₦airaland Forum

mrphysics:
There is no point here. You are just trying to modify marriage which is not possible but will lead to more complications. In places where things seems to be working well, men esteem their wives and children more than anything. But in Africa where you know how things are, the reverse seems to be the same to some people.

It all boils down to understanding purpose and who we are. A man submitting to a lady shouldn't be the reason the lady will respect him. You are insinuating that if the man leads in a family, then he should match on the wife simply because he is earning more.

you're not still getting my point.read with understanding.slowly and carefully

Read my earlier posts

Jagermeister:
Exactly! No truer word have been spoken.

Times have changed and so have the people.

I don't know why these dudes have the misconception and believe the fallacy that these generation of women aren't submissive

They say they're looking for a woman who has something worthwhile to offer beyond the 2 oranges on their chest and the watermelon in between their thighs,ok fine what does a man have to offer beyond the carrot inside his boxers that will warrant any woman to stay

The same Way v@gina is everywhere and cheaper than pure water is the same way Hot pheneses are everywhere that can be gotten easily

The point is sex is cheap.What else is there to gain beyond sex that will make a woman willingly and happily submit without coercion,manipulation,violence or shouting I'm the man of this house

mrphysics:
A boy who got work before his elder brother should assume the position of the elder brother. Your intelligence is amazing

o extremely amazing my dear

A man is as exposed to the same challenges as women in going to school,getting a degree and getting a job or starting a business.Submission is not even a problem to an average contemporary educated or not,the question is are you worth submitting to?why should I submit to you? If I submit to you what do I stand to gain.you see this relationship is a transactional thing in the 21st century

You cannot lead me when I.see you have nothing to offer me but I will willingly and with all pleasure submit to you if I know the motives of you making me submit to.you is genuine and it's by to climb all over me or treat me lesser than a human being.THERIN IS WHERE THE PROBLEM LIES


so understand that it's not as if women don't want to submit but at the end of the day will my mumuism be Worth it? Will the submission not turn into a parasitic relationship where you're only taking from the woman's efforts and not giving anything in return .I hope you're getting the point sir?

Pojomojo:
sex education at 5

yes.their generation is different and don't think they don't know what sex is

You better teach him now before pedophiles help you teach him.abi you think it's only men that do pedophilia?

Jagermeister:
Yes Sammy. I can tell. My parents are the sweetest couple ever.

Sometimes I wish to be like them but I know it's highly unlikely.

You don't want to mess with my dad, he's tough as nails but with my mom around, he's the complete woman-wrapper. My Mom isn't any different around him.

I wonder how I wound-up a total asshole.

the advocates of absolute submission aren't realizing that times,environment,internet and exposure of this generation is different from theirs

Submission is no problems but what does he have to offer aside from his phenese

And how does it concern Nigerians?

They can be high for all I care and go and masturbate in the mosque mshewwe

Social media clown

This your movie sucks

mrphysics:
They are coming for this man. Just look down and see them

is he a pharoah or ooni?

Even olori wura walked out on a wholye kabiyesi so who is any regular man.make him Dey claim kabiyesi for his subjects.after ALL she had her business before she married ooni and was doing well for herself before the marriage

Marriage is do me I.do you,rub my back I rub yours.be useful to me,I be useful to you but you want to be forming alpha and omega in another human beings life that also has a brain like you without having any usefulness?


Buhahahahaah


Bow ko,rise ni

Complete fool for the other Kwa?

Jagermeister:
In the end, it's just social media claptrap.

Practice all these or don't. It's still all a waste of time.

Marriage is all about conformity; becoming a complete fool for the other fellow. If this is impossible for you, don't get married.

Fabulouscity:
Honestly am so annoyed,I don't know ooo why the heck he has such stuff on his phone without a password, see how he has messed up this little boy head thanks alot

madam you cannot control an adult man's decisions or whatever he chooses to do with his phone.I've come across a lot of men with porn on their phone?so what?men Having pornography on their phone is like women having make-up tutorials on their phone.it's not everything you have to fight about otherwise you'll get frustrated .you can shout to death it doesn't mean he won't download another one if he sees another porn material or the pornstars ass fascinates.

Just ignore.it's not a reason to quarrel after ALL at the end of the day it's his phone and he can decide to put whatever he wants there.if he likes he can put aisha bubus ass on it or dezianis brez.it's his phone.

You too get busy and PLS don't beat the innocent boy.It's an opportunity to give him sex education afterall no be him download the video and no be him give am phone

Nkan n be

When you weren't born yesterday you should know we're no longer in an era of love or loyalty.when a man says good morning you should have done confirmation,verification,reconfirmation and be tripple sure he's not married

Abi you're one of those girls looking at men's fingers to check ring?
As if you don't know they consider the ring as hinderance

Peel dear.obani kobaje.solution is to go and dump the babies with the motherless babies and still be collecting money to live your life

Lessons learnt.trust yourself

A man knows who he wants to marry from the one he wants to use as toothpick from the very first day.you should have verified that.

Moreover if a man can take you to his house to show your to his parents don't be deceived.you might not be the one it's a 90s gimmick

Pele dear.these men are more cunny than you think so you should have protected yourself because if you come to sm to cry the men and the women suffering in silence will laugh you to scorn while they go home to nurse their own pain


The only person in this world that can love you unconditionally is God and your mother.every other person showing you love IS very conditional

alexistaiwo:
And The thing goes.....
pat pat kut kut kut skidiki pat pat and a put put truuum boom skia tut tut kut kut poom poom poom poom.



If you like donate your left kidney and blood during the course of the relationship.
A guy that will dump you will dump you whether you like it or not and believe me when I say that from the moment you agreed to date us. We guys already know where the relationship is headed.


You don't like what I just said, well truth is always bitter.
Go and argue with your ancestors.
I am not feeling well this afternoon

this dude has said it all

Nothing more to add .THE sooner they realise this the lesser the stories that touch tales will be

Toks2008:
Did you not see my thread on front page sometime ago titled "why marriage is a scam"?

Check my profile page.

ok

ColonelDrake:
okay. remember to take your HIV medications regularly.

keep your unsolicited advice to yourself

Smh.the Nigerian child

ColonelDrake:
Shut your trap stupid hoe. How market today?
I doubt anyone patronizes you with that rotten maggot infested Pussy...phewww
spits

market is booming.sales are rushing in.ose jare

GuntersChain:
so broke guys no get right to toast babe and get married.

sadly yes

ColonelDrake:
Bitter woman. Lazy dumb ass

is that all?

Your lines are getting boring.try again

ColonelDrake:
consoling herself while weeping in the corner praying for someone to leech on. Oyo
wretched bitter woman...

you wish

Take 5 this time.around

Are you sure your nl account has not been hacked abi is it not the same toks again?wonders

Toks2008:
We are on the same page.

But many ladies are still very naive and they are still looking for unconditional love upandan...they say they want a guy who can love them for real bla bla bla rather than developing something a man should really love them for.

[quote author=ColonelDrake post=61281124][/quote]cry me a lagoon

ColonelDrake:
No wonder. Such a very bitter woman. No sane man wants a baggage of poverty reason why you haven't got laid. The only way you'll ever get laid is if you crawl up a chicken's ass and wait

ashe oro na dun

E pain am

I'm impressed.great of him.he shout now complement it with being a graduate.at least he's better than all these dirty Yahoo boys wasting their lives away with fraud,cultism,armed robbery and smoking weed

okerekeikpo:
grow up kid

e pain am

ColonelDrake:
I knew you were idiot. You never failed to prove it. You mistook me for your lowlife husband I guess. Broke bitacth ass women everywhere looking for where to reap where they did not sow. Go and sit your lazy ass down. Dumb ass girl looking like a lab rat!

heyyyys stop making noise.when money talks bool sheet walks,so show me 30billa for akant first then I'll accept whatever you.call yourself not me

okerekeikpo:
pm me

let me see the 30 billion for your akant first

sekxy:
thank God for you! !but verily verily I say unto you,you are not the only one!!

yeah but she's one in 500 million.you too put yourself in a woman's shoes for once why should I be with a man that's not financially man enough.such men are always very aggressive and touchy because they re broke and receive all manners of disrespect,shades and snide remarks about their poverty which of course will smear their wife

Moreover who wants to be identified with failure?

ImaIma1:
Nothing new or fantastic here. New couples start life together everyday. Some even stay with friends till they secure an apartment. All these women that are expecting to be given a prize for doing what they should.

for doing what they should do or want to do?who made marriage obligatory? Shioorrr

careytommy7:
Shows how low our valued have fallen.
Maybe she's expecting accolades for this silly statement sef

she should actually get accolades for this because she has done what girls like her Will ordinarily not do.I celebrate her for her patience,endurance and temperance

ColonelDrake:
Yeah, I'm flexible enough to whip common sense into assholes like you.

flexible?

With the cyber cafe time you quickly begged your oga to give you?

Abeg go and clean the tables and turn on the computers,arrange the chairs well too o.Mr asshole

See his small mouth like asshole