency:
Who gave them arms? our politicians. who is exposing them by asking them to surrender for the sake of amnesty? our politicians. That is what they are good at. they send their own children to schools oversea, but buy guns for other children in the name of thuggery. It is well. God will judge all of us.

politicians are like the proverbial man that sent thieves to rob a place and still called police to arrest them

Trust them at your peril

Ero abanisoro

Tuface has always been a humble person.its not about who has more money or not.if you see a humble person you will know money doesnt influence their ego at all.

Theres a general in our church..hes extremely wealthy yet so humble.hes an elderly man in his late 60s and what just trips me about the man is that theres nobody he cannot use yes ma yes sir for.i mean in and out of church.there wad a time my dad sent me on an errand to his office and he was greeting cleaners that were his kids mates ekushe ma,gate man go and close the gate sir.the people he wad referring to are in their mid 30s.when they do church cleaning,this baba will come with his hummer jeep,park and follow people to cut grass at his age,status and education.

So when you see people humble its not hard to know.its just in them

NwaAmaikpe:



She's such a pretty girl.

It's just sad that her destiny has been marred because products of unmarried couples never amount to anything in life.

judge!
have you predicted your own life before predicting another persons life

babasolution:
After feminism have ruined their women,they are now coming to take our own,which we have groomed

see the pained goat meat.can you ever change?

Originalsly:
I'll jump in and try to answer your questions.

And so my fellow Americans....ask not what your country can do for you...but what you can do for your country. John F. Kennedy in his inaugural address to US citizens.

Have you ever once asked yourself that question? If %Buhari/Jonathan had made the very statement....we would've been reading another chapter of lamentations from you. The bad roads you've made a talking point.... for yearssss...that road has been in deplorable condition.... even so under the British...weRe they also useless and irresponsible? Have you moved a muscle during all these yearsss to get the authorities to repair the roads? When things are done for the common good in those foreign countries...almost all the time it is because of grassroots actions... actions taken by ordinary citizens. You have a civic duty as a Nigerian .... and it is not to tear down the country.There are wayyyy too many like you who spare no effort...who miss no opportunity to drag the country into the gutter.
Then to liken your country to an irresponsible father....it just highlights the biggest problem that can face any nation...the mentality of its citizen. No country can progress if its citizens sit and wait like babies to be spoonfed....sitting like babies at home but working like bees abroad...and still wondering why the country is not progressing.
58 years.....can we do better?...yes we can....but who is going to help us if we don't want to help ourselves?...God?...like sooo many sit and cry out?..God help those who help themselves.

shey engboro buruku nigboro enu.see talk for mouth.no one is bashing nigeria but at the same time let us be humble enough to accept the truth.back to your statement which by the way isNOT APPLICABLE TO NIGERIA SAYING THINK OF WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR YOUR COUNRRY NOT WHAT YOUR COUNTRY CAN DO FOR YOU.kolorara.e no go at all.isnt it a father who takes care of his child,sends him to good schools,ensures he has a good job and lives a good life that can take care of his father?

A child that is just left to fate and allowed to survive alone without any support whatsoever be it in education and so on that can be empowered to think logically about what he can do for his country.morever kenedy is justified to make such statement becausethe people are empowered but no nigerian leader is justified to say that


Take a stroll to oshodi bridge and see live hunger and poverty.i cried on the inside when i passed there last week.a mother was walking along the bridge with her little son of lets say 4 to 5 years old and the little boy was eating cheese balls while the mother was dragging his hands moving and i saw some crumbs of cheese balls fall from the boys hand (i was walking from behind them so i was noticing) and then i observed that as soon as the boy and his mother passed,a little street girl of 6 years picked the crumbs of cheese balls on the floor to eat.i was so pained and disturbed because she looked so dirty,hubgry,weak and vulnerable.i just gave her 100 naira to buy something to eat.if you see how happy she was.i was baffled.now imagine a ritualist,kidnapper or rapist spotting that child and handing her 500 naira to follow him

You know the rest of the story?

Stop pretending as if everything is alright with the country as if you cant see it.stop living in denial.lets expose the nonsense government is doing

Go to rural areas no infrastructures,in some rural areas that i dont want to mention pupils sit on broken chairs,put their books on dilapidated tables,no fan,no doors,kids go to school with torn uniforms and guess what happened to the money meant for these schools?yeah. Your guess is as good as mine.stop the hypocrisy.a child doesnt owe it to the father to take care of him when he abandoned her.

Lest i forget,today is independence day,no light o and no genuine effort to do anything about it

Just pass our street nd see depressed looking young men and women who just finished nysc and are hawking shoes on the streets.graduates ooo

What is nonsense nitori olorun.i am a woman but these pictures are an eye sore.cant you girls put some clothes on and present yourself with some dignity

Yet theyll be the ones shouting girl power,treat us with respect

First put your clothes on and stop reducing yourselves to worthless things

By the way theres nothing to celebrate about independence day.we should be mourning because even the blind knows that everything is not alright with nigeria from top to bottom.let me not go into the nation wide strike matter

Mshewwwww on 31st of septermber (nigerias pre independence) i was stuck in lagos traffic between agege to iyanapaja.i spent 5hrs (4pm to 9pm in traffic because of rain and bad roads and you expect me to celebrate independence

Go towards iyanaba that place is a terrible eye sore.anytime it rains,the water will push the dustbin into the pedestrian roads were people are passing,still yet the little space available where people should be passing,road side traders and street beggars have blocked the place.as youre trying to avoid them,you will almost run into or get knocked down by okada and he will zoom off without care like nothing happened

Is that a country you want me to celebrate.niw let me ask you a question and i want you to answer with all honesty.if you have a father who is 58 today and didnt contribute in anyway to your life,rather making things more difficult for you in achieving sucess through his unkind policies and today is his birthday (by the way he doesnt even know you exist) will you celebrate him?

Least i forget the strike is still on and they still dont give a fok,yet youre celebrating?celebrating what exactly?this is aupposed to be our mourning period but nigerians seem to be suffering from forgetfulness and stockholm syndrome

Tomorow if you travel out of the country and achieve sucess thats when theyll give a fok about you and remember youre a nigerian with stupid sentiments like "ajo odabile"..

Joor,jekin bere lowo e.peradventure youre unfortunate to have a father like nigeria (god forbid) every responsibility a father is supposed to do for a child,he didnt do it and now the child is impoverished,illiterate,angry tensed up and a reprobate,then he managed to go to another persons house.they opened the door for him,cleaned him up and gave him life and hope ,question 1,will you still love your biological father,2.if he says son,come back home,the home is not how ut used to be.we have cleaned it up and its now peaceful,secure and loving.will you be willing to go,knowing the home hes referring to is not safe and predictable as he made it seem and you know also that hes not capable of protecting you or even giving a damn?

Nigeria is the proverbial useless and irresponsible father.the other house where the child was clothed and given a room to sleep are foreign countries where givernment provided a source of livelihood for them.

Lol.how about those young fashion conscious female lecturers.op you didnt talk about them.nice collection though

Pat081:
dat is OUR SIDE d bank and nt inside

he will fill the bankslip "outside" you meant?what are you talking about?