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greatgod2012:
@Edwife, thank you for the description.
This person I'm talking about fits your 3rd description too well.

As good as I think I am, there are some things she accepts that I can never accept, to be honest.


Shes just simple and pure in heart.


@ bukatyne, financial provision......... lol......wetin concern chief Imam with itan elede. In fact, I can't marry that man for 24 hours.
abeg, leave matter for Matthias jare.


@ sambarry, OK.

you're welcome

Kenmatt:
Noticed by who?

Let me refresh your mind.

Nairaland is a social media platform where guys of like minds meet. It is so educating, informing and entertaining that one hooks up to chill out most times.

I do not know how prone to relaxation you are?

you have a good sense of humour

Once again you're NOTICED BY ME A WHOLE SAMBARRY

greatgod2012:
ssee, I've always thought the same way you're thinking. Even my husband who is a man has always been wondering why she's too good as such. The person I'm talking about is well known to me, she's my sister in law, at times, I even think she's charmed but with her attitude towards outsiders, I now realised that's her nature.

another story for the gods.


Human beings are very complex and unpredictable.like I said earlier the man hasn't yet done anything that will provoke her and turn her to another woman that you didn't even know lives inside her


I have seen circumstances change pleasant people to unpleasant people and people who had ugly characters change.

The point is people change. The character you had when you were 16 is not the same character you have


Just wait Let the husband just touch or tamper with the wrong current in her brain

Dcholeric:
very humouring @ bold.

now this is not just about what a person would gain before doing good, this is about being good to yourself and in a long run that good extends directly or indirectly to both your love ones and the society at large without selfish motive but pure intention to build a better home, society .........that was what I found in the woman I wrote about in my OP.

ok let me just simply put "if a person build a good home,environment,society,world ......it comes back to his/her favour ", so why do you think people with this kind of ideology do not exist?

Are you saying what I felt was just my assumptions?

the truth is that my perception as at yesterday was just base on what I felt and perceived.

you may be right, I may be wrong and vice versa

maybe in the utopian world my dear

Kenmatt:
SAMBARRY, how deep is the faculty of your mind? Why do you think that when an OP throws a question on a forum like this that he or she does not know what he or she is doing?

#thinkngrow

so if YOU know why are you then asking question OR opening thread.you have been noticed

fulanimafia:
After 'navigating' the APC to snatch the Presidency from Jonathan, I hope baba is not trying to snatch something else o. Obj is a seasoned casanova

I don't know o

edwife:
What a shame! So in your entire family there are no good women and men? WoW!

I din't know you were not a good person.Thank God not everyone think like this,otherwise we would have been suspicious of everyone and everything around us.

ok

Uncle

I have something to show you guys don't tell anyone o

edwife:
I can't help you here. Sorry.

have a nice day

Ok so what should we do?

What of maturing children who know their left from right. If they are blind are they also deaf and don't have brain to figure out things. That they pretend not to know what is going on in the house don't mean they don't know. Anyway that's your opinion sha

edwife:
You should read my post very well sambarry, when you said cheating partner,is the man or woman cheating regularly or is it a one time off?

What are kids watching or copying when the dad or mum is not showing any sign? How does a woman who go for an interview and asked to sleep with the boss in order to get that job becomes a bad mother to her kids? I am trying to play every scenarios we read,witness and see here and has nothing to do with me.

So for your mind when cheating is mentioned, it only means a man or women who sleep around,outside their home,maltreat their partners and abandon their families?

Like I said there a some men and women who never know that their partner cheated before because they didn't see or heard anything.A cheat is definitely not a good person as a human being because he betrayed his partner trust.

Dcholeric:
your opinion, and I respect it, even if I don't believe it.

so if the so called good men or women exist why is end time thread about marriage littered all over nl and newspapers weekly abi these people and Monica's aren't GOOD MEN AND WOMEN.

Btw all the good men and women died in the era of Martin Luther,Nelson Mandela,the remnants died in the era of chinua achebe.

greatgod2012:
A good woman is a good woman, irrespective of people around her. Being good is inborn, it's not determined by the attitude of those around her, believe me.


I know one good, in fact, a virtuous woman who is married to a beast, yes, a beast but she still exhibit her good nature, regardless of her husband's beastish behaviour at home. She's an epitome of goodness.


cc byvan03.

story for the gods.it's because she's still in the tolerable stage thats why she hasn't shown her true colours.let her reach the limit of her endurance then you will see another woman emerge

Kenmatt:
I don't understand what you mean by yeye. Please what is yeye?

yeye is a mild way of saying stopeed question. I didn't want to say you're asking stoopeed question so you won't take offensive but anyway question answered

Next

Hmnn

edwife:
I don't see the correlation between being a good father and being a cheat. He is a bad man because he betrayed their trust but it doesn't change his affection towards his kids.

Unless he is a serial cheat then yes he won't be there for his kids as much as he needs to and their mum's pain will definitely wear the kids emotionally. Do you know that they are wives who don't even know that their husbands cheat?

Same as many women who sleep with their boss or for a position yet go home like there is nothing going on?

Just like a thief can be a good son to his father but a bad son to the society. He might not be an ideal son to his father but a good child.

are you serious ediwife. Nawaya for all this endtime posters who think cheating partner can also be a good parent as if the children aren't watching and copying. For your Information which I know you know because you're also a parent. Parents behaviour good or bad rubb off on their children

Op you sabi ask yeye question sha

If assuming you travel to another continent or city maybe to study a course or job transfer won't you feel emotional especially when you're in the airport giving your family siblings and all good bye hugs.talk more of going to join another family completely to another different terrain to become part of people you're unfamiliar with and you don't know the type of characters you will meet there.the cumulation of this thought brings the tears and the fact that your mom,siblings,cousins ,friends bffs become visitors. Every other person that you grew up with are now secondary


*drops mic*


Next

Castle in the air builders. I hail o

Nobody whether man or woman is good naturally except he or she has something to benefit from you or has something you need if not we will not be reading certain threads on nl

For example if I don't pay wuras nannies they will never take care of her or be nice to her


If a man doesn't want anything from a woman or a woman doesn't want anything from her she or he will never be good to her because he or she has nothing to gain.you just talk as if human beings aren't the people you deal with everyday. Bottomline nobody is nice for nothing. There's something he or she stands to benefit from.

Abi those madam at the top pressing hot iron on their step children's back or the awon Madame pouring pepper on their househelps vj nko ?

There's no good man or woman anywhere for your information except money or friendship is involved. Believe every other thing at your own peril

*drops microphone *

A 3year old thread?

It's well

*drops microphone*

thelish:
By their comment, you will know them. So d woman should go and drive d bus, why d man sit at home waiting for d returns

"Owo deliva " as its called

Abeg let us hear word jare.that's how it has been and will continue to be however The only area where yOu're right and I admit because I'm also guilty is number 11

When I go to the ladies to ease myself and I see the loo is all messed up I go to the gents

However I usually get this ewww what is this perv looking for here face. Wetin consain me.I just carry a straight bold face do what i want to do and leave there but if a man enter the ladies every body will hear of it and be labelled a perv or closet r@peers

Emabinu

Take 5.

No need to post again

Ninani:
(House hubby)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Husband

Householder abi "head of household". Laundry is part of household.

who will do the laundry

Why not you? You'd rather pump money into drycleaing outlets (but not all laundry is drycleaning) or walk around in dirty clothes all this while? Moreover I assume that if your wife is such a career woman she can afford a washing machine.
Please, is it killing you to do laundry - keep your head up!

The first picture is very dangerous because U can slip over while sleeping and from there drown to death.U only have one life o.if u do this at home alone in the house nobody will know when you're dead because the water will get into all the wrong places in your face

mrhansome12:
her business too, I have always live mine but damn even if na dangote son be her boyfriend he will not be comfortable with such maintenance allowance

it's lived not live

mrhansome12:
lol funny but did you think she is reasonable by that post

her hair her body her life. Live yours