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The nl resident rapeests and pedoph1les are in their closets hiding and waiting for another victim then now blame it on PROVOCATIVE DRESSING which in my opinion is an evidence to identify a closet rapeest that hasn't been caught

LordReed:
You are funny. Read Ezekiel 16 and tell us why God will use earrings to describe how He beautified Isreal.

gbam

Kachisbarbie:
It doesn't pain them as much as you think. Their ear lobes are so soft that even a broom stick can go through.

If you don't want your child to go through pain, then consider not circumcising your son... that one na real pain.

exactly

Acidosis:
smh
I don't have issues with earrings but the hole in the earlobe of an infant. When she's grown enough to know whether to use earrings, she can go ahead to drill the ear.

o puleeeassseee

Wura has 2ear holes and I wear only one stud in her 2ears and she didn't die of pain so what exactly is your point @ op

soopamom:
No you shouldn't, there's absolutely no medical or otherwise logical reason for piercing a baby's ear. She should respect that you don't want to inflict uneccesary pain on your daughters but out of curiosity, where do you stand on circumcision?

thank you o

Acidosis:
She's free to use her accessories naw I just don't like the piercing

answer this question very fast because that is what will determine whether I'll go ahead with this conversation with you or not

are you cac
deeper life
seven day adventist
mountain of fire

member? Is your decision not to pierce her ears based on religious or personal ideals?

majekdom2:
wow.... ridiculous! If only you knew me. Keep making yourself feel good . You seen the truth.

abeg let me hear word joor

So exposing what the man did is not professional or stating the obvious facts that the law professiin in Nigeria needs a turn around?

You're a joke. Go and sleep and please quit hating or getting jealous

majekdom2:
@ bolded, this is simply a case of a mad man calling a sane man Mad. One wouldn't blame the mad man tho, he is sane in his own thought and context.
Now to my point, The OP's post on here can be used against her i.e she talking negative about the law system in Nigeria. If I were to be competing with her to get a job sometime, I could use it as an evidence.... it's so simple. Of course no man would come out to say one was turned down because of some refusal to sexual advances. It so easy to come up with other professional reasons . Besides, am not asking the OP to give in or commending the interviewer for perhaps not "being professional" which we can't tell if it was some moral test. My point remains, OP should garner more professional skills..... My last post to you as I can tell your judgemental skill level.

majekdom2:
where is the bashing at one's success. You call a piece of advice bashing?? Who is successful here.... The OP or you?? where is the jealousy? Mehn, your case is pathetic.

yes you're hating and you're jealous of op because she's a graduate. She finished from law school quite at an early age and she has the potential of making it as a young female lawyer. You can't stand the fact that she's a young successful girl.admit it

Sparkles003:
Did you take your time to read the write up?
The said Aunty is the lady future MIL.
If the lady took the aunty as her own mother she would show care and concern for her well being afteral the babe get her own mother
what if it was her own mother.

exactly my point.

It's so unfortunate that good mother in laws have unfeeling daughter inlaws and the patience ozokwor monster inlaws have sweet and kind hearted daughter inlaws

if ismart aunty was a wicked and heartless moth in law I would have supported most of the female posters here

for crying out loud the lady is a mother and that makes her a potential mother in law. How will she feel if her son's wife treats her the way she's treating her child's grandmother

and by the way children follow their mothers behaviour. Its the way they see their mom behave to their paternal granny that's how they will be have towards her

a friend was telling me that anytime she scolds her son she will say waka.iya baba e.and so one day the paternal granma scolded the child for pouring food on the floor while eating she then said waka iya baba e to his paternal granma.of course she knew where the boy learnt that from and she carried her bag and left

of course that was the beginning of cold war between the 2

Ismart I'm with you on this. It's very unfair that a woman who has taken care of you shouldn't be properly taken care of even in the absence of his family

even the family should be able to leave mama in care of the lady however I will blame you and your family for not stating how you people do things in your house . It is wrong for you to assume she knows what she's supposed to do. It's if you people have talked to her and she has refused to change you can be plotting to send her away however you need to speak with her in love and with respect that in our house this is how we do things here.

In my own house things are done differently. None of my brothers wives lifts a finger when we're doing any family issh and even when they attempt it mummy will say they shouldn't bother there's a house help to do the things around evi when the kids break the flower vase and plates. So assuming it's my kind of family where the wives are told not to do anything and if an elder in the family is sick, it's our business. Even when they want to come mummy will say sit at home and take care of the children and home front. We will fix it. Don't worry.
So if she enters a family where there's high expectations of her you let her know but if she doesn't change you have my support to chase her out


as for taking her to dubai or sa or buying her a car that is completely irrelevant except you people did all that for her with the aim of slaving her but her care free and insensitive behaviour needs to be examined whether she's doing it deliberately or out of innocent ignorance

I dey your back. However collect her child before chasing her out

majekdom2:
how does whatever you have put up affect this discussion. My point remains, OP should get more professional. What has Linda got to do with this ? My time usage is not what we discussing here and that's none of your business at this time.

yes I have to refer to Linda ikeji because it is men like you that will go around criticizing and bashing unnecessarily while others are doing something worthwhile. When the dividends of their hard work manifests, body go dey pepper you

abi how many successful and fulfilled men have time to hate or be jealous of another woman

amo iru yin

majekdom2:
sorry, she hasn't answered or responded to any of my post. Where is the attack on personality? This post is so funny..... use to shine? Do I even know the OP. Funny you

yes you want to use her to shine by asking stopeed and irrelevant questions

majekdom2:
I owe no apologies we have got different views, exposures and experience on the subject matter. I am not sure you a professional/ career individual. If you are one I can't tell the quality or standard but I am not sure it's world class. It's so obvious the OP is not being professional with her posts. This has been my main point. This may affect her as she has got her pic on here. Stop being a mediocre by insulting me and assuming what t isn't. Good day

the picture there is an advantage for her from the moral perspective. Tell me the man that will say sorry you're qualified but we can't offer you this job because you turned down a man's sexual advances?


Are you thinking at all? Smh

majekdom2:
oh now it's about my last line.... again, Zero comprehension. Did you see the word " perhaps ". Are you her? Do you know her thoughts? owe no apologies that my view on the above subject matter differs from yours.

abeg abeg abeg. It's obvious you have nothing tangible to say because there's nothing wrong in sharing her experience except you're part of the men that can't keep it in their pants. Their pheneese must do the work of their brain

Queenfav stop dignifying majekdom with an answer. Can't you see he's clearly a hater. He's just looking for something to pick on. He has left the real issue and has now degraded himself with attacking personality. He obviously lacks substance. He's just looking for something to puncture in your statement

he's only pretending to be intelligent because he wants to use you to shine

majekdom2:
Put simply, mediocrity.

Mr itk go and get busy. Do something productive with your time and stop hating. After now na una go dey bash Linda ikeji for buying an expensive mansion. Meanwhile when she was working you were busy exerting all your energy on hating

ejo e ti poju. You talk too much for a man.lo wakan shey. Alainironu, elejowewe okunrin

Please lecture it well. It's too foolish

NifemiOlu:
What about babies being raped? You've not heard that too?
Go read about the Psychology of rape, it has nothing to do sexual enjoyment. It's about power, dominance and pain infliction.
So, it's only men who rape? Women rape men too. Can we now suggest that men walk with boxer shorts and revealing underwear that make them vulnerable to .rape? No.

madridguy:
The federal government should declared every cult group as a terrorist group. Enough of all this street madness. I hope the police get them soon and move them to inbox as soon as possible.

hence the need for state police

managermahmud:
The last time I checked, the alarming cause of rape is wearing skimpy clothes esp mini skirt and exposing their cleaves, that's d fashion in trend now
I've never heard that a deeper life lady was raped. Ladies b wise, men are moved by what they see

how about their threat to teach her a lesson for dating a rival cultist?

In getting wisdom get understanding

majekdom2:
I don't wanna assume you are have no attention to detail. Where in my post did you read I talking solely about her negative experience I said, I find it amusing where " people " is she people? Please re- read, and fyi, it has never been about being critical or about her but majority of Nigerians .... this is a link to one of my comment before now https://www.nairaland.com/2604810/girl-kicked-out/3#38107628

the last line in your previous post is highly patronizing. Like seriously what the heck?

she had the thought of about giving in?

Just for sharing her experience?

you don't have any point. Abeg bounce

@kingbilo she hasn't compromised nothing because she claimed she hasn't slept with the man. If after all her stories she said she slept with the man and eventually got the job and her picture is there that is when you can be ranting about breaking professional ethics.

No reasonable employer will use that against her because even employers know job hunters experience the good, the bad and the ugly in trying to get a job

no employer will reject her based on that it's only let's say people like you that cannot control their penis and know this woman is likely to put you into trouble if you make advances at her that won't employ her. As a matter of fact it will even ward off male employers with your school of thought. Real men who are employers will be proud of her and it will even give her an edge based on sexual morality part

Hater there's nothing wrong in sharing negative job hunting experience. She's not the first to share her negative job search experience

a guy on nl too has come here to lament about the sexual harassment he encountered when he was in search of a job at a bank so quit looking for something to criticize when there's nothing to criticize

majekdom2:
so, tell me, how will she die in silence ? Has she taken the interviewer to court? How is the experience going to kill her.? Tell me again, if perhaps the man kept the session professional and she didn't perform upto expectation , Would she come on here, die or move on ? There is nothing to be learnt in the above story. It's simple as ABC. Move on, one can tell the kind of environment one would be working from an interview , if it isn't upto one's standard or not professional enough, one simply moves on. An average intelligent graduate knows what to do in this situation. This is just a story put up by a lady who may perhaps had the thought of giving in.

majekdom2:
The only problem I have with you is coming on here. I find it amusing when people come to seek advice / talk about their personal life/experiences that needs to be kept confidential/professional. Obviously, you need to garner more skills. I don't wanna conclude it's your first interview experience. Pls understand that you need to keep some experiences private. It would help you in your career.

and die in silence. Abeg waka joor


how will other ladies learn? Shioorr

next

Hmnn
Finally
@op

Ahen

as for those Mr I have to see every woman's pants before I can employ them continue

Yes op

And

that's from Tony to you @op

Meanwhile

queenfav:
My dear,you have said it all.Thank God we still have people like you here who reason so maturely.Thanks a lot.

keep your head up high, be strong and hold on to your dreams

yoruba elders say the water you will drink will not pass you by

this should be your prayer