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These people should stop seeking public validation from online strangers the people genuinely don't care.everyone has his or her own issues to deal with

sarutobie:
Lol you’re now yawning because he came from an angle of logic that you least expected

story for the gods

Yawns

Bullhari007:
a man that can not beat his wife, that one nah man women need small beating at times, instead of shouting all the time trying to correct her, just small hot slap go reset her Brian... what do you think

ONE weekend in cell with his fellow violent mates where he can practice his DV Will reset his brain

johnson232:
You are getting it all wrong my brother
Life is all about hierarchy, hence the reason for God in the first place
There are more than one million ways the woman could have averted the blood shed
We dont stand those we cant physically match, it is not cowardice, but prudence
If unarmed man see policeman him go cool down, if police see soldier, them go cool down...It is just like that...Now the woman will be the one to nurse the wound & pain, something she could have avoided...They will still call for family meeting, that is what she would have done instead engaging the man in a physical combact...

As a woman if man a slap's u, ignore him & call his people or friends, but if u know u can match him physically as a lady, u can slap back...

yawns


Keep justifying dv.

victorazyvictor:
bigger man, but u beats ur mother.

any MAN that can beat his wife can also beat his mother to death.is it news of men raping or beating their mothers to death? Mshewwww

He go Don enter prison finish before him eye clear

Bullhari007:
make she no complain when another woman take over her matrimonial home

na today?intact it's a blessing to her if another woman take over her home.na the new wife go collect the remaining part of the beating.do you think violent men change? He can marry every month and they'll keep running away or dying there and he will still continue with his habit

Kyliegame:
she for no return the slap because she is a less human abi? she has no right to defend herself na

being a wife for naija men is a different terrain o.you see the Parker for packing dirts in.The house?that's exactly how they see their wives.igba ikole

Bullhari007:
she will go to her father's house and be that happy

very well

chiraqDemon:
Yes I agree. Personally I've been in situations with girls that talk too much up to the level that I start boiling but I'll just walk out of the place. If it was a guy saying some of these things be assured I wouldn't waste time in engaging in a brawl, but cos they are women u just have to pack up n breathe and walk away.
The man was driving he could have just told her, wait let's discuss this later, the kids are here. Or he could have parked the car, come out n get some air before continuing the journey. There are numerous ways of dealing with nagging women that doesn't require violence.

I think men need to really learn to be patient with other women like they would be with their mom when she nags.

finally I've seen a human being that has made epic sense since.The rest have just been ranting thrash

LUCKIE2014:
Raising her voice in argument and slapping him back in the presence of the kids led him to do this. A wise woman knows when to speak and when to be quiet to her hubby. Men are naturally egocentric, what she did was to hurt his ego before his kids which made him apparently lost it. Women need to understand their limitations and embrace their femininty while using it to their own advantage in influencing the behavior of the man. Don't try to be his equal because despite what society wants you to believe, we are not the same. This is what our mothers understood hence a high rate of success in marriages.

abeg stop exaggerating the situations of our mother's.They too experienced dv THE only difference was that there was no social media to run to or police station hence they had no voice,options or life so they lived by do as I say so you won't be beaten.The only option they had was to obey their husband's like obedient slaves.now is not the case.education,enlightenment,internet and exposure has changed the way women view marriage visavis our mothers

victorazyvictor:
Some need it bro.
Na so one guy beat his wife until she come develop sense

see them

The lesser men

omoiyalayi:
I don't know what to say

Only God knows how many women going through this kind of pain but couldn't talk or doesn't have who to talk to

the truth is that dv didn't just start in our generation.it has been going on for a long time as far back as the period of our great grandma's and grandma's but they've been enduring years of abuse because they didn't have anywhere to go but now we're in the information age or jet age where women can speak up and about it which is making the men uncomfortable and edgy.They expect women to accept being trampled upon because their father trampled upon their mothers and the mothers accepted it not knowing that things aren't the same again for the modern woman.

Nedsnow:
Before you guys judge the man, please don't forget your drama Queen Tonto Dike that acted her own, made sure the public consume it, support her and also made them hate her husband.
According to her story, this is probably the first time they are having an issue like this. Why am i thinking there is a lot more to this than what we all just read.

Am not supporting domestic violence but a guy that has never ever beaten you before can not just start doing that infront of your kids and also on a Sunday. Something big is involved.

yeah right.The something big is the house help he's most likely screwing

Then dey always humble for court..all the gra gra na for house e end.when they see person wey pass them,them go calm down

EternalTruths:
Let it get to court first and you will know how stupid the guy is.

Keep defending stupidity.


You think the court will defend in such a case

PHC1stBorn:
Thank u jareeee! no matter what, a lady dares not slap her husband back..the moment she responded back she. . .should be ready to fight him like a man. Trust me, I would gladily teach her a lesson once and for all

see them justifying dv

Meanwhile all the men I've seen that have been guilty of dv I used to think they're muscular,strong,well built men till I begin to see their pictures.many of them cannot even withstand the punches of a 15 year old boy.They look so fragile like pasta.them no dey get stamina at all.The only thing that reminds them that they're still men is to be assaulting the wife

mikeujoel:
Everybody should shut the hell up. Making judgments after hearing only one side of the story.

Do you know what the woman must have said to have provoked the man to get this violent? I know a lot of woman that can nag from now till tomorrow non stop, I lost an uncle of mine to a nagging wife.

when your mother nagged you as a child or adult why you no slap am?when police insult you on the road,why you no slap am.apparently these days men see their wives as igba ikole.signing the dotted lines means they ought to accept every kind of rubbish because they've done them a favour by marrying them

Intrepid01:
Lol....see them questionnaires. ....wait o you hear, shebi she dey Nl, she's coming to respond ASAP.

I'm still waiting because there's no smoke without fire.I'm strongly suspecting number 1 because the only thing that majorly makes men get violent,aggressive and loose their self control and decorum is SEX.I have a strong feeling the dude is fucking the house help because which kain argument wey bad reach make the man slap his wife in the presence of the kids over house help matter if not her v@gyna

omoiyalayi:
Some women can push someone but........

Sunday morning ?

On the way to church ?

In front of children?

There are some provocation we can have control over and this is one of them

how come when mobile police men provoke or talk to men anyhow driving on the way,they respect themselves despite the insults but in their own house they cannot even control themselves not even in the presence of the kids

AfonjaConehead:
i think the woman is the fool for living with such a monster..wtf,cant she bloody survive on her own?!
Is she waiting to leave that monster in a body bag?
As for that nigggah monster,hes damm lucky that woman doesnt seem to have mean brothers. Damm,just look @tha,blood of the woman he once proffessed love for,mum of his kids!
I hate this.

after now if they lock the man up the in-laws will come and start to guilt trip and emotionally black mail her.na that time they'll be like baba omo eni,odeti mo cell

Mshewww.I won't even be surprised if he's a deacon or church elder.nA their type go dey quote bible verses for Facebook and form spiritual.na their type go dry quote my brethren and sisters in the Lord,seek years first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all other things shall be aded.brothers and sisters we need to pray against satanic invasion meanwhile he cannot even man his house except through his fists

Question 1. Are you sure your husband is not inserting the instrument he is inserting into you into the house girl's something because I don't see why an argument about a house help will degenerate into something very violent
Question 2.who's paying the houses help?
Question 3.did you both agree amicably and to a logical conclusion before bringing the house help or you just forced in the house help without the total consent or agreement of your husband
Question 4.Are you sure you yourself aren't mistreating the house help
Question 5.Are your parents aware that you're in a violent marriage because this one you both are shamelessly displaying before your kids,I hope you're aware that you both are giving them bad example of how to deal with and resolve conflict and also generating mental trauma for them because such spectacle doesn't leave their memory so soon

But this pre wedding pictures of the bride to be is TOO decent na.couldn't she have shown cleavage and laps

Or are they alfa and alfa mrs

So boring.no touching of brez,no kissing,no touching of phenese,no nothing.They just snap picture like passport photograph without giving us something to feast on

Acidosis:



Why?

I want to OWN my OWN money and take control of my OWN FINANCES because like the bible says woe is he that puts his trust in man

Acidosis:
...because NO woman wish/pray to earn more than her husband.



You will earn more money than your husband. Say Amen...


Lets see the number of women that will quote me and type amen.

amen

Any man committing adultery willingly is charmed.how come adultresses are never charmed?

mccoy47:
My thoughts whenever i see vagina Regina

depraved men everywhere.after they'll be saying these hoes ain't loyal.how them go loyal

Loyal ko loya milk ni

bamdly:
sorry oo mr serious minded cos I was just joking

o better.the internet never forgets

bamdly:
dang gonna buy for my ex when I start looting oil moni

nawa o.this generation is now raising potential kleptomaniacs.You haven't gotten there you're already planning how to rip this nation blind

Maychang:
This is Funny. On the other hand, Why is your company only talking about the Sex part.

How about other bad things housemaids do? Like Stealing, Kidnapping etc

including using the napkin oga use in cleaning mouth to wipe vagin@ after urinating then place it for oga to clean his mouth after eating not knowing he has used bacteria and v@ginal fungi from houselp kini to clean his mouth

Committing pedophilia with your children

Eating their food
Beating them etc

But come to think of it which girl in this generation Will willingly want to be a house help when she has the option of going to school

Tonto want to taste hushpuppis phenese and Yahoo money

So that you can use his Yahoo money to smoke weed,get drunk and misbehave?

Eleyi malue pa o

Jsaviour:
Hope you also don't lie or fornicate or steal because it's God's word/commandments.

Some people only remember God's word when it favours them.

Jagermeister:
This is why most men have resorted to staying unmarried and the resulting effect is lots and lots baby mamas.

exactly.and it's a win win situation.You have your freedom she has her freedom.nobody is submitting to anybody.everyone is living their lives