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ABI O, ALL THIS POVERTY MENTALITY SEF.CAN YOU IMAGINE

OP IF YOU WANT CAR GET IT.IF ITS TO EASE THE STRESS GET IT.ABI YOU WANT DICTATES FROM THE SOCIETY.IS THAT WHAT YOURE LOOKING FOR

ifyalways:
What's really the big deal?

Car = takes u from point A to B. It's not a luxury please.

LINDA USE YOUR SENSES O


OTHERWISE THE PEOPLE WHO CANT WAIT TO LAUGH AT YOU WIL STORM HERE O.DONT FALL AS A MAGA VICTIM

LAWYERS IN NIGERIA

ANOTHER DIVORCE LOADING......


AS THIS WOMAN FINE REACH


SOME MEN ARE JUST INSATIABLE.IF THEY HAVE A FINE WIFE THEY WILL CHASE UGLY ONES,IF SHE HAS TIGHY POOSY HE WILL CHASE AFTER THE LOOSE ONES.IF HE HAS LEPA HE WILL CHASE OROBO

IF YOU WANT TO STAY TOGETHER STAY TOGETHER AND IF YOU WANT TO DIVORCE,DIVORCE INSTEAD OF ALL THIS SHOW

tartar9:
whatever..her action is still unIslamic.

won tunde o

Awon Muslim extremists

bakynes:
Truth is alot of white and Black Americans or British are so ignorant of things outside the Developed climes. Most who haven't travelled outside their shores believe Africa is one country and it's a jungle filled with animals and no civilization.
One white course mate once asked me, if have seen a computer before, I paused and smiled I just left his sight.

Olamide looks Good joor. They're just finding something unpleasant to say

What's disturbing about the picture?

Doctors and midwives never see the nooks and crannies of her vagina when she dey born the pikin

Awon alabosi

At tafa balewa square

This one is now a man o

AlPeter:
YES, if he grows up to be a thief or tout will he be punished secretly inside? NOOO. That act is a very strong resounding statement that the boy will never forget; MY MUM WILL BE THE FIRST TO EXPOSE ME IF I DO ANYTHING WRONG.

by debasing him and stripping him of his dignity? This are the kinds of children that will grow up to respond to every conflict with violence.

osedvgirl:
wait o, i hope its not Alakija's son she got married to, the richest woman in Africa mhennn, wizkid was a stepping stone for her

the people wey dey give am advice try for am

osedvgirl:

exactly, he was busy baby mamais and she was busy nurturing her man, now shes cool

another lucrative career development

Flashh:
[color=#225484]I have modified for more understandings.

If they didn't breakup, her eyes won't clear to see another man who want to marry her. She was dating him then because she sees him as a rising star.

Now the rising star has risen for more people to see, which isn't for her alone! [/color]

let him be distributing it like Davidoff.she has saved herself from having a fatheless child

femi4:
ajeku wizkid

who has a billionaire mother Inlaw

Shiorrr

Haaaaa full time job

Who will also do that for the lady

First of all where's the mother of the animal because it's an insult to all human beings to refer to that thing as a human being

But the wedding guests are all dressed except the couple

Some bolts are missing upstairs and I'm sure they'll proudly show their kids their wedding picture butt naked

I can imagine how the kids will feel

niggi4life:
now that was funny, sometimes when I see my old pics I feel so ashamed and shy about myself..
There was one old pix of mine, I was wearing a bandana on my head, toothpick in my mouth, those 150naira eye glasses on my face,towel on my neck(like idris abdukareem) I was wearing a white singlet(for Christ sake why ) and with one baggy jeans(that could fit two grown up men) with one rugged Timbalend(fake ass Tims)


To top it all, I went to LASU motion ground like that, alone all the way from Okoko.......

I wish I can upload the pix but I still haven't forgiven myself for dressing that way

AlPeter:
Must you employ the European/American way of doing everything? That last part is what would happen if she doesn't put a rein on these tendencies now.

he is a human being with emotions and his mother has just abused his right of dignity.

What's wrong in punishing him inside the house. Must she bring the matter to school. You sef judge the matter na.if that woman be your mom and you were the boy you go happy?

All his Willy Willy outside. Chaiiiii

Mr Op whether you're a graduate or not it doesn't mean you cannot be successful in whatever you set out to to

Let me ask you a question

Is dangote a graduate? Yet he employs graduates
Is sunny ade a graduate

I can go on and on.whether you quit school or not is not an issue.what value do you have to offer your immediate community
I'm glad you claim you're street smart.start up a small buisness and watch it grow with commitment and dedication

Dangote doesn't have two heads.he's not better than you he was just a commonsensical man who took advantage of opportunity all the best

Wittgenstein:
Questions, should be asked about the initial parenting technique used by the parents which lead the child to steal, a child does not decide to carry out such actions spontaneously.
What type of relationship will that child have with his mother, as the humiliation cannot be undone. It will scar him over a long period of his life potentially disrupting his development, affecting his general levels of confidence, and the relationship he will build up with his peers. the child may begin to harbour feelings of hatred towards his mother.

some of these factors could lead to the child becoming more isolated as he grows up, leading him to follow the wrong crowd, commit minor/major atrocities and also he would do this being discrete from family members as he recalls, how unruly he was punished for stealing at a young age.

you bring up a child well, they would have no such reason to steal (especially such an amount)
The mother is also indirectly humiliating herself, despite she thinking she is punishing the child.

YOU have said everything on my mind. Take 5

daretodiffer:
Actually, he is either going to end up as a criminal or have a low self esteem or become an abusive/violent being.

gbam.exactly my point

Like seriously must we be crude in everything including parenting?

Why didn't his mom say they should hang tyre on his neck and set him ablaze

daretodiffer:
Actually, they became better at stealing.

I went to Command Day Secondary School and I have witnessed worse punishments . The ones that changed simply became more involved in religious activities however it does not follow that they have lost or are no longer involved in shady activities.

exactly .it hardens them and makes them more vengeful and bitter by stealing at a larger scale when they become adults

AlPeter:
Nope they become wiser and learn not to steal again, but that won't erode their other vices which is what you see. I grew up in some of the worst environments in Lagos and the kids that become touts are the ones whose parents follow your advice.

do you know the mother OF that boy went overboard. What's wrong in correction a child BEHIND CLOSED DOORS. How can you demean a child like this FOR goodness sake.

Now some of his peers will take advantage OF this incidence to steal and then be blaming him.they can even label him and give him an unkind nickname

Btw when he gets to secondary school and his peers want to refer to him they will say "do you remember that boy that his mom brought to school naked when he stole"they've already given him a bad label that will stick with him for life.you don't just make decisions based on your emotions as of that time.think of when he grows up and realises his naked picture and his mom is already on the internet.

It's debasing. Haba

PLANETOFBETS1:
Gud for the boy
Baskard

this is waaaaayyy tooooo extreme punishing a boy of that age with public humiliation

She has only suceeded in toying with that child's self esteem and taught him that the best way to punish a person is to shame him and he will carry a deep rooted resentment against his mom for years. This is so not fair

I really don't understand what's with Africans and public shaming by stripping people naked and even a KID

What happened to spanking and scolding. Now his classmates will begin to bully him and keep their stuffs away from him and if something IS missing even if he wasn't the one that took it all eyes will be on him

I'm very sure this boy will never forget what his mom did to him

Coco candy oya o come and look into the matter

Photo shop.kontinu the tales

Why are you all pretending as if police brutality is a new phenomenon to you

Whether man woman pregnant woman worker student artisan or whoever you maybe once you enter police cell just kiss your dignity goodbye. You're at their mercy and they care less whether you're sick or not

Next

It's the season of witches

LuckyAgbaze:
This is what am talking about, after rocking out their life and selecting like someone watching a season film at the end you see them old without a man of their own

so it is wrong to ROCK OUT THEIR LIFE and it's cool to lead a boring life

To your doorstep cry cry baby

If e pain you go and DIEEEEEEEE

xpac01:
I see. This obsession is getting real

please play me Mariah Carey's song

The one that goes like this

Why'you so obsessed with me